I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 6 April 2010: That is great and I hope that everything will end in the positive.Accept whatever comes your way.... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 1 April 2010: It isn't the problem along the way that make us or break us. It's how we learn to stand and face them that makes the difference.
Don't wallow in your self pity. Stand up , don't stop, keep walking ahead and don't look back.... (read in full...)
My parents are getting in the way of our relationship...
Q. i always restrict him from visiting me bacause of my parents and also if he tells me to come to his place the same i dont know how to tell my parents am going to his place...what should i do then??...
A. 31 March 2010: Meet him at a neutral place like those shopping malls or roadside cafes or public parks.
Tell your mom that you are going out with your friends.... (read in full...)
Is he just using me?
Q. Hi i have been going out with this guy for around six months. i really like him. we got on really well and never did a day do by without him texting me or us chatting. He had been away for six seven week visiting his family he came back last w...
A. 31 March 2010: He is not the right material. Dump him and see if he will come after you . You will then know how much of you is in his heart.... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go?
Q. My husband of 7 years started using drugs again. I truly love him but with his recent actions I am torn-what should I do stay with him and help him through this and hope for the real him to come back? He tells me to leave but I know its just the ...
A. 31 March 2010: I am very sorry for what you are going through .
Get him to register for rehabilitation at a rehab centre near you .
If he is violent and abusive , report him to the police so they he will be arrested and send to those rehab centres.
... (read in full...)
Can anyone recommend any support chat rooms for women having problems in their marriages?
Q. I am currently looking for a support chat room for women who are struggling in their marriage. I am very depressed and sick over the stress I am suffering. Can someone please help me to find a support group, I am not too good at navigating around ...
A. 31 March 2010: You can Google with this key phrase,"Chat rooms for marriage problems or marriage help chat rooms or marriage support chat rooms or marriage advice chat room " and Google will show you many of those sites..
I found these two links which may inte... (read in full...)
Is he just using me for a game or does he see a future even it is just with me as the "other woman"?
Q. I am falling for a male colleague 20 years my senior. We are both married and I know he loves his wife and she is pretty stunning. We have started texting and it is becoming quite sexual. He tells me things like he is feeling randy etc. We have als...
A. 31 March 2010: You are standing on dangerous ground. Better get away before the ground pulls you down under.
Since you know the risks involved , you stand to lose everything for a stupid fling, you should listen to your head .
Don't be blinded by those excite... (read in full...)
I don't think my boyfriend's mum likes me!
Q. i dont think my boyfriends mum likes me, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. and the other day, he said somthing that i didnt think he meant to say, he told me his mum thinks i moan to much, and just attention seeks? i know i moan, ...
A. 31 March 2010: You can walk that extra mile for your b/f and his mom.That is all you can do .If she still does not like you , there is nothing you can do about it.
I know you want to be on her good side but sometimes, some MIL's are hard to satisfy.
Just ig... (read in full...)
Why did he stop talking to me and stop answering my emails?
Q. these guy asked me out and i said no. 5 months later i moved to a diffrent country but we still used to talk every month. after a year he stopped talking to me and he would never answer my emails. how come he stopped talking to me and not answering ...
A. 31 March 2010: Probably he is no more interested in you and does not care any more He could have found somebody nearer and focused his attentions on her.... (read in full...)
Why would he say that if we were ever together I would "suffocate" him?
Q. anyway last night it all went wrong i suppose i was trying to see how he felt and he turned around and said to me. "i can see you like to look after people and you do this but if we were ever together i find you would suffocate me-i was mortified ...
A. 31 March 2010: His love for you probably flew out of the windows. It could be a slip of the tongue.
Time to pull back and see what he will do.... (read in full...)
I really do feel that my heart is breaking in two...
Q. Can anyone offer any advice on my situation, my heart is breaking. I have been with my husband since we were 16, we are now in our fortys. Things havent been easy for us, there have been troubles along the way but we managed to ride the storms a...
A. 31 March 2010: You can either ignore all those abusive words , like nothing happened.Rationalized it because he is mentally sick or you could walkaway from it all.
It is a very hard choice and I hope you can give your very best before you call it quit.... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 31 March 2010: Pick up what is left and build yourself a new life. Don't cry over spilt milk.
If he wants you back , he will come for you . All you can do now is to wait for him to heal , to forgive and to take you back.
Nothing you say or do now will move... (read in full...)
Why do I go crazy when he dosen't answer?
Q. y do i go crazy when my boyfriend doesn't do what i wants him to do? i i mean when i call him he dosen't anwers the phone quick enough , so i get mad so mad that i dont want to be with him. is this normal? i like him alot intill he piss me off. and ...
A. 31 March 2010: It can be very frustrating when it happens the way as you described it. I guess it is natural to be frustrated when the other person responds in that way.
You will have to learn to deal with your anger. I too feel like that but after the anger is... (read in full...)
What can I do to get over this unrequited passion?
Q. I have a fairly new male friend. I have strong feelings for him, I told him about them. He was nice about it but said he could only ever see me as a friend. I said to myself ok, I can live with that, but here is Where it gets confusing... He is ...
A. 31 March 2010: He see's no future in this relationship but he does not mind all those cuddling s.
You could be just a stop gap measure where he can enjoy you without giving back anything.
He is probably toying with you and your emotions.... (read in full...)
I made a HUGE mistake last night!!!
Q. I made a HUGE mistake last night. In a moment of passion (during sexual foreplay) I asked my GF a hypothetical question of "If I wasn't in your life, and you had to be with one of our/your friends/acquaintances, who would it be? The problem is...
A. 31 March 2010: Did you enjoy it ? If you do ,there should be no complains. It was just a fantasy to help her overcome her inhibitions and take it up another level.
You could also do the same to her . Think of her as some actress or famous personalities you ador... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him in a week and now he calls and acts like nothings wrong.
Q. *op's own title* so we met. two weeks after knowing eachother we slept together.i really fell for him and he for me, so he says. well, we texted and called eachother 24/7. he's less fortunate than i am and always remembers to bring it up. he alway...
A. 31 March 2010: He could be using you for sex only. When he wants sex, he would call you .
If you want to keep this relationship , it will be on your terms. You will need to dictate your terms to him.... (read in full...)
Do you think this could turn in to a real relationship?
Q. Hello everyone! I'm a 19 year old who's a freshman in college finishing off her semester. My boyfriend broke up with me three months ago after our year and half relationship. At this point; I'm over it and am very interested in having a new ...
A. 31 March 2010: I guess Cupid has struck an arrow in both of you.Something is in the air....Everything seems so beautiful and different.
All the best to you !... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 31 March 2010: When you have been brought down to your knees and when nothing seems right for you ,call upon God or Jesus(Yeshua) and ask Him for help.
He is knocking on your door. Please let Him in to help you . What is impossible for man , is possible for God.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 31 March 2010: Don't make it an obsession.I think you should tell your mom about this problem.She may take you to see a therapist or a counselor.
... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend raped me. I'd say 'no' but he wouldn't listen!
Q. I was with my boyfriend (21) for 2 and a half years. Im 22. We broke up 8 months ago as it was a terrible emotionally abusive relationship. He was so so nasty that I just cracked and eventually developed some type of anxiety. He cheated on me, ...
A. 31 March 2010: When you were with him , you were like in a spell. You were not really yourself,like some one walking in a trance or cast a spell on you.(Black magic or Voodoo rites)
Now the spell does not work anymore on you when you broke off with him and you... (read in full...)
I told him I was not stupid when he asked for a loan. Now he wont speak to me, ...did I handle this wrong?
Q. Can someone please help me out. I have been dating this guy that I once dated before. So getting to know each other would not be a deal. We were so happy getting back together. About a week ago his calls and txt messages had stopped. Even when I ...
A. 30 March 2010: A fool and his money will soon be parted.
If anyone comes with a sob or hardship story and wants a loan from you , don't entertain them even if they are very good friends. Tell them to go to the bank.
When a man is drowning , he will grasp at... (read in full...)
My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!
Q. im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she ...
A. 30 March 2010: Talk to your dad and seek his opinions.
Some parents do not care if their children are not interested in a certain vocation. They decides whats best for their children whether they have any inclinations or not.
They want their children to be w... (read in full...)
Should I wait until her boyfriend leaves to tell her how I feel?
Q. Ohk this will be a bit long but i could really use some advice.... Back in the day i was really good friends with a girl, and i fell in love with her. I just acted like her friend though and didnt want to push our relationship any farther than ...
A. 30 March 2010: Keep on initiating those texts to her to show your interest in her. Do not take too long to show your intentions.
Ask her for a date and you can find out a lot of info from her about her life or b/f.This way , you will know where you stand wi... (read in full...)
I need to gather peoples thoughts because I don't believe my doctor.
Q. *OP's own title* I have this problem that I went to the doctor with. It used to happen almost everyday but sometimes it's once a week, once a month, multiple times a day, it varies. But my heart will suddenly and without cause, start beating real...
A. 30 March 2010: You are welcome !Hope that breathing exercise would help you. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am 42 and dating a 23 year old?
Q. im a young 42 and recently started a relationship with a 23yr old, looks bit older! sex great and txt each other every day! is this wrong lust or do you think anything can come ov it! i havnt had sex for nearly 2 years so.. but i do find we get o...
A. 30 March 2010: You are what they called a cougar.(Google that word) It is pretty common these days for older women to date younger men.
There are no rights or wrongs. If you are happy , do not worry about what others think.
Like everything ,there are pro's... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate to go to a guys house on a second date?
Q. BIG question...What's appropriate for a first or second date? I went to dinner with this guy for our first date and now, he wants me to come over his house and he admitted that he was really attracted to him and joked we might end up in bed or ...
A. 30 March 2010: There is no hard and fast rules about dating. If you know him well and feel safe, secure and trust him , then go .
If you don't really know him, play it safe and go later.
If you go , it could end up with something which you might regret lat... (read in full...)
I feel guilty for my affair with a married man, ...yet want him to move to my country. What should I do?
Q. i want a couple of months ago to cuba there i met a man which he is married with two kids, we had a affair, I'm going back very soon to see him. i feel like I've falling in love what should i feel very guilty because on top of that his aunt is marry ...
A. 30 March 2010: People come to the US from Cuba on immigrant visas every day. Here's their website: http://havana.usint.gov.... (read in full...)
I need to gather peoples thoughts because I don't believe my doctor.
Q. *OP's own title* I have this problem that I went to the doctor with. It used to happen almost everyday but sometimes it's once a week, once a month, multiple times a day, it varies. But my heart will suddenly and without cause, start beating real...
A. 30 March 2010: Normal heart beat at rest is 70bpm.If you exercise, your heart beat may go higher.
This problem usually arises from abnormal electrical connections in the heart that short-circuit the normal path of electrical conduction and heart rate.
Perhaps... (read in full...)
Spent the night with my ex trying to make my co-worker jealous. Didn't work, and the hickies didn't help either!
Q. i really like a new coworker of mine and we talk to each other at and after work but i dont think shes very interested in me.i spent a night with an ex girlfriend who gave a few hickies and my coworker thought they were gross.i was trying to make ...
A. 30 March 2010: Learn from your mistakes and move on . In time, people will forget about this incident and everything will be normal again. ... (read in full...)
I cum too fast!
Q. So my problem is that, I cum too fast. The second my boyfriend sticks it in, I just cum and idk what I can do to keep myself from cuming so fast. Any tips? Is anything wrong with me? ...
A. 30 March 2010: Some women can have multiple orgasms unlike men . After the first climax, many women can 'come' again, often within a minute or two.
This ability is extremely rare in males. Relatively few young women can achieve multiple orgasm, because it's an ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend raped me. I'd say 'no' but he wouldn't listen!
Q. I was with my boyfriend (21) for 2 and a half years. Im 22. We broke up 8 months ago as it was a terrible emotionally abusive relationship. He was so so nasty that I just cracked and eventually developed some type of anxiety. He cheated on me, ...
A. 30 March 2010: Any sex that is not consensual is rape. You were raped by your b/f. He took advantage of your weakness to force it upon you .
What is your next course of action?
Do you plan to report him to the police ?
It is one man's words against anot... (read in full...)
He was bummed, and seemed disappointed. What can I do to help our budding relationship?
Q. So the other night this guy who I really like and me had sex for the first time. I was a little confused because I couldnt tell if he was enjoying it or not... it was hard to see any facial expressions in the dark but I could feel that he was ...
A. 30 March 2010: You will need to have more clitoral stimulation's in order to achieve orgasms..
You can go to this link to read more.Maybe, get him to read it too.
reference;-
http://www.netdoctor.... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about his dodgy, alcohol-related past?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a month.We're not exclusive but we see and talk to each other almost every day. He's incredibly sweet, loving and not a flake (which seems hard to find in SD), however there r some things that bother me - he d...
A. 30 March 2010: It is nice and sweet if the man knows what is expected of him.
In many cases, they are either ignorant or obtuse. They are laid back and waiting for you do to everything.
They cannot read your mind and it is better to tell them what you wa... (read in full...)
I want to help him with his drug problem but I don't know how to... help!
Q. Hi, i really need help! My boyfriend is a very honest person, he's shared a lot of information with me since we've got together. It's been hard to take it all in; his past etc. However, i'm willing to accept him as a person. I really like him ...
A. 30 March 2010: Your being there for him will not help him . You are there as his clutch .
The only way to help him is to leave him and when the reality sinks in , he will want to change and give up drugs.
If he does not want to give up his habits, there is... (read in full...)
How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...
A. 29 March 2010: eyeswideopen,
The kids of today's generations are no more the same as your generations.
You may teach them about ethics and morals but that is as far as it goes.
Who can claim that they have never lied to their parents when they were s... (read in full...)
He promised it would never happen again... and now the emails have started again!
Q. I have been married for a couple of years and have a beautiful son. Over the last 6 mths or so, I found my husbands email account open and he was asking his ex for nude photos etc and emails about their past relationship. My husband is away ...
A. 29 March 2010: Make sure you have foolproof evidence and confront him about it. If he stops , then the issue is closed.... (read in full...)
Who do I choose, my husband or my lover?
Q. I'm married but start loving to anish my boyfriend.My husband also love me but i never like his attitude and arguments ? I can't divorced with my husband because our family not permitted this they try to solve the problem between me and my husband ...
A. 29 March 2010: Are you sure there is no problem between you and your husband ?
From your perspective ,maybe not .
You are married to him and divorce is out of question but your love is not for your husband but for Anish.
How can you love somebody who is... (read in full...)
Met someone while broken up with boyfriend. Boyfriend is trying to work things out with me, but can't stop thinking about new guy...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. We never had any major problems but my boyfriend surprised me by saying he doesn't know if he loves me anymore and wanted to take a break to get his head together. In the meantime, I met ...
A. 29 March 2010: The new guy probably learned about your case and is not eager to jump in.It is just a passing fancy and you should focus back on your ex.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.... (read in full...)
How can we tell my parents about our relationship? Is this a bad idea?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have fallen for a 20 year old male. He is everything I have looked for in a boy. Just everything about him is just something I dream about. My parents told me they will put him in jail. I told them to give him a chance ...
A. 29 March 2010: Your parents have stated their stand on this issue and you should not tell them anything for now. Telling them would be a bad idea. Forget about telling them.It will only end your love saga.
I don't know why he can be send to prison for dating y... (read in full...)
It's as though he can treat me however he wants because he knows I'll stay!
Q. Im stuck in a relationship rut and I dont know whether to end it, ask for a break or try and make it work. for some time now ive felt that my boyfriend doesnt put any effort into the relationship. there are many reasons why i think this: 1...
A. 29 March 2010: It seems like you have a long lists of complains and criticisms against him. You have an insatiable demand from him.No wonder he is acting that way towards you .
Should you not try to focus on his good points and give him praises and complime... (read in full...)
Getting mixed signals from a colleague. Should I try harder or give her space?
Q. Recently I asked out a co-worker. We had for several months talked and I always made her laugh. A beautiful woman. I'm 45 and she is 44 and divorced. She mentioned she rarely let people into her life in a serious way. She gives me the feeling some...
A. 29 March 2010: It is better to let her know what you are looking for in a relationship now then to go on groping in the dark and finding out somewhere down the road that she has no interest at all.
If her response is unfavourable , you should give her space an... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about his dodgy, alcohol-related past?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a month.We're not exclusive but we see and talk to each other almost every day. He's incredibly sweet, loving and not a flake (which seems hard to find in SD), however there r some things that bother me - he d...
A. 29 March 2010: Are you happy with the way things are progressing?
If you are happy , those little things should not bother you . You can communicate to him about splitting the bill.
As to his past, they are history and nobody can change that. ... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with the ex I love but don't trust?
Q. Hi All, I've been dealing with this decision for some time now.. sometimes I feel I've made up my mind, then I come undone and feel confused again. I was with my ex for 3 years, we had a break as I felt he needed time to sort out his issues. Dur...
A. 29 March 2010: There are no guarantees in life. Life is a gamble.You cannot predict the future and there are always risks. You can only minimize the risk.
You can always walk away from him and find someone better .If you think he is the one and are not afraid t... (read in full...)
I really do feel that my heart is breaking in two...
Q. Can anyone offer any advice on my situation, my heart is breaking. I have been with my husband since we were 16, we are now in our fortys. Things havent been easy for us, there have been troubles along the way but we managed to ride the storms a...
A. 27 March 2010: My prayers and thoughts for you. I pray that God will give you the strength and the grace to face your difficulties and that you will not give up hope and have faith in God.
Take one day at a time and take one problem at a time. Hang on in there... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 22 March 2010: Some women would choose to leave ,while some will choose to stay and fight.
To stay or to leave ?
No one can decide for you and you must weight the pro's and the con's.
Your b/f has committed a faux pas.
There are three options.
1... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 18 March 2010: I am sorry if your teachers are not allowed to go to your house in your country. I will retract that statement.
In my country, after school hours ,it is no more the domain of the school. The teachers are free to do anything they want.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 17 March 2010: If you love your teacher , you don't have to say those words. You can be nice to him and treat him well. Study hard and listen attentively and score high marks in his tests.
During teacher's day, you can send him a very special card or you can ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 16 March 2010: Your intentions maybe good but your actions could destroy his career and ruin him.He not only cannot teach you , he would be banned forever from teaching.
If the story comes out that he is in love with a student, whether it is true or not, his... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher how I feel even though he has just moved in with his girlfriend?
Q. I love my teacher so much. The other day I found out that he has moved in with his girlfriend I didn't think that this would affect me but it did .I can't stop thinking about him should I tell him how I feel?...
A. 15 March 2010: Keep this secret to yourself and never let the cat out of the bag.
Can you imagine what would happen if you were to tell him ?
If the news gets out , your teacher may be reprimanded or in the worst scenario, be investigated and suspended from t... (read in full...)
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