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I enjoy taking advice and giving advice. If you need help resolving an issue you can ask me. Sometimes people feel stuck and are not sure who is right for them. They may feel they need to be with them cause you been together so long but it is not true we are all born alone. Sometimes they might get comfortable with that person but might forget about there own happeniness. I believe there is that right person out there for everyone but if you don't look you nver shall find. You have to make yourself happy not one else.

Should I date an army guy?

Q.   I just met a guy from the army...we met in ny we had a good time for four days then he had to go back to iraq. We been talking everyday he seems like a nice guy but of course I still got to get to know him. He invited me to the ball when he don't ...

A.   4 June 2010: Thanks for the advice I really don't know if I can deal with being lonly if I move and I don't have friends and family by my side it would be different if he leaves but I'm locted with people I love cause its hard for me to make friends so it will ... (read in full...)

I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion, I don't know what to do for the best

Q.   I am a 25 year old women with 4 kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to terminate my pregnancy but he also told me its my body and whatever my decision is he will support me no matter what and he will stay with me. we ...

A.   23 February 2010: This is a very hard choice for you but if you have four children already I'm sure you are stuggling one more won't make such a difference. I got an abortion 1 year ago and it still hurts cause you always wonder what that baby could become it will ... (read in full...)

Is this really American culture? It hurts that he considers what I did in a picture 9 months ago as cheating

Q.   Hi dearcupids! You always offer great advice, so here's a question for you. My boyfriend and I recently got into a fight about a picture that was taken of me. Now Im from a different country than him, he's American. In this picture I was at a party ...

A.   20 February 2010: My boyfriend reminds me of your boyfriend very contolling and if you tell him he is right and that you aplogize he feels he is gonna have the upper hand and eventually becoming more controlling causew he knows he got the power...I'm in the middle of ... (read in full...)

I am in love with a married man but want to get on with my life

Q.   Dear all, unfortunately im in love with a married man, who is muslim too and im not. im seperated from my husband but at the time, we were trying to work things out. i think i knew it was all over though. he left me over two years ago while i was ...

A.   12 February 2010: Its not goods to be with someone from your job try to find someone else where. There's a lot of nice men out the just use your own judgement. Us wmen knows what's best 4 us. Good luck... (read in full...)

How do I make things better???

Q.   Hi, I am in deep trouble I think. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months. I have been suspicious that he is pursuing other girls throughout this time. He is Arab Muslim and I am White Christian girl. He is 31 and I am 25. I know I ...

A.   11 February 2010: I'm dealing with a muslim man myself. I don't blame you cause muslim men are known for having more than one women. I've a been for 3 years and I broke up with him and he finally introduced me I feel very hurt. Just give it time and see what happens ... (read in full...)

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