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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Is my FWB situation turning into love? What are your thoughts?
Q. I have had a friend with benefits for about 7 months now. He made it very clear that he would never ever be anything more than friends with me, ever. He told me over and over not to fall in love with him because he would never ever let himself ...
A. 17 October 2008: Well, I'm happy for you. Wish you the best.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: By the way, the girl who had a thing with Jean-Claude van Damme had real things with other guys. She was indeed testing the waters.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: Diovan, you're going off-topic again, by making me the target of this post. All right, I can take it.
I will remember this post the next time someone comes up with the question of why her husband/fiancé/whatever looks at porn.... (read in full...)
New to christianity..so is it wrong to masturbate to porn?
Q. Hi everyone, I have a simple question to ask. I'm new to Christianity and was wondering if it is wrong to masturbate or to watch porn? I want to know because I do both of these regularly and it has been eating me up inside and I don't have ...
A. 14 July 2008: I guess your question has to be divided into chunks.
If all you want to know is whether the doctrine of a church, whatever your church is, I can only give you the answer regarding Catholics like me: the doctrine says you must not masturba... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: You know girls, you're not helping the man. Just mocking him.... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: Good point, Tisha-1. Why worry about the unattainable?
That said, good ol' Macchiavelli needs to give some help here. What if this is a testing of waters?... (read in full...)
My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!
Q. Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...
A. 14 July 2008: A girlfriend I had once used to say she had "a thing" with Jean-Claude van Damme. She used to praise his "manly virtues" in a very, er, descriptive way.
Now, I'm not match for Jean-Claude in the physical department. Working out would do no good.... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my best friend's husband...
Q. I am married with 3 children. Recently I have had feelings for my best friend's husband. One drunken night I told him how I felt and ever since he has felt the same about me. He now tells me he loves me!! Although nothing as happened he makes ...
A. 14 July 2008: You can find another person attractive even if you're married or committed to someone else. You have eyes and feelings, and that doesn't go away, ever. So, your having feelings for this man is not wrong in itself.
I would suggest you check wh... (read in full...)
14 years old and have a 14.1cm penis... bad???
Q. Hey,well so I'm 14 years old and my penis is currently 14.1cm's. And I'm Asian [Vietnamese], I've heard the Asians tend to have a more smaller penis than other races, so I'm wondering if this is really small? will it get any bigger? The...
A. 14 July 2008: Your penis might grow a bit more. However, The best advice I can give you is not to worry about the size of it, but about how you use it. And that's well within your means. It doesn't depend on your genes.
There is always going to be a physical... (read in full...)
He has paid to download Spyware to spy on people's phones.
Q. Okay this is going to sound like a really bizarre situation but here goes. I've been split up from my boyfriend for about 3 weeks. I never trusted him due to some of the things which had happened and this led to endless arguments, until I finished...
A. 14 July 2008: If you have a smartphone, you can already Norton Smartphone Security ... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 14 July 2008: I guess I could help you better if you send some private messages. I don't promise to answer right away, but, I will.
Thank you for your kind words for me. I'm just the guy next door.
Maybe the post can be useful to help people concentra... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 14 July 2008: Er...... (read in full...)
Is she embarrassed by my age?
Q. Hello to you, I've been seeing my girlfriend for a year on Tuesday. I love her with all my heart and soul. The thing is, I've just turned 19 and but my girlfriend 34. She has been divorced for 4 years and has two children. A boy whose 12 and...
A. 14 July 2008: This is a sign she has problems with the age gap. You could be her son. Rather than fifteen years of age, the difference between you and her is one of stages of life. This relationship of yours is very uneven, and it is absolutely clear that she ... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 13 July 2008: Also, she's not interested :-).... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well, whenever I try to snatch someone up, she has someone, lives away, thinks I'm a bastard (like my sisters do), is unattainable, is married, has a jealous boyfriend (or two), or (in one case) is pregnant and is desperately looking for a daddy.... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 13 July 2008: Well, I'm honored that people have asked me to answer this one. I will do my best, being a Mexican and having come to the site because of an Anglo girl.
In short, yes, a Latino man can take you very seriously and consider you marriage material... (read in full...)
How do I ask the girl in the ice cream shop out for a date?
Q. Hi, there is this attractive girl who works at a local ice cream shop. Ive never had a big conversation with her, and i was wondering how i would go about asking her to go on a date? I was thinking about asking her out for dinner, how shou...
A. 12 July 2008: The method is kinda creepy, but it can work better and can spare you the embarrassment. What if she has someone, pal? You need to know the person, at least superficially, before you act. Zero information about her is no good. I don't think you ... (read in full...)
How can you tell a man is no longer attracted to you?
Q. How can you tell if your man has become unattracted to you...
A. 12 July 2008: When a person, male or female, is no longer interested, there usually is a big change in the way the person treats you. Maybe it's not rude or bad, but, excuse me for the repetition, uninterested. You can tell the person is no longer there for ... (read in full...)
Do guys like it when girls 'squirt'?
Q. Hi there! Wondering if you could help me out here, last night my boyfriend and I were being intimate and he was giving me oral, all of the sudden I climaxed. The problem here is that as I was finishing I 'squirted', that's never happened before. ...
A. 11 July 2008: Send me a private message and I will answer.... (read in full...)
I am happy with my boyfriend, even though he is 28 years older than I am, does the age difference matter, if the relationship is working??
Q. i am currently going out with sum1 28 years older then me ever since i've met him i've felt happy and more confident he supports me in everything i do. but then there's my dad who's telling me he's just using me and also my sister who wont talk to ...
A. 11 July 2008: I think this age gap is just another element of your relationship with this man. The relationship does seem uneven, you know, because he has had so many more experiences in life. I suppose you work, but he's also got more money than you. He's at ... (read in full...)
Is my FWB situation turning into love? What are your thoughts?
Q. I have had a friend with benefits for about 7 months now. He made it very clear that he would never ever be anything more than friends with me, ever. He told me over and over not to fall in love with him because he would never ever let himself ...
A. 10 July 2008: In my opinion, you're off to a bad start. He was very clear about what he expected from the relationship, and you accepted those terms. That means that he has the upper hand: if you want more, he will say no, in full "right", or yes. But you ... (read in full...)
Need advice badly. I am having an affair and don't know why.
Q. I am 29 and have been in an amazing, loving, fun relationship for 2 years. I have found my soulmate. I love him dearly and we have a wonderful time together. We have great sex, we laugh a lot, we have fun, he's very stable, attentive, generous...
A. 10 July 2008: I would suggest you sit alone, for a while, and think about why you're doing it. I know you came here looking for an answer, and, instead, I'm telling you to think about it yourself. I'm sorry, but only you can know why you're doing it. My guess ... (read in full...)
He texted me 80 messages, but still, my confidence level is low, does he really like me or what?
Q. And please dnt tell me its in his kiss lol! im having this problem with a guy in work that i really really like we have had many converstaions about the whole situation and he totally knows how much i like him! he has told me that he is totally fl...
A. 9 July 2008: Well, Diovan, I guess YOU will end up eating the poster's hat. Send us a picture :-).... (read in full...)
He texted me 80 messages, but still, my confidence level is low, does he really like me or what?
Q. And please dnt tell me its in his kiss lol! im having this problem with a guy in work that i really really like we have had many converstaions about the whole situation and he totally knows how much i like him! he has told me that he is totally fl...
A. 9 July 2008: Twenty-two year old female in UK, this guy is absolutely into you. His, er, "frequent" messaging screams just that. The man feels stuck in his job and he just wouldn't want to lose you for some stupid training. I wonder if he'll make any good out ... (read in full...)
Do I let my bf suck my breasts??
Q. my boyfriend wants to suck my breasts.do advice me.he is after my breasts....
A. 8 July 2008: Well, guys, I wrote "a little" because I didn't want to write "a deluge, an eternity of breast action, with biblical lust".... (read in full...)
Do I let my bf suck my breasts??
Q. my boyfriend wants to suck my breasts.do advice me.he is after my breasts....
A. 8 July 2008: I agree with Troubledtoomuch, but I will add a little salt, lemon and chili. Breasts are the focus of a lot of male attention. Maybe some people will not be aware of this, but sometimes the breasts are way more interesting for some men than the ... (read in full...)
Clash of views on flirting and inuendos with friends who have partners.
Q. Hi. One of my best friends has a problem with flirting. She even flirts with me although I have a GF and she has a BF. I think she does it because she has low self esteem and because of some troubles she’s had in the past. I believe she al...
A. 8 July 2008: I think you should not give up on your best friend, but you should certainly tell her that your girlfriend isn't taking her flirting well, and that she's putting you in a situation where you have to choose between your love and your friend. I'm ... (read in full...)
I can't find a love partner at all!
Q. Dear dearcupid website providers, I am very much excited to join you .I will discuss all my personal problems concerning relationships. Do you believe me if i tell you that until age 32 currently I do not have a love partner! This is due to my bad c...
A. 8 July 2008: Rahel,
Sure I can believe you if you say you don't have a partner. This is a common problem for many people around the world, in all cultures, and apparently at all ages. Happiness is elusive.
There can be many reasons for your situation. ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him during sex to make things more intense?
Q. dear cupid i am half spanish and white and my man is spanish but speaks grate english but when are making love i mainley speek spanish.my man has asked to say nasty thing to hin in english that turn him on but i cant really think of that many i want ...
A. 8 July 2008: Some people are into dirty talk and others are not.
If he's into it, my guess is that he might appreciate any words that come out of your mouth. If you speak English, whatever you say in English will be more natural. You're supposed to be letti... (read in full...)
Do guys like dry humping?
Q. Hi i was jst wondering-- is dry humping pleasurable for guys, b/c ive heard it can sometimes cause chafing? what are 'blue balls?'...
A. 8 July 2008: Lexilou, I beg to differ. I just learned the meaning of dry humping, but the excitement of it...
I also just learned about the name for "blue balls". I would have never guessed it. I won't say a word about that.... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but I still crave the attention of men, is something wrong with me?
Q. I crave attention from men. Im engaged to an amazing guy, we've been dating for 3 years, and I love him. I don't have low self-esteem, trust me it's not that, I just love for guys to flirt with me. Is something wrong with me? I've never cheated on a ...
A. 7 July 2008: Maybe you're feeling what many other people feel: that they will miss out on the fun because they will be devoted, as in "restricted", to one partner.... (read in full...)
He keeps pushing me to have another threesome. Does he really love me?
Q. i have had threesomes with my partner in the past but i have said that i dont want to do this any more but he keeps on asking me i am now confused as to wheter he loves me to keep pushing this subject....
A. 7 July 2008: I want to commend the Sister on this post. She has put it wonderfully.... (read in full...)
He keeps pushing me to have another threesome. Does he really love me?
Q. i have had threesomes with my partner in the past but i have said that i dont want to do this any more but he keeps on asking me i am now confused as to wheter he loves me to keep pushing this subject....
A. 7 July 2008: Yos said it all.... (read in full...)
How can I make the next two weeks go faster when the one I love is on holidays?
Q. my boyfriend has gone on holiday for two weeks. this is the longest we have een without each other. how can i make the next two weeks go really fast without the one i love?...
A. 7 July 2008: I think I'm with Smiles, though I would like to add a grain of salt and a little chili to what she said.
In addition to making yourself busy, it will also help you a lot to think that this is only two weeks and he'll be back. You can make you... (read in full...)
He's my soulmate and I was his until I broke his heart with words I didn't mean. How do I put it right?
Q. My partner and i of 5years broke up 1month ago after i said mean things to him, but i didnt mean them. I had depression but im on tablets now and am better. The question is im inlove with him-always have been but my partner said i hurt him so much ...
A. 7 July 2008: I will give you the answer I would give you if I were your partner.
You hurt me with no reason. I can understand that you're depressed or something, but that doesn't give you the right to treat me like that. If I let you get away with it, that... (read in full...)
What does he want when he moves my hand?
Q. during foreplay my boyfriend moves my hand towards his penis. What does he want? A full blown hand job or just some touching? If the latter in what way does he want me to touch him? ...
A. 7 July 2008: I'm with Gecko12 and Tremor. Also, why don't let ideas come freely to you?... (read in full...)
Is it unusual for men my age to be into mature women?
Q. I am only 18 years old and I really have a thing for much older women i'm talking 50+ I have never been with one as it is very hard to find mature women into men so young. Is it unusual for someone my age to be into this sort of thing?...
A. 7 July 2008: Yes, it is, but fifty year olds have their magic, too.
I suppose you're talking about sex. 32 years is too much of an age gap, man. Don't try that.... (read in full...)
What will people think if they find out we're having sex?
Q. Me and my boyfriend wanna have sex, but we both are afraid of what people will think if they find out. Please, i need help....
A. 7 July 2008: I agree with O'Connor: you're too young to have sex. Sex isn't just about the nice sensations. You get lots of other things with it, and you need to be able to handle the whole package. At the moment, you're not old enough to do it.
That ... (read in full...)
I feel like the world is in color and I am in black and white
Q. I feel like the world is in color and I am in black and white. I have a great job, my child attends a great school, I have a beautiful house, no real money issues, and yet I want to sub my husband for someone, anyone, else. I am pretty, smart, and ...
A. 6 July 2008: Fairy tales exist only in fairy tales. In the real world, things are almost never perfect, and, when they are, they are doomed to change sooner or later. That doesn't mean there can't be happiness or true love in the world. It does mean that we ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but don't know where...
Q. I have found someone that i really like and want to lose my virginity to, but i dont where i should lose my virginty. I love the idea of doing it in a bed and then falling asleep and waking up together but im only 13 and live my parents and 2 ...
A. 6 July 2008: I think people must be free to do as they please concerning their sexuality. I also think you would be wise if you waited a few years before you start having sex.... (read in full...)
Is he just stringing me along?
Q. Is he stringing me along?? theres this guy at work that has been working with us for just 4 or 5 weeks now, but he has helped out at our shop at before too! when he came to our store at i remember fancying him loads and always making excuses t...
A. 6 July 2008: Dear 22 year old female, my opinion is that your last paragraph is the truth: he might be saying this because he doesn't realize he hurts you more in the long run.
He might be afraid of hurting a workmate.
I think the best you can do is stay y... (read in full...)
A married man has said he is interested in me, and I am interested in him...
Q. Hi All A married man wants me to have an affair with him. He told me he was married straight away and that the decison was mine to make. I really liked him instantly and thats never happend to me before. I know that it's wrong but i dont think i c...
A. 6 July 2008: He is being unfaithful to his wife, but very clear with you: don't expect this relationship to go beyond sex. You will eventually have to move on. Maybe the wife will find out about the relationship, too.
The decision is yours.... (read in full...)
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