My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 31 March 2010: When you have been brought down to your knees and when nothing seems right for you ,call upon God or Jesus(Yeshua) and ask Him for help.
He is knocking on your door. Please let Him in to help you . What is impossible for man , is possible for God.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!
Q. I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...
A. 23 March 2010: Lenal, you are welcome. I hope you will find your happiness and peace in your life soon.... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could be pregnant even if he pulled out before he ejaculated?
Q. Hello my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex but he pulled out a minute before he ejaculated.. i'm concerned now because i'm also ovulating.. i have been for a couple of days.... is there a great enough chance i could be pregnant even if he pulled ...
A. 23 March 2010: Everything is O.K Now. Nothing will happen to you .... (read in full...)
Should I try to get my ex-boyfriend back?
Q. I was dating a guy two years ago. We were together for one year. One day unexpectedly I received a job offer to work abroad for one year. The opportunity was so good that I took it. My boyfriend wanted me to stay, but did not tell me. He said before ...
A. 22 March 2010: He should give you his private line . It is unfair on your side. It means that he has downgraded your status to an ordinary man in the street.
In which case, you can only wait for his call. Calling him would lower your dignity and self worth.... (read in full...)
How can I get over my cheating ex? Please help!
Q. I cant get my ex boyfriend out of my mind. He cheated with me and in front of me he dated another girl. I cant face that girl coz when ever i see her i feel she's better then me thats why my boyfriend left me for her. Im always stressed due to this ...
A. 22 March 2010: You need to keep yourself busy all the time , so that you will not be free to think about your ex.
Go out with your friends and enjoy with them .In time , you won't feel the pain anymore.
There is really no permanent remedy for open pores. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had an affair and now he has a child with her, I want us to work but I am just so hurt!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and have 2 children together. Last year he was having an affair and the other woman now has his baby. He loves his child and wants to be a part of his life. My problem is I know he and this woman have ...
A. 22 March 2010: Some women would choose to leave ,while some will choose to stay and fight.
To stay or to leave ?
No one can decide for you and you must weight the pro's and the con's.
Your b/f has committed a faux pas.
There are three options.
1... (read in full...)
My wife embarrasses me, and treats my daughter badly.
Q. I have been in a married to the same woman for a few years now. Before I met my wife I had about thirty girl friends. Even though I had so many girl friends I only had sex with two of them. I was looking for a relationship and not a booty ...
A. 22 March 2010: You need to communicate to her that even if she does not like your daughter, she should at least be civil enough to her and not treat her in a contempt way.
If she does not heed your advice, there is only one way to deal with it, that is to leave... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend wants only sex, and wont do anything for me. Help!
Q. My boyfriend and I only have sex! He won't do anything for me, he won't finger me, or go down on me, when we have sex we keep the top half of our clothes on, and when we're done, he rolls over...every time. What should I do? I want to stay with him, ...
A. 22 March 2010: Your b/f must think that sex is dirty . He is only doing it out of duty and not love. I wonder if he comes from the dinosaurs era.
You have to brainwash him or you need to look for a new partner.... (read in full...)
I love him, but his past is hurting me emotionally. Any advice?
Q. Hi, I'm hoping someone can give me some advice! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and am sure that I love him. He has told me that he loves me and we are very happy together. It is definitely the healthiest relationship I've ever been in ...
A. 22 March 2010: You cannot change the past. The past belongs to him. If you like him , the past should not matter to you .
We should not judge a person by his past. People make mistakes and do things without hindsight .
Just ignore those talks and live i... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant if I haven't gotten my period this month?
Q. So i still haven't gotten my period for this month (march) i have sex last month we used condom but he take it out during the time so is it mean im pregnant ? cuz i still haven't gotten my period but i dont feel any symptoms . PLEASE help me thanks ...
A. 22 March 2010: You cannot be sure that you are pregnant until you take the pregnancy test.
Take it if you are 3 days late and every 3days until the 2nd week or until the period comes.... (read in full...)
Can you meet a potential partner over the internet if he lives in another country?
Q. I know this sounds far-fetched, but what are the chances of meeting a possible boyfriend over the internet, if he lives in another country? I would like to have a boyfriend, but the guys in my area don't interest me. I just got back from Spain ...
A. 22 March 2010: Yes! It is possible and there have been cases where people found love in the internet and across the continents.
You will need to be wary and check him out before you commit. There have been cases where the girls were tricked and forced into pro... (read in full...)
He said he will wait for me but I'm not sure if I like the fact that he smokes and drinks now, what should I do?
Q. Me and Jack, we dated for a year in elementry and I have to move and so I have talked to him in 2 years and today we finally talked. He's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th he told me he had started smoking and drinking. But we both like each other a whole ...
A. 22 March 2010: Nothing is cast in stones. You should do what you want to do and let nature takes it's course.
Whatever happens will happen. Enjoy life and be happy always.... (read in full...)
He's talking about a relationship and the future but I am not wanting to read too much into this! Help!
Q. Ok well i have been by myself for seven years.i meet someone about 3 mouths ago.we didn't start talking only two mgs till now as i was meant to email him but i didn't but some how we started talking on messenger... and then we have also been ...
A. 22 March 2010: I think he is getting overheated and you need to pour some buckets of cold water over him.
Maybe , he is just sharing his visions of his future. ... (read in full...)
How can I ever trust someone ever again after what she did to me?
Q. i was dating this girl for a while, but she hooked up with somone else, got pregnant,and basically started pretending i didnt exist. she ignored all my textes,and didnt answer her phone when i called. we were extremely close and my question is, feel...
A. 22 March 2010: You learn from your own mistakes and hopefully you wont commit the same mistakes twice.
One bad apple does not make the whole barrel bad. Not everyone is like her and to lump everyone together like her is a mistake.
... (read in full...)
Do I give him the space he needs hoping he's going to come back to me when he has sorted his head out?
Q. im so confused right now, i started seeing a guy a few months a go and everything was going great, then he went to see his son (obviously his ex was there) and since he got back hes been different with me, not contacting me as much or when he does ...
A. 22 March 2010: He is walking in a fog and does not know which direction to head. His emotions are not stabilized and it will take some time before the fog in his brain will clear up.
If you are looking for a relationship , he is not the right material .You can... (read in full...)
How can I turn my 80% good man into a 100% perfect man?
Q. My boyfriend is a good man" but there's one problem he dosen't clean" he has time and energy for sex but not for cleaning how can I turn my 80% good man into a full 100? please help!...
A. 22 March 2010: Some men don't realize it and they need to be told. You dolled up for him and he does not care at all about his appearances.
Maybe, you need to take the bath together and you can scrubbed him all over...LOL!... (read in full...)
He doesn't call me from work anymore. Why?
Q. so my live in boyfriend and i have been together for a year we have been goin through some problems certain things he has done to me, it really hurt me! the thing is when he leaves for work around 2 i do not hear from him until he gets home around 1 ...
A. 22 March 2010: I think he felt unfair that he was the one that was always calling you . Though he is a man, he too needs love and validation of your love and concern for him.
He could not verbalize to you his wants and frustrations. Hence , he decided not to c... (read in full...)
The guy I hate has a crush on me, and now I am starting to like him too! What should I do?
Q. I have told myself I hated this guy scene last year, i told people how much i hated mim when they brought him up in conversation. So recently one of my friends told me someone had a crush on me, I got so exited because from whan I know that has ...
A. 22 March 2010: When you see him or accidentally meet him , smile and say 'Hi!'to him. It will break the ice, provided if he is looking at you and not pretending to look else where.
If he is trying to avoid looking in your directions, you will ignore him.... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could be pregnant even if he pulled out before he ejaculated?
Q. Hello my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex but he pulled out a minute before he ejaculated.. i'm concerned now because i'm also ovulating.. i have been for a couple of days.... is there a great enough chance i could be pregnant even if he pulled ...
A. 22 March 2010: There is no safe method of contraception's. Even the pill is not 100%.
The pull out method is unsafe because some sperms could have been ejaculated . You run the risk of getting pregnant if you have unprotected sex.... (read in full...)
Should I try to get my ex-boyfriend back?
Q. I was dating a guy two years ago. We were together for one year. One day unexpectedly I received a job offer to work abroad for one year. The opportunity was so good that I took it. My boyfriend wanted me to stay, but did not tell me. He said before ...
A. 22 March 2010: You would need to find out where he stands by asking him for a date. You can then find out if he is still interested in you or not.
Give him another chance.
... (read in full...)
The man I love is gay.
Q. i recently told my best friend that im in love with him. he confessed to me that hes gay about 2 months before i told him. i dont have any problem with gay people but it frustrates me when he tells me stories about his experiences. i feel like hes ...
A. 22 March 2010: You need to tell him that and not hint to him. He can't read your mind or he is not the romantic type.
Some men have difficulties expressing their emotions and feelings.... (read in full...)
I know it is probably stupid, but I am really hurt coz the guy I like smokes!
Q. This guy I like A LOT drinks and smokes. Well..when I found out he drinks, it didn't bother me at all. When I found out he smokes I felt horrible. I was happy, but then I went completely sad. Ever since I found out about it, I've been sad. I can ...
A. 22 March 2010: There are things you can change and things that can never change.
You need to know which are the things which you can change and which cannot change.
This guy you like have got a bad habit but you cannot control him and asked him to stop smok... (read in full...)
Help! This guy makes me have verbal diarreah!
Q. *OP's own title* I met this guy, with whom I share a lot of interests with. It is fresh and new. Super new actually. We've been on one date but have shared many hours talking on the phone and in person. I get so excited to talk to him I end up blab...
A. 22 March 2010: You need to practice good listening habits. Listen to everything he has to say first before you want to open your mouth.
You need to stop ,think and think before you speak..LOL!... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over my wife leaving me?
Q. So I'm nearing my divorce. It's been almost 2 yares since I woke up one morning and my wife told me it was over. She was seeing some one else at the time . She has dated a few guys since then.Me no one. Why can't I ever get her off my mind.When will ...
A. 22 March 2010: She is apart of your past life and you cannot simply forget her. You cannot expunge her from your life or record.
Accept the reality and move on.... (read in full...)
I want to break up with my GF, I'm so unhappy and I don't trust her, but I keep failing
Q. *OP's own title* I'm in a 2 years relationship. basically, i do not trust my GF. i'm sooo unhappy, i have been trying to break up with her for the past three months. all attempts failed. in fact, sometimes i end up having sex with her when im...
A. 22 March 2010: If you cannot stand breaking her heart, you should give your relationship another chance.
Wipe your slate clean and start all over again . She has changed for you and regarding the trust issues, you should forgive her and slowly learn to trust he... (read in full...)
Could I still be pregnant even tho the test came up negative?
Q. Hi I was just womdering if there is still a chance I could be pregnant and if this has happened to anyone. My period was due on tuesday and never arrived I am a very regular person for my period and normally comes on the day or the day before. ...
A. 22 March 2010: Pregnancy test from the 3rd day after your supposed period day till the 14th day . You should know if you are pregnant or not. If you can't wait till the 14th, then test every 3 days.
Those test before your supposed period days are unreliab... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me on sexual identity?
Q. Ok so I'm a 15 year old guy soon to be 16. And my whole life I've always felt weird and different. I've spent my entire life either hiding it, pretending i wasn't, trying to force myself not to be, or just denying it from myself and others. But I ...
A. 22 March 2010: It does not matter if you are gay , bi or heterosexual. Your sexual orientation is yours to decide alone and it is none of others business.
From time to time , you may gravitate your sexual preferences from one to another and there is no hard and... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm gay...but I've had sexual intercourse with other men
Q. Ok, to go right into this. I consider myself a straight male, heterosexual and love woman; however, there comes a time where I find myself fantasizing about have sexual intercourse with men. I have participated in gay sex and i was in the receiving ...
A. 22 March 2010: Do not worry about how those bigoted people will judge you. As long as you are happy and your conscience is clear, there is nothing wrong with you.
You have a different sexual orientations. There is no right or wrong unless you think so.... (read in full...)
I am in love with my girlfriend but have a crush on her sister. What should I do?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 years old and have fallen in love with my girlfriend of a year, we've had a fantastic first 6 months but the last 6 we have seemingly ran out of steam and every part of our relationship is falling apart. We rarely have sex, and get in ...
A. 22 March 2010: You should focus on your g/f and try to work out those 'kinks' in your relationship.
Relationship is not a bed of roses. You need to give and take and try to avoid those contentious issues. Try to find more common grounds which will bring you toge... (read in full...)
Am I stupid, naive and frigid.. or is he manipulating me?
Q. I'm 14 and I have my first proper boyfriend (who is also 14), we were bestfriends beore going out what made everything abit easier, after a while of going out we started touching eachother through our clothes, I soon told him that's As far I'd like ...
A. 22 March 2010: He could be manipulating or stupid or both. He made a mistake and it is up to you to decide if it was a genuine mistake and let it go. ... (read in full...)
My husband says he is not in to me, yet does not want a divorce or to work on it either.
Q. I have been married 24 years. About 12 years ago we started to grow apart. Intimacy became less and less. My husband's attitude towards me was that of disdain. There were in-law problems (they don't like me, I wasn't their choice). This became ...
A. 22 March 2010: If your marriage cannot be salvage, there is no more reason to stay in it.
You should set him free and both of you will find your own happiness.
There are pro's and con's in telling him of your affairs.
He could realize that he is losin... (read in full...)
Sex has changed what do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i dont have sex like we use to and he swears he not cheating, what do I do?...
A. 22 March 2010: Go back to the basics and fall in love again . See him again from another woman's perspective and go back to those places which can remind you of those romantic days.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend does not seem interested in my sexy texts. Why?
Q. I am trying new sexual things w/my boyfriend because he brought it to my attention. But when I try to send him a sexy text message he just goes to bed or seems uninterested. why???...
A. 22 March 2010: Maybe , he is in a dilemma ..LOL! It's a minefield to him and he does not know how to handle it.
He could be wondering what was your motive and how will he reply you ? He needs more time to think of an answer or whether he should reply you or n... (read in full...)
Problems in bed are making me feel insecure. Should I say something?
Q. Hi I am 35 and dating a guy who is 46. He is very handosome and fit. We have been dating for 3 months and he refers me as his GF. We spend weekends together at my place and his place. We travel together and he invites me to all parties, dinners...
A. 22 March 2010: A man is very sensitive when it comes to his tool , his performance and his earning capacity. Their ego's are very fragile like glass.
You should handle it with utmost care and sensitivity.It could be worries and stress about performance or too m... (read in full...)
I am considering divorce because of my husband losing his erection during sex. What could be causing this?
Q. I really need to know,if anybody else has the same problem,than me.. I'm just about to make the biggest decision of my life. Here is my story.. 24year long marriage,always good sex. Than suddenly my husband losing his erection ,middle sex, totally ...
A. 22 March 2010: There are only four causes for ED
Extended improper nutrition (malnutrition), impaired circulation, emotional stress, and prescription drugs. That's it! They are the cause of erectile dysfunction.
Even 98% of the diseases that are blamed as th... (read in full...)
My husband has colon cancer... need prayer and information.
Q. Hi. I have been married for over a year and a half now. July 16th will be our two-year anniversary. My husband has stomach and colon cancer. His hair is starting to fall out. He recently lost his job, and will be trying to look for another one so t...
A. 22 March 2010: My empathy to you for what you are going through.
May God gives you the strength and the grace to bear with this heavy burden and may God's healing powers be upon James.
He is in our thoughts and prayers .
I pray and hope James will get ... (read in full...)
Parents want to get divorced. Should we talk to them or let them figure it out?
Q. This question isn't about my relationships but my parents and whether or not I should get involved. Long story short, my parents have been married for 35 years. I don't think they've ever gone 2 months without arguing about something and su...
A. 22 March 2010: There is nothing you can do if they want to get a divorce. You should let them settle themselves and not take sides .
You could suggest to them to go for counselling and hope for the best.
Whatever the outcome , you will have to accept it ... (read in full...)
Child abuse... help!
Q. When I was 12 1/2 , I lived with my dad. when my step- mom wasn't home he would take showers with me and make me touch his dick, and balls. and he drove semis, and I would go with him, and he started to make me sleep with him and he would touch me ...
A. 22 March 2010: Tell her like what you are telling us. Your mom has to know in order to prevent any future abuse.
What your dad did was inappropriate and wrong. Your mom will know how to deal with the situation.... (read in full...)
I washed my hands but could I still be pregnant?
Q. Today I gave my boy friend a hand job.. after about 10-15 mins i dipped my hands in hot water (not extremely hot but mild water) and absently washed my vagina with the same hand dipping in the same water basin as earlier. My boy friend didn't cum ...
A. 22 March 2010: Those pesky sperms are so minuscule that we cant see with our naked eyes. Whether they are there or not , we cannot be sure.
Some of them may survive those lukewarm water and being transferred to your vagina by hand.
There is a remotest chanc... (read in full...)
How do I protect my brother an from internet stalker?
Q. My brother has a girl on his facebook page that he's never met but she writes on his wall nearly everyday. She calls him babe and hun and seems quite obsessed with him. I'm worried that she is not who she says she is. I've told my parents but they ...
A. 22 March 2010: He can block that girl from his FB a/c if he wants.He has to learn how to deal with such unwanted attentions with your help.
Maybe, he is enjoying those attentions from that girl.
It is difficult to say who is actually that girl . It could ... (read in full...)
My husband and I don't have anything in common. How do I cope with this?
Q. How to cope with my husband we do not have any thing in common for the last 2 years....
A. 22 March 2010: You could fall in love with him again or you could leave and find your own happiness.
The first option seems harder as it is difficult to start all over again.... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!
Q. I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...
A. 22 March 2010: Lenal, do not worry about what he said. Some men will say one thing and do another .They are just obstinate and want to win the argument They want to be in control.
Leave and you will see the results that words are only words.You don't deserve ... (read in full...)
What goes through someones mind after a breakup?
Q. Hey everyone, my girlfriend broke up with me a little over two months ago. Im a lot better than what I was after it happened. She wont talk to me now for some reason. I would just like to get a better idea what goes through a girls mind after they ...
A. 22 March 2010: I am sorry for what you are going through now. My sympathies to you .
Life is not always rosy and there are up's and down's .This door may have closed on you but another door will open soon.
You have to accept reality and move on.... (read in full...)
If the messages in the Bible can only be revealed to the reader by the Holy Spirit residing in you, then why are there so many denominations?
Q. I know this isn't a relationship question... well not a romantic relationship question. But this has been bugging and confusing me for a long time. I don't really have anyone I can talk to about this. I thought of myself as a Christian but I d...
A. 21 March 2010: Not all Christians will enter Heaven. Only those whose name is in the 'Book of Life' can enter Heaven.
Do you know if your name is in that 'Book of Life?' I don't know. You will be judged in the final judgment.
There are many Christian denomi... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!
Q. I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...
A. 21 March 2010: He needs to see the situation has changed and his mother cannot be allowed to live in this way.
If you do not threatened to move out, he will be very obstinate and stuck to his guns.
If you leave, then he will see the hopelessness of ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!
Q. I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...
A. 20 March 2010: You are welcome! Do not feel guilty or be responsible for what happens to his mother. You did your best under those conditions and you need help.His mother is his responsibility.
Who is responsible for you if you go mad and end up at those fu... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!
Q. I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...
A. 19 March 2010: You were first given that option to live alone without her but you rejected it. It is hard to blame you for wanting out now.You did not know the real conditions when you agreed with your husband.
After you have given your best, and you found ou... (read in full...)
What should I do about my mother in-law? I cant keep living like this!
Q. I don't know from where I start ,I am tired of the situation I am living in.and I do not know what I should do ,I need help,I want to make a mature and a right decision. Before I get married,I was in different country ,and my husband was living w...
A. 18 March 2010: It is not easy living with your MIL who has such a temperament.
For your own peace and sanity , you should moved out and have your own place where you can have a retreat and be the Queen in your own house.
It is either this way or your husb... (read in full...)
What goes through someones mind after a breakup?
Q. Hey everyone, my girlfriend broke up with me a little over two months ago. Im a lot better than what I was after it happened. She wont talk to me now for some reason. I would just like to get a better idea what goes through a girls mind after they ...
A. 16 March 2010: Here is a good article about what happens when a couple breaks up.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Relationship_breakup
Just give her some time and space . If you are meant to be together, you will come back again . If not , you will have to be ... (read in full...)
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