He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t ...
A. 16 April 2008: Only you can answer that question.
Try it with and without the vibrator and see which is more enjoyable.
It is your body and only you can find out which you prefer.
Before he did not like it but after he saw your hurt, he did it for you ... (read in full...)
My dad is trying to win us over after coming back to my mom...but it's not working
Q. hey im from a broken family my mom dad separated when i was 9, im 12 now and my dad has come back but even though he tries to win us we always end up hating him even more.. why am i feeling this way?...
A. 15 April 2008: The father daughter relationship is always special.
I cannot blame you for your views on your father.
Maybe, time will tell and heal your wounds .
He tried his best and it is not enough , some day when you get
older, you will underst... (read in full...)
He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.
Q. I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But ...
A. 15 April 2008: I think he is still in a dazed and confused state.
Give him more time and space.
... (read in full...)
How can I look and feel attractive with out make-up?
Q. I've worn make-up since i can remember, all day everyday, even on holiday. I don't feel comfortable without it on, the thing is, as you can imagine, my skins already becoming quite knackered out already, i have pinkish skin with dark freckles ...
A. 15 April 2008: Eat more fresh fruits and veges and enjoy a simply stress free life ..
Beauty comes from the inside. It radiates from your inside.
Knowing God and having peace in your life will see the glow on your face.
Use less cosmetics because they c... (read in full...)
I don't trust the pregnancy tests...!
Q. I had sex for the first time on 2/25. It was unprotected, although I had been on the pill for a week and he withdrew. I took the morning after pill within 7 hours. I had my period on time two weeks later. It was really heavy and then my next period ...
A. 15 April 2008: If you are still not feeling right , I think you should visit
a doctor .
He will know and prescribe you the right medicines.... (read in full...)
He has a problem with anger when drunk, can this change??
Q. I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s f...
A. 15 April 2008: If he is doing something about his alcoholic induced anger,
you are making the right decision to stay.
If he drinks, best to stay out of his way..
When he is sober, he will be O.K.... (read in full...)
My dad is trying to win us over after coming back to my mom...but it's not working
Q. hey im from a broken family my mom dad separated when i was 9, im 12 now and my dad has come back but even though he tries to win us we always end up hating him even more.. why am i feeling this way?...
A. 15 April 2008: If your mom can accept him back , you could too but you have build too many defensive walls around you .
You need to take down those walls and feel your father's love for you.
Give him a chance and see him from a new perspective.
... (read in full...)
Relationship lacking in some areas... Do I stay or go?
Q. I have been involved with someone for nine months. In some ways, we fit very well. We like to do a lot of the same things and have eerily similar life experiences. Although I don't live with him, I foresee no problems if/when we do (unlike all of ...
A. 15 April 2008: He is like a lump of clay and you want to make a vase out of it.
You tried and you still cannot make the perfect vase to your satisfaction.
Is it because that lump of clay is not the right material?
Maybe , you need another type of clay to ... (read in full...)
I really don't want this divorce as we're still great friends.
Q. Help! I'm going through a divorce and yet still great friends with my hubby, and really don't want the divorce ...I would love to stay married to him, after all we have shared 25 yrs of marriage and 3 great kids. I'm seeing this guy and love him,...
A. 15 April 2008: Go and tell him that and see what he has got to say about it.
If you feel that way , good. I hope he will also feel the same too.
It could all be a misunderstanding or a lack of communications.... (read in full...)
I love my BF but he has a bad temper and last night hit me! Is it an excuse that he has problems at home?
Q. I love my boyfriend more than anything and i know he loves me to however he can be really childish and he has a bad temper last night he hit me only on my leg but still he hit me. he has alot of problems at home at the minute, should i end it?...
A. 15 April 2008:
When we are young, we can have great ideals .
We can say we will not abuse anyone or hit any woman/man.
But in real life, it is not so black and white.
We can judge and condemned men or women who hit their wives or g'f or b/f's or hus... (read in full...)
Any advice on our first kiss?
Q. I'm going to have a first kiss....for both me and my b....hwo hsould i go about it? And what kind of kiss?...
A. 15 April 2008: Here are further tips and links which you maybe interested.
http://www.pinksuzie.com/2007/09/09/a-kiss-is-just-a-kiss-but-to-women-it-means-more/
... (read in full...)
Any advice on our first kiss?
Q. I'm going to have a first kiss....for both me and my b....hwo hsould i go about it? And what kind of kiss?...
A. 15 April 2008: You can Google for more online tips.
How do women choose their Mr.Right?
By the quality of the first kiss.
How the men kiss the girl would decide whether he will be the right partner for her.
You guys out there will better watch out ... (read in full...)
Should I move out of my bf's place for some freedom? help me please
Q. I am confuse whether or not to move out from my boyfriend's house. I am staying almost 2 years now with my bf family. He treated me well with respect, shower me with love, protect me and care for me a lot. However, i still don't think its good ...
A. 14 April 2008: You should move out and explore your own life before you
planned to settle down with the monotonous married life.
Born free and like the wild wind blows....
It is now or you will never have the chance to feel and
experience what single ... (read in full...)
My bf split up with me becuase he cant deal with work and a girlfriend. Words of advice please?
Q. Hi there I'm really stressed right now and I don't know what to do. I'm due to hand in my PhD thesis in a few months, and have loads of work to do for this. At the same time my boyfriend of 9 years, who has just started his PhD has decided that he c...
A. 14 April 2008: Don't be a mental cripple.
You have your own two feet and you do not need a crutch .
Believed in yourself and nobody else as God has given you
more than enough to do what you are capable off.
You only have to tap into God's power for... (read in full...)
I feel my bf doesn't appreciate me and the relationship has become a struggle.
Q. I don't know if this is a valid question to the rest of this group. My bf brings me flowers and likes to take me out to dinner. Yet, when we're eating dinner he always makes a fuss about how pricy the food is-- a huge turn off. He just makes me feel ...
A. 14 April 2008: If you are in love, you should be happy .
If you feel pain , then it is not love.
Love comes in a complete package and if you don't like some ,
you either reject or accept the whole package .
You cannot change another person.
Don't... (read in full...)
My guy wants me to leave my friends. why?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and are still madly inlove with one another. The problem is that before him I dated guys who were just out to use me and had to break up with them, I was also into parties and the living my life as it ...
A. 14 April 2008: He wants you all for himself and he is not thinking of your happiness.
He is self centered and selfish.... (read in full...)
I don't share his feelings, besides he is engaged. Should I stop talking to him?
Q. i have been talking to this dude but he has a girlfriend i met him at the club. he is a great guy but i really just want to stop talking to him should i do it? its not him its me i just dont think he is my type. he wants to spend time with me but ...
A. 14 April 2008: When he comes near you , throw some cold water on him.
He will leave you in peace.... (read in full...)
What can I do to surprise him on our night away to a top hotel?
Q. Hi Guys, Just looking for some help here! my partner of 3 years and i are off next week for a nice romantic night away to a top hotel, and i was thinking of surprising him when we get there. however i don't know what to do!! i can be really moody ...
A. 14 April 2008: The ambiance and the romantic surroundings will encompass you
both and just let yourself be swept away by the torrents or
whirlpool of love that will bubble in that room.
Wishing you a happy and romantic evening!... (read in full...)
I don't know how to prove to him that I'd never hurt him again! I, still to this day, do not know why I cheated because we were both so happy at the time!
Q. I’m so lost and confused and I know it’s all my fault! I don’t know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. I feel so ashamed and upset because I cheated on my boyfriend before Christmas. I still to this day, do not know why I ...
A. 14 April 2008: There are things you can change and there are certain things which you cannot change.
You need to let go of the past and not let it haunt you .
Do not be too judgmental or self critical of yourself.
Don't be too harsh on yourself and do... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex!! What should I do?
Q. My husband doesn't seem to be interested in sex. Everyone says I'm attractive and I get a lot of attention from other men. I am totally committed to him but I feel like I've tried everything. I have tried to be "hard to get", understanding, and ...
A. 14 April 2008: Perhaps he may have some psychological problems and he needs professional help.
You may read more about it on this link;-
http://web4health.info/en/answers/sex-no-desire-psy-m.htm... (read in full...)
He was not quite supportive when I told him I cannot climax without a vibrator! Shouldn't he be happy and excited to meet my needs??
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend of 9 months. Everything in our relationship is great except for the sex. I do enjoy having sex with him very very much, but I can’t orgasm without a vibrator on my clitoris. I don’t know why and I wish it wasn’t ...
A. 14 April 2008: Every man worth his salt would do anything to please their g/f's.
If they cannot do the job, then fire them and get someone who can.
He cannot because he feels the vibrator is a competitor to his manhood.
He is the dinosaur type.
... (read in full...)
My BF who is a very affectionate person always tells his female friends "I love you." I'm jealous and hurt!
Q. My boyfriend is a very affectionate person and expresses that by telling his woman friends that he loves them. He got me hooked because he always tells me that he is in love with me, but i believe he uses it too carelessly considering he started ...
A. 14 April 2008: It looks like you are not getting the recognition and respect from him as his g/f.
You either accept and suffer in silence or you tell him your feelings and be damned!
If he cannot respect your dignity , then he is past his shelf life date.... (read in full...)
I have a BF who is nearly perfect but I started developing feelings for my best friend.
Q. i really need help, im going crazy! i am 22 and i have a boyfriend who is almost perfect and we've been together for 5 and a half years now. Everything is great between us, but lately i started having feelings for my (boy) best friend and he ju...
A. 14 April 2008: Your b/f has become stale and mouldy and this friend is fresh and appetizing.
Your b/f will have to reinvent himself or he will lose you.
You will need to refocus back on your b/f and think of those
earlier days or try to create again thos... (read in full...)
I want my soulmate back but don't know how to go about it, Can you help?
Q. My ex fiance and i split badly in January through someone else hasseling us for six months. I now hear she is in Wallsend again. How do i find out for sure if she is, and how do i get her back after all that was said in anger to each other? Can...
A. 14 April 2008: If you want her back , you need to go woo her...
You need to apologize for the things you did in the past
whether you are in the right or wrong.
Women loved to be wooed.
Take whatever she throws in your way and keep chasing her till sh... (read in full...)
She demands to know why I masturbated to porn. I DON'T KNOW why I did it! What should I tell her?
Q. recently my girlfriend caught me on a porn site and now she keeps telling me that i chose that girl over her when i could have masturbated to her but then she will say that all the times that i told her that she was perfect and beautiful was just a ...
A. 14 April 2008: Tell her that you have got two heads.
Sometimes the little head takes over and you cannot stop it.
Sometimes , the big head wins and sometimes the little head wins...
You cannot control them.Tell her, men are wired that way.... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill and worried that some amount of women still get pregnant on it!
Q. I'm new to birth control and have been taking them for 2 months now. i take mine all the time without missing any. me and boyfriend always wear condoms but, this time we tried without condoms. I had unprotected sex on the (April) 9th, 11th. On the 1...
A. 14 April 2008: No contraceptive method is 100% safe but it does not mean that
you will get pregnant.It is quite rare to get pregnant when on
the pill if taken correctly.
If you miss your period, then you need to get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
Is this marriage hopeless or is there a chance of survival?
Q. I am married for nearly 2 years, its been a tough road to be honest, after 7 months of marriage my husband leaves to clear his head, i never got any reason only that he was confused, i asked him was there someone else, he said no. He dicussed this ...
A. 14 April 2008: Just live from day to day and enjoy each other.
Let the future takes care of itself.
We don't know and cannot see the future.
If it comes, we will have to accept whatever happens.
Live in the present and don't worry about the future.
... (read in full...)
Please help me, I'm concerned about my girlfriend's calls to others!
Q. hi my girlfriend is very great. we are loving each other since 5 years. recently she joined in a corporate company. she talks to guys friends very rarely and with limit before joining company. But now she is talking with one perso...
A. 14 April 2008: She is not married to you yet and you cannot control her.
If she is bend on doing and lying about it, there is not much
you can do except to confront her and the results may go against you.
You can suffer in silence or you confront her and ... (read in full...)
I told him to get out, and he did. But I want him back now!
Q. Hi My partner and I have been together for 4 years and living together for 2, recently we have been having financial problems and he lost his job. Soon after this I got very angry one weekend and told him to get out 2 days later he left and said he ...
A. 14 April 2008: You have apologized to him and you should let it stand.
Anything more you do would make you appear more clingy which
would be a turned off for him.
Give him time to reflect back on your relationship.
A period of trial separation may c... (read in full...)
My fiance is fed up with me constantly worrying about my weight, and how I look. How can I overcome this problem?
Q. What is wrong with me, with letting go? My fiance and i are due to be married, but believe it or not we still have issues in the bedroom! I'm the most self-conscious person i know which is partly the reason after having sex with the same person for ...
A. 14 April 2008: Be an optimist and always think in the positive.
Don't be a pessimist and see only negatives in everything.
Go to the gym or have aerobic exercise and you will see a
fitter and slimmer you and you will grow in confidence and self este... (read in full...)
I would never want to be 'the other guy', so how do I go about putting my feelings on hold?
Q. I am a 29 year old man who has never been married or anywhere near that point. The problem is well i have this friend who i talk to every single day before i go to work. She makes me smile and we flirt like crazy. The problem is that she is marr...
A. 14 April 2008: Know where the boundaries are and do not cross them.
You can still joke and have light flirting but make sure you
do not have any physicals or set yourself up and fall into the trap.
Flirting is harmless as long as you know your limits.
... (read in full...)
I'm scared people will think badly of me when I tell them I have been raped...
Q. This is for the guys......Would you not want to be with a girl because she had been raped because she is in a sense "used"?? I have a hard time deciding whether i should tell people this because I'm scared they'll think badly of me............
A. 14 April 2008: What you do or happened to you before knowing him is none of his business.
You don't have to tell anyone. This belongs to you only.
If he truly loves you , nothing else ever matters.
You don't have to live with this guilt all your life beca... (read in full...)
My partner left me after finding beastiality on my computer. I'm terribly depressed and regretful.
Q. my girlfriend found beastiality on my computer as i was looking at it while she was at work. i have never done anything else but look at it. i know it is terrible and gross but sometimes the sickest things turn people on. she left me and told me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: Your g/f has got a holier than thou attitude and uncompromising.
There is nothing you can do much with such type of people who are very judgmental and hypocritical.
Give her sometime and if she does not forgive you , then you move on.
You ... (read in full...)
I'm annoyed that women flirt with my boyfriend, how can I handle this?
Q. i am jealous about my boyfriend and same as others it is making problems now and we might break up... i am trying to stop that and sometimes it works great. my question: i am sitting in a restaurant for example with him and suddenly a woman...
A. 14 April 2008: Take her picture with your camera phone and call the police.
In your country , it can be an offense to exposed one's breast.... (read in full...)
I am frightened to leave my marriage for my lover, as I don't want to hurt my teenage children and we have a nice lifestyle.
Q. I am a married woman of 17 years, with 2 beautiful teenage children. I have been having an affair with a single man at work for the past 3 years. I can honestly say I love both men. My husband had an affair 6 years ago and I have found it hard to ...
A. 14 April 2008: You should go back to the right way and give your husband another chance.
Focus on your family and work at your marriage.
Only they can give you the true happiness in the long run.... (read in full...)
Should I walk away from this relationship, as I don't think he loves me...?
Q. Hi, I am in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two and a half years. The problem is this, he loves being the centre of attention and when i get attention from men he does not like it. I go to his hometown, the girls are not friendly with ...
A. 14 April 2008: I don't think you are appreciated nor loved.
You should not be subjected to such ridicule.
If I were you ,I would leave him because I would not feel his love or concern.... (read in full...)
I love my BF but he has a bad temper and last night hit me! Is it an excuse that he has problems at home?
Q. I love my boyfriend more than anything and i know he loves me to however he can be really childish and he has a bad temper last night he hit me only on my leg but still he hit me. he has alot of problems at home at the minute, should i end it?...
A. 14 April 2008: You should give him a warning to control his anger and not to hit you.
I think it would be fair to him because sometimes he may lose
control because of his anger.
This is my opinions only and it is up to you whether you are
gracious... (read in full...)
After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?
Q. After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, may...
A. 14 April 2008: You are only human and since you have seen that video ,
those scenes are burnt into your memory and it is not easy to delete them.
You cannot stop those scenes from manifesting or pop up whenever you see her or think of her.
You will need s... (read in full...)
Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...
Q. Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other ...
A. 14 April 2008: You ovulate 14 days after your 1st day of period comes.
Your most fertile period is from the 12th to 16th days after
your 1st day of period.The egg can only survive 48 hours.
If you miss your next period by a week, you should get a pregnan... (read in full...)
How Can I get my mum to accept my ex-boyfriend?
Q. Hi, i am recently reconciled with my ex bf. We split up 3 years ago after moving in together waay too soon, and rowing over my then ex and also having big sexual issues and no money. We were together 3 years. After we split, we fell out big tim...
A. 14 April 2008: It is your life and your decision.
Your mother may have her own bias and prejudice views about
your b/f. That is her perspective but it does not mean that she is right 100%
It is your future and what you want in your heart and not what ... (read in full...)
We're not agreeing on our wedding plans, can you help, please?
Q. He wants a drive-thru wedding, i want a normal wedding.....I dont know what to do.....can you please help?...
A. 14 April 2008: Firstly, you have a normal wedding at your place and then the
next day , you can have a drive thru at his place.
No need to argue.
Maybe , you toss the coin and see whoever wins ,
decides which type of wedding to hold. LOL!... (read in full...)
Is this what I get for being a good woman? It's not fair!
Q. I wish I was like my BF, truly... He hates my past. He also dislikes the fact that I lied a bit about it, but he has lied to me too, so he can't really criticize me for that. But he is practically disgusted with some things I did. Now he s...
A. 14 April 2008: Just mimic those words exactly the same way back to him and
make him feel the same as what you are going through.
This is like giving him the same old bitter medicine...LOL!
When someone throws a hot potato at you ,
what do you do?
T... (read in full...)
He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.
Q. I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But ...
A. 14 April 2008: Since you said he went back to his ex, this means that he is
putting you on 'HOLD!'
Just in case his other relationship does not work out.
Will you accept this situation?... (read in full...)
I'm jealous because the boy I like enjoys the company of a girl who shares his interest - playing the guitar...
Q. hello. i just found this site and i'm excited to see the answers... theres this boy at my university i get along with... my friends think we have this connection and says he really likes me. i didn't see it at all. after they told me i sort of not...
A. 14 April 2008: All is fair in love and war.
Maybe you need to come down to his levels to have a level playing field.
If your name is written in his heart, nobody can snatch him away from you.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
He told me he regretted not having a relationship with me, I really want him.
Q. I've known this guy for a year now and we were seeing eachother for a few months. He went back to his ex without telling me! Anyway 9 months later we met up again and we act like we are in a relationship, but he says he's not ready for one yet? But ...
A. 14 April 2008: There is nothing you can do when the other person does not want to play the game.
It is like you are riding a horse and along the way you see a very beautiful rose.
You can only view the rose or smell the fragrance and then move on.
If y... (read in full...)
I'm jealous because the boy I like enjoys the company of a girl who shares his interest - playing the guitar...
Q. hello. i just found this site and i'm excited to see the answers... theres this boy at my university i get along with... my friends think we have this connection and says he really likes me. i didn't see it at all. after they told me i sort of not...
A. 13 April 2008: The most important thing in a relationship is chemistry and whether they can click together.
Once they can click , they will be on.
Some people are marathon runners and are slow to start.
She is a sprinter and have now got ahead of you.
... (read in full...)
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