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I love my family,they're my everything and I'd die for them.
You know,there are times when you're so down and when you feel worthless
They never disappoint me,they were there to give support..
So,everything about who i am comes from my family..
Uhhhmmm..i speak out if someone says something i disagree with.
personal values and people are important to me.
Am a nature lover,i love the ocean,the mountains,the river,the moon,the stars...etc
Happy thoughts,happy environment,and oh beautiful garden inspires me most..
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Boyfriend cheated once, I think he may be again!
Q. hey i have been with my boyfriend 3 years this month, but i can't help doubting him. i know he cheated on me at the begining of our relationship (yes, call me stupid for staying) but it did really upset him and he did tell me about it. now...
A. 4 April 2012: If there's no trust there is nothing,there's no love.
Things only get worse if you are in a relationship that doesn't have trust.... (read in full...)
If guys know they love a girl, then do they still want to party and see girls, instead of settling down now?
Q. I met a guy, dated for a month, broke up and didn't speak for a month and a half. Then started talking again and became best friends. It's been six months since we've become best friends, we're each others only best friends, and we recently admi...
A. 22 January 2011: hey,even if you're married you can still go partying.
as a human,we need freedom.free to do anything.... (read in full...)
He has broken up with me 15 times in the last 2 years!
Q. hi im 22 years old and my boyfriend is 25, iv'e been with him for about 2 years there's something really wrong with him. in the past 2 years he's broke up with me about 15 times and his exuse is im scared of getting hurt... i keep telling him im not ...
A. 17 November 2010: Dear find someone who'll treat you good.You're young and beautiful.... (read in full...)
Obsessed with this guy....what do I do now?
Q. I am 21 and I met this guy two years ago in the class. We talked a little and so I found his myspace and we started communicating through there. I told him that I liked him and he basically rejected me. He told me he didn't have time to be in a ...
A. 14 November 2010: You're just wasting your time dear,let go of the past and move forward.Life's so short you know. When i was your age i used to think that way,but hey you're still young.Each one has a partner so you better enjoy life.And that first kiss?Save ... (read in full...)
Got quotes?
Q. got good quotes ? any kind . love , life , dark , light . you name it . I need some good ones for my class . lol . help me out . post one or more(: thanks ....
A. 14 November 2010: Earth has no sorrow that heaven can not heal-
Never fear shadow,it simply mean there's a light near by-
Opportunities are really never lost,they just love seldom return to the person who snubs them-
Have Patience; all things are dif... (read in full...)
He's too gentle! I need it rough!
Q. well.... I use to go out with this guy who loves to have rough sex. I use to hate it, but I eventually got use to it since its the only way to have sex with him. Now i love rough sex, but the problem is, the guy I'm dating now doesnt. He's a softie...
A. 13 November 2010: Simple,tell him you love rough sex.
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Should I tell him my feelings and risk ruining a good thing? Or should I stick with "if you love someone let them go"?
Q. I have recentley reconnected with an old flame. The last time we saw each other we were intimate but I was in a relationship at the time, so we never kept in touch. It is now 10 years later and last week we disovered that we live down the road fr...
A. 12 November 2010: Oh dear,know what? Love worth fighting for. If you love someone,don't ever let him go.Life's so short. GoodLuck:)... (read in full...)
Cheating husband won't ask for a divorce! Why?
Q. My husband has been cheating for 1 year in Nov. We have been married 20 years. Why won't he ask for a divorce. He has come into an inheritance as of late and I was sure he would take the money and run! I took care of his father during his last ...
A. 12 November 2010: I agree with baddogbj,he cheated but that doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Men will always be men, it's their nature.haha,sorry.
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I think I love him but I doubt we will ever be able to meet! What should I do?
Q. I knew a guy on a dating site. He's from Denmark and obviously, I think we won't ever meet. I like him. We've been chatting for three months now. We don't chat everyday, but we do exchange messages almost everyday. He has become a part of my ...
A. 10 November 2010: What can i say.. If things are meant to be it will be.
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I flew across the country to meet him and now I'm not attracted to him
Q. I got into a relationship with someone online. We've been dating for 3months and I fell in love with his personality. I flew across the country to meet him and now that I have I'm not really physically attracted to him. My question is, should I stay ...
A. 7 November 2010: I agree with ths women here,and you're not gonna be alone because each one has a perfect match.... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend I'm not a virgin and he is ignoring me!
Q. Plz help me! i told my bf that i m not a virgin, he is ignoring me and even not talking to me. i m very depressed. my honest kill me, my all happiness is at stake. i m very serious i don't wanna lose this guy. i love him lot. ...
A. 29 October 2010: Yeah i agree with honesty.
Maybe he doesn't love you coz if you love someone,you'll accept and love that person completely no matter who she/he is.love doesn't ask why.
You'll find that guy trust me,he'll find you.Don't be sad,you don't deserv... (read in full...)
Why do men think of women as slaves?
Q. why do men think of women as slaves?...
A. 29 October 2010: Stupid men,they think women as slaves.
Hmm..if a man loves a woman,he'll treat that woman like a queen,he'll do everything to make her happy.... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to have someone you consider a life partner?
Q. What does it feel like to be with someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with and to have them want to be with you too?...
A. 27 October 2010: It feels like a dream cme true,you're finally home.... (read in full...)
Women and songs?
Q. Do women like it when you write them songs? I play guitar and record my own music, but don't sing. ...
A. 25 October 2010: Hmm..if you're my bf then i'm thankful cause you're mine.haha... (read in full...)
What happens when a girl masturbates?
Q. its like,there iz one thing that stil confuses me.when a boy iz masturbatin,he reaches a maximum where he feels it so very gud and he ejaculates.but when a girl is masturbatin i dont know w@ shows she can masturbate no mo.how does she feel?do ...
A. 24 October 2010: Hmm..sometimes it's better to masturbate than have sex,really it feels great.haha... (read in full...)
Is it normal for shorter girls to feel this way?
Q. I'm just under 5 foot, 18 years old and a bit curvier... I've never had a boyfriend despite being quite outgoing and flirty. I'm not desperate just concerned that because of my height guys just look at me as a cute little sister or a friend. Don't ...
A. 21 October 2010: Hey dear,it's ok.you're only 18,look at me i'm 23 and 5'0 tall..haha,yet some guys loves me..you know love to be ma man,anyways.. Someday,you'll understand:)
For now,enjoy your teenAge life.... (read in full...)
My marriage date is set, my chat friend lied and I am getting all negative!
Q. i m at d worst stage of life. i m a just passed out enggineer age 22. my parents promised me for havin an mba n just after d month i graduated they fixed out a guy 4 marriage.i did a blunder 2 yrs earlier by being in a relationship wid a married ...
A. 21 October 2010: Wow!im happy for you:)... (read in full...)
We broke up and it's driving me crazy, how do I cope, should I let her be??
Q. hey everyone . okay so my ldr gf and i broke up , and its killing me . i just wonder if u should really give her a space before i try to get her back . but im worried , what is she gets with some1 else during this time ?!! coz i know some guys are ...
A. 20 October 2010: Love worth fighting for,every second,every minute is very important..So if you do love her then go ahead,why waste time..
GoodLuck!... (read in full...)
When is abortion the best option?
Q. Maybe all of you can help me with this. Since the moment I learned of what abortion is, I have always thought it a good thing. A woman has choices, she can spare a life from suffering if she feels she is not ready. I thought it better than givi...
A. 19 October 2010: Prevention is much better than abortion.
If she's not ready then why not use contracptives?
For me abortion sounds like immaturity.... (read in full...)
I want to dedicate a song to a loved one! What song would you choose?
Q. Hi, I'm not sure if this is the right place for this....if you could dedicate a song or two (or even 3 lol) to someone..what would it be and why? For example "Luther Vandross - Dance with my Father" ...always reminds me of my dad....
A. 18 October 2010: Haha..
If i ain't got you for my love,everything means nothing without him.
Im your angel-celine dion for my family specially to mama,i love them so much.
Thanks to you for God,thankful for everything.
Dance with my father of coure for ... (read in full...)
I'm her half boyfriend!
Q. my ex girlfriend has me like a halfway boyfriend...even though i know that she still really does love me still it doesn't make what shes doing fair...i kno i need to tell her that shes needs to decide what she really wants but i don't kno how to ...
A. 18 October 2010: Maybe she's just scared that's why she's acting that way.
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Doubts about God and his laws regarding my relationships with partners
Q. Hi guys, I need some relationship advise concerned with Christianity. I am a protestant Christian, but i'm having trouble getting a relationship with god. Sometimes i'm afraid that he's not real and i am wasting my time and the whole bible thin...
A. 18 October 2010: Oh my gosh!you know what?i hate how you think,anyways it's my reaction.I understand you btw.
When i was young i used to question God,is he real?how come?hmm..doubts like that,but,there's one incdnt that made me truly believe in him.
If you just... (read in full...)
I don't want to have to accept this child
Q. I am a 26 year old female married for 4 years now to my husband. We have a 4 and 1/2 year old daughter as well as a 3 year old daughter. Yesterday, I found out that due to a one night stand with another woman, there is now a 5 yr old little girl ...
A. 17 October 2010: "My husband",stnd for it.he is yours.
No matter what,always be there at his side.you love him,then don't give up.love your husbnd perfectly,he needs you.
Why not tell him everything,how you feel,that you're angry,sad,anything.
Understan... (read in full...)
What are some of the negative effects that lying to one's partner can have on a relationship?
Q. Is honesty really the best policy when it comes to one's life partner? I hear people say that it's better to live with one's guilt rather than tell one's partner if there has been a one time betrayal. But wont guilt over lying eventually take a toll ...
A. 17 October 2010: Love is kind,it is not easily angered,it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the thruth,it always protects,always trust.
Hmm..if she truly loves you then she'll understand,and for you,isn't it wonderful when... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend getting married in December!
Q. Ex-boyfriend is getting married this December! I am so hurt, it's so painful that I don't know how to handle my feelings... Everything from anger to hurt to jealousy. I can't seem to get over this man, even though I meant nothing to him all these ...
A. 16 October 2010: Darling,if it's meant to be it will be.Remember,each one has a partner.Maybe he's not meant for you,surely you'll find your man that will love you for always.Just be patient.Trust in God.
Take care.... (read in full...)
My marriage date is set, my chat friend lied and I am getting all negative!
Q. i m at d worst stage of life. i m a just passed out enggineer age 22. my parents promised me for havin an mba n just after d month i graduated they fixed out a guy 4 marriage.i did a blunder 2 yrs earlier by being in a relationship wid a married ...
A. 15 October 2010: It's your life,gotta right to choose.stnd for it,they can't force you to marry that guy,or they'll kill you first.... (read in full...)
How do I pull myself together so that I even want my heart mended?
Q. My heart is breaking and I feel like the rest of me is following. I don't know what to do or who to turn to. I don't know whether to hold myself together or let myself fall apart. How do you mend a broken heart? How do I pull myself together ...
A. 15 October 2010: I was planning to ask that kind of question,how to heal a broken heart,see i can't sleep,and i'm hurting.But there's a part of me saying you'll be alright.
Dear,God is with you.He knows how you feel,if you just let him you know help you.
Every... (read in full...)
Do I tell my in-laws their daughter cheated on me?
Q. I found out my wife been cheating on me. Do I tell her father and mother? ...
A. 15 October 2010: I agree with raphael,and let your wife be the one to tell her parents.a little respect.... (read in full...)
What was your best first date? I need ideas!
Q. what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!...
A. 14 October 2010: Haha,i was sixteen.it was not that best.we went to church,(boring)the funny part is he tried to sit close to me then slowly i move away,wow i really dnt know what to do that time.hmm,he was my crush.my first date was the best feeling,though it's not ... (read in full...)
I lover her but I hate everything related to her!
Q. i m 21 year old guy my gf have an awful past she had lied me about it now its almost settle now i love her very much but but hate evrthg related to her like her job,parents,songs she likes,her old school almost evethg what shud i do???????????...
A. 13 October 2010: Start loving her completely,if you can't then STOP! ... (read in full...)
Am I destined to die alone?
Q. I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with ...
A. 13 October 2010: God is wit you always,he knows what's goin on,he knows how you feel. There's always a perfect time,and hey each one has a partner so don't worry ok.
Just enjoy life,go out with friends,family.
Remember,there's always a right time:)... (read in full...)
Am I destined to die alone?
Q. I am a 25 year old architect who has reached utter despair in the quest of finding that special lady to grow old together... This sentence sums up my life quite well however; the reason I am writing is due to the fact that I have not been with ...
A. 13 October 2010: Dear,each one has a partner.
And don't be sad,God is with you always,he knows how you're feeling.there's always a perfect time,for now just enjoy your life being single.go out with friends,family.... (read in full...)
Outfit suggestions for a date?
Q. A younger man (9 years younger) and I are going out on our first “date”. We will most likely go to a park and dinner and maybe something else… Any advice for picking an outfit to wear on a date with a younger man? Any advice for picking an...
A. 13 October 2010: I agree with tennisstar,surely you'll look great.
But of course with the attitude,be confident.... (read in full...)
Love is patient?
Q. Love is patient. Pre-Marital Sex is impatient. Opinion please cause this one really made me think a million times....
A. 13 October 2010: And oh, Mr. Anon here says love is understanding and accepting,(yeah i knw that)
So,this compatibility something doesn't matter as long as you love that person.
So why pre marital sex?why not wait?
Ahh,im crazy..... (read in full...)
Love is patient?
Q. Love is patient. Pre-Marital Sex is impatient. Opinion please cause this one really made me think a million times....
A. 13 October 2010: Thanks guys,ahmm..dnt have a partner,dnt have any.duh,curiousity.
Oh,this bible.... (read in full...)
Why do you answer to these questions?
Q. I just want to know something, why do you guys answer to these people? what do you plan to get out of it? do you think "God" will reimburse you for your efforts and "love"? do you feel better by helping others you don't know? I really don't see any ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hell yeah,it made me feel better.sharing ideas,and it's good for growth dear... (read in full...)
I have a fat fetish and want my girl to be even bigger!
Q. Okay so i have a big problem. I've been dating the same girl for a year and i told her i have a fat fetish and i needed her bigger. so shes gained about 20 lbs for me but i am still not nearly sexually satisfied. i know for a fact im in love with ...
A. 12 October 2010: Haha,see?they're mad at you,maybe.
But,yeah you're kinda selfish you know.find your fat girl,go find her.... (read in full...)
Unable to orgasm, help?
Q. I'm 18 years old, I have masterbated plenty of times and my boyfriend has preformed oral and vaginal sex on me countless times... although I have a high sex drive and I am able to experience the first two stages of sexual pleasure (arousal and ...
A. 12 October 2010: Yeah,i agree.do try it dear and you'll thanj this man for his advice.come on experiment.... (read in full...)
When is the right time to tell someone you love them?
Q. When is the right time to tell someone you love them? I've been with my new bf for 2 months, and I feel I've fallen in love with him. I wasn't expecting too, and wasn't looking for a relationship when I met him, but he is truly lovely. He tells ...
A. 12 October 2010: I agree with kenj,
you tell him now.not tomorrow but right now.... (read in full...)
She's not the same girl I was dating 2 years ago
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now, and it doesn't seem like she is the same girl that I began dating so long ago. When I first met her, she had several friends, was funny, enjoyed hanging out with people and didn't necessarily ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hmm..why not plan a group date,anything with friends.a camping,riding bike.that way she'll recall her old self,how she was.... (read in full...)
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