I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 6 April 2010: That is great and I hope that everything will end in the positive.Accept whatever comes your way.... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 5 April 2010: Tue love will stand the test of time. It doesn't matter what you told her. It would make no difference to her if she wants to leave you .
Time can change a person perspective. She too will have her doubts and anxieties.
If your destiny is ... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 5 April 2010: Treat the separation like R & R . Get yourself detoxified and see things from a new perspective.
Go back into your old world and keep yourself busy.
If you love her, let her go, if she comes back then she is yours.... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 5 April 2010: Absence make the heart grows fonder.
You need to disappear from her world for a period of time and she will miss you and those days.
You cannot appreciate a thing until it is gone.... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with him! How do I get over these feelings?
Q. Im still inlove with him. We broke up like 4 months ago,and im hiding my feelings. have you ever been inlove with your ex? and how do you get rid of your feelings?...
A. 4 April 2010: You need to make peace with yourself and your surroundings. Don't fight those feelings. Accept that you cannot forget your ex.The more you fight against it,the more it will resist and won't go away.
Always have positive thoughts and you will fin... (read in full...)
Is there any chance that he wants to get back with me, or is he just using me?
Q. hi, im new to dearcupid, and right now i really need advice. back in january, my boyfriend broke up with me for somebody else, we dated for about a year and a half and we went through so much together. when we broke up, he told me that he wanted me ...
A. 4 April 2010: Sometimes ,when a thing is no more there, we will only know what we have missed it.
When it was there , we did not know how to appreciate it but only take it for granted.
Sometimes, a relationship breakups because it teaches us to appreciate th... (read in full...)
Why am I sleeping with my boyfriend's Dad?
Q. Hi. I really need some advice here. I've gotten myself into a bad situation. I've been dating my boyfriend for awhile (we are both 18), and when I first met his parents there was a spark between his father and I. Now here we are six months later, ...
A. 4 April 2010: Walking away would solve all the problems. It would be weird if the three of you can accept the situation.
If you still love your b/f , you should stop sleeping with his dad to correct the situation. You will have to keep this secret from your b/f... (read in full...)
Does this text mean he is brushing me off?
Q. Hi, So I get this txt from a potential love interest to say....Could'nt get your call, in a meeting, thanks for your email, all the best for Easter, Will talk next week, Take Care, -----. What does take care mean? This is the first I have ever had. ...
A. 4 April 2010: Because he a man and it would be ungentlemanly nor to reply even if it is a missed message. He had some respect for you .It is politeness.
Men and women do not react the same.... (read in full...)
My friend's family won't let her grow up!
Q. Hello everyone, any advice to this problem would be much apreciated. I have a friend who is 14 like me and there is only me and her in our year who like the music we like, I asked her if she wanted to go to the sugarmill with me to see an Indie ban...
A. 4 April 2010: I am sorry , there is not much you can do in your friends case. You have to accept their decisions
Some kids are more resourceful and can find a way around this problem.
If there is a will ,there is a way.... (read in full...)
Boyfriends mother excludes me from family events.
Q. Please help me out on this! My potential mother-in-law leaves me out of family gatherings such as Easter, inviting instead someone my bf used to go out with, whom she prefers, and whom she has a close relationship with and adores. Every holiday I am ...
A. 4 April 2010: Your future MIL is manipulative and controlling. It does not bode well for your future and your future path will not be smooth sailing.
You need to find out if your b/f will always stand on your side ,otherwise your relationship will be full of ... (read in full...)
I want him to leave her for me
Q. I am having a predicament. I was with "Joe" for 8 years. We met when we were 17 and just broke up a few weeks ago. During the past 8 years I have been very close with his family, in fact I am closer to them than he is. I still hang out with his ...
A. 4 April 2010: If you cannot decide what you want, then let fate decides for you.
In time , everything will become clearer to you and you will be able to see your directions you want to go.... (read in full...)
I want to wait, but his sex drive is becomming a problem
Q. Okay so I have a really weird situation. My boyfriend and I have been going together for about a month and I am head over heels for him. It was basically love at first sight (and I didn't believe in that until him). However, I am still a virgin ...
A. 3 April 2010: Sorry to hear that. I hope that you will get over it quickly and start a new chapter in your life.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend blows me off and gets nasty and I am not sure what I should do
Q. So my boyfriend of a year has gotten very controlling and jealous. I had to delete my facebook and every guy in my phone because of him. He blows me off every weekend for friends and barley talks to me on weekdays. Then when I go hang out with...
A. 3 April 2010: You are in an abusive relationship. You can be martyr or a doormat.
You can forgive, accept and understand him but you will be dying inside or you can look elsewhere for love and emotional nurturings.
Why settle for the mediocre?... (read in full...)
A rough diamond? Compliment? or Insult?
Q. what If your boyfriend says (your' a rough diomand )rough aound the edges.is that insult .or cheeky towards me.?...
A. 3 April 2010: He means it as a compliment but there is further room for improvements.
You need some polishing to make it into a fine and shining gem...... (read in full...)
Is it the end? Or should I just try harder?
Q. I said I should move out, but now I want to stay and work things out. I've been here before i'm afraid. I have been seeing my girlfriend for 18 months and we moved in together 6 months ago. We encountered a few problems early on when we moved ...
A. 3 April 2010: You should always try your best to solve those problems and over come them.
In this way, if you really were to separate because fate decides, you will have no regrets because you tried your very best. Otherwise , there will always be a nagging ... (read in full...)
My friend is hurting me with his behavior and doesn't seem to get it!
Q. I talked to my friend last night telling him that he hurt me by being distant. He said that the reason why e doesn’t talk to me is because he doesn’t carry his phone every where and sometimes he is signed on online but he’s not at his computer. Plus ...
A. 3 April 2010: He is too young to know about love. He still has a lot to learn about love.
You should keep your options open.... (read in full...)
I only want sex once with a girl then I want to move on!
Q. I'm a guy. I don't really think I have a problem but I'm getting into a situation. My thing is I can only have sex with a girl once. After that, I'm not interested anymore and I just move on to the next one. This one girl that I did is no...
A. 3 April 2010: You are treating girls like condoms. After use, you want to discard them.
Before you have sex with a girl, you should declare to her that you want sex with her only once and after that you are not interested in her anymore.
If you can do... (read in full...)
After getting back together, how should I behave towards my boyfriend despite my trust issues?
Q. Guys, Me and my bf broke up 1 week ago because of trust issues.. Then I was the one who broke up because I couldnt trust him.. but I am still in love with him.. during the period of one week, he texted me to get me back together but I told him...
A. 3 April 2010: Maybe he is too busy. Give him more time to reply and sweat it out.Do not send anymore text to him.... (read in full...)
Isnt she completely over the line here?
Q. My wife was snooping through some of my personal belongings and found a picture of my exgirlfriend and an old letter that she had sent me. She asked me why I had kept those two things and I told her quite honestly that I didn't even know I still ...
A. 3 April 2010: Whether it is right or wrong , it is her business. She is your partner for life and you should not have secrets from one another.
What you fantasize or think in your heart is entirely yours but what you do is different.
If your partner hid... (read in full...)
What would be the meanest, most heartbreaking way to break up with him?
Q. *OP's own title* I feel like I can officially say I'm over my old boyfriend. We're in a foreign country, however, and have to live together in the same house for the next three weeks until I go home. I had some suspicions that the guy was che...
A. 3 April 2010: What you suggested is already the meanest way. I wonder if after a period of time or somewhere down the road , you would regret or have remorse about what you plan to do .
... (read in full...)
I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for months,but I did take 3 contraceptive pills at once, could I be pregnant?
Q. im a bit confused.... 2 days before i was due on my period i took 3 conterception pills in one night, i heard that by doing that it can delay your period for a couple of days, is that true? but im now 5 days late on my period, these past few m...
A. 3 April 2010: Congratulations to you !. I don't think your grand parents ill judge you and will be happy for you and they will hide any disappointments from you .
Think more positive.
You might want to read what are your options in this link.
http:/... (read in full...)
3 months married, a football widow and I don't know if he loves me!
Q. I need advice... I got married 3 months ago to a guy I thought loved me. I have never been so wrong. It sounds completely stupid, and judging by the other emails on this site I have no reason to be complaining.... But I am the original football ...
A. 3 April 2010: Communicate all your needs to him and if he does not care, you should plan to leave this marriage.It can only get worse .
Tell those things you think is not right about him directly and do not give hints to him.... (read in full...)
I am always suspicious of him, how do I trust him?
Q. I heard a rumor about my boyfriend cheating on me, I immediatley freaked out, smacked him in the chest and screamed at him without giving him a chance to explain, left our house and stayed at my friends for the next 3 days. After I left, he didn'...
A. 3 April 2010: What you did was immature, irrational and impetuous. You should be calm and collected and and confront him in a mature and rational way.
Listen to his perspective first and then only decide to believed or disbelieved him or give him the benefits... (read in full...)
Went out with my ex and its the same old rollercoaster ride
Q. Hello everyone, Yesterday I had a date with my ex-girlfriend, we date like a year ago, then she broke up and we did not speak for several months. Now she innitiated contact and I aggreed to go out with her. Everything went really wel, she ...
A. 3 April 2010: Sadly , you cannot change people in the way they act or think.
All you can do is to limit your time and tell her that you have to concentrate on your studies. In time , she will fade from your scene.... (read in full...)
Isnt she completely over the line here?
Q. My wife was snooping through some of my personal belongings and found a picture of my exgirlfriend and an old letter that she had sent me. She asked me why I had kept those two things and I told her quite honestly that I didn't even know I still ...
A. 3 April 2010: When you marry, the two of you become one. It means that the other one is privy to everything that goes on in your life.
Your body, your secrets and your everything belongs to her too . She has half the share in your things through the marriage... (read in full...)
What can I do? Boyfriend getting bored with me!
Q. so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months. and he told me today that he always gets bored with girls and thats why his longest relationship has only lasted 4 months. but he said he loves me so hes going to keep trying. i really ...
A. 3 April 2010: Give him more space and stay away from him. Go and enjoy yourself with your friends .
When he feels your absence, he will come back to you . If he is still interested , he will come back . Otherwise, you need to move on.... (read in full...)
Does this sound like a one night stand?
Q. )OP's own title* I've never had anything like a one night stand before. I usually spend months dating a guy before sex comes into the equation, so I have no idea whether the way this guy was acting suggests it was a one night stand or something more...
A. 3 April 2010: At this juncture, we cannot be very certain if it is a one night stand or not. Only time will tell. If he disappears from your radar,it is confirmed.
Since you have heard about his reputation , it could be true but we cannot make assumpti... (read in full...)
Was it right to break up with my boyfriend? What do I do?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a few months two nights ago... At the time it seemed like the right thing to do. We were at the point in our relationship were we should either move forward or split and neither of us were ready to move ...
A. 3 April 2010: No one is perfect and to err is only human .
If you think you have made a mistake , be humble enough and admit to him and apologize to him to mend your relationship .
Wipe your slate clean and start all over again.
If you are destine to... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's best friend assaulted me
Q. I started to tell the whole, long story. but it turned out to be about 20000 words.. so here is the short version: My boyfriend's best friend forced me to give him head. He was drunk, i was not that drunk. My boyfriend was sleeping on the couch ne...
A. 3 April 2010: You were under the influence of alcohol and was in the wrong place and time. You made a mistake ,learn from it and you need to move on .... (read in full...)
How do I get over being betrayed by someone I loved?
Q. I recently ended things with my boyfriend of a year because they weren't going anywhere. I am not sad because of the 'split' as such; i think everyone appreciates when a relationship is falling apart and I know i did the right thing to get out of ...
A. 3 April 2010: You will live to fight another day.Each experience will make you stronger.
You will have to think positive always . A lot of the pains come from negative perceptions.
Having positive thoughts will help you see things from a different angle.... (read in full...)
Does this text mean he is brushing me off?
Q. Hi, So I get this txt from a potential love interest to say....Could'nt get your call, in a meeting, thanks for your email, all the best for Easter, Will talk next week, Take Care, -----. What does take care mean? This is the first I have ever had. ...
A. 3 April 2010: Generally but with exceptions,most guys would reply the e-mail or missed calls as it would be impolite and rude even if they have no interest in the gal.They want to behave as a gentleman.
'Take care 'is just a polite phrase like 'Have a nice day... (read in full...)
After getting back together, how should I behave towards my boyfriend despite my trust issues?
Q. Guys, Me and my bf broke up 1 week ago because of trust issues.. Then I was the one who broke up because I couldnt trust him.. but I am still in love with him.. during the period of one week, he texted me to get me back together but I told him...
A. 3 April 2010: Suggest to him to do things together like going to movies or just enjoying a drink or window shopping or to any place he wants.
Initiate some text to him to tell him that you are thinking of him.... (read in full...)
I haven't forgiven my mother for grounding me when I was 12!
Q. I am a 23 year old, married, new mom. My mother contacted my husband after the baby was born and is wanting to get together. Now, he is pressing me to have my mom in our lives. I have not been on speaking terms with my mom for years. When I w...
A. 3 April 2010: Do not bring up the past. You cannot change anything . You can catch up with each other and allow your mom into your child's life.
Your reunion will be an emotional one and you should not repressed your feelings for your mom. Just released... (read in full...)
I'm afraid the man I am having an affair with wants me just for sex.
Q. I met this guy in a meeting room during a business trip. We exchanged namecards as usual for contacts. he send an email about an enquiry i made, i did'nt reply as i know it before he emails me. Then, he send a text message regarding the same info. ...
A. 3 April 2010: You are welcome!.When you have reached a certain stage in an affair,it becomes meaningless unless you accompanied it with love.
Only love can glue the relationship together.If there is no love,the water will run into the dead sea and disappea... (read in full...)
What's the best way to contact an ex?
Q. i want to contact my ex after 6 months of no contact. whats the best way to do it?...
A. 2 April 2010: Send a text to her if you still have her phone number or find out where she usually hangs around and 'accidentally' meet her.... (read in full...)
I feel my fiance should pull his weight financially
Q. My finance has been living with me and my 2 children for about a year and a half. We make the same amount of money but he only pays for food. He says he won't help with the house payment and utilities because I would be paying for them if he wasn't ...
A. 2 April 2010: Demand for your rights and if he cannot agree , tell him to ship out. You will sublet his room to others who would pay.
He gets all those nice and clean facilities at your house and he won't pay ,then he needs to sleep on the streets.
Either ... (read in full...)
Would you be offended if someone put you in a situation like this?
Q. Imagine this situation: you are walking down the street with a close friend, lets call her Jane, and the two of you run into an old friend of Jane's, whom you've never met before. The two of them start catching up and end up talking for half an ...
A. 1 April 2010: You could have excused yourself and move away from them when you feel being ignored and let them talked all they wanted.
It can be rude and inconsiderate but you are close friends and you should not think of it that way. Your friend just got carr... (read in full...)
How to get him to talk to me after our break up?
Q. Hi. My bf broke up with me a month ago. He said he wanted a break and needed time apart because we were arguing. Iv tried txting him and calling him but he wont reply . I dont know what to do as i really love him and we had a real connection. I ...
A. 1 April 2010: You have to use reverse psychology to get him back.
Go to this link which will give you a lot of tips and you can further Google .'How to get back the ex? ' for more tips.
reference;-
http://ezineartic... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 1 April 2010: It isn't the problem along the way that make us or break us. It's how we learn to stand and face them that makes the difference.
Don't wallow in your self pity. Stand up , don't stop, keep walking ahead and don't look back.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is depressed. How can I help him?
Q. age 34... Shit!! now my boyfriend of three years ias depressed and just says f#+"* it! and i know he means it. hes angry at me for pushing him away in our relationship(no communication skills. we were stuck.) he hates his job. hes talking about ...
A. 1 April 2010: Men fall in love at first sight.They quickly fall out of love when they don't get what they want.... (read in full...)
Do guys ever just want to stay friends?
Q. Will guys ever CHOOSE to be just friends with a girl? If he finds her beautiful inside and out- nice, sweet, amazing looks, smart, etc- and they're both single? There's sexual tension. Can he ever just want it to stay platonic? Happened with ...
A. 1 April 2010: If the girl is very ugly or unattractive, they would just be her friend.
If she is like what you describe, their hormones would go into overdrive.
They only choose to be her friend because they have no other choice, ....LOL!
... (read in full...)
Girlfriend accusing me of cheating and I haven't done anything!
Q. Ok the last few days before school went on break my girlfriend is acting really annoying because ima be going out of town and singing at venues. she keeps saying ima be messing with girls and im going to forget about her. i dont get it i haven't ...
A. 1 April 2010: She is not the trusting type and could be having those stereotype thinking's about singers messing with girls.
Since there is no trust in this relationship,you will find this relationship is burdensome.
Every time you come from a singing a... (read in full...)
Should I throw away the 2 years we have spent together and move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years And 2 months... In the time that we've been together we've had 3 major arguments that almost led to us breaking up. I love him so much and I've been so faithful to him. I've talked to him about it but it's ...
A. 1 April 2010: Why stay in an unhappy relationship?
If he cannot remove that 'thorn' in your side , it means that he does not love you enough. You are not on his priority list.
A man who truly loves you will do whatever you want from him.
You have alread... (read in full...)
How can I hug him first without making it too obvious that I fancy him?
Q. Hey Guys! I want to hug my best guy friend, he always hugs me first, and because I am caught off guard it's kinda awkward like his arms are around me but I'm sideways or My arms are squished up in between us, and he smells my hair, and sometimes I ...
A. 1 April 2010:
When hugging a guy friend, one arm should be around his neck, the other around his ribcage. Keep your bodies a few inches apart and look to the side or over his shoulder.
Avoid eye contact while you are locked together. Smile either throu... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling so lonely?
Q. I don't know, it is just that I feel so lonely. A friend just told me that her dream boy asked her out and she's so happy, and I am really happy for them, but it just makes me feel so lonely, I know it might sound needy but I am just so sick of ...
A. 1 April 2010: Find a hobby or something you like to do. Go online and there are many things you can do .
Go out with your friends and enjoy life.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is depressed. How can I help him?
Q. age 34... Shit!! now my boyfriend of three years ias depressed and just says f#+"* it! and i know he means it. hes angry at me for pushing him away in our relationship(no communication skills. we were stuck.) he hates his job. hes talking about ...
A. 1 April 2010: He needs to see a GP and take those anti depression drugs.He is sick and only those medicine will help him.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid the man I am having an affair with wants me just for sex.
Q. I met this guy in a meeting room during a business trip. We exchanged namecards as usual for contacts. he send an email about an enquiry i made, i did'nt reply as i know it before he emails me. Then, he send a text message regarding the same info. ...
A. 1 April 2010: In Asian societies, if a pretty and professional woman is willing to have an affair with a man , it is a no string attached sex only .
Both are happy and enjoy spending time together and having sex of their life and after it is over, they go ... (read in full...)
Should I throw away the 2 years we have spent together and move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years And 2 months... In the time that we've been together we've had 3 major arguments that almost led to us breaking up. I love him so much and I've been so faithful to him. I've talked to him about it but it's ...
A. 1 April 2010: If he does not show his respect for you and ignores your wishes, there is no future for you in this relationship.
You could walk away and see if he values and appreciates you by giving it up.
If he cannot , you need to move on.... (read in full...)
I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for months,but I did take 3 contraceptive pills at once, could I be pregnant?
Q. im a bit confused.... 2 days before i was due on my period i took 3 conterception pills in one night, i heard that by doing that it can delay your period for a couple of days, is that true? but im now 5 days late on my period, these past few m...
A. 1 April 2010: You can take the pregnancy test from 3 to 14 days after your supposed period day until your period comes.... (read in full...)
I've been having unprotected sex with my boyfriend for months,but I did take 3 contraceptive pills at once, could I be pregnant?
Q. im a bit confused.... 2 days before i was due on my period i took 3 conterception pills in one night, i heard that by doing that it can delay your period for a couple of days, is that true? but im now 5 days late on my period, these past few m...
A. 1 April 2010: You can only delay your period if you take the combined oral contraceptive pill, you can delay your period by taking two packets of pills back to back and not 3 pills in one night.
Or you can visit your GP to get him/her to prescribe medicati... (read in full...)
I played with fire and I got burned!
Q. I cheated I came clean and now my husband has walked out on me! I'm so sad I regret it so much I know I'm not innocent I made a big mistake but I want him back! I wish I could turn back time and never played this stupid game I'm hurting and I'm ...
A. 31 March 2010: Pick up what is left and build yourself a new life. Don't cry over spilt milk.
If he wants you back , he will come for you . All you can do now is to wait for him to heal , to forgive and to take you back.
Nothing you say or do now will move... (read in full...)
I want to wait, but his sex drive is becomming a problem
Q. Okay so I have a really weird situation. My boyfriend and I have been going together for about a month and I am head over heels for him. It was basically love at first sight (and I didn't believe in that until him). However, I am still a virgin ...
A. 6 March 2010: He could always seek self release and making you feel guilty is wrong. He should not pressure you into sex.
You should not venture there as you cannot predict what will happen and he may one day lose control and force it upon you.Do not tempt hi... (read in full...)
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