Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 19 April 2010: Ask him to come out because you have something important to discuss with him.
Tell him directly that you are looking for a committed relationship with him.You relationship needs to have a status.Get a commitment from him.
If he cannot give y... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 10 April 2010: Best of luck to you and hope that you will make a wise decision .
God bless you !... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 7 April 2010: That is good,Explore your limits and live life to the extremes.Everyday is a new day and a new experience.
Just live in the present and let the past go.... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 6 April 2010: I am glad that you have such a positive attitude towards this issue.Always try to think positive.
He is in a rebound relationship and somewhere down the road , he may have regrets or remorse .
What then ? Would you still accept him back?... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 6 April 2010: What an irony! He is involved in a rebound relationship. It was not just the sex alone and he lied to you .
I am sorry and you cannot do much now except to let him go. You could wait for him but I think you are better off moving on from him.... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 6 April 2010: You need to know what you want in life and where you want to go. If he cannot agree with you , you will have to leave him behind.Be more assertive.
From now on , it is on your terms. Take it or leave it... (read in full...)
His ex gf moved in with 'his' Mom! This has upset me! What can I do?
Q. Long Story short. Me and my guy have been together for a couple years now. His ex-girlfriend of 6 years just moved in with his mom and it's driving me crazy. My BF and I live together about 20miles away from his mom, "all of a sudden", his mom calls ...
A. 6 April 2010: You cannot do anything about his ex staying at his mom's place.
You will have to share your concerns and feelings with your b/f about it and let him know where are your limits and boundaries are.
It looks like his mom has a diabolical plan ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting to his comments pertaining to our relationship
Q. Hello, I've been seeing a man in another country. We see each other a few times a month for over a year now.Originally we decided that after a year we would decide if we were gonna work towards marriage or not. It's been almost 15 months and he do...
A. 6 April 2010: He is throwing up a smokescreen to hide his intentions. He is not serious in settling down with you and this relationship is going nowhere, just bobbing around in the ocean.
You should cut yourself adrift and head your own way.... (read in full...)
What s up with these unuusal headaches
Q. For the past month I have had headaches on and off. Only in the morning, and they get better as the day goes on..But they're not really headaches but this weird feeling in my head. I also have a stuffy nose, especially when I lay down. I can't ...
A. 6 April 2010: How's your eyesight? Can you see clearly ? Close one eye and the other eye to see if they have any problems.
Are you wearing glasses?
Go for an eye check up. Your eyes could also be the cause of your headaches.... (read in full...)
Will an std harm my unborn child?
Q. i been together with my boyfriend for about 6 months ...i love him with all my heart ...he was my first and the only guy i been with ... like 2 weeks ago i went to the doctor and got a check up...she called me yesterday and told me i tested posi...
A. 6 April 2010: Chlamydia can be easily treated and cured with antibiotics.
If what you said is true,it is possible that you got it from him.
There is a possibility that he was treated and cured of the STD without your knowledge.
reference;-
ht... (read in full...)
Ex & I back together but he's falling into his old habits and I'm sick of them!
Q. Hi, I was hoping I could ask for advice really. My problems and questions always seem really long but here goes, i hope you can help. Ok, so I split with my boyfriend a year ago and then got back together, had quite a few shaky problems to st...
A. 6 April 2010: There is a Chinese saying, A man cannot shed tears until he see's the casket/coffin.'
When he see's that you are really leaving, then he will kaput and do what you want.
It is like a game of poker to him.Playing with your emotions and toy... (read in full...)
He did not answer my text msg, .. should I move on?
Q. Met a man online. I almost did not go as I have been having terrible dates from online. Surprisingly, I go on the first date and we hit it off. We had alot of laughs , I am sure the alcohol helped. We held hands and had a quick goodnight kiss. The ...
A. 5 April 2010: If he does not answer you or contact you ,he is probably gone for good.... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 5 April 2010: Tue love will stand the test of time. It doesn't matter what you told her. It would make no difference to her if she wants to leave you .
Time can change a person perspective. She too will have her doubts and anxieties.
If your destiny is ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is basically everything without a label?
Q. Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...
A. 5 April 2010: You are neither here nor there. You need to either carve out your own path or remain a martyr or a doormat to him.
You should get back into the control seat, harden your heart and walk away from all those unpleasant experiences.
... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriends reoccurring dreams?
Q. Hi, I was wondering whether someone could give me their opinion on what my ex boyfriend's recurring dreams mean? Ok, so to explain the situation. My ex and I have been in each other's lives for the past eight years. For the last year it was sket...
A. 5 April 2010: He probably had insecurity problems and it played up in his dreams. His had this fear of losing you .Now that this has come to pass.... (read in full...)
Confusing feelings after a break up
Q. Hi :) Recently I've had my first break up and I'm 21 lol. It's been interesting, my feelings are kinda all over the place, but I believe I'm coping well. My problem is that whilst we are still friends and talk on the phone etc, I'm worried t...
A. 5 April 2010: Allow him to call or contact you but if he comes too close,push him off.Pour cold water on him if you have to.
Keep your relationship on the platonic levels.... (read in full...)
Was I in love with a ghost??
Q. Me and my girl broke up a month ago now for really knows what. She told me one thing in the breakup letter then later told me I was being too obsessive of her and she felt as if she had to make me happy all the time. We've been together for 4 years ...
A. 5 April 2010: You should rid your heart of hate and vengeance. The fire that burns in you ,burns you more than her.
You should forgive her of all the wrongs she did to you and asked forgiveness from her.
In this way , you can start the process of heali... (read in full...)
I've been in love with the same guy all my teen years. Help
Q. hey guys. so I'm 18 and have liked the same guy since I was 13 lets call him Tim. when I was 15 I moved to a new town and since then we have mainly talked by text messages and msn but have grown closer non the less. I have tried to have other re...
A. 5 April 2010: Why not you propose marriage to him and see how he answers?
It is better to know where you stand with him now than to wait forever.If you wait ,that day may never come.... (read in full...)
I want a baby with my older Husband
Q. I am 24 and recently married my best friend and the most perfect man. He is 65 and we dated for 4 years before we married. I have a 6 year old from my first marriage and he has 3 grown children and we all get along great. I recently have ...
A. 5 April 2010: Even if he could reversed his Vasectomy , there is no guarantee that he can still father a child.
At that age,his sperm reproduction is limited and those sperms may not be strong swimmers.
It is not wrong for you to want a baby with him bu... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my breasts, but if I tell him the truth I'm scared he'll think I'm deformed!
Q. Hi all, I recently ran into a problem with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex I would always wear my shirt, and he always wondered why. Well, one night we started drinking pretty heavily, and my inhibitions flew out the window, and he ...
A. 5 April 2010: Here is another link which may interest you about the massage techniques .
http://www.beauty2morrow.com/breast/nipple.htm... (read in full...)
My guy is around 24/7 and I'm finding it hard to breathe!
Q. been with my partner for more than a year now, he is nice to me, gives me everything, has respect for me and i guess im lucky to have him as he is with me. he loves me very much, im his first serious relationship, his first love. he is my first ...
A. 5 April 2010: You need to communicate with him that you need some personal space. I am sure he will understand and give you some time to yourself. Talk to him about it. Be direct because he may not understand your request.... (read in full...)
Is my husband having lustful thoughts about other women?
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one.. hi am married since two n half yrs and quite happy with my marriage but few incidents that took place i feel he thinks lustfully about other woman, please can u help me by telling do these incidents indicate...
A. 5 April 2010: You seems to be getting paranoid which is causing you insecurity, anxiety, depression, and irrational fears.
All men have lust in their heart and their eyes will naturally zoom in when a sexy and beautiful girl comes into view.
You cannot fo... (read in full...)
I lied to him about my breasts, but if I tell him the truth I'm scared he'll think I'm deformed!
Q. Hi all, I recently ran into a problem with my boyfriend. When we first started having sex I would always wear my shirt, and he always wondered why. Well, one night we started drinking pretty heavily, and my inhibitions flew out the window, and he ...
A. 5 April 2010: Inverted nipples are quite common in some women as well as some men .It is not a deformity .
There are ways to get rid of inverted nipples. You could use those breast pumps to suck it out.
If you can afford it , you can have plastic surgery.... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but everyone seems against it
Q. I know this is very long but i feel like people should know the whole situation. I work in a fast food place as one of the supervisors. I had a crush on one of the workers and we went on a date and kissed but it never interfered with work (dating ...
A. 5 April 2010: Take each day at a time and just enjoy the friendship. Follow your destiny and where it brings you .
16 and 24 is not too wide a gap and age is not a criteria but maturity levels.
Do not be affected by what others think. Majority opinion... (read in full...)
Ex & I back together but he's falling into his old habits and I'm sick of them!
Q. Hi, I was hoping I could ask for advice really. My problems and questions always seem really long but here goes, i hope you can help. Ok, so I split with my boyfriend a year ago and then got back together, had quite a few shaky problems to st...
A. 5 April 2010: Men are creatures of habit. When they go out of line , it is time to tell them and if it does not work , you will have to separate to make it sink into his mind .
The only way to make him listen and come to your terms is to leave him .
Noth... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 5 April 2010: Treat the separation like R & R . Get yourself detoxified and see things from a new perspective.
Go back into your old world and keep yourself busy.
If you love her, let her go, if she comes back then she is yours.... (read in full...)
He wants to still be in a relationship with me, but in separate houses
Q. my partner and I have lived together for 6 years, we had both my 2 and his 2 children living with us which put a strain on our relationship and led ti arguements. he left me abruptly 4 months ago, although we have continued seeing each other as ...
A. 5 April 2010: Can you trust his words?
If you can't live under the same roof, there must be something not right about this relationship.
If he still loves you , why did he leave you ?... (read in full...)
Is it good enough protection to only use a condom upon insertion?
Q. Hi, My boyfriend insisted having sex with me and we landed up having an intercourse, but i stopped him before he could insert inside me. During the course of intercourse he he used condoms on and off... Is it good enough to use condoms only at ...
A. 5 April 2010: Many men only put on the condoms when they want to insert into the women. During foreplay it can be a hindrance.
The risks of getting pregnant is very low during foreplay as long as the penis does not go near the vagina.
You can take those c... (read in full...)
Whatever he texts to me he also texts to my friend, is he trying to make me jealous?
Q. please help i talked to this guy for a while now he always texts me everyday and we talk i thought maybe he likes me because of all the signals and i thought that he might..his cousin even told my own sister asking if we were together because ...
A. 5 April 2010: He is putting two irons into the fire and see which one will get hotter first.
He is indecisive and does not know who he wants. Maybe, he enjoys flirting only .... (read in full...)
Do guys like getting their ears kissed?
Q. My bf loves to kiss my ears as I will feel really ticklish and turn on when he does so. I tried to rub my lower lips in his ears and kiss his ears. I am just wondering whether will guys be horny when their gf kisses his ears?...
A. 5 April 2010: Even looking at you can make them horny ,let alone kisses to any parts of their bodies.
Kiss and nimble on their ears and I bet you would make him super horny..... (read in full...)
Is my weight gain since marriage a cause to worry about my husbands interest in me?
Q. hi am married for two years now and have put on a lot of weight which my husband does not like he would tell me i look fat and looked good when we were newly married and at times he would look at other girls who are look really slim and compare me. ...
A. 5 April 2010: I have observed that when a couple marries in the East, they tend to put on weight as they both enjoy the marital bliss or honeymoon.
If your love is strong ,there is nothing to worry about but you should take heed about your husbands complain... (read in full...)
My fiancee wont let me contact her or my sons. I am at the end of my tether!
Q. Dear Cupid I've got a massive problem, my fiancé and I haven't spoke to each for over a month and I also haven't seen my 2 little boys. We have been having problems for a while and as a result I left our family home, we have been trying to sort ...
A. 5 April 2010: Men co-habiting with someone with whom they have children may get a nasty shock if there is a separation.
Even though you both know that you are the children's biological father, you may have no legal rights whatsoever following a separati... (read in full...)
Is my weight gain since marriage a cause to worry about my husbands interest in me?
Q. hi am married for two years now and have put on a lot of weight which my husband does not like he would tell me i look fat and looked good when we were newly married and at times he would look at other girls who are look really slim and compare me. ...
A. 5 April 2010: Men have a higher metabolism rate and they burn more calories than women.
Men need more carbo for energies and when women live with them , they tend to eat the same kind of food.
The researchers attributed the weight gain to cohabiting women... (read in full...)
I want to talk to him when we are not drunk, ... should I, ... or should I just leave him alone?
Q. Hey just after a bit of advice. I met this guy about 6 months ago after seeing him around a bit. At first he was really keen texting me etc and went to his house a couple of times after meeting up out (didn't have sex though). Then he started to ...
A. 5 April 2010: I think you should just leave it until he comes around . At the moment he has too much toxic in his system.... (read in full...)
Just found out I am pregnant to my ex! I need to know I am thinking straight in deciding what to do about this.
Q. I just found out that I'm pregnant with my ex-boyfriend's baby and for so many reason, I don't want to keep it: - My EX is the father and although he says he wants to support me and would consider keeping it, we have a long messed up history and I...
A. 5 April 2010: You need to think carefully about your options. Perhaps you may need some professional help from those pregnancy help centers.
Everything happens for a reason and sometimes we cannot run away from destiny.
reference;-
http://www.lifesi... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 5 April 2010: Man can have sex with anyone without feeling any emotional attachments.
If you love him , you should not let that incident affect you . Even diamonds have flaws and no one is perfect. ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with him, but am not sure how to go about it.
Q. So I met this guy about a year and a half ago on a TV Show forum. I first started talking to him when he gave me guy advice. And we've talked ever since then, and we've grown really close, we've done video chat, IMVU, MySpace, all sorts of stuff to ...
A. 5 April 2010: If you are going to stay over at his house, chances of having sex is very high.
You don't know what you are dealing with. Love and emotions are powerful forces .
Your raging hormones are like the Tsunami waves which will sweep you both to the ... (read in full...)
I cant believe my fiance saying he may have gotten another woman pregnant. Do you think he is just testing me?
Q. My fiancé told me that some girl told him that he might have gotten her pregnant. It does not seem like him at all--- cheating and not using protection. According to his tone of voice on the phone, I think he was kidding, but I was crying when I ...
A. 5 April 2010: You need to ascertain first if this is really what happened. Is this a cruel joke or is it the truth?
You will have to find a day and talk over it with him .
He could be framed by some vicious girl.
Check out the facts first . Don't make a... (read in full...)
Is checking a partners internet activities a violation of privacy?
Q. How big of a deal is it to violate your lover's privacy by checking his browser history? I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months. We met on a dating site. Things were going great for a bit, but behavior patterns changed. He sud...
A. 5 April 2010: If you are in a committed relationship, there should be no privacy. You should be like an open book and let your partner browse through it as often as they want.
This is my personal opinion only ,for others may have different opinions.... (read in full...)
I'm preganant but wonder what future there is with my boyfriend.
Q. Have you ever thought to yourself "why you are with this guy or girl" well soe times when my boyfriend is a sleep I look at him and start to think "why am I with you, do you even love me, why do you do the things you do, why do you act like you ...
A. 5 April 2010: I would like to recommend this site to you . I hope you will find the ways to destress and relax better.
reference;-
http://www.parents.com/pregnancy/my-life/emotions/... (read in full...)
My mother puts my husband under a microscope - but only looks for the negative!
Q. My mother feels that my husband is often selfish, disrespectful and inconsiderate to me. My husband loves me very much and I think overall we are happy and I agree that he could be all of the above at times, but we have a good time toghther most of ...
A. 5 April 2010: Don't let anyone destroy your happiness. She is entitled to think that way and you don't have to agree with her.
There are things that can change and things that cannot change. Just accept whatever that cannot be changed. (Your mom's bias opi... (read in full...)
Is my weight gain since marriage a cause to worry about my husbands interest in me?
Q. hi am married for two years now and have put on a lot of weight which my husband does not like he would tell me i look fat and looked good when we were newly married and at times he would look at other girls who are look really slim and compare me. ...
A. 5 April 2010: Men are visual creatures and they are attracted to what is beautiful.
If you put on a lot of weight , you will need to watch what you put inside your mouth.
Being fat can put some men off and they will soon lose interest in you .
When yo... (read in full...)
My g/f wants me to skip my brother's wedding for our anniversary
Q. Dear readers, I have quite the tricky situation on my hands and I would like to know what you guys would do if you were in my situation. Here it goes. Me and my girlfriend began dating on October 8th, 2008. We've been relatively okay, except we ...
A. 5 April 2010: She betted and lost. It is up to you to put her in her place. No one is perfect and to err is only human.
Forgive her and she have learned a lesson.... (read in full...)
Is my FWB developing feelings for me?
Q. i have a friend that i have sex with from time to time and i think his getting feelings for me. his friends say he dont like you like that he just using you, but when me and him get together i dont feel that, i feel like hes catching feelings for ...
A. 5 April 2010: Go with your intuitions. Actions speak louder than words.... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex girlfriend?
Q. Should I contact my ex girl friend? i was with her fo a year it was long distance and we were both dealing with some stuff at the time. I had a prolem with addiction that she didnt know aout and as she was dealing with her own stuff at the tim...
A. 5 April 2010: There is no law that forbids you from try again. If you love her, contact her and see if she will give you another chance.
If you don't try , you will never know. Give your best shot and it is better that you have tried falling in love with her... (read in full...)
Should I go for lunch with my teacher?
Q. Just to give you an insight: A principal I had in middle school agreed to go out to lunch with me when I asked him awhile back. We exchanged numbers and we’ve texted off and on these past couple of months. (Not like crazy, just to set up a day when ...
A. 5 April 2010: A launch with a teacher is a very common thing.As long as they don't have too many launches together which would give rise to speculations.
We should not make assumptions about the teacher's intentions and view it through myopic eyes. For you do n... (read in full...)
How can I get her to like me as more than a friend?
Q. I'm in love with a beautiful girl who I've been friends with for 4 years. I love her so much I would die for her. Something caught my eye about her when we first met. I thought I liked her pretty well for about the first 3 1/2 years but then we ...
A. 5 April 2010: Love is like a plant. You plant your seed of love in her heart . If the soil is good earth , it will grow.
When the seed germinates, you water it ,talk to it, let the sunshine into her life, add some fertilizers and take good care of it .
Aft... (read in full...)
My g/f wants me to skip my brother's wedding for our anniversary
Q. Dear readers, I have quite the tricky situation on my hands and I would like to know what you guys would do if you were in my situation. Here it goes. Me and my girlfriend began dating on October 8th, 2008. We've been relatively okay, except we ...
A. 5 April 2010: If she cannot reach a compromise with you , then it is time to review your relationship.... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 5 April 2010: Absence make the heart grows fonder.
You need to disappear from her world for a period of time and she will miss you and those days.
You cannot appreciate a thing until it is gone.... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 3 April 2010: You should always try your best to solve those problems and over come them.
In this way, if you really were to separate because fate decides, you will have no regrets because you tried your very best. Otherwise , there will always be a nagging ... (read in full...)
Will an std harm my unborn child?
Q. i been together with my boyfriend for about 6 months ...i love him with all my heart ...he was my first and the only guy i been with ... like 2 weeks ago i went to the doctor and got a check up...she called me yesterday and told me i tested posi...
A. 28 March 2010: I would suggest that you read more online and be more informed about STD's and how it affects the unborn child.
You could Google it online and one of the links I found is pasted below . You could also ask your doctor on your next visit .
r... (read in full...)
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