Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.
Q. I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...
A. 22 April 2008: Being a prostitute can be a very lucrative career.
Many uni graduates gave up their professional jobs for this
career as you can never earn much in their jobs.
In the end , why study so hard for a degree when you can make so much money w... (read in full...)
My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.
Q. My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today ...
A. 22 April 2008: I am sorry that you have been thrusted upon a grave matter on your young shoulders.
You are not expected to offer any solutions or remedies to her problem.
All you can do is to be there for her , to listen , to emphatize and to share her sadnes... (read in full...)
My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.
Q. My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today ...
A. 21 April 2008: Walker-thee has got a good point.
You would not want to compel your friend to go against her wishes.
Whether she is right or wrong, she will have to bear the consequences and not you .
Therefore , do respect her wishes and don't force h... (read in full...)
My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.
Q. My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today ...
A. 20 April 2008: Why won't she go to the police?
Is there something that we do not know?
Tell her not to wash her panties because they can get the DNA of the perpetrators.(That is if she wants to go to the police)
... (read in full...)
My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.
Q. My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today ...
A. 20 April 2008: You need to weight the pros and the cons of this rape case.
It is not easy to proof rape in such a case and it may get thrown out without any convictions.
If she reports it , she may have to relive those scenes and receive plenty of public... (read in full...)
I touch myself in public which is embarrassing. Why am I horny?
Q. why are we horny all the time! i dont get it. i look at porn enjoy it and still in public i have to mess with myself. its embarrasing. HELP!...
A. 20 April 2008: Could be your raging hormones and too much porn.
It will pass.
Take your mind out of the gutter and refocus on the good things in life.... (read in full...)
Will staying home on Saturday night leave me a spinster?
Q. I dated a guy (we'll call him P) for 2.5yrs, and he was/is the love of my life. P's everything I'm looking for, but things weren't right with us, I think, perhaps, b/c he just never loved me as much as I needed him to love me. We broke up six ...
A. 20 April 2008: When you are young, your expectations can be very high.
When you grow older, your expectations become more realistic.
Are you looking for a man or a perfect man?
... (read in full...)
How can you lie like that to someone you care about?
Q. I have a problem. I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. A few months back he told me he smoked one cigarette. At the time he came clean about it and swore he would never do it again. He said it was a one time thing just to see what it was ...
A. 20 April 2008: What I am trying to imply here is that , nobody is perfect.
He may have some good qualities inherent in him but because
he lied to you about his smoking, you use that as a yardstick .
If you felt that way , it is your right.
You are e... (read in full...)
Should I enjoy being a prostitute this much? I need money for school.
Q. I wanted to make some money for school and decided to work as a prostitute as it is a quick way to make really good money. My question is this: I am enjoying this a lot, but on TV you are always seeing hookers who hate what they do and hate the men ...
A. 20 April 2008: Being a hooker has it's pros and cons and I hope you think
carefully before you make it your life long career.
I have written an article here,
http://pinksuzie.com/2007/09/25/the-secret-diary-of-a-call-girl/... (read in full...)
My friend was raped yesterday and I need some advice.
Q. My friend is 16 and she got raped yesterday. we were at a party with friends only and she drank quite a lot, and fell asleep. I then left the party because I had other responsiblity, and so I left her with my other friends, who i trusted. Today ...
A. 20 April 2008: As a friend, you need to respect her decisions.
Do not force her to make decisions which she does not like.
Give her more time to think over.... (read in full...)
How can you lie like that to someone you care about?
Q. I have a problem. I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. A few months back he told me he smoked one cigarette. At the time he came clean about it and swore he would never do it again. He said it was a one time thing just to see what it was ...
A. 20 April 2008:
If you cannot accept him according to your standards,
then it is your right to dump him.
All men have vices...
It is only my personal opinions and it is not binding.
... (read in full...)
Should he stay a virgin?
Q. Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...
A. 19 April 2008: Religion is a personal thing for a man with his God.
Though we may share the same God , yet we may have extreme or completely opposite views.
In religion , we have different levels of faith and understandings.
Whether we sit or sta... (read in full...)
Am I blinded by love for an older man?
Q. Hi just need a bit of advice. Im almost 28 and im falling in love with a 43 year old man. Is a 15 year age gap really not and issue or am i just blinded by love? I have been in a fair few bad relationships over the years with guys my own age and ...
A. 19 April 2008: Do you like a man for his experience or for his youth?
That will answer your question.
A youthful person may not have the experience
while an experience person may not have the youth.
Who do you find it more enjoyable and happier?
D... (read in full...)
How can you lie like that to someone you care about?
Q. I have a problem. I broke up with my boyfriend a few days ago. A few months back he told me he smoked one cigarette. At the time he came clean about it and swore he would never do it again. He said it was a one time thing just to see what it was ...
A. 19 April 2008: He has his vices and he love you.
Because he knows that you don't like it and he cannot give it up completely ,so he lied to you.
Smoking could be an addiction and it is not easy to give up.
If you are looking for perfection , then I am a... (read in full...)
Best friends with a married man so will he ever leave his wife? Is it because of money?
Q. I am a 37 yo woman with 3 children who has been married for 18 years and my marriage was over for months before I met this married man who said his marrieage ended a year before that too. We became best friends and helped each other through our ...
A. 19 April 2008: If a king loves you with all his heart,
he will abdicate his throne for you.
I am sorry, he wants his kingdom back.
His kingdom is more important than you.... (read in full...)
Should we call it quits if he's not sure if we should move in together?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years i'm moving out in January and he still doesnt know if we're ready to live together? If he's still unsure after two years do you think we should call it quits?? Thanks!...
A. 19 April 2008: 2 years is a sufficient time to make a decision.
If he cannot make a decision , he won't be able to make a
decision in another 2 years time.
The question is , are you willing to wait another 2 years?
Is he worth the wait?
Only you c... (read in full...)
He agreed to talk....what does this say about our relationship?
Q. question, I'm a christian, I dated someone for 3 years. now he can't handle it. he leaves. but when i wanted to meet with him to talk, he agreed. what do you think about this relationship?...
A. 19 April 2008: A Christian should be more forgiving and understanding .
Do not impose your Christian views on him or insist that he
must follow your Christian thinking or way of life.
Just accept him and love him for who he is .... (read in full...)
We stopped talking for no reason so how do I become his friend again?
Q. i like this boy named robert. we used to be the good of friends but we stopped talking for some reason i dont know why, but what should i do for us to get back friends again?...
A. 19 April 2008: Try communicating again...Dig and ask plenty of questions...
If he is not interested, then you have to move on.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my brother's girlfriend, what do I do?
Q. For just over 4 years now I have been in love with my brother's girlfriend and have no idea of what to do. I know that she feels the same way about me because two years and half ago she confessed her feelings to me and for six months we were seeing ...
A. 19 April 2008: Are you financially strong and independent?
If you are financially strong, you can take her and leave your family .
If you are still not financially independent, best is to shelf your plans for the time being.
... (read in full...)
Is he being a baby or am I just insensitive?
Q. My boyfriend and I got into a fight over how many roomates to have when we move out into an apartment. He was saying something about having multiple roomates after I already told him numerous times that I didnt like that idea. Well today he ...
A. 19 April 2008: Tell him that you respect his opinions but that you do not agree with this idea.
Tell him why you do not like this idea and ask him why he favours that idea.
Hear him out and make a final decision based on a compromise or middle ground . ... (read in full...)
He only climaxes during oral if he gets himself off. What am I doing wrong?
Q. please can somebody tell me what i am doing wrong. i am trying to give my partner a satisfying blow job. i am 48 and he is 57. despite reading all the advice on this site and putting it into practice he only ever climaxes by jacking himself ...
A. 19 April 2008: Your mouth cannot replicate his hands.
There is nothing wrong with you .
You should not feel it as a failure.
You need to consider his age.
Your female hands may not be as effective as his male hands.
His hand is connected to his pu... (read in full...)
Attracted to my little sister but I don't think it's wrong!
Q. So I am attracted to my little sister and I don't think it is wrong. i always have an erection around her and we are home alone a lot. she is just too sexy to ignore. i want to have sex with her but i don't think she wants it with me. if i can't ...
A. 19 April 2008: Would you allow someone to poke a broom stick up your ass or play with your ass?
Would you not feel outraged , indecent and violated?
Don't you think it is wrong?
... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he say the three magic words I want to hear?
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We are so loving towards each other......looking into each others eyes......kissing my eye lids........etc...... But, he hasn't said the 3 words.....I love you. I keep wanting to say it s...
A. 19 April 2008: Some guys just cannot utter those three little words.
You can help him by telling him, "I love you!" and he could respond back in kind.
Or you can ask him the question. "Do you love me?"
He has to reply in the affirmative.... (read in full...)
People have a big problem with our age difference, how can we solve this?
Q. i am 43 and she is 18 but we really like each other we have a lot of fun but her parents and other people have a thing about our age difference how do i solve this...
A. 19 April 2008: You cannot change or control how people think about this issue.
You should let them have the freedom to think whatever they like.
What you can do is to love her and concentrate on her rather than on those who do not agree with you.
You cann... (read in full...)
Can "shemales" become parents?
Q. I have 2 Questions 1. Can Shemales become pregnant 2. Could Shemales make a Lady Pregnant...
A. 19 April 2008: Shemales are also known as 'katoey' in the Thai language.
You can find lots of info online.
Shemales are males born with a male physical body but
emotionally feels like a woman or believed that they are
females in a male body.
Th... (read in full...)
What is the term used for cousins in real love?
Q. What is the term used for cousins in real love?...
A. 19 April 2008: I remembered Elvis used to sing that song ,'Kissing cousins.'... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can get over his past lies and trust him 110%?
Q. Hey, Well im not exactly the best lookin girl ever but my boyfriend says im beautiful and i know he loves me. We have been together for 14 months now and it is love. We have the best times when we are together and i know he would never cheat on...
A. 17 April 2008: Women don't like their men to flirt, to look at porn ,to look at other girls and to lie.
But this is what precisely many men are wired in that way.
Because they know women don't like it , they have to lie .
Men can compartmentalized their ... (read in full...)
We are both Christians, and she is serious about no sex before marriage, do I confess my past mistakes?
Q. Ok, background on me and my girlfriend, I'm 20, she's 23, we are both down to earth Christians and have been dating for 6 months now, which isn't long but its going brilliantly! She is big on the whole sex before marriage, and am to, BUT...About 3 ...
A. 17 April 2008: I think you should hold on to it till after her trip.
Otherwise, you may mar her joy and fun.
This is not the time yet to add to her problems.
Maybe later when the time is right.
... (read in full...)
My brotherly love for her has turned into romantic love, but she is married. What do I do?
Q. hi, i had met this lady abt 7 yrs ago through a online chatroom..since then we have been havin this brother n sister relationship. i jus realise recently that i may had fallen in love with her. i m 22 n she is 38 n married for 15 yr..what should i...
A. 17 April 2008: There is no room for love in this relationship.
If you have crossed the line , go back .
If you cannot control this urge, I would suggest that you take a break from her .
You should not go deeper or you will be sucked into this trap an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lives with his ex, I feel like an outsider but am afraid to discuss it with him!
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and love him very much. However, I am finding things difficult as he still lives with his ex and I feel a bit like an outsider in his life. He recently said that he is happy living with his ex. ...
A. 17 April 2008: You are in a very precarious position and you could be the other woman.
If your b/f is still staying with the ex, there is a
probability that they may come back again or they are back and we don't know.
You have to ask him about his plans ... (read in full...)
Do guys still flirt even if they are in a committed relationship?
Q. I have a question for the guys (girls feel free to answer aswell!) Do men still flirt with other women even when in a commited relationship? I mean the type of flirting that most do when single and looking. Things like, touching her arm, standin...
A. 17 April 2008: Men will continue to flirt till their g/f's put the screws on them....
You cannot avoid flirting and if everything is so serious,
then there is no fun and joy in this world.
In this Cupid world, many consider flirting , lying, lookin... (read in full...)
I’m starting to feel like I was born to be treated inappropriately.
Q. I am battling to come to terms with the fact that a man who left me is now engaged to be married late this year. I still want him and I thought and prayed that he comes back to me. He hasn’t and now I feel that even though I prayed God decided to ...
A. 17 April 2008: God help those who help themselves.
I wonder if we are talking of the same God.
If you know the real God , you will know the truth
and the truth will set you free.
When I lost everything , I never lost my faith in God.
He gave me back... (read in full...)
Need help he never rang back
Q. Hi I need advice what to do, been seeing a lovely guy for around 8months, never really argued, treated eachother equally, he rings me all the time, he works away and just got back home and rang me, everything was fine, and he said he had a lot to do ...
A. 17 April 2008: It could have been a misunderstandings of your intentions.
You could call him up and asked him what was the matter and why he was angry.
If you were wrong , you would apologize to him.
You need to communicate with each other.... (read in full...)
Please help me get my relationship back!
Q. Hi I really need some help. I have been in a relationship for about 1 and a half years. For the past week everything just seemed to be going downhill. I feel frustrated and we are just constantly fighting.I can remember the last time that we hel...
A. 17 April 2008: Keep away from contentious issues where there are no answers.
Find the common grounds where you agree together...
Do not argue but respect each other's opinions.
Do everything in love and walk that extra mile for him...... (read in full...)
After I ejaculate all I want to do is sleep. Is this a normal reaction?
Q. Kudos to whoever had smth to say abt my previous problem. Though sm people really gave me the hair drier, it turned out to be the perfect advice from a true friend. But i do have this other problem. Is it normal that i should feel so exhausted ever...
A. 17 April 2008: The male body releases a substance which will induce the men
to turn over and sleep after ejaculations.
This is normal.... (read in full...)
My pregnancy tore us apart. Am I being too traditional or does he just want his freedom?
Q. Hello! I am 28, and my bf is 23. We met about 3 years ago. We live together, and have a baby girl. I became pregnant shortly after we moved in together and it tore us apart. He was scared to death. He moved out (like 5 times) and then dated an...
A. 17 April 2008: Walk one step at a time and take each day as it comes.
Love will overcome everything.
If he cannot pull his weight,
you will have to shoulder more..
Give and take and do not expect too high from him.
He has to learn and grow up qui... (read in full...)
Is looking at other women disrespectful? It makes me mad and I need more affection!
Q. hi i need help from the guys(girls can if they want) my boyfriend i think anyway doesnt show enough affection how can i make him show it more. he tells me that i have great sex appeal and that he cant ever take his eyes off of me because he loves ...
A. 17 April 2008: Men are wired to look at women ,
otherwise the human race will cease to exist.
If any man says he does not look, then he is being untruthful and a hypocrite.
Looking is O.K as long as he does not commit adultery in his mind.
... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in how I am handling this?
Q. A few months ago I hired a new assistant that is a very young attractive single woman. I attend many trade shows to meet our customers and I think its a good idea for my assistant to come along too once a year as a learning opportunity. I brought ...
A. 17 April 2008: You should not listen to your wife .
She is just too emotional and not thinking of your business.
What you are doing is right.
Take her along with you and she can also help you .
A win/win situation.... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about watching a sex video of an ex boyfriend, is that considered cheating and should I tell my current partner?
Q. I have been in a great relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, but I got into it right after I broke up with my ex of 8 months. My ex and I made a sex video that I had on my computer, and during the first few months of my new ...
A. 17 April 2008: Ask no questions and tell no lies.
Don't clutter his small brain with all those sordid details.
Don't plant the devil's seed in his mind,
for it will grow and crowd out all those good thoughts.
Get over those guilty feelings and move o... (read in full...)
Still waiting for my period after having unprotected sex. Could I be pregnant?
Q. a question here. my last period was february 23. its now currently april 16 -17 and im still waiting for it. is it possible im pregnant as i have been having unprotected sex for a while now with my bf ? although im aware a test will confirm and not ...
A. 17 April 2008: You can have the pregnancy test on the 5th or 6th weeks .
You are 8th weeks..
It is a strong probability that you are pregnant.... (read in full...)
Any good books on recovering from abuse? I just got out of a bad relationship.
Q. After a year long relationship with an abusive partner, I have a lot of self esteem and trust issues, any suggested reading? Or helpful advice?...
A. 17 April 2008: Go online , there are plenty of materials about self esteem and trust issues.
Google them .... (read in full...)
Will she ever go away?
Q. This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...
A. 17 April 2008: A man have a different sense of conduct from a woman .
Even if he has no interest in her, he will treat her in a gentlemanly way.
He does not let emotions cloud his thinking.
She is just a friend even though he knows that she is interested i... (read in full...)
Does my holier than thou boyfriend just want me for sex?
Q. Everyone keeps telling me my bf is not good for me but I find it hard to believe, or maybe its just I dont want to believe it. I think im in denial. Hes italian and stereotypically they are supposed ot be big family people which i think is a goo...
A. 17 April 2008: Now that he has decided to dumped you ,
it makes your job easier to leave without any regrets.
There are black sheep's in every religion.
Sorry you have got to go through all these.... (read in full...)
Is this older guy a waste of my time?
Q. ok so i sort of started seeing this older guy. i guess i am wondering how to get his attention better? he does work and is busy but, i rarely hear from him by phone mainly text and internet chat. he does say he cares for me but, i will only see him ...
A. 17 April 2008: If he is always busy and have no time , then you are going to
need a long time to build up this relationship.
If you think , time is a big factor, you should give him a
miss as he cannot give you his time.
Is he worth your time?
Onl... (read in full...)
My online guy is flying to come see me! I'm so nervous, what should I do?
Q. i met someone online and we have gotten very close and we have everything in common....and he is planning to fly over to where i live and come meet me for the very first time...and i am nervous...what should i do please help me!...
A. 17 April 2008: Treat him like you would to your normal friends and do take
precautions as usual and think of your safety first.
Don't do things which you would normally don't do.
Don't go alone or to lonely places.
Best to meet him in a public place wh... (read in full...)
Should I find another girl who will be better for me?
Q. i just reacently broken up with my girlfriend... we've been dating about 6 months and thing were for the most part pretty good. we had alot of fights up till the end but before we had alot of fun, which is all im looking for. i broke up because i ...
A. 17 April 2008: Single life and partnership life is different.
If you are in a partnership, you will have to respect and compromise with your partner.
If you can find the right partner, who can agree everything with you , then you are a very lucky guy.
If... (read in full...)
Will she ever go away?
Q. This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...
A. 16 April 2008: You can try to convince your b/f but if it does work ,
you will have to tolerate his nonsense for the time being.
You cannot force the issue on him because you will not get
the satisfaction and you may be at the receiving end of his ang... (read in full...)
Does my holier than thou boyfriend just want me for sex?
Q. Everyone keeps telling me my bf is not good for me but I find it hard to believe, or maybe its just I dont want to believe it. I think im in denial. Hes italian and stereotypically they are supposed ot be big family people which i think is a goo...
A. 16 April 2008: He is just a religious hypocrite.
He pretends only in front of his parents but his true self
is what you see him when you are alone.
He has no scruples and only have outward manifestations of his religion.
He is without principles and ... (read in full...)
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