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writes:I recently met a girl through one of my friends. It was kind of awkward because he forced me to go up and talk to her which I did. She seem like a very quiet type of girl and she didn't say much. She sort of gave me this little giggle because I was probably acting very nervous while talking. It was only a short talk and I had to leave afterwards.A couple of days later I added her to Facebook and asked her if she wanted to meet up sometime coss we didn't have much time to talk with each other. She said sure a couple of days later and ever since then I've tried to start a general conversation over Facebook and each time she replies they have been one liners and very short answers. She doesn't ask any questions. She usually takes a few days to reply and I'm not sure if that's coss she's shy or she's not interested. I know it's bad to stalk her Facebook but I noe sometimes she replies to other things on Facebook her Facebook but not to my message. I tried to meet up with her by asking if I could come see her practise at one of the events and it seems like she didn't want me to go coss she said 'it's on Tuesday night, and finishes very late'.I have a feeling she might have been interested at first but now is probably not interested, but then I don't noe coss my friends tell me she's very quiet and doesn't say much. So what should I do now?? I don't know if I should reply about the tuesday night or if I should wait a couple of days so I don't seem too eager, or if I should completely ignore her coss I have a gut feeling she's lost interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): I'm sorry but I'm pretty sure she is not interested. See, I am a shy girl and her behavior doesn't seem like shyness to me. She is just not interested. No matter how shy a girl is, if she is interested in a guy she will ask him questions. Being shy means she probably won't be the one to initiate contact, but when you initiate it she would be excited about it and chat with you. Don't worry, you'll find a girl who will be interested sooner or later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): It might be that she just finds it hard to start conversations. You should try asking her about herself, what she likes etc Some people find it really hard to communicate, especially with new people. Don't give up on her just yet.
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reader, Tom Obler  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Let this one go. Don't waste any more time. Your gutt feeling is good. You have done everything right and been polite and friendly. She needed to agree to a meet up or reply more but she didn't. Don't bother to message anynmore or suggest anything. When you were getting one liners back, ask yourself how hard it was to keep converstaions going. It must have been very hard. Don't waste your time.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 I meant you can't initiate conversations.
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (11 September 2011):
Awkward hook ups are suspicious. I don't trust your friends' intentions here. You can initiate conversations if you don't know what the point is, what you like about her. It's all too random.
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