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I was diagnosed at age 14 with bipolar and severe depression.I have most recent found out threw work with my therapist that I am Co-dependent as well. I have raised three daughters. I have had a couple serious relationships and lots of dateing experience. Experiences include bi-sexual along with interacial. My current relationship is with a brillant man who is recovering from alcoholism. He has been sober for close to a year now. So we have definatley been through some hard times. Im also about to have my first grandson that has been diagnosed with Down Syndrom. So this shall be a special learning experience. I am 38 years old and feel I have alot of experience in just life. I hope I can help others with what all I have learned. |
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My cousin has a Gf. And he and I flirt a lot. I am still a virgin. Should I agree to sex with him?
Q. Hi guys! Hope you can help me. I am a shy type of girl but i do flirted with my first cousin. Its my 3rd time to meet him last january. He's from jersey,he lives there, he's d same guy i wrote here last 2010 http://www.dearcup...
A. 3 October 2012: Ummmmm first cousins, sorry but sex should not be what your thinking.Just my opinion but there are reasons you dont date family. In some places there is even laws against it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suggested I get a sex toy for when he is away. But I'm not sure. Are there any that are better than most that you would recommend?
Q. I have quite a high sex drive, and my boyfriend has suggested that I think about buying a toy for when I'm 'in the mood' but he isn't around. I've never used toys before and although I've thought about it, I'm a bit hesitant. Sure it'd be nice to ...
A. 2 October 2012: I think toys are great when your partner is unavalible. I would recommend the all time classic jack rabbit. This is a dildo that has a setting for vibration of the clitoris as well as a setting that spins the shaft of the vibrator as well. It has a ... (read in full...)
Straight guy having fantasies about giving oral sex to a man
Q. I'm a straight guy and have ways been in relationship with girls. I am currently in a long term relationship. But lately I been have fantasies about giving oral sex to men. I'm not attracted to men and I'm not turned on by men. But the idea of ...
A. 1 October 2012: Sounds like your curious. You said your not attracted to men but the thought of it turns you on? Im not sure what the right move on your part would be. Maybe something has happened latley that caused this. Maybe the fellings will go away. Maybe they ... (read in full...)
Together 2 years, moving in, talking marriage, and now he hardly ever wants sex!
Q. Hey, I need some perspectives to try and help me understand my boyfriend's reduced interest in sex and how to handle this, please, as at the moment, I just feel stupid and rejected. We've been together 2 years, and are planning to move in together...
A. 29 September 2012: He says he is still attracted to you, your planning a future together. Maybe you should come right out with it. Tell him that sex once in three weeks is not working for you. I have a feeling you are a passionate, sensual woman and require the hand... (read in full...)
Is my husband and the father of my child Gay?
Q. Please help me :'( I've been with my husband since we were 14, we're now 18. When I was 15, I fell pregnant with our daughter, who turns 3 this December. We got married nearly a year ago. I love my husband so very much, but I'm absolutely he...
A. 27 September 2012: You definatley need to talk to him about whats going on and what all you have found. You are both young. Haveing a child and than a marriage at a young age is hard. Someone that is unsure of there sexuall preference, even harder. It sounds like he ... (read in full...)
Anal sex makes me feel like I'm being ripped in half!
Q. Hey everyone i have a question, my husband and i decided that we want to try anal, we use a lott of lub and go nice and slow but i cant stand the pain it just makes me want to scream. It feels like im being ripped in half, hes being patient with me ...
A. 25 September 2012: Pain is definatley a sign to stop. Have you ever used toys in play in the anus. I think you might find given time and some toys that you two will be able to enjoy anal sex. However if toys hurt as well than I wouldnt suggest going any further.... (read in full...)
I'm straight and my best friend is in love with me, how can I help him get over it?
Q. The situation I’m in, is pretty bizarre. I’m guy and my best friend is in love with me. I’m 27 and he’s 28, we know each other for almost 10 years, we're like brothers. I never knew he was gay. I’m not trying to judge gay people, I don’t know much ...
A. 23 September 2012: Friendship is a part of love. You can love anyone and not be involved with them. I do believe it is possible to stay friends. Him telling you was very brave, and I am sure a major concern that he would loose your friendship.
As friends you shou... (read in full...)
My jealously issues with boyfriend and friends are starting to concern me
Q. Hey everyone, I'v been having a lot of jealousy issues lately its not only with my boyfriend but even with my girlfriends..like if I think that my 2 girlfriends are getting close to each other I get jealous cuz I want both of them to be close to...
A. 23 September 2012: It's definatley not normal to feel that way. There are mental conditions that do spark theese such issues. I would suggest seeing your doctor. If this is something new and has not really been an issue in the past, than there maybe other issues ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex?
Q. I am asking this question on here because I am not sure what to think at the moment and need an outsiders perspective. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 1 1/2 yrs now. About 8 months ago we had a break up because I found text messages he ...
A. 17 September 2012: Honesty works best. Be honest and tell him you looked because you still have some trust issues since the situation presented itself the first time. You have to be honest with him as he needs to be with you. Ask him your questions and listen to what ... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to get involved with an alcoholic?
Q. Is it possible or even advisable to have a relationship with a guy who has a serious drinking problem? I care for him deeply and he says he loves me.... but he is occasionally abusive and I have always stood up for myself but I just feel that I am ...
A. 15 September 2012: My boyfriend is a recovering alcoholic. He was drinking for about thirty years and finally went and got help. So im sitting here next to him and asked him openly about your question. His first responce is does he know he has a drinking problem. ... (read in full...)
He is the man of my dreams and we share a bed together, but he will not have sex with me. Any and all advice is needed.
Q. I use to think I knew everything but this time I am so confused and in desperate need of help. I am a gay male who has met the man of my dreams, someone who is sweet loving, responsible and I absolutely adore him. There is no doubt in my mind that ...
A. 14 September 2012: Honestly given your description of the relationship. I think he is just a little scared. You said you are his first gay lover. That means alot. He has never actually taken that plunge yet. I think maybe given time, understanding and letting him ... (read in full...)
Is my husband secretly gay?
Q. I have a strong feeling that my husband is either gay or bi.... 8 months after we have gotten married I found in his email that he posted on craigslist about sex with a guy... Of course I asked him about it and was upset... He told me he didn't a...
A. 14 September 2012: Unfortunatley theese are all red flags. The toys can go either way to a certain extent. Some men are just curious. But it sounds more like all of this has gotten the best of him. Several men dont act on there feelings and some do. No one can say he ... (read in full...)
What is worse? To live with someone you don't desire yet still love or live with a broken heart because the one you love doesn't want you?
Q. Which is worse, to live with somebody you don't want to be with anymore in a sexual way, but love them or to live life with a broken heart because the person you love doesn't want to be with you and you can't live without them?...
A. 13 September 2012: You will never be happy liveing with a broken heart. Its time to let go and move on. It's hard and it hurts but in time it will get better and you will have a chance at happiness again.
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I told him I love him but he said he would never love me
Q. i met a guy 2 months ago on a dating site. we agreed we were only going to be friends with benefits. but now i am in love with him but he says he will never love me. we have seen each other 16 times now and thats alot. i give him blow jobs and we h...
A. 11 September 2012: Lets just say end it now.
There was a couple red flags there.
I will never love you. Who would say such a thing.
Not allowing you to call him honey ect. Hes not your boyfrirnd your not his girlfriend.
Not allowed to text him anymore ect.
I... (read in full...)
His ex is being nice to my fiance all of a sudden and its worrying me, how do I stop these thoughts so I don't become paranoid?
Q. My problem is my fiances ex! He has always been her back up guy in the past. Before he met me they were good friends, they have children together. When he started seeing me she became quite nasty to him always having a go about one thing or another. ...
A. 10 September 2012: Trust is key here I believe. Talk to your fiance and let him know how you are feeling. Explain that the situation is bothering you. However you know that he has to be involved because of the children. That you trust him and believe he will handle ... (read in full...)
Friend's wife won't let him have contact with us
Q. hi actually we are a group of some friends best of buddies u would say!! now the problem lies with one of the friend he got married a year back. his wife is very much possessive of her like she has asked him not to talk to any of us speciall...
A. 6 September 2012: Ive had this situation occur as well. My best friend of 13 years. I havent talked to him in almost 2 years as his wife wont allow it. I told him when he told me he wasnt allowed to be my friend anymore simply because I was a female, that he is al... (read in full...)
15 year old pupil is hitting on me - her teacher. Should I report this?
Q. I am in a terribly difficult situation. I have been teaching for 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever had this particular problem. There is a girl in one of my classes; she is very young, 14/15 years old, a child. Now I have had students have ...
A. 5 September 2012: Report her now before it's turned around on you.
Sounds like it's a game for attention, she knows she is pretty and at her age shes haveing fun useing this. Its unfortunate that she has the situations at home, however it is no excuse for her acti... (read in full...)
How to deal with girlfriends depression?
Q. Okay so recently my girlfriend has had something bad happen in her life. The only problem is I have no idea what it was. She refuses to talk about it, from what I understand with anyone. But whatever it is it has sent her into so far 4 sleepiness ...
A. 5 September 2012: I agree being patient is the key here.
Just do your best to be supportive, and make sure she knows your there for her whenever she needs to talk about it.
It sounds alot more serious than just failing a quiz.
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I'm not sure how to be dominant
Q. Hi, just after a bit of advice please... I've been seeing someone for a few months and she likes to be dominated.. we have good and exciting sex, tying up, shackled toys, spanking etc.. my problem is I enjoy doing it with her but not sure what to ...
A. 5 September 2012: I myself have enjoyed this lifestyle for many years.
Do you know how far she wants to take it? I mean have you set rules or a signal for times when it might be to much. This is important.
Dirty talking is always a great deal of fun.
Tellin... (read in full...)
I'm feel very insecure thinking that my girlfriend enjoys masturbating more than sex with me.
Q. I have been going out happily with my gf for 9 months. I'm 21. Recently however I have been getting very insecure about our sex and whether it is actually good for her. Sure we do it a lot and sometimes she orgasms, some she doesn't. The problem is ...
A. 5 September 2012: Most woman do masturbate, its normal. Masturbation for either sex is normal. Learning your own body, and it's needs are healthy. If you cant please yourself, how do you expect your partner to do so.
Try getting her to include you. It can be fun and ... (read in full...)
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