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... Send *anniepeg a private message | | | *anniepeg's profile:I am 34, married a second time. My son is 9 years old and 2 cats. He keeps me busy. My hobbies are movies, recreational games like xbox games, darts, badminton and dear cupid of course. I used to play the piano but stopped. I have been here for 6 years. Every year I see myself change. Every day is a surprise, an opportunity for growth while some days are just coasting along wondering what the point is. My relationship views are a mix of traditional values and modern, open minded ones. I still believe in long term monogamy as it feels right to me. Other than that I feel there are too many rules in a relationship that I would like to get rid of. Dearcupid is a source of my learning about relationships. I am too young to form a conclusion of what love is. I guess I will grow old with this site.
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How do I discuss with my daughter any future contact she has with him if it is the case that he really is mentally ill? And how can I get a healthy and less victim-like view on how he has treated me?
Q. I got married when I was very young and the marriage lasted around four years. My home life prior to that had been extremely chaotic with a severely schizophrenic/violent elder sister and an abusive mother. In contrast my husband seemed calm, but I ...
A. 19 September 2011: There is really no strict criterion of what it means to be mentally ill. A narcissistic person can be of sound mind. A bi polar person can also be of sound mind. What I know is that it's not uncommon for a "problematic" father to start calling his ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever had any success in online dating?
Q. Has anyone ever had any success in online dating? I would like to know your story. I recently decided that I should give online dating a chance but honestly all I've seen so far are guys trying to get into any girl's panties and that is turning me ...
A. 19 September 2011: I met my boyfriend online. We were looking for sex. Now we are together for 3 years and more. He is willing to take care of my son (not his) while I go home for 2 weeks.
There are men who want purely sex and there are men who wants to see how it g... (read in full...)
I am a flirt who loves to just want sex!
Q. Everytime I like a guy and I know he doesnt like me back I seem to use sex as a way to defend myself, i seduce him, get what i want and then get over him quick. The sex isnt that good, it gets the job done it feels good, but it doesnt please my ...
A. 19 September 2011: Hi, I can relate to you.
Your need for control is based on how little control you feel over the dating game. The possibility of a heartbreak, a let down, a rejection.
If you do not accept that disappointment is a part of life and a smooth p... (read in full...)
How do you chose between love and youthfulness???
Q. Hi guys, I have been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half and I love him greatly, he treats me great and will do anything for me. The problem is, recently we have been going through are up’s and down’s. The thing is he is 10 years older than ...
A. 19 September 2011: You are living together but yet you are in bed alone? You sleep in different rooms? No couples has to sleep exactly at the same time. If he insists then you should not agree with his version of love. My boyfriend likes to watch TV before he goes to ... (read in full...)
How can my boyfriend have major mood swings and not realize it?
Q. Please can anyone help me. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, and living together for just over 1 year. We have always been so very happy and made lots of plans for our life together. The last 3 weeks he has been really down one ...
A. 18 September 2011: Mood swings are normal. Men are not immune to it. When you say mood swings are really bad, do you mean he lashes out verbally and drinks to numb himself? Maybe he feels comfortable exposing this side of himself because he knows that you would accept ... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship with my ex GF's cousin, just to take revenge from my ex for dumping me!
Q. Dear Cupid, Over the last six months, guys I have been in a relationship with my ex-girlfriend’s first cousin and pretending to love her but actually I am using her to settle score with my Ex who dumped for no reason almost one year ago afte...
A. 18 September 2011: Woa. There is no hurry to marry. A marriage is not going to ease your guilt. How close are the cousins? Do they have to hang out every week even when you are married? Your revenge had been achieved. What more do you need? Do you need to hang on to ... (read in full...)
BF wants us to watch porn together but I'm worried that witnessing my partner getting turned on by someone much better looking than myself will damage my self esteem
Q. Yesterday, my boyfriend of 2 and a half years brought up the subject of watching porn together and said it was something he would like to try. Personally, I have never watched porn before as I have always thought of it as being degrading. I have no ...
A. 18 September 2011: The point of watching porn is to get turned on visually, not necessarily by a good looking person, but the whole action, the idea of sex. If you find that you are not turned on by it, or by an actor and/or actress, then you don't need to watch it at ... (read in full...)
I want to make my boyfriend say "Wow" after sex!
Q. im 19 and my boyfriend is 20. i've been dating the most amazing person for the last 4 months, even though it seems like much much longer to us. I lost my virginity to him, he has had a few sexual partners before myself however. The thing is, i ...
A. 17 September 2011: First of all I would say a man concerns more that his woman is happy in bed. All that fantasy moves is just a bonus. A woman who is perfect in any aspect would make a man feel insecure, sometimes inadequate. Also, a man is not as vocal in bed. He ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 17 September 2011: I read something on the newspaper. It is not quite prostitution. It says that in Toronto, 50% of the exotic dancers are students. They are not necessarily selling sex, they are selling sexuality. Some are on the way to become doctors and lawyers. So ... (read in full...)
How do I encourage my boyfriend to call and text me more often?
Q. It seems I'm always the one to call and text first. I've spoken to him about calling me, but nothing has happened and I don't want to keep nagging him about the same thing. He usually picks up my calls and responds to my messages, and never says no ...
A. 13 September 2011: "It would make me feel great if he was to check me up and ask how I was."
That's all you have to tell him. When you say he is the most wonderful man, immediately I am thinking he's just passive and clueless, and not withdrawn and disinterested. If y... (read in full...)
Ex just moved near me, now I'm having trouble being with current girlfriend.
Q. My ex girlfriend recently moved a couple of blocks down from me , she dumped twice over the last 3 years to go back to her ex,the last time was 2 years ago. She had been seeing him while she was still with me. All the time we were together...
A. 11 September 2011: Neither of them is right for you. If I were you I would end things, not because of your ex's interference, but because you need time to truly get over her, alone. It is not fair for your current girlfriend to get in the middle of this. One good ... (read in full...)
Why bother staying with someone when you have retrograde jealousy?
Q. why do people date guys/girls with a past that they dont like. I hear all this stuff about RJ and all the issues it causes and yet people still stay with their partner. Why? I too suffered from RJ, but only for a few weeks because I made the decis...
A. 11 September 2011: You only find out and can confirm you have retrograde jealousy after the relationship ended. So now that you prefer someone with no baggage, move on and stop looking into the past. This is your preference, accept it, no need to make it a bigger ... (read in full...)
Relationship dynamics: supportive vs. non supportive spouse/partner
Q. I have observed many couples in my life and I am noticing more and more as I get older that in many relationships, there is an imbalance of how one person treats the other which causes tension, resentment, irritation, and disatisfaction. I'm also ...
A. 11 September 2011: Ideally when people get married they have their careers all figured out, and everything goes smoothly. I see more and more people marry young, have kids, then decide what they want to study in college. A marriage does not guarantee a supporting ... (read in full...)
I worry the age difference might be too much.
Q. So a couple months ago I met this guy at the gym and we see eachother there a lot and just say hi and eventually he added me on facebook. About 3 weeks ago, we had a conversation and exchanged numbers. Since then we've talked almost everynight on ...
A. 11 September 2011: Having common ground is more important. You have to have things you enjoy doing together that make you happy. Personally I don't think it's a big issue. Even the most diverse couples find fun watching movies, going out for a walk, or eating good ... (read in full...)
I don't know if its shyness or if she's lost interest in me
Q. I recently met a girl through one of my friends. It was kind of awkward because he forced me to go up and talk to her which I did. She seem like a very quiet type of girl and she didn't say much. She sort of gave me this little giggle because I was ...
A. 11 September 2011: I meant you can't initiate conversations.... (read in full...)
My husband is hiding packages from his ex and other women's phone numbers....is it just me?
Q. My husbands high school ex girlfriend, that he reconnected with through facebook, sent him a package in the mail with old love letters and old pictures. He did tell me that she was gonna send them but he had to because ive got the only mail key to ...
A. 11 September 2011: Yes he had an affair and your marriage is in trouble.
You have what I call a parallel marriage. You do your own thing and he does his because you don't really do things together. I mean, why can't he be in your birthday party? Why are you stil... (read in full...)
I don't know if its shyness or if she's lost interest in me
Q. I recently met a girl through one of my friends. It was kind of awkward because he forced me to go up and talk to her which I did. She seem like a very quiet type of girl and she didn't say much. She sort of gave me this little giggle because I was ...
A. 11 September 2011: Awkward hook ups are suspicious. I don't trust your friends' intentions here. You can initiate conversations if you don't know what the point is, what you like about her. It's all too random.... (read in full...)
Can I hope for a relationship with him? He asked me what I thought about him getting back together with his ex!
Q. I am 33 years old and have been spending time with a gentleman around my same age. A mutual friend introduced us to each other and he indicated to her that he was interested in me...but he was going to take it slow. It's been 4 months since we have...
A. 11 September 2011: The last thing I want you to feel is that it's all your fault that it couldn't happen. However at the same time you should never take a man's word for granted. He needs to miss you, know that you have other options, maybe he had considered you but ... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed about her and controlling?
Q. Hello DearCupid members, Some things to know: * I am a 16 year old male that is madly in love with this really beautiful (well, I think so anyway) woman who is the same age as me. * We have known each other for three years. And I have l...
A. 11 September 2011: Most contact is through online. You can only control her so much. She can basically say to you, "good night honey." and then go party with her friends. So to me that doesn't count as bf/gf.
Also, she hates her ex, but she still talks to him. She ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex and know we will not re-unite as a couple. So how do I move on from still having feelings for him?
Q. I wanted to ask if it is normal to still be in love with your ex after being broken up 4 and a half years. I have tried to move on, but I feel like my ex was the love of my life and I can't bring myself to date anyone else, even though I know I ...
A. 11 September 2011: Stop answering his phone calls and do something you enjoy doing. First you have to love your life even without the thought of a man. Try to do something not for the sake of moving on, but just enjoy each moment, the beauty of life itself, if you can ... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed about her and controlling?
Q. Hello DearCupid members, Some things to know: * I am a 16 year old male that is madly in love with this really beautiful (well, I think so anyway) woman who is the same age as me. * We have known each other for three years. And I have l...
A. 11 September 2011: A definition of a bf/gf is where one confides in the other about everything, at the same time sharing intimacy. Right here I see that she has you who will be there all the time, while her ex fulfills something such as excitement and attention. If ... (read in full...)
She's less enthusiastic in bed now. Is My Girlfriend Being Selfish In Bed
Q. I'm new to this but it has gotten to the point where I need somebody's opinion. I've been dating my girlfriend for close to 3 and half years and I'm very much in love with her. Like most relationships, it was pretty "active" in the beginning and ...
A. 11 September 2011: Don't like giving blow jobs I try to understand. But no sex at all? Ask her why, what her resistance is about and what can lessen that resistance. Being tired is not an excuse. You really have to have an in-your-face talk (at the same time sensitive ... (read in full...)
What Women Want Most From A Guy
Q. In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
A. 10 September 2011: I believe this article is for people who had passed the attraction test and are ready for the next level.
I don't bitch about life. However I can't be happy all the time in a relationship. That's not possible. As a woman I don't talk straight to t... (read in full...)
Help!!! What are the pros and cons of having anal sex???
Q. My boyfriend wants me to try anal sex. I am very open to something like this. However I want to know the pros and cons of anal sex? It's a simple and short question, and help would be much appreciated....
A. 10 September 2011: Pro: You won't get pregnant.
Pro: You overcome this fear and you see it not big of a deal. He will stop bugging you for it so much.
Pro: Both of you may feel pleasure. It could bring newer levels of intimacy.
Con: It's painful at first.
Con:... (read in full...)
Can I hope for a relationship with him? He asked me what I thought about him getting back together with his ex!
Q. I am 33 years old and have been spending time with a gentleman around my same age. A mutual friend introduced us to each other and he indicated to her that he was interested in me...but he was going to take it slow. It's been 4 months since we have...
A. 10 September 2011: You should hope for the best for you, and that person doesn't have to be him. You are hurt because you invested so much and got little back. He doesn't know you want a relationship with him right now, he doesn't know you want sex right now, he ... (read in full...)
She's less enthusiastic in bed now. Is My Girlfriend Being Selfish In Bed
Q. I'm new to this but it has gotten to the point where I need somebody's opinion. I've been dating my girlfriend for close to 3 and half years and I'm very much in love with her. Like most relationships, it was pretty "active" in the beginning and ...
A. 10 September 2011: In my experience, where one constantly initiates sex, I lose interest quicker. When one has a relaxed attitude towards it, I seem to want more. Your special condition makes you the pursuer, and it's easy to make the other one feel like sex is a ... (read in full...)
My family first or him? My family criticize him. So I need to break up but think he'll take it badly
Q. Hi, I can honestly say that I love my boyfriend. I can honestly admit that I have never feel so much loved before him. However, I am not happy because my family been criticising him in the past few months. His business went down pretty bad. M...
A. 10 September 2011: Your family wants the best for you. They want you to have a man who provides without problems. They want you to be able to start a family before it's too late. However love is stronger than life struggles. Tell your family that you are aware that ... (read in full...)
Am I obsessed about her and controlling?
Q. Hello DearCupid members, Some things to know: * I am a 16 year old male that is madly in love with this really beautiful (well, I think so anyway) woman who is the same age as me. * We have known each other for three years. And I have l...
A. 10 September 2011: You are somewhat obsessed but the main problem is not you because you have your reasons. She is not your girlfriend yet and she has not gotten over her ex yet. My advice is to back off and give her the message that until she knows what she wants she ... (read in full...)
Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?
Q. I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my ...
A. 9 September 2011: I am confused about what the real issue is. I think God put you two together to work on self esteem issues. She is a challenge for you to stand up to your real self. Ask her what she likes about you because if she is still with you obviously you ... (read in full...)
Wife says the root of our arguing is that she does not trust me--even tho I have never lied or cheated!!
Q. Hello all. I recently asked for advice about how to renew the spark in a very argumentative marriage. I recently found out some news that explains a lot about the arguing. My wife told me last night that she doesn't trust me. She said she jus...
A. 25 August 2011: At first thought the men broke it off with her. It's her that had commitment issues. So it could be guilt and the fear of punishment of what she did. Anyways I am not sure what she is expressing here. Let the therapist clarify things.... (read in full...)
My wife has no sex drive and this is ruining things!
Q. My wife has no sex drive. This is ruining everything. We have been together for 12 years and we have 3 children, separation is NO option. I have searched not only this website but the entire net high and low and have found nothing, no real a...
A. 25 August 2011: There is an article here by Kyle and he talks about what herbs you can take to reduce sex drive. Your wife can also take something aphrodisiac.
Is there underlying issues, resentment in the relationship?
Does she think you desire her physical... (read in full...)
Wife says the root of our arguing is that she does not trust me--even tho I have never lied or cheated!!
Q. Hello all. I recently asked for advice about how to renew the spark in a very argumentative marriage. I recently found out some news that explains a lot about the arguing. My wife told me last night that she doesn't trust me. She said she jus...
A. 25 August 2011: She needs to tell the therapist the reason why she has trust issues is because two of her engagements were broken off and that crushed her self esteem. The hurtful feelings were never processed and dealt with. The therapist would tell her how to ... (read in full...)
Why can't he stop seeing this woman? He still lives with me
Q. my husband told me he is having an affair and that he had to tell me. we are still living in the same house we are still making love from time to he says he dont want to have to choose he tell me thing that hurt me so much he say i can stay here...
A. 24 August 2011: You are still living together? Does that mean this affair happens day time in his office? He is seeing this woman because in his perception, he is missing something in his marriage and he is desperately getting this supply from an outside source. ... (read in full...)
I feel trapped. What should I do? I've had a threesome and my husband does not know.
Q. Hi i'm 32 year old wife and a mom with a kid of 3 years old . I'm feeling confused and trapped with a dilemma all because of my mistakes. Almost 3 months before I met a nice and good looking girls who's 23 years at the gym. We had the same gym ins...
A. 24 August 2011: I am sure sex with others would feel nice too but I know it won't end well with my boyfriend. The initial excitement is not worth breaking your husband's heart, it's not worth tearing your family apart. It's a different story if your husband is the ... (read in full...)
Her parents are making us break up because they don't trust me
Q. Hello, I am really struggling with this girl I have been with for almost a year... She is so beautiful, and so amazing. That I think she desserves better then me... I am 16, and she is just a year younger then me. Her parent's is starting to believe ...
A. 23 August 2011: No it's actually not long enough, it's not clear enough. Your post sounded like a prose, a diary. Yes, this is what you are feeling and expressing. You have to calm down and rewrite it so that it makes sense to us. What happened? Was there a fight? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend teases me about having sex but then doesn't follow through
Q. I am a 19 year old virgin guy and I have a great girlfriend though she isn't a virgin oh well. One thing i am haveing a problem with is that she teases me and then when we are about to have sex we stop and she says sorry to me. We were about to have ...
A. 19 August 2011: Maybe she doesn't know what it is doing to you. She enjoys the physical aspects of foreplay but foreplay for her doesn't always lead to sex. She has only done this to you twice, right? Before you get close to her ask her what she wants to do. Be ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 19 August 2011: Sorry for feeling emotional. I wish I could understand asexual frigid people, men with ED, etc. Did religion screw them up? Do they think being a family mom mean they can't enjoy sex too? Do they marry just for comfort? Is sexual pleasure too much ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 19 August 2011: Happy place, can't you see that the OP is desiring her, already doing his best but nothing comes out of it. Some how menopause is the cause of a frustrating sex life for a married couple, and also kids and privacy equally became the scapegoat, ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 19 August 2011: In your article you made it that marriage, routine, and kids did this to you. Now we find out that it's your wife who only enjoyed sex at the beginning if at all. I could be depressed, crying, sick, and I could still get wet and enjoy sex, ... (read in full...)
We got together AFTER their marriage ended up but her ex tells their kids that I broke them up
Q. I have been in a relationship with a friends ex wife for 5 years. I did not pursue her but things just happened and we fell in love and truly felt this was the one,I never broke up the marriage at all. we now live together for the past 2.5 years the ...
A. 18 August 2011: The dad didn't want the kids to think he failed the family. He also want the kids to hate you. Your girlfriend needs to explain to them why the divorce took place and that this is their choice and dad was just making things up because he's sour ... (read in full...)
I've just caught my boyfriend using cybersex chat rooms
Q. Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, the relationship has never lacked anything. We love each other, we don't fight, and we have fun together where ever we are. Here's the problem, during the first year i caught him for ...
A. 18 August 2011: By saying addiction he may want to sound more innocent than he is. Like the internet is doing it to him, he's victimized and had no choice but to look.
If you want to talk to him about it simply express how that makes you feel. Tell him he has the ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 18 August 2011: Just to check.
Perhaps she's one who says if she has no sex for the rest of her life she couldn't care less?
Perhaps your wife never had a G spot orgasm?
Perhaps she has body image issues?
Does she fake orgasms?
If she never enjoyed sex how can ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 18 August 2011: It's hard to fantasize with someone who doesn't want sex with you, someone who could never find time in real life. The answer is not porn though. It's just a quick fix. I wish you could do something before all your kids turn 18, or worse, before you ... (read in full...)
Porn: sometimes it's helpful
Q. I’ve read countless posts about porn. Women saying porn is killing their self-image, ruining their relationships. Men replying that it just goes with the territory, get over it. By and large the women having a problem with porn are young (18-25)....
A. 18 August 2011: No Tilly, if the wife arranges once or twice a year for sex otherwise she doesn't want to do it, you have to wonder if she really loves him. I think it's amazing that the OP still sticks around in the marriage.... (read in full...)
Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?
Q. I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my ...
A. 15 August 2011: I've seen people who had been hospitalized for bi polar disorder. Then they decided they don't want to go on medications for life. They figured there has to be a reason for the suffering. The pain is actually a healing process. What they need is ... (read in full...)
Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?
Q. I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my ...
A. 15 August 2011: Again, you try to hope that this is a cultural shock, a family custom passed on to her that makes her a quarrelsome person. Her mom is trying to patch you up by saying she did the same thing to her husband. If you withdraw her visa it would be a ... (read in full...)
Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?
Q. I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my ...
A. 15 August 2011: Hi I am sorry I was wrong. The relationship wasn't fake. She has terrible mood swings and you can't just expect her to act like a normal supportive girlfriend. I am not sure what she needs now. She definitely wants your love and understanding and I ... (read in full...)
Wife says the root of our arguing is that she does not trust me--even tho I have never lied or cheated!!
Q. Hello all. I recently asked for advice about how to renew the spark in a very argumentative marriage. I recently found out some news that explains a lot about the arguing. My wife told me last night that she doesn't trust me. She said she jus...
A. 14 August 2011: She knows something is missing but doesn't know what it is. A marriage, a baby, did not ease her sense of emptiness. There is nothing wrong at all in the relationship. There is always the possibility of a failing relationship. The fear of something ... (read in full...)
Am I just thinking too much and putting us both under too much pressure?
Q. I haven't posted to this website for some time. But I feel it's time to write back and thank all those who helped me in the past. Your advice allowed me to make the right decisions and see clearly. And to also provide a safe outlet for expressing my ...
A. 12 August 2011: My brother got married the traditional Chinese way. It is rare nowadays.
You are thinking A LOT. The issues circle around does she love me does she love me not. She loves you being nice to her, she loves that you put on a show in front of her pare... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 22 May 2011: "I'm not touching or forming attachments to any other woman in any way - it's basically the same as imagining a different woman, only faster."
That's imagining having sex with another woman, which is a problem for a lot of begrudged wives here. Can'... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 22 May 2011: I think it's problematic for a man to take out anger on women. I would have noticed the anger problem in a guy long before he becomes my husband. I don't know where you watch your porn. My impression from reading your post is that you actually watch ... (read in full...)
Is Pornography cheating?
Q. The age old question on this site seems to be "is pornography use cheating?" My response to that first depends on how you define cheating. A relationship is basically a sexual contract, an agreement between two (sometimes more) people. These people ...
A. 20 May 2011: I sympathize with women who feel hurt by men who ignore them and watch porn for hours. I have no intentions of taking sides. I just want to put things in a different perspective. If women can understand what's in a man's mind they may be able to ... (read in full...)
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