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Information about me:

I am Alyssa Jane Marie McCarton. But that sure's a mouthful, so Alyssa will do fine :).

Well, hello world! I am rewriting this for the Nth time, and I still suck at self-introductions. What can I say? Guess me and this tiny little box weren't meant to be!

What qualifies you to help people?

Well, honestly speaking, nothing much. It's not everyday that you see a 17(yes, I am 17) year old girl with a PhD in counselling do you? Well, yeah, I'm no different. I'm simply a stereotypical senior at a typical high school which I will not name for internet safety measures. Yet, what I have to offer is my overly sensitive heart and experience with my exes. Rest assured I will try my best to help you out if it is within my abilities :).

Where do you live?

Ireland, Dublin. And I for one, absolutely love it. You can see the sea and boats across the landscape, and in a weird way, it always cheers me up to see it. The food is all right I guess, and yes, we Irishmen do speak English.

What makes you tick?

To sum it up in one word: Cowards. Really. Male cowards especially, have a very special place in the "what-ticks-Alyssa-off" sector of my brain.

What's your relationship status?

Currently in a relationship. :)

I'm scared to ask if he likes me because if he doesn't our friendship will be ruined

Q.   Hi I really like this guy from my school but I dont know if he feels the same way about me because he always send me mixed messages and that I have never ever dated before... List of things that made me feel like he likes me: 1) He always in...

A.   10 November 2012: Well, tbh sweetie, it's indeed impossible for us to know if he likes you or not from all that you've told us. Guys are I fathomable creatures; they can say one thing and do another. Thus, the only way to confirm that he does indeed like you would be ... (read in full...)

Kismet! Could this be it?

Q.   Fate, coincidence, luck.... Please read, something happened to me and I would like your thoughts... So I was having a really tough couple of weeks with work, family and things going wrong with my house and the last straw was when I was getti...

A.   10 November 2012: Well, everything happens for a reason doesn't it? I'm not a staunch believer in fate (as you call it), but God must have meant it that way :). Bless you and make sure you don't lose hold of this opportunity! Keep us updated all right! Xoxo ... (read in full...)

How can my ex marry her so very very soon after meeting her? It hurts.

Q.   How can my ex marry someone 2 months after meeting her? Even though he has been driving by my house and calling me often with a private number? I called him about three weeks ago to ask him why he was doing these things and a girl answered...

A.   8 May 2012: Hmm. You are in a tough situation for sure, but no worries. You are not alone :). IMHO, no matter how I look at it, it seems that he has some problems of his own. I mean, how can you possibly get married to someone that you've met only a month ago? ... (read in full...)

I like my best friend's younger brother and he likes me too, but my friend knows nothing about it.

Q.   hi. i am haveing a little trouble with this. i like my best friends little brother and he like me too. i am going on 20 and he is a year and a month younger then me. i met my best friend when we were 15 and her brother has liked me since then and i ...

A.   12 February 2012: Well, let me just say that you should never let age be a factor in relationships. Though of course, if the 20 year old you likes a 70 year old man, there defo has to be a problem hahaha! :). A year and a half younger is very much fine! What I reckon... (read in full...)

Met a guy whilst wearing coloured contact lenses, will he think I'm fake if he finds out? What do guys think of girls who wear coloured lenses?

Q.   Honest answers from guys, I don't care if they are hurtful I need to know a truthful answer. What do you think of girls who wear coloured lenses? Do you not care so much, think they're fake, find them attractive.. what? Because I met this guy whi...

A.   9 February 2012: Sweetie, we'd all be fakes if that's true! Just casually bring it up the next time you meet! It's not as though you told him that it was real! Relax and laugh it off; that sounds great! And I think colored contacts are fine; they do make you ... (read in full...)

Is he shy and only rings me when he has a few drinks for courage?

Q.   Hi I need your help I met this guy back in September 2011 and I really do like him and we only got together in November 2011 but my problem with him is that I only ever hear from him when he is out with his friends and having afew drinks this is ...

A.   8 February 2012: Hey. Girl, are you sure that he even likes you? Or, is he really THAT SHY? 1) Maybe you should find out if he really likes you as much as you like him. If he doesn't, it's time to move on and forget him. Yet, 2) If he's really that shy, maybe y... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my first cousin, I tried to push him away, but it only hurt us both!

Q.   Dear Cupid, When I first moved to this country, I never imagined it would turn this bad. Everything was going so well, I found a boy who liked me a lot and we started going out. I was so happy. Then I went to my home town to visit family I had not...

A.   8 February 2012: Hello! :) girl, just so you know, love is love. If you really feel something for him, don't hurt yourself and push him away and even hurt him in the process too. If you 2 love each other, I don't see why you 2 can't be together. So what if he's ... (read in full...)

Our eight year relationship just broke up. Lost and sad. What can I do? .how do I get rid of hope?

Q.   Hi everyone ive been asking many questions about my 8 year relationship ending just recently. we were 14 when we met and broke up at 22. I realy love her so so much and want to be with her because she is an amazing person, almost like we dese...

A.   8 February 2012: Sweetie, this sure is a tough situation. What I want you to know is that "it's okayl. After a really long relationship (8 years is pretty long!) it will hurt to break up. For sure. So what you are currently feeling now is normal. Do not hate ... (read in full...)

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