My soulmate has left me "broken" and I have lost the best person in my life!
Q. i am a girl, and i had a friend(a guy) who was almost my soul mate, we were really close friends and we became close in a very short time bcz we had a lot in common, and we were both single. we work in the same company, so we see eahc other ...
A. 11 April 2008: Thats great! You two have been given another chance.
I hope you will learn to be more appreciative of each other
and treat each other like jewels to be cherished , admired and
treasured. ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: That would probably land you in jail for child abuse and you would be sacked from your job! LOL!
Those social services will never let you see your child again. Your child would be sent to a foster family.
Cry your heart out! They probably th... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: Ask Oldersister,
You and I are lucky we do not live in the UK. If you smack
your child's behind because you child tells you to F&*K off
, you cow!, you can land in jail and charged for child
assault and in some , you maybe b... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: This is another terrible tragedy and can only happen in the UK.
Locked up for smacking my son ... How a slap brought police and social services in to tear a family apart
From
http://www.dailymail.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: From the Daily mail
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=547009&in_page_id=1770
'I came back from a fag and my baby was gone' ... ,mother of child 'snatched' by social workers speaks for first time
By G... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: In the year ending March 31 2005, 60,900 children were taken in care - most placed with foster parents or in children's homes.
The majority of youngsters find themselves being looked after by the state because of abuse or neglect (62 per cent), f... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 6 April 2008: In the UK, the social worker can give erroneous reports and forcibly take away the children away from their parents care.
There have been cases where it was found that it was wrong to take away the child from their natural parents over some min... (read in full...)
Is there any way to be in a relationship with your teacher without any problems?
Q. Okay lets say you love your teacher and then you find out he loves you back....cant there be someway for the two to be together with out any problems??...
A. 5 April 2008: As long as you do not have a sexual relationship or getting
pregnant ,then it is within the boundaries of the law.
It is not a crime to love each other .
It may be inappropriate that is all.
... (read in full...)
I'm not his "ideal" because he says I'm too skinny! Should I still tell him how I feel?
Q. I have a roommate who is 37 and I am 22. He and I are both seperated from our spouses. My husband (soon to be ex) will be 40 in November 2008. Now I am a tall skinny girl and he is a bit bigger than average and I am attracted to him both physically, ...
A. 5 April 2008: Not his ideal does not mean that he does not want you .
His ideal maybe too high and impossible to find .
If if he found her, she may not want him.
He will settle for you when he finds your inside beauty.
Love grows and has to be nurt... (read in full...)
I forgave him for cheating....so why are we still not together?
Q. Me and my bf broke up but we were still trying to work things out. The week after Valentines Day we agreed to get together. The day of V-Day he called and yes I didn't have much to say. To my misfortune, that same week he told me he cheated, ...
A. 5 April 2008: You may have forgiven him and the ball is at his feet.
Give him sometime for him to think clearly.
He may still have some misgivings about himself
or he felt he is not worthy of you .
Whatever, try to communicate with him till he has ... (read in full...)
My soulmate has left me "broken" and I have lost the best person in my life!
Q. i am a girl, and i had a friend(a guy) who was almost my soul mate, we were really close friends and we became close in a very short time bcz we had a lot in common, and we were both single. we work in the same company, so we see eahc other ...
A. 5 April 2008: If you want this relationship to heal ,
either one of you will have to apologize.
If you want him more , then you need to apologize to mend back this relationship.
If he loves you , he will come back to you.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 4 April 2008:
Forgiveness….
Romans 12:17
Never pay back evil with evil..Do things in such a way that everyone can see u are honest clear enough.
Don't quarrel with anyone. Be at peace with everyone just as much as possible.
God , forgive u... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 4 April 2008: I don't come here for those 'sick' Agony Aunts.
They can rant all they want and it is a waste of my resources to reply them. Period!
... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 3 April 2008: Apologize to Dan for the error.
My eyes may have been blurred..LOL!
... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with being the only one making the effort in this relationship!!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a while now..and since we started dating he never calls or texts me and it seems like i always have to take the 1st step in communication. I've mentioned to him and he sed he will try and change but nothing has..he sed ...
A. 3 April 2008: He is not a born initiator.
He is just like a new puppy and need to be trained by you.
If he listens to you , you reward him .
If he does not , then you send him to the sin bin..LOL!... (read in full...)
Do many people wear contact lenses? Any tips about them?
Q. heyaa guyss... this isnt anything to do with relationhips, guys, sex, anything else ive given up with boys tbh lol! but i need a bit of advice about contact lenses you see i have an appointment with my optician in a few weeks for contacts, ive be...
A. 3 April 2008: The optician will give you all the advise and all those
instructions on how to wear and take care of them.
If you need further informations, you can Google that question
and find more tips online.... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?
Q. hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...
A. 3 April 2008: Whatever happened in the past, you should let go and forgive her.
Keeping a grudge against her will not bode well for you.
Do exorcise those hateful spirits for they will only do you harm.
Try to understand her predicaments and those c... (read in full...)
I'm in too deep with a married man, what should I do?
Q. I am seeing a married man even though I do not want to. I am sorry it is a bit long. He is so kind, does my laundry, buys the groceries, helps a single women with all the things a husband really should do, I gave up trying to tell him not to bothe...
A. 3 April 2008: It looks like you have been accepted by them.
Just carry on with your life and live peacefully with them.
Everyone is happy with the arrangements.... (read in full...)
Am I being to paranoid and immature?
Q. Hey.. ive been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I had to ask him out, and for the first few months he was dismissive to me. He was still a virgin before me, and i'm his first proper girlfriend. Our sex life is great, we only see each...
A. 3 April 2008: You are normal .You do not want to be the initiator always
and you would prefer he be in the driver's seat sometimes.
You have spoken to him and you need to be more patient .
If he cannot initiate then he has some mental road blocks and ... (read in full...)
Harmless fun on internet and my girlfriend suddenly doesn't love me. Please help.
Q. Ok, i've been with a girl for half a year now, I love her so much. I was on msn buzzin and talking to some girl. When the topic of having sex with her came up I said maybe thinking nothing of it. My girlfriend found out and yeah, I didn't mean ...
A. 3 April 2008: What you see or hear is not what you get.
Don't be disheartened.
Everyone make mistakes.
She is angry with you and that was her response.
Give her a few days for her storm to calm down and you go
back to her and apologize .
You di... (read in full...)
How do I get the girl I'm seeing to forget her ex?
Q. How do i get the girl im seeing to forget her ex, Her Ex was her first Boy friend she had and first person she had sex with,she love him still But is there anything i can do to make her forget about her ex It doesn't help that they still...
A. 3 April 2008: It is a futile exercise .
There is nothing you can do about that.
Better to concentrate your energy and resources elsewhere.
... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 3 April 2008: If I was to see any of the advice on here, the advice that rings truest to me is from Laura. It's ironic that my best friend's name is Laura. I don't think that is her advice, but I suppose it could be. But Laura is the one giving the best advice.
... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 3 April 2008: Life is full of mysteries and there are no straight answers to everything.
Whatever you have got to do , you will do to find the truth and your peace of mind.
May you find your Utopia and seek your own destiny.
God Bless you.
... (read in full...)
Please help! I deperately love my Husband, but I have a secret, what can I do?
Q. Wow... All I can say is that I never needed advice more in my life than at this point. I am 24 years old. I met my fiance exactly a year ago and we were friends at first. I was just getting over a relationship where the man broke up with me after me ...
A. 2 April 2008: God forgives our sins if we come to Him.
You are made whole again and do not bring up this topic again
and let it be buried in the deepest ocean.
Let your healing begin as Jesus administer to you .
... (read in full...)
My wife wants to close a 27 yr old wound she rec'd from her ex-husband!!
Q. My wife of 10 years has informed me that four days ago she made contact with her first husband. They were married for 12 days when they went to sleep in the same bed as his best friend. Sometime during the night she woke up and thought she was kiss...
A. 2 April 2008: If your wife has a very strong conviction about it ,
nothing will stop her.
Issuing ultimatums will not work.
She would still choose to go ahead.
The only sensible thing is to trust her and allow her to go and settle her problem.
Yo... (read in full...)
How can I make her love me?
Q. how to make someone love you who does not have the same feelings with you. who tell you that she care a lot a lot as a friend but does not have other feelings. she also knows how much i love her....
A. 2 April 2008: When a woman meets a man ,the first thing she will see if you
are the friends category or the potential mates category.
If you are placed in the friends category , it will be an
uphill task to get into the other category.
Here is a g... (read in full...)
Bottom line is I don't trust him-should I walk away or stay?
Q. id really like some advice as i have come to my last option. i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2years. it has been very hard and emotional to stay together. in the begginning he told me he was single with no kids. after a few months he kept ...
A. 2 April 2008: You have given him many chances to repent but he has broken your trust time and time again.
You could leave him for a period of time and see if he will
change for good or you can live without him.
He will need to really prove to you that... (read in full...)
What can I do to save this relationship? Any advice can help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend are together for 3 years, living together for 2 years.Last months were nerve-racking, we are arguing and fighting almost every day.I think there are 2 problems here: 1)i feel that i'm giving him much more and care about him more...
A. 2 April 2008: If you give , you should not expect to get back the same amount of love from him.
You love him and your expectation from him is too high and as a result you felt very disappointed.
You should not expect too high an expectation from him.
M... (read in full...)
Please help me, I am getting down with the way husband is acting towards me!
Q. I am getting very very down about the way my husband is towards me and whenever I say about it he gets annoyed with me. If I give some examples of his behaviour...I would be so grateful for anyones opinion as I feel like I don't know whether I ...
A. 2 April 2008: I think you are just too sensitive.
You should treat it as his style of talking and nothing more.
Do not try to read behind what he said.
Just ignore his comments if you think it is rude .
Maybe , you should tell him when the comment... (read in full...)
I don't mind him viewing porn online, but am I right in drawing the line at cybersex?
Q. I have been with my current husband for almost 6 years. I don't mind him watching porn, and I don't care if he masterbates, but cybersex, or even thinking about signing up, worries me. My friend found out her husband was doing it, and actually, she ...
A. 2 April 2008: You should be more affirmative and set out your limits and boundaries with him.
If you dislike him having cyber sex,
then you ought to discus with him and tell him your feelings.
If he respects you, he will not have cyber sex or he could
... (read in full...)
Please help! I deperately love my Husband, but I have a secret, what can I do?
Q. Wow... All I can say is that I never needed advice more in my life than at this point. I am 24 years old. I met my fiance exactly a year ago and we were friends at first. I was just getting over a relationship where the man broke up with me after me ...
A. 2 April 2008: Don't tell him.
You will destroy everything you have with him.
Even if it does not destroy your marriage,
your marriage will never be the same again.
What you can do is to give your burdens to Jesus
and walk away from this problem... (read in full...)
Please read my beautiful fairytale like short story, and please help me if you can
Q. i am a 25 year old single, never been married before man. i am currently involved in a social/physical realtionship with a 38 year old married woman with 2 kids ( 8 and 15 ). we will have been together for nearly 3 years at the end of this year. ...
A. 2 April 2008: All I can advise you is to enjoy your fairy tale before your bubble burst.
She will go back to her husband and kids unless he does not want her.
All you can hope is that some day he will leave her one day or something happened to him.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...
A. 2 April 2008: If you are not satisfied with the sex problem,
then you need to express to him and tell him directly what
you want or expect from him.He cannot read your mind.
You should not bring up the subject of his porn viewing.
You allow hi... (read in full...)
Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!
Q. hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...
A. 2 April 2008: He is 16 and not someone who is 30 something or a paedophile.
That is why you need to find out the truth and not just
listen to people whose intentions are good but who wrongly
applied their knowledge.
... (read in full...)
I want more but he just wants to be friends, why?
Q. I need some advise please, I met a guy we were seeing eatch other for a few months, then al of the sudden he tells me he only want to be friends he is not ready for a relationship. A few months ago I ran into a guy that I know for 2 years he told me ...
A. 1 April 2008: It could be their perceptions of you being coming on strongly when they are not ready for a relationship. They want to take things easy and slowly. Do you project a clingy or needy personality?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sulking because I paid a bill to help him out, when should I start pushing him to get over this?
Q. I hurt my boyfriends pride yesterday by paying a bill for him to help him out with money. We have been dating for 7 years and do not live together. He will not talk to me now because I hurt his pride. How long do I let him be mad before I really ...
A. 1 April 2008: Let him sulk all he wants.
He is just being immature and ungrateful.
Your kinds deed are unappreciated.
If after 7 years and he still cannot understand you ,
then there is not much to say about your relationship.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend loves someone else, shoul I break up with her?
Q. I have been with my gf for over 4 years, recently my gf meet a guy and had a serious crush on him, the guy knowing definately well that the girl has fallen for him has inturn started playing with my gf minds, now it seems she love him. we have ...
A. 1 April 2008: Girls over there are smart and they have a few b/f's to get
many things in life which one b/f cannot give.
If you don't want to be just her sugar daddy,
then find the girl who only loves you .
... (read in full...)
Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to marry me?
Q. I really love my boyfriend so much, we've been together for 4 months and i want to marry him, i dont know what to do about it, shall i ask him to marry me or shall i wait for him to ask me, or has it not been long enough for me to ask him yet?...
A. 1 April 2008: It all depends if he is ready to get married.
Do you feel that he is ready for you?
It is not wrong to ask him to marry you .
There are no set rules in marriage.
You do what you feel is right.
... (read in full...)
My ex is taking my children on holiday at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number.
Q. My children are about to go on hoildays with their father and his new wife. They live on the other side of the country and at his wife's request I am not allowed to have their home address or contact phone number. There is no formal custody orders ...
A. 1 April 2008: No address, no contact number, that seems suspicious.
I would not allow the children to go with them.
There is a reasonable doubt that he could kidnap your children
or spirit them away from you.
He can come and pay the children a visit.
... (read in full...)
Our communication is not as intense as it was at first, 'honeymoon period' over or something deeper?
Q. Hello everyone. Just wondering if I could get a few opinions from some of you. My boyfriend and I have been hitting a little bit of a rough patch lately. When we first started dating, we saw each other very often, text messaged every day, numer...
A. 1 April 2008: Sorry to hear that.
He was like a shooting star.
You will survive and live to fight another day.
... (read in full...)
Love Over The Internet: Possible Or Not?
Q. Here I have two problems. I'm in love with a guy. Trouble is, we've never met. We met over the internet. We can talk about anything and everything and see each other on webcam a lot. We aren't going to meet until I'm legally an adult, which is a ...
A. 1 April 2008: You can fall in love in the internet even if you have not met the person in real life.
It is just the reverse in real life.
You appear to be sensible and matured for your age.
As long as you know the dangers and take precautions,
you wil... (read in full...)
Our communication is not as intense as it was at first, 'honeymoon period' over or something deeper?
Q. Hello everyone. Just wondering if I could get a few opinions from some of you. My boyfriend and I have been hitting a little bit of a rough patch lately. When we first started dating, we saw each other very often, text messaged every day, numer...
A. 1 April 2008: Your relationship is like a pendulum.
It swings from the extreme left to the extreme right.
If it swings back , you will be O.K
If it does not then your clock is broken.
Drop some oil and make it tick - tock in regular beats.... (read in full...)
Is it dishonest to be seeing more than one person without discussing it with the other parties?
Q. I've never really just dated before. So far my relationships have been monogomous and long-term. However, for the first time I am finding myself dating two men. I like them both and am trying to avoid being with one person again until I'm sure it ...
A. 1 April 2008: If you still have not decided who you want ,
it is not dishonest. This is my own opinion.
You need to choose carefully because it will affect your lifelong happiness.
You may or may not lose them when they come to know about the situation... (read in full...)
How can I prove to people I'm not jealous of my twin sister?
Q. Im so fed up with people thinking im jealous of my twin sister. We went out on Saturday and I got a bit too drunk. I cant go out much because I have a baby, but she's always out. She knows loads of people, so while she was talking to all her ...
A. 1 April 2008: You don't have to prove anything to people that you are not jealous.
Others can form whatever opinion of you .
You cannot control what they think.
They are entitled to what they think.
Just leave those who think that way.
You can accep... (read in full...)
Can you be a virgin and have anal sex and get pregnant?
Q. ok here goes I'm a virgin and had anal sex for the first time, now I'm having pregnancy syptoms like stomach pain, back ache, dizzness and nauseousness and I wonder am I pregnant? help me...
A. 31 March 2008: Sometimes when you wash your anal orifice after you have done your business, you can get bacteria into your vagina and hence get urinary track infections. Either sperm is leaked into your vagina or it gets there through your hands or wate... (read in full...)
How can I get over this bad feeling and enjoy the good moments with him?
Q. The man i am dating works a lot of hours and he usually has little free time. Sometimes when he calls me i am stressed and i talk to him with a little indiference. Although i don't want this and i try to be warm, i think that it influences me that...
A. 31 March 2008: Learn to value and appreciate his hardworking nature.
Plan more activities together on his week ends or holidays.... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to porn and I'm female!
Q. ok I am really starting to worry. I am a girl(16) and i have a boyfriend etc. I am like addicted to porn! seeing what people have wrote on this site, there so not as addicted as iam. i watch it like every single day!! i use to masterbate all the ...
A. 31 March 2008: When the time is right, everything will fall into place.
It is the natural thing to do.
When you are ready and he is ready...... (read in full...)
Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?
Q. Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often. However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when...
A. 31 March 2008: It is better to love than not to love.
Nobody knows the outcome but you never know unless you try.
Have fun and just enjoy....
Make your life richer...... (read in full...)
Is she using me as a rebound - in case her relationship with her current boyfriend doesn't work out?
Q. Hello, I am an 18 year old male who was asked to a prom by a girl who does not go to my school. There was a period where we were quite interested in each other and talked often. However she stopped speaking with me and ignored my phone calls when...
A. 31 March 2008: She is giving you the chance.
If her first choice does not perform ,
she may dumped him for you.
It will be up to you if you are interested in such an arrangement or not.
If you like her, you should not mind.
Do you want to try your... (read in full...)
Is my "internet guy" just after sex? Help!
Q. hiya i need help ppl... i met this boy through the internet and he seems reali nice and i know this might sound crazy but i think i might have feelings for him... but the only problem is that my mates are telling me that he is only after sex..but i...
A. 22 March 2008: I would agree completely with Flynn24.
He has given an unbiased opinion.
There are good and bad people everywhere.
If people tell you not to go , then it is like , you should
stay at home and never come out because there are so many
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend prefers masturbation/porn to sex???
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and have what others consider a perfect relationship. This is going to be a bit long winded, but I feel I need to start at the beginning so that it is all properly understood. When I first moved in, I quickly re...
A. 20 March 2008: You can either accept this way of life or you leave.
If you have tried all the ways and he still does not change,
then there is nothing that can be done about him except to find another partner.
Give yourself a time period.
... (read in full...)
I'm addicted to porn and I'm female!
Q. ok I am really starting to worry. I am a girl(16) and i have a boyfriend etc. I am like addicted to porn! seeing what people have wrote on this site, there so not as addicted as iam. i watch it like every single day!! i use to masterbate all the ...
A. 16 March 2008:
If you have a balance life, then it is normal .
If it is just porn all the time , then you have OCD.... (read in full...)
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