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writes:*op's own title* so we met. two weeks after knowing eachother we slept together.i really fell for him and he for me, so he says. well, we texted and called eachother 24/7. he's less fortunate than i am and always remembers to bring it up. he always says i'm too good for him,or questions why i stay with a guy like him. well in the last week i've received no call no text, no show. i don't know if he's dead, hurt, ignoring me, i just don't know. he called me ysterday and asked me what was up, like nothing ever happened. he explains to me that his phone fell off the roof during work, (he works for a roofing company) and he couldn't call me. he still has the same phone. so why couldn't be call me earlier? so we back to the way we were and now he's acting shady again. not picking up my call or answering my texts. when he calls, he acts like nothing went wrong. i don't understand, should i keep calling him or wait for him to call me? is he lying about the broken phone? it's obvious i like him alot, sometimes i think i like him more than he likes me. i crave for him! i feel so weak around him because i give him power over me, when i really should be wearing hte pants in our relationship. we're not officially a couple, but we act like it. sleeping together, spending nights together, holding hands, going out...somebody help me please. should i leave this relationship or give him the benefit of the doubt?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 March 2010):
You gave him the benefit of the doubt, and he's already acting shady again. Sounds to me like you're being used, so I'd suggest moving on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 He could be using you for sex only. When he wants sex, he would call you .
If you want to keep this relationship , it will be on your terms. You will need to dictate your terms to him.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (31 March 2010):
You already gave him the benefit of the doubt and as you said, he's acting shady again. I believe (and I think you do too) tha the phone falling off the roof is an exaggeration. It may have fallen off the roof, but apparently it still works. What he's doing is giving you excuses. Think of it this way, if your phone completely shattered and didn't work, wouldn't you go online and look at your call history, find his number and call him from another phone? He probably would too if he wanted to talk to you.
If you think he's being shady, he probably is. If you think you like him more than he likes you, you're probably right. DON'T CALL HIM ANYMORE. ONLY let him call you. Once he starts proving himself again can you call him, but that's still only ocassionally. Ocassionally means once or twice a week, not once or twice a day.
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reader, nini1995  +, writes (31 March 2010):
well he did say that you were to good for him that might mean something.Well if i were u i would talk to him and figure out why he doesnt call you for like a week then calls u and act like nothing happened.Its not normal for him but you also really like him so jsut talk to him and go from there
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