Do you think he will write to me again?
Q. Uh! He's away right now, but before he left he said when he'll be back he was gonna definitely be in touch. We've been keeping in touch for a year and a half now. But with long distance friendship you never know. I like him very so much! That I ...
A. 16 April 2008: Good for you and hope that you will continue to nurture this friendship.
Smile and the whole world smiles with you.
... (read in full...)
He's 41 I'm nearly 18, but we're two worlds apart. How can I fix this?
Q. I have a 41 year old boyfriend and i'm 17(almost 18). Is this too big of a difference?? What should I do?? It's only 23 years, but he's so much smarter than i am about the world and much more experienced. How can I fix this '2 different worlds' ...
A. 11 April 2008: Love is a very beautiful thing.
It has no creed, no colour , no smell and no age or boundaries.
Everyone of us is unique and if you are happy being with
him and all your needs are met , that is all that matters.
Life is not without pro... (read in full...)
Will my penis size prevent me from getting my wife pregnant?
Q. I m woried about my penise size it is about 4.2 inches next year i plan to get married and i m worid can i satisfied my life partner and with this size i can make her preganent plz. advised me...
A. 10 April 2008: The average male can do the job adequately ,
but pleasing her is another field in which you need to learn
how to please her satisfactory as each person is different.
... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even though I'm on the pill? Help!
Q. hi im 19 years old nd iv bin on the pill on and off over 3 years now,i've bin takin it 6 months now with no breaks in between no missin pills or nothing,taking it as prescribed.a week ago i slept with my ex boyfriend,id taken the 9th pill that ...
A. 10 April 2008: Some facts to consider here.
Contraceptive pills are not 100% effective.
It has a high rate of prevention but it does not mean that one cannot get pregnant though this is rare.
He does not come inside you does not mean 100% safe
as pr... (read in full...)
Can you love someone if you've cheated on them?
Q. Can you love someone if you've cheated on them??? Will the relationship work out??? Well see I cheated on my newest boyfriend with my ex-boyfriend.I'm in love with my ex but i love my boyfriend.He's the best thing boyfriend I've had in like ...
A. 10 April 2008: If you don't want others to do unto you ,
then you should not do unto others.
This rule will help you decide what is right from wrong.
Try to think how you would feel if you are in the other's shoe.
Everyone make mistakes.
On... (read in full...)
Does he like me as a friend or more? He gives me mixed signals!!
Q. Right, so this is going to sound a bit random but hey! So i have a best mate that i always text and im all the time.. we are just like bf and gf but with out the touchy feeling stuff if you get me. So the other night i invited him to meet my other...
A. 10 April 2008: Just enjoy his company and be happy with him.
He likes you alright and you do not have to ask him.
Let your love grows...... (read in full...)
I still think of my first love but don't want to hurt my boyfriend, what can I do?
Q. I meet him about 8years ago, it was love at first sight, well for me anyway. We were friend (of a sort), we were never together, not even kissed but there was always something there. I waited and waited for him but nothing ever happened. After a ...
A. 10 April 2008: No, you will never forget your first love.
You will carry those thoughts to your grave.
You can talk to him as a friend and no more.... (read in full...)
I know I'm being selfish, but I cannot imagiane not being with her
Q. I have been in a relationship with my best friend for 5 years (she is a female). She is openly gay, where as i am not, if i wasnt with her i would be with a man, but i love and care for her deeply. I have recently turned 35 and im scared that what i ...
A. 10 April 2008: Destiny is not in our hands.
Whatever comes, we just have to accept it.
Allow yourself to flow where the currents take you.
Leave it to fate and stop worrying and just enjoy each day as it comes.... (read in full...)
I am feeling like she is going to cut me out as she says herself she finds that easy!
Q. Help! I am in really difficult situation last spring I split up with my fiance it was a bad relationship I was not appreciated at all for anything I did we just grew apart and looking back I think I had a lucky escape after that I started to back to ...
A. 10 April 2008: Know her speed limits and do not speed.
Really listen to what she is telling you.
If you are not sure ,ask for confirmations.... (read in full...)
I fell for him I really don't know what to do..
Q. Hey there everyone...I need your help...I like this guy...I'll just call him "MAX"...Me and "MAX" have been friends for only about a year. In that year we have gotten extremely close and we have fun talking together...just messing around and kickin ...
A. 10 April 2008: Put on hold your feelings for him and just be a friend to him for now.
In time, your relationship will go back to the same levels again.... (read in full...)
How can I convince him our love is worth fighting for?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been on a break for just over a week now. The night we broke up was awful - and although it was him breaking my heart, I ended up comforting him! I know that he loves me and wants to be with me - I can't imagine that thi...
A. 10 April 2008: If you love him , you will allow him the freedom to choose, to stay or leave?
Whatever he decided, you need to accept it and do not force him or convince him.
Nothing you say will enter his mind when he has decided what he wants to do.
... (read in full...)
My mother the tart! She's lied to my face and has a new sexy image- this has to be an affair!
Q. I think my mother is having an affair, I found txts and stuff on her phone and its awful and devestating to think of it. I love my parents and am very close to my dad so its killing me. I tried to confront her but she just yelled and then lied to my ...
A. 10 April 2008: As children , there is nothing you can really do when you perceived your mum to be having an affair.
You should let your father handle it and let him decide what to do.
Be supportive of your father and that is all you can do.
You are pregnan... (read in full...)
I'm in my own private hell over a married man I never let into my life. Why does doing the right thing hurt so bad?
Q. I am married. I began to have feelings for another man who is also married. He approached me for a relationship but I said nothing, not wanting to hurt him but also not wanting him to know about my feelings. I just could not bring myself to betray ...
A. 10 April 2008: You should be thankful that your marriage is still intact.
If you had bitten that forbidden fruit , your life would have been bitter .
You have reached the bottom of this episode and you should now come back to your marriage and work at it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend "closes up" to serious questions, so how do I get him to open up?
Q. Hi there. i have a problem communicating with my boyfriend. he closes up every time i ask emotional or serious questions. when i ask him why, he just says "cause"! we've talked about marriage, but he says he will talk to me when we are married. so ...
A. 10 April 2008: It is like a plant , there is a time when the plant blooms with lots of flowers.
When he is ready , he will open up.
When he is not ready , nothing can make him open up.
You need to be patient and wait for the plant to have buds first...
... (read in full...)
The 17 yr old daughter of one of my friends is coming on to me quite strong..it's tempting but I need advce...please!
Q. Hey, I'm having real trouble getting my head around this one. I'm a 45 year old divorcee with 2 children of 22 and 19. They both live with me after my wife ran off with another man. I'm lucky that I have a close circle of friends around me with m...
A. 10 April 2008: If you cannot fight temptations,
run away from the devil.
The more you are together,
the more the devil will tempt you and one day you may become
weak and succumbed and learn to regret later.... (read in full...)
He's 41 I'm nearly 18, but we're two worlds apart. How can I fix this?
Q. I have a 41 year old boyfriend and i'm 17(almost 18). Is this too big of a difference?? What should I do?? It's only 23 years, but he's so much smarter than i am about the world and much more experienced. How can I fix this '2 different worlds' ...
A. 10 April 2008: If you like his world , then you should not fix it as there is nothing wrong with his world.
If you love him , you should build more bridges and meet him somewhere on that bridge.
Whether you are made for each other , only God knows.... (read in full...)
Why does he need to look at other women?
Q. why my husband look other female ? and when i catch hem he say i didn't look at other female . what bother me is the lie do u think he miss something ? what i should do help thnax ...
A. 10 April 2008: Tell him , he can look but don't lie.
Tell him it is not his looking but it is his lying which you take offense.
Then next time , he won't lie to you and you wont have to ask him that question.
All or most males look at other women ,
if t... (read in full...)
I met a wonderful older man! He is a sex offender but I don't judge him! What do you think?
Q. I recently started seeing a man somewhat older than me. So far, I find him wonderful! We enjoy each others company, we share the same values and ideals, we are both happily independent. He is an absolute gentleman, very well read, and very ...
A. 9 April 2008: Let no man judge him .
He has already paid for his crime.
What you do is decent and exemplary.
Think positive .
... (read in full...)
Two failed relations: how do I get over these boys?
Q. hi i got probs handling girl boy relationship.i went on with this guy for 1 week.he treats me very well till the fourth day of our relationship.he started to avoid me..he didnt reply to my messages.i also didnt bother about him.i tried to ignore him ...
A. 9 April 2008: It is not easy forgetting those two guys but you can forgive
them and this will heal your hurts and pains.
Forgiveness sets the healing motions and make you whole again.
You will remember them but you wont feel hurt or pain anymore.... (read in full...)
I had doubts about our relationship, I pushed him away, now I regret it, please help.
Q. Please could someone help as I actually think i'm going loopy :-) My boyfriend and I split up 3 weeks ago. I was having doubts about our relationship but I didn't want to end things so I was really horrible to him and said hurtful things s...
A. 9 April 2008: If you are meant to be together,
fate will meet you up somewhere down the road.
Just give him time and space .
Time is a great healer.... (read in full...)
I am worried my husband could be gay!!
Q. I am really concerned that my husband is gay. There are a few reasons i think this. 1) he is not into sex that much, we are lucky if we do it once a month, 2) he is very, very tidy around the house (which is great, not complaining) 3) i think t...
A. 9 April 2008: If you are not a gay , you cannot be one.
A gay will not have revulsion when he see's gays in actions.
It is not easy to change his perspective.
You could be worrying for nothing.... (read in full...)
I kissed another guy, even tho' my boyfriend said he wouldn't forgive me if I did it again. Why do I do it?
Q. Oh no! What do you guyz think of my behaviour, i know i'm a jerk, damn! I really love my b/f and he keeps on telling me he wants to marry me when he's 28. We've been dating for more than a year now. About 8 months ago i kissed with his cousin at a ...
A. 9 April 2008: You were carried away by the occasion and alcohol.
If he finds out, then send your S.O.S and cry your heart out.... (read in full...)
Why does my husband lie to everyone?
Q. Why does my husband keep things from people and lie to make himself feel better? When we got married he told all his work mates we got married in Las Vegas, which was a complete lie.(we got married in our home town in a register office and then had ...
A. 9 April 2008: People tell lies for a variety of reasons, peer pressure, to
be accepted in the group,self importance, cannot face the
truth, fear of rejections, saving face, etc.
Tell one lie, cover it with 100 lies and they will believe it as the truth.... (read in full...)
My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over!
Q. My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over. I can see that as normal when you're 16, however, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. My parents are the traditional ones that believes you should sleep on the ...
A. 9 April 2008: If you are staying with your parents,
your parents rules applies in that house.
It may not seem fair to you but you have to respect them.
They have their own values and traditional thinkings.
You do not want to quarrel with your parent... (read in full...)
He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. ...
A. 9 April 2008: Maybe ,once or twice but anything more than that is a red flag.
She maybe a wolf in sheep's clothing.
If you meet accidentally and talk , then it is OK.
But if you go and have a cup of coffee, that does not sound good.
There could be ... (read in full...)
There's a sexual connection between us, but I feel not enough of an emotional one.
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We've been through a lot but we seem to have worked things out. The sex is amazing...we have a great time but I feel like he can't give me enough emotionally. He tells me he loves me, ...
A. 9 April 2008: Most young men do not know the art of pleasing a woman and learn through trials and errors.
Men are not born to feel how a woman feels.
They are incapable of that and they make the fatal mistake of thinking women think like them.
Older m... (read in full...)
Do you think he will write to me again?
Q. Uh! He's away right now, but before he left he said when he'll be back he was gonna definitely be in touch. We've been keeping in touch for a year and a half now. But with long distance friendship you never know. I like him very so much! That I ...
A. 8 April 2008: Lots of guys say one thing and do another.
Better to see actions than to believe in words.... (read in full...)
How would I approach husband to ask if he is having an affair?
Q. My husband and I (Phil.)are appart for more than 3yrs.(residing in Ca.) and we have 3-yr.old son but he havn't seen our son since born. This past 2007, we had an argument that really botherd me much but we already resolvd that. Since then our c...
A. 8 April 2008: Ask no questions and tell no lies.
If you want to know whether he is having an affair,
hire a PI or you ask a friend to check up on him...
Asking him in anyway will not get the truth out of him.
You can only suspect since you live so f... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?...
A. 7 April 2008: Precums can contain 300,000 sperms and you only need one sperm to fertilize the egg..
A normal ejaculation can consist of 200 to 300 million sperms.
If any sperm is deposited on your vulva or outside or near
your vagina, you can still ge... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 7 April 2008: Can you get pregnant during your period?
The debate on whether or not a woman can get pregnant during her period has been going on for decades now.
Just like every woman is different, so are her hormonal balances and hence her menstrual cycle.... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 7 April 2008:
Words without works is useless. Just saying is not enough .
He needs to prove his love and commitments to you and 4 months is a long time to prove his love for you.
If within this 4 months and you don't see any concrete
actions, you wil... (read in full...)
Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?
Q. I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for ...
A. 7 April 2008: If I were You , I would hopped on the plane and start a new life and goodbye to the old.
If it does not work , you can always go back to your old world.
There is nothing to lose . Treat it like a holiday and give yourself a fair chance.... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend pulls out, could I still become pregnant?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have unprotected sex everyday yet he pulls out. what are the chances of me falling pregnant? ive heard there high but yet for four months ...nothing. could something be wrong?...
A. 7 April 2008: The pull out method is not 100% safe and there is a risk of pregnancy.
If you did not get pregnant, it could be possible , you are
unlucky or lucky depending on whether you wanted to be pregnant or not.
Not being pregnant could also be d... (read in full...)
Do I try to win him back...or...just let him go?
Q. ok where to start? me and my bf broke up around 5 months ago because i had lost interest in him. he begged me to get back with him for ages but i refused. then new years eve we ended up having a massive arguement (which i dont remember because of ...
A. 7 April 2008: If you still have feelings for him , you should give him every opportunity to come close to you.
Let nature takes it's course.
... (read in full...)
My marriage limps along and I feel so lonely...please help!
Q. Hi - would be pleased to hear from anyone else with similar experience or who could help.... When I got married in my early 20's my mother-in-law had already taken a dislike to me. It wasn't the classic 'not good enough' routine. It was fundament...
A. 7 April 2008: I am very sorry that you are going through life without any
emotional and unconditional support from anyone.
Your life is like a void or a black bottomless hole.
If you have tried and things cannot change, then you either
need to chang... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my mum will kick me out when she finds out that I'm pregnant!
Q. Okay guys i need your advice.... I'm 14 going on 15 and i am pregnant, i would really like to keep the baby but i am soo young, im not the type of person to give it up or have an abortion i think its so mean! my boyfriend says he will be with me ...
A. 7 April 2008: You could be wrong about your mum.
No rational and right thinking mum would be so cruel as to
throw away the child and baby out into the streets.
She brought you into this world and sacrificed so much to
bring you up and do you think... (read in full...)
Should I give him a month to think things through?
Q. "I have been with a guy for 7 years who is not ready to get married yet, we are both approaching 30 and to make things worse we have been living in different cities for 3years now. Our relationship has survived the distance until recently when we ...
A. 7 April 2008: Yeah! Right! Give him that one month to really think it over.
Then you can move on and not be frozen in time.
You are prepared to move to his city , why can't he accept that?
Life is not about careers but the blossoming of relationsh... (read in full...)
I want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him.
Q. Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me some...
A. 7 April 2008: Men's G-Spot
Maybe this one may help you.
http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/23_love_secrets.html... (read in full...)
I cheated on him 3 times in 2 yrs. I broke his heart, but I want him back, please help.
Q. I love him so much I cheated on my 2 year boyfriend 3 times. He loved me so much and i broke his heart and he eventually finished with me. I was scared of falling in love then loosing him as i had been there before with someone else and it hurt,...
A. 7 April 2008: Pray for a miracle !... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 7 April 2008: Yup! I agree with your actions.
This would tell him that you mean business and he better take notice or else .
You need to have a time frame because you cannot be in a
timeless black hole forever.... (read in full...)
My mom hates my new baby girl!
Q. i have been having sex with both my husband and his best friend (his first cousin) for 11 years. we were to be a double date when we were 17 and Jackson's (my husbands cousin) date did not show up. so we went out as a trio and been that way ever ...
A. 7 April 2008: When one gets old , it cannot be help that they have rigid thoughts.
It is a tragedy of her own making.
There is nothing to be done about that.
She has ex communicated you and thats the end..
Only a miracle can change her mind.
... (read in full...)
How do I tell my best friend that I like her when she just started dating a new boyfriend?
Q. I have a very close friend who for a long time had relationship problems, mainly she hasn't had a real relationship. She was into a guy for a very, very long time who showed no interest in her until recently he asked her out. She said yes even ...
A. 7 April 2008: Action speaks louder than words.
Let your actions tell her that you like her....
It is no use telling her when there is no actions..... (read in full...)
Am I with the right person or should we make a clean break?
Q. Am I with the right person? I've been dating my high school sweet heart since senior year for 2 years. I believe that this girl will be the best mother to any children she ever has and that is definitely one of her most attractive traits for m...
A. 7 April 2008: It looks like your relationship is pulling apart at the seams .
How you handle it will make or break this relationship.
When two people choose to come together in a relationship,
there will be frictions and you need to have a give and take... (read in full...)
Does a period sixteen hours after having sex mean no chance she is pregnant?
Q. If a girl gets her period sixteen hours after having sex without a condom does that mean she won't get pregnant????...
A. 7 April 2008: 3 days before and after the first day of period is your most fertile period.
There is a big risk of getting pregnant...
Better take the morning after pill which is effective before 72 hours.... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 6 April 2008: That's all lousy excuses....
If he really loves you , he would jumped at your suggestion of marriage.
In love , you can do anything for your partner.
You are not asking for the sky .
I do not see why he should not accept your proposal ... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 6 April 2008: When a thing is there, it will never be appreciated.
When it is gone , then they only realized the significance and the value of another person.
You need to knock some sense into him or you leave him and make him feel the loss.... (read in full...)
I proposed and he said "no" and now I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. We don't live together. I proposed to him on the 29/2 and he said no. First he said he wasn't ready yet and needed more time. I don't really believe that and asked what more ...
A. 4 March 2008: He is not in the marriage market. I am afraid, there is nothing much you can do except if you want to wait by the seashore and turned into a stone.
The choice is yours.
Keep him until someone better comes along, then you jump ship or live a s... (read in full...)
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