My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 7 May 2008: brooke5426,
Thank you for your views and your time to explain your stand on this matter.I appreciate your efforts.
Your perspective is valid from your point of view.
I would agree with you that nobody can see into the future.
It is onl... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 6 May 2008: Legally speaking she has every right to press charges
against her brother but ethically and morally was she right?
If he was charged and convicted , he would be in prison for
5 years and with remission 2/3 may come out after 3 years .
H... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 6 May 2008: brooke5426
I don't know how the UK justice works.
If there is no DNA or concrete proof,
how do the courts sentence a man guilty of abuse after it happened 30 or 40 years ago?
It is easy to make allegations of child abuse but t... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 5 May 2008: I would like to share this motivational story here.
"Peeling Onions ."
Through out life a large portion of us have
experienced some type of abuse.
Be it emotional, mental,physical or sexual in nature.
Unfortunately most of us do not... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 5 May 2008:
After doing a bit of reading on this topic , I found this information and hope they may help poster.
You could also read 'Breaking Free:
Help for survivors of child sexual abuse' by Carolyn
Ainscough & Kay Toon (Sheldon Press £12.99) ... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 5 May 2008:
The poster should seek a counsellor who is specially trained in helping adult survivors of sexual abuse.
No matter what happened, poster should forgive her parents and brother .
I don't know if the address below is still valid since that art... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 5 May 2008: In many countries , there is a law statute that says after a
number of years (I think 12 years )you cannot bring any
charges against a person after that time lapse.
I think I will retract this statement as I think I made a mistake.
... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 5 May 2008: brooke5426
He was at that material time only 15 and it is not absolute
and he is innocent until proven guilty.
Though under the law ,he is under criminal responsibility but you need to prove that it happened .
Proving it is another m... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 5 May 2008: I completely agree with Ask oldersister.
This is the law in UK.
Consent to sexual relationships
England and Wales
In England and Wales the same laws apply to heterosexual and
homosexual activity and offences can be committed by anyone,... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 4 May 2008:
My advise to LonelyTwo ,do not argue with some precocious
and irrational child for you will get nowhere with her.
Better to save your energies and concentrate on helping others.
Damned or be damned with those agony aunts who don't agre... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 4 May 2008:
“The lips of the righteous know what is acceptable,
but the mouth of the wicked, what is perverse.”
Proverbs 10:32
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue,
and those who love it will eat its fruits.”
Proverbs 18:21
... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 3 May 2008:
Matthew 6:14 (New King James Version)
14 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you."
Sorry, I do not reply to posts on my post by agony aunts.
They can take it or leave it.
... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 2 May 2008: She should not have reported it to the police because she
would only ruin his brother's name, bring shame to the
family and destroyed her relationship with her family.
You cannot prove such a case after such a long time and while he was st... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 2 May 2008: LonelyTwo;-
This is what I learned in life.
I’ve learned that two people can look at the
exact same thing and see something totally different.
I’ve learned- that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who ca... (read in full...)
I need to change myself or I will destroy this relationship for good!
Q. Hi I know this question has been asked many times, but I still have to ask ... I dont know what to do with myself. I am pretty jealous and I really don't want to be, cause I have the feeling I will destroy the whole relationship if I dont sto...
A. 1 May 2008: The power of positive thinking.
Have you ever felt positive that something bad
was going to happen?
Have you wondered if you made the bad thing happen because you believed it would?
Women are intuitive creatures, and that is
on... (read in full...)
I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 1 May 2008: Danielepew ; Thanks for your answer.
There are some who say JW is a cult and others as a sect of Christian.
I am not going to argue about that.To each his own.
There is a new concept. You do not have to be a Christian
but you ca... (read in full...)
I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 30 April 2008:
Do not be weary to labour for your children for when you are
old, they will accompany you to the end of the world.
I will walk with thee…to hold your hands and to carry you where you want to go.
Children are a joy, delight, ... (read in full...)
I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 30 April 2008: Are Catholics not Christians?
Why do Catholics say they are not Christians?
Catholics pray to the Virgin Mary which is the mother of Jesus and they also pray and worship Jesus.
They also use the same Bible.
All the while, I believed Cat... (read in full...)
I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 30 April 2008: Christians have a radically different view of children from the rest of society.
Rather, Christians see children as a gift from God, as souls entrusted to them, whom they are to return to God.
Recently a relative of mine mentioned that h... (read in full...)
Why do we girls go for the bad boys?
Q. this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...
A. 30 April 2008: Women choose the men they do because they
feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
Rogues are strong and dominant , qualities which women find appealing and attractive in men.
They also have a soft side and this makes the women bel... (read in full...)
True love...what does it mean?
Q. what are some definitions of true love or just love in general because i know i love my boyfriend at least i think i do i need the opinions of the aunts and uncles because i want to compare some other definitions of true love from family members! ...
A. 30 April 2008: LOVE
“We come to love not by finding a perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person
perfectly.
“Three seconds to say I love you,
Three hours to explain it,
And a lifetime to prove it.
Author Unknown... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a girl to ask a guy for sex?
Q. What do guys think of girls who ask them for sex? I mean would they care if a girl initiated it on a second date? ...
A. 30 April 2008: ALL MEN ARE CREATED EQUAL ….but not all little boys and girls!
If you give in too fast, then the chase is no more fun for the men.
It becomes a relationship for sex and nothing more.
If you come too easy , you will not be highly valued but... (read in full...)
Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?
Q. I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...
A. 30 April 2008: Each morning I wake up and say to myself,
you have two choices today.
You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.
I choose to be in a good mood.
Each time something bad happens,
I can choose to be a... (read in full...)
My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 30 April 2008: Sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible,
painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you
find that without overcoming those obstacles you would
have never realized your potential, strength,
willpower, or heart.
- Ano... (read in full...)
My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!
Q. ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...
A. 30 April 2008: “Life is like an onion.
You peel off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.”
Anger is like a splinter in your finger.
If you leave it there, it gets infected and hurts every time
you use your finger.
If you remove it, th... (read in full...)
In love with my flatmate ,but he's taken, should I give it a go?
Q. I have some strong emotional feelings for my housemate G. When we first met three years ago it was just for casual sex as I wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone after comming out of a four year relationship. Then he started dating someone ...
A. 29 April 2008: AFRAID TO CONFESS ?
Love hurts when you break up with someone.
It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no
idea how you feel.
As long as you believe you can, you will hav... (read in full...)
In love with my married teacher, and I'm going to tell him, will it work?
Q. I'm 17 years old and I'm completely in love with my super-awesome chorus teacher who's 32 and married. I was planning on telling him the very last day I'd see him (I'm graduating soon), but I'm not anticipating any kind of reply or ...
A. 29 April 2008: Love is like..
“I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me.
Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool,
she filled the palm of her hand with a little water and held
it before me, and said this:
“You see this ... (read in full...)
I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick!
Q. I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick that other people have watched her having sex. She is a great girl who all my family love, and my mom has made it clear that she would be happy for her to join ...
A. 29 April 2008:
JUST WHAT IS TRUE LOVE..?
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 defines what true love is all about:
“Love [ agape ] is patient; love is kind; love is not
envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist
on its own way; it is not irrit... (read in full...)
I really want to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are moving in together for college next year...What do you think?
Q. I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. We don't use condoms, but we do use birth control pills...Well, I suppose that the correct wording would be that I use birth control pills for our pregnancy-free benefit. So, ...
A. 29 April 2008: There’s always a mad rush to something, somewhere —
but victory does not always belong to those who finish first.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won,
only a price to be paid for some of life’s more hasty decisions.
Don’t live... (read in full...)
I'm 17yrs old and ready to have a baby with my boyfriend. He'll do it to make me happy but I know he's not ready!
Q. i'm 17 years old, and I live with my grandparents and my boyfriend of two and a half years who is also 17. I want nothing more than to have a baby, I know all the responsibilties because I grew up with my sister who had a baby at 17. I think i'm ...
A. 29 April 2008: Life
We convince ourselves that life will be better after
we get married, have a baby, then another.
Then we are frustrated that the kids aren’t old enough
and we’ll be more content when they are.
After that, we’re frustrated that we ... (read in full...)
She is 15 and pregnant and says I'm the father!
Q. Im 21 and met this girl things were going fab. We had sex and i thought i fell in love. Then she tells me she is pregnant and im the father and also she is 15!!!!! She told me that she was 18 i still had a problem when she said 18 but i dealt with ...
A. 29 April 2008: In England and Wales the same laws apply to heterosexual and
homosexual activity and offences can be committed by anyone,
male or female, over the age of 10, which is the age of criminal responsibility.
It is an offence to intentionally... (read in full...)
Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.
Q. I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...
A. 29 April 2008: It's the herd mentality .
They live in a superfluous and unreal world of make beliefs.
They believed they are Gods perfect creatures and nothing but the best for them.
All this is very vain and nothing more.
... (read in full...)
He's 40 years older than me, I'm 17 and I love him.
Q. Hi! I am just like this girl here too. I am attracted to a guy who is 40 years older than me, i am 17. He is attracted to me too but not for my body. We have alot in common, for example, i am into the era he grew up in which is the 1960s and alot...
A. 29 April 2008: Love is blind. You cannot see his faults .
You could be looking for a father figure or an extension of
your father's personalities.
Time will tell if you effervescent and nascent love will last.... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 29 April 2008: Those who set traps for others will themself fall into it.... (read in full...)
We are total opposites and I don't see a future for us, having many joint arrangements makes a possible separation more difficult and confusing!? Any advice?
Q. I have been with my g/f for 3 years and two months i am 24 and she is 21, recently things have been going down hill and we have been drifting apart, this has been happening for a while, i dont want to hurt her on one hand by bringing this up but ...
A. 28 April 2008: You are two completely different individuals and there will always be differences of opinions.
In everything , you need to seek the middle road or compromise .
Give and take some.
Opposite attracts and that is what attracted you togeth... (read in full...)
Is he cheating? Do I confront him? Please help!!
Q. Ok, I will start from beginning. I have been with my partner coming up to one year. He has never given me reason not to trust him. About 6 months ago, he went away and gave me his email password so I could check it for him. I have never snooped. N...
A. 28 April 2008: If the water in the pond is calm ,
there is no reason to throw pebbles in it.
Just keep it to yourself and do not cause ripples in your life.
Keep your eyes open and that is all you need to do for now.... (read in full...)
Why does he never want a lift home from me? Could this mean something?
Q. ok so ive been with my bf for about 2 years now and we both started uni this year. he doesnt have his lisence so he catches the bus everyday there and back. when i finish the same time as him i offer him lifts home aswell as his mates if they r w...
A. 28 April 2008: He could be suffering from inferiority complex due to his background and a lack of confidence.
He does not acknowledge you openly when he is with his
friends , so that they would not know the depth of your relationship
.His friends ma... (read in full...)
How could she be happy and having fun after completely breaking my heart?!
Q. Ok so I have a problem. I know its just stupid but I was dating this girl for about 6 months and she broke up with me over the phone right before I had to be at work and she never gave me a reason or anything like that. I never had any closure to ...
A. 28 April 2008: If you truly love her, you need to set her free.
You want her to be happy and carefree.
To love someone means to let her have her freedom to soar as high as she wants .
If she is yours, she will return to you.... (read in full...)
Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?
Q. I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is m...
A. 28 April 2008: It is called the pretty maiden trap.
Many men cannot resist and will succumbed..
No matter how strong or powerful you are ,
a man cannot resist the temptations of a siren.
Only those who fear God will run away.
The others will be like... (read in full...)
He has a habit of planning our date than change his mind to go out with his friends. What should I say/do?
Q. I recently started dating this guy. We have been together 4 2months and he has already started thinking long term. However, he has recently moved into a flat with three other girls, one of which he had feelings for at the beginning of the year. I'm ...
A. 28 April 2008: Who is more important to him , his friends or you?
Sorry , it looks like you are still below the friends category.
If he is worthwhile, you may stick around, but if the
situation does not change, then I think I will move on.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend dumped me after telling me he could see us together for a long time!
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up last week! its been really hard because 5 days before he did it he told me that he could see us being together for ages and then his reason for breaking up was that his feelings had changed towards me! he ignored my ...
A. 28 April 2008: It could be another girl or he could have heard some rumours
about you or somebody poisoned his mind or he was jealous .
Boys that age are whimsical and unpredictable.
Give him some space . It is not the end of the world yet.
... (read in full...)
He borke up with me but now he wants me back-what should I do?
Q. i am confused. i had this boyfriend and then he broke up with me (a while ago). i still liked him for a while and then all of a sudden my friend came to me and told me he was regretting breaking up with me. then i got a note from him saying he was ...
A. 28 April 2008: If you still like him , then you open the door for him.
If not, just keep the door shut .
Since you don't know what to do for now ,
just wait till the day when the answer comes...
... (read in full...)
I don't know if I completely trust my boyfriend, as he lives far away.
Q. I'm dating this guy that lives very far and i'm not sure if i completely trust him. What should i do???...
A. 28 April 2008: Far or near, never trust anyone 100%.
Be prudent and wise .... (read in full...)
How can I keep money from breaking us up again? We are supposed to pool our resources, right?
Q. Hi guys, so i'm redating my ex. i'm 30 he is 36. It's all going really well, and i'm happy with how things are. There is just one problem- money- again. We were in low pay jobs before and didnt have enough cash to live from. we borrowed from fa...
A. 28 April 2008: Spell out your terms and stand firm on it.
Don't do what you will regret later.
... (read in full...)
How can I tell her the Gospel Truth?
Q. hi, my little problem is this. It is just about this lady in my hood. I've been eyeing her for some times now but feeling afraid to go meet her. One day she now came to me and preach the gospel to me. I pretend as if i accepted what she has to say. ...
A. 28 April 2008: Don't worry , she will not think that way.
Everything happens because God allows it.
You do not have to tell her that.
In time , you will learn to love God through her.
She is a conduit for God's love to you.... (read in full...)
Why do men lie??
Q. Me and this guy hit it off perfectly, there was never a dull moment between us. We loved being around each other, but over the course of our relationship he would lie about the stupidest things...and just not tell me the truth. He told me that he ...
A. 28 April 2008: You cannot hold a man's word forever.
They are only valid there and then .
His words are not cast into stones.
Tomorrow is another new day and yesterday is history.... (read in full...)
He's decided he doesn't want to marry me. Now what do I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were going to get married but he decided not to. He told me he didn't love me but he liked me a lot. He is not the same, he doesn't call me anymore and he tells me he loves me but i don't believe him. I'm still with him but i do...
A. 28 April 2008: Give him some space and time for him to think over.
You need to be prepared for the worst scenario.... (read in full...)
My husband and my brother??
Q. My husband recently admitted, after 24 years of marriage, that he's been having an affair with my gay brother for the past three years. They've just moved in together, leaving me with three kids (ages 16, 12 and 8) and all the bills to pay. I work...
A. 28 April 2008: No matter what happens, you are all in a family.
See if you can work out any workable solution to your predicaments.
Make peace not war.... (read in full...)
He keeps bringing up my past and spoiling our relationship, please help me sort this out.
Q. I'm confused... My BF had broken up with me, not the first time, really... I just don't get it! I love him very very very veeeery much! And I wish we could sort this out, I don't know what to do/think/feel... He broke up with me because he gets...
A. 28 April 2008: When he is mad, treat what comes out of his mouth as rubbish and do not take to heart or react.
Like you said , don't expect a mad man to speak coherent and rational speech.
Don't be too sensitive.He's got verbal diarrhoea .
Let him empty i... (read in full...)
How do I make myself realize that nothing will ever happen between me and this girl of my dreams?
Q. I love her, I go to class with her, work with her, and also hang out with her at least 4 days out of a week. But I don't think she reciprocates the feelings. The problem is that whenever I talk to her or look into her eyes, all rational thought is c...
A. 28 April 2008: The eyes are the window into her soul.
Peek inside and see if your name or somebody's is written there.
... (read in full...)
How can two people be sexually involved yet not have a relationship?
Q. I am confused about something. Nowadays, it seems quite normal for a single man to have sex with a single woman without any need for a relationship. This is something I fundamentally cannot understand. How can someone - man or woman - actually...
A. 28 April 2008: Call it the modern day feminism where women have been
emancipated and do enjoy gender equality and equal rights.
Women are enjoying the same rights as men.
We are no more living in the Victorian era.... (read in full...)
I complain that he does not care, he complains that I am unkind... What should we do?
Q. Im 24, my bf 28, we are together for 4 years. now we have a lot of problems, we wait to be with each other, but on the other hand, I complain that he doesnt care about me, and he complains that im not kind with him, and i exagerate every little ...
A. 27 April 2008: If he is not punctual , you do need to make some adjustments.
Love is about compromise.
You cannot force him to be punctual when he is not the punctual type.
It is either you accept the way he is or he needs to change and adapt to your... (read in full...)
This morning he told me it's over...but why?
Q. ok.. so the story goes... im really good friends with this lad.. have been for quite a wile..he has tried kissin me a few times..each time ive sed no. however he tried last night wen i was really drunk, n i kissed him bak but then stopped. also ...
A. 27 April 2008: Since you did not response quickly to his text,
he took it to mean that you were not interested to continue where you left off .
He was piqued and hence that response from him.
Quite a fickle minded fella , childish and too quick ... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 26 April 2008:
You are in an emotionally and abusive relationship.
He slapped you because he could not hold back or control his
anger anymore .He has a rage which he could not control.
You should leave or stop the argument before that point.
Your h... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 24 April 2008: Whether I accept or don't accept domestic violence, it will be there.
I will not be like an ostrich and keep my head under the sand.
Yeah! I can rant about domestic violence but will domestic violence stop?
You can be holistic and say what... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 24 April 2008: Domestic violence is here to stay whether you like it or not.
It may not happen in your world but it could be in others.
This is not a perfect world like Heaven where there is no strife.
It would be better to understand and learn wha... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 24 April 2008: Not all men are the same.
Different men react differently .
Some people have very short fuse , while others have very long fuse.
You need to know where not to press his ballistic buttons.
Be wise, if you know there are vipers in the sna... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 24 April 2008: Yes! We can all stand on the high pedestal and pass your
moral judgments on this issue without understanding those
factors that caused them to hit out at their partners.
You don't want to know or learn why or what caused them to hit out .... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 23 April 2008: Sure it is easy to say 'Never ' to hit another person.
Maybe, you can be like God and even under extreme
provocations ,insults ,abused and challenged ; you can still smile and like it is nothing.
Maybe, you have never experienced those ... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 23 April 2008: I do not condone slapping but just stating the facts that it
happens wherever you are, civilized or uncivilized or barbarian nation.
Lots of crimes even more heinous can happen in those so called civilized nations.
Whether you are in a ... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 23 April 2008: You can make all kinds of laws by your govt. but it does not
negate the fact , that a man is only human.
A slap is not as worse as a punch in the face or eye when the other person is a male.
Yeah! There are laws but you cannot prevent peopl... (read in full...)
Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?
Q. Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...
A. 23 April 2008: Belittling him and insulting him and his family and when he
asked or warned you to stop but you continue with your tirade against him.
You went past his tolerance limits and he slapped you for breaking his limits.
No man wants to slap ... (read in full...)
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