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Is not bleeding after your first time normal?

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Question - (20 July 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi i am worried, if you do not bleed after having sex for the first time normal?

so many of my friends said that after their first time they bled..

but i didnt and i havent used tampons either..

is this normal?

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (31 July 2008):

It's not unusual. Some of your friends may even be envious.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (20 July 2008):

Danielepew agony auntIt's absolutely normal.

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A female reader, xxkissxx United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

hey chic,

this is normal as the hymen may have already been broken when you wear sanitary towels so dont worry yoursel and not having any pain makes it even better for you x

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A female reader, scrazy Canada +, writes (20 July 2008):

scrazy agony auntYeah, it's perfectly normal for no bleeding to occur - bleeding after sex usually means that you were too tight (which happens because you're nervous and not relaxed) and not wet enough.

So there's nothing to worry about, you're fine! :)

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A female reader, nettles United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

nettles agony auntI had the same experience as you...not everyone is the same and I think we were just lucky :)

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A female reader, Nikki-chan United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

Nikki-chan agony auntHello there :)

In regards to your question, yes it's actually quite normal. I also didn't bleed after my first time having sex, and I was kinda worried about it, so I checked up on the internet and did some research (Yes, I was that worried! xD), and found out that only roughly half of us bleed after sex. Mind you, it wouldn't be heavy bleeding, just a few spots of blood.

So don't worry about it, you're completely normal.

xxx

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A female reader, O Connor Ireland +, writes (20 July 2008):

O Connor agony auntyes it is. not everyone experiences pain or bleeding during their first time - i didnt experience any of the above. for everyone its different. so dont worry.

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A female reader, Typical'Ox United Kingdom +, writes (20 July 2008):

Typical'Ox agony auntYeah its perfectly normal, some girls bleed, others don't. Theres nothing wrong with you at all, your actually lucky, its embaressing when you bleed on your first time. But if you are really worried, go to a walk in clinic or doctors and speak to them.

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