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My bf is NOT good for me. What do I do?
Q. My bf is NOT good for me, at all, and I know I'll be much better off without him in the end but he's gotten into my head so bad that I feel like I can't do any better. He's made me feel like there's numerous women pining for him and how I should be ...
A. 6 March 2015: I think you are dealing with a total loser here and I don't think you should be this worried or thinking if to leave him or not.. You actually don't get anything from this lil man.. No love, no care, no planning together, always being egotistic ... (read in full...)
He said it's not me and not personal.
Q. My 38 year old boyfriend of a year is a bit introvert and was dyslexic and I suspect slightly ADD. He gets very focused on work and projects at his house. He shows me he cares with practical things. I'm struggling to feel wanted and cherished wh...
A. 28 February 2015: This issue I think its more common with men these days having low sex drive.. You guy seems to be a nice man and all I can say is not to give up on him maybe he'll improve later but if you think you can't wait for later I'll suggest you have a heart ... (read in full...)
Is it too late to be friends with him?
Q. So I met this guy at work almost two years ago, we started talking more and we became friends. Then he started asking for pictures of me and asking questions and stuff, he had a girlfriend and two kids so I felt wrong about it. Eventually I actually ...
A. 26 February 2015: I don't think you should text him.. Since he also didn't text you for months so let the friendship just go away..he probably only needed you for sex then and he got what he wanted and didn't look your side for months yet you wanna start up the ... (read in full...)
How can a husband handle such an issue?
Q. Is it proper for the woman to always pin her phones preventing her husband to never have access to her phone? Even when the husband demand that both of them should remove pin code from their phones, she refused. There after the maids alleged that ...
A. 24 February 2015: I think she actually has a secret she's hiding... Women don't just pin their phone without reason its very rare for women to pin their phone with their husband so I guess you need to find out but the outcome might not be pleasing... (read in full...)
This man doesn't want to deal with his child!
Q. I have been knowing this guy for 17 plus years and all we do is have sex argue and then be ask for money. well we lost touch for a couple of years because he went to jail. i took it upon myself to contact him while he was in jail. i even started ...
A. 24 February 2015: I think you just need to push harder for him to be there but you can't force him.. He probay might not like the idea of having more kids before you had yours. He sees you and the child as unnecessary burden so the need to reduce attachment. You just ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant with married boyfrind's child. He is away and I don't know what to do!
Q. I need help. More than ever. I am here all alone with nobody to talk to. I have been with a married man for 2 years. I love him. I truly love him. I know, I am stupid. I have just found out tonight that I am pregnant with his child. He is out...
A. 23 February 2015: This is a really big issue and I think you should tell your boyfriend so you both should talk about it.. The question is do you really want the child and are you sure that will not cause issues with your boyfriend's family.. You need to know if you ... (read in full...)
I'm his girlfriend but our mutual friend is now treating me like a third wheel
Q. I feel like my on/off boyfriend of 2 years doesn't know how to set boundaries when it comes to other girls. Alright so basically my boyfriend and I have a mutual female friend. The three of us have spent a good chunk of our lives together so we h...
A. 22 February 2015: I think you need to be more explicit with your boyfriend about what you want and don't want .. No need giving a damn about the girl anymore since she's not appreciating your care. If your boyfriend can't reduce the attention he's giving her and get ... (read in full...)
Will my professor notice if I stop admiring him?
Q. hi! I am a student n I have a huge crush on a professor. He has come to know dat i like him .He also knows that i look at him. He is single n he is 5 years elder to me. By any chance will it affect him if i stop looking at him ? Will he notice that ...
A. 22 February 2015: Hey.. I think you need to stop looking at him or just reduce it. The reason I said this is because he already knows you like him according to what you said and am sure if he truelly feels the same way you feel he would have tried contacting you ... (read in full...)
33 years of amazing mariage but the spark has gone. How can I deal with my wish to leave my wife?
Q. I'm thinking of leaving my wife after 33yrs of an amazing marriage. It all began three years ago. I was let down badly by people I trusted (including my wife)I needed to feel valued again. I met someone and we began a relationship. I ...
A. 21 February 2015: you have to decide if you can forgive your wife or not..let her know how you truelly feel instead of her thinking its work issues..if you guys had gone this far in your marriage I don't think there should be anything that would break that trust.. ... (read in full...)
I'm so afraid of commitment that I pull away
Q. 2 years ago I was with a guy, we were very close but then after a fall out over friends we fizzled out and didn't talk throughout those two years - which was difficult whilst being at the same school in similar classes. We started talking again ...
A. 21 February 2015: I think you just need to relax and let nature take its course.. This guy might be a nice person why not just roll with him but if he has done something terrible to you in the past and that is making you feel guilty for just hitting it off with him ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has gone off sex
Q. Hi! I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, living together for over a year. I have to say I had always have more sex drive than him, I am 36 yr, he is 42. But in recent times, I have became very aware of the frequency of sex...
A. 20 February 2015: Hi , I think you guys really need to have a heart to heart convo over this issue. Try not to be pushy or counting the number of times you guys have sex weekly as that will be putting lot of pressure and strain on him and in the worst case scenario... (read in full...)
How do I get over 10 years older than me crush and give the guy a chance?
Q. I've been question my sexuality for about 7/8 years now - since I was around 9 years old. I gradually came to accept that whatever happens will happen, and I'll fall for who I fall for. I've never had physical attraction to guys, yet I have women ...
A. 20 February 2015: Holiday crushes will surely fade away with time..I'll advise you give this guy more attention and let him into your life.. Once he's completely in your life I believe all the memory of the other lady will fade away ... (read in full...)
Newly married, but I've lost my sex drive completely. What can I do? What could cause this?
Q. Hello, I just recently got married literally about a week ago. However, I've lived with my husband for a little over a year. For about 9-10 months now, I've not wanted sex at all. I'm on birth control pills, and on anxiety medication so I'...
A. 20 February 2015: I think anxiety pills do affect one's libido in certain ways.. Not having sex in months I think its a long time and you really need to speak to your doctor.. You need to revive your sex life. A few trial and error shouldn't make you wanna keep ... (read in full...)
Unavailable and attached....so why do I attract and seem to be drawn to such men? How can I break this cycle?
Q. I need help trying to explain why I only seem to attract, or focus on unavailable men. I am young, and I am seeing an older man, who is married with children. I was seeing a married man, yes this is unethical, and goes beyond values that I though...
A. 20 February 2015: Several women also had this issue and I think you being able to say it out shows a great deal of courage.. My candid advise is to try and let this man just go.. Currently you are enjoying silver but your own diamond is out there.. If you remain ... (read in full...)
How small is small for a man's penis if the man is 5 foot and 11 inches and 195 pounds?
Q. Hello everyone sorry to be the umpteenth guy asking this question but how small is small when it comes to penis size? Im 23 and have had sex with over 20 girls but its always been in the back of my head that I'm unproprtional and small. My size is ...
A. 20 February 2015: I don't think you should be worried about how small you are down there but how to improve your love making. Most women don't give a damn about how big you are but how well you use you member.. A guy can be 8 inches and still doesn't know what he's ... (read in full...)
At the very beginning, a year ago, I said I was single. But that wasn't true back then. Do I tell him, now, about this lie?
Q. Hello, So I am looking for a little guidance on a problem that is eating away at me. I have been in a relationship with my significant other for a year. This relationship is by far the best one that I have ever been in and my boyfriend is trul...
A. 20 February 2015: Wow it takes high level of courage to tell someone the truth and its a good thing you are planning to tell him everything..even if its gonna hurt his feelings I believe he deserves to know the truth.. Anything built on falsehood shall surely crumble ... (read in full...)
My Bf wanted to pay for a private lap dancer. For me. Should I be worried by his actions during the lap dance?
Q. My boyfriend and I just went to Mexico and decided to hit up one of the local strip joints. He wanted to pay for a lap dance for me in a private room. It began with him just watching to the stripper asking him to join in. While it was hot and heav...
A. 19 February 2015: I think you deserve better.. Him blaming it on "heat of the moment" is totally crap.. Even with him reaching for his zippers am sure you can visualize what and how far he'll go when you aint there.. Am sure he visits there alone so you decide if ... (read in full...)
I have trouble having an orgasm during sex. Can this be fixed?
Q. My problem is with climaxing, Ive only ever orgasm-ed with my ex of five years, we broke up a few years ago, I havent been able to with any men before or after him regardless of what they did oral or hands, by myself I have no issue but I always ...
A. 18 February 2015: I think you should just lay off awhile and let your body readjust .. Probably you use the vibrator too often and too much of everything aint good.. I'll also suggest you talk your bf through the next sex session . Let him know hw you wanna be ... (read in full...)
Committed or not?
Q. I am 27 years old my BF is the Same Age. We have been in this relationship 3 years total and 1 year living together. So far everything is good. I have my doubts. He seems to be prolonging marriage and kids. He tells me on it's time it will come. I ...
A. 18 February 2015: Yea rushing into everything isn't good but equally one doesn't have to wait forever before getting some things done.. If he is not ready for long term commitment then I'll advise you start looking for an escape because a man who doesn't wanna show ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to talk to him so how do I get him to make a move? If he likes me, that is. Does he like me?
Q. Let me begin by saying I possess poor social skills. We sit far away and I catch him staring at me a lot -- or maybe he's just blankly staring. His eyes are wide open and his mouth is in a straight line. His eyebrows are sometimes raised...
A. 18 February 2015: Well looking at your writeup I can say you are already thinking more about him than he might probably be thinking of you.. Am sure he's also at amiss with you as well and doesn't know how to reach you . He's probably a lil shy to approach you but ... (read in full...)
Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?
Q. Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relation...
A. 18 February 2015: I think you should just try and move on. You seem to be a very nice person but don't put all the blame on you bpd.. If you try to win him back it might end up disastrous because the next time you do something he doesn't like he's gonna dump you and ... (read in full...)
Did he use me? My married lover just stopped seeing me
Q. So I know that what I have been doing is wrong. I wholeheartedly know this. I just feel sometimes you cannot help who you have a real connection with. This is my situation in a nut shell; I am now 26. When I was 18/19 I used to work for a l...
A. 18 February 2015: He didn't use you.. Several men that feels attached to their children finds it difficult to walk out of the family even when their wives misbehave.. Don't feel let down or angry at yourself for letting him into your life sometimes our emotions ... (read in full...)
Crush on my professor..should I smile at him?
Q. Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me. He got to know that I like him from some source. When...
A. 18 February 2015: It is not a bad thing to have a crush on someone the most important thing is to determine if this crush would negatively affect people close to you both. You can find out if he's married or not before you decide if to smile back at him or not. But ... (read in full...)
Crush on my professor..should I smile at him?
Q. Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me. He got to know that I like him from some source. When...
A. 18 February 2015: It is not a bad thing to have a crush on someone the most important thing is to determine if this crush would negatively affect people close to you both. You can find out if he's married or not before you decide if to smile back at him or not. But ... (read in full...)
Sex with my bf is bad. how can I tell him he isn't pleasing me ??
Q. I've been with my bf for over a year now. And I love him, which is why I haven't left. But the sex with him is horrible. When he tries it, he doesn't make sure I'm wet enough before he tries to slide it in. Then, he had to use his finger to guide it ...
A. 18 February 2015: I really think a relationship without a good sex could be bound to fail. Being unable to satisfy one's partner could be as a result to psychological issues once the mind is not completely free and ready it can't send messages to the cock thereby ... (read in full...)
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