I'm desperate to save my marriage is there still time?
Q. I have wrote in before about my husband we have been married a 1 year 8 months i'm 30 he's 49.. We meet in March 09 married May 09 I truely love him with all my but the marriage has had problems,he was married for 15 year with 2 children he cheated ...
A. 8 January 2011: i have been married and similar to you, i married him before i had gotten to know him well enough and when i did get to know him i didn't like what i saw!
good luck, i hope you can either resolve the problems, learn to live with them or find the... (read in full...)
Why are some men into rubbing?
Q. I was recently with a new partner. He seems to really enjoy rubbing up against me. This is not "dry sex" through our clothes. We will both be naked and he will rub against my waist or my hip until he climaxes. At times he seems to prefer hand ...
A. 8 January 2011: oh gawd! he must be making you feel like crap :( it is really unusual, or maybe i just haven't lived enough of a life! if i was with him i'm afraid this would REALLY make me wanna dump him. what's the rest of the relationship like? is he worth ... (read in full...)
I love him but I don't know if he's trying to reconcile with his wife?
Q. Ok, I never thought I would be in love with a married man, and thats not what we both were looking for when we met again after 24 years. And it was just like magic looking in his eyes for the first time again. When we met he was actually separated ...
A. 8 January 2011: so the divorce has gone through and its not been the magic spell that you thought it would be? it is fair enough that he does not want to get so involved with you yet you know? i mean how would you feel if you were married to someone and then he ... (read in full...)
I'm desperate to save my marriage is there still time?
Q. I have wrote in before about my husband we have been married a 1 year 8 months i'm 30 he's 49.. We meet in March 09 married May 09 I truely love him with all my but the marriage has had problems,he was married for 15 year with 2 children he cheated ...
A. 8 January 2011: hi
you say you love him. what qualities does he have that you love? coz all you have wrote here is his bad points. there are so many things that you don't like about him, are you REALLY expecting him to change? and if you truly love him like yo s... (read in full...)
All we have is this internet friendship, I wish we could have more!
Q. there is this guy i talk alot to him and we talk about any thing even sex. i think im in love with him and i have started to be addicted about talking to him, we live far far away from each other we are even from a different cultures, i thought he ...
A. 8 January 2011: hi
you are using the word 'love' (?) weigh up the pro's and cons.. just from your post here is what i have understood...
bad points:
live far far away from each other
from diferent cultures
you have doubts about what he might be also sa... (read in full...)
Why are some men into rubbing?
Q. I was recently with a new partner. He seems to really enjoy rubbing up against me. This is not "dry sex" through our clothes. We will both be naked and he will rub against my waist or my hip until he climaxes. At times he seems to prefer hand ...
A. 8 January 2011: hi
when you say protected sex do you mean condom? and when he does this rubbing he is allowed to do it without a condom? if so, maybe he enjoys the freedom of not having to wear it without fear of getting you pregnant coz its not inside you. is he d... (read in full...)
Differences in age and culture!
Q. Well. It´s not like a serious serious problem. But sometimes it helps to write things down to completely neutral people and what´s more, GET ANSWERS. So thank you, guys! So... there is this guy (of course) who I really like. He is funny, intellige...
A. 8 January 2011: hi
i don't think the age problem or being from different countries is the the problem here, like you say, your lifestyles are very different and yes while he is exciting at the moment because he is new to you, do you think you would end up bein... (read in full...)
I said the wrong thing now he's ignoring me!
Q. Said the wrong the thing and now he is ignoring me? I met this man 8 weeks ago. we were seeing one another 3 nights a week going good having fun enjoying one anothers company. Then suddenly I accused him of seeing someone and he assured me he wasn'...
A. 8 January 2011: hi
you don't say why your marriage ended, did he cheat or you felt he fell out of love with you in some way? and is that quite recent? are you over your husband (honestly?) why did you say you wouldn't see much of him after the game, is it beca... (read in full...)
I'm so terrified of getting pregnant it's ruining my sex life
Q. Ever since i've become sexually active, (about 2 years) i have had a huge "phobia" i guess you could call it, of getting pregnant. I'm on birth control and take it like i'm supposed to but once i have the 7 day break to have my period, i get ex...
A. 8 January 2011: hi
you say you are not having unprotected sex but you are if there is no condom. pill has a very very very good success rate of protecting against pregnancy (up to 99.5% effective!) so long as you take it correctly and take extra precautions too ... (read in full...)
Our "casual" relationship!
Q. So, I fancied the hell outta one of my collegues , eventually we made out, and texted for days, we have since been sleeping together but are not in a 'relationship' as he said hes 'not a relationship person'. I agreed to this and when asked he says ...
A. 6 January 2011: hi
people get away with all sorts of stuff don't they while they are under the umbrella of 'casualness'! 'casual' doesn't have to mean 'having no respect for the other persons feelings' and that is what he is doing every time he kisses some... (read in full...)
He wants to do it all the time... I don't!
Q. I do not know what to do... my boyfiend wants sex all the time but I do not and I do not want to do it all the time. Please can people give me some help?...
A. 6 January 2011: hi
is he the same age as you? teenage lads are typically like this, its all the hormones. don't do anything you don't want to do. respect his feelings by explaining to him that you just don't want to do it as often as he does but he has got noth... (read in full...)
The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it
Q. I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...
A. 6 January 2011: aw you've made me feel bad now justquestions! ;) i just can imagine that the lady that is into you might really fall for you and be hurt coz she's not really what you want or that the lady that you are really into could run into problems with her ... (read in full...)
I told my FWB I love him and now he is ignoring me.
Q. I have been friends with benefits with the same guy for over a year with the exception of one month when I tried being in a relationship. I have had feeling with the guy for a long time now and he has known about them. Last night I brought up the ...
A. 6 January 2011: what a swine! i can understand why you're upset! i suppose it just maybe boils down the fact that we can't love everyone we meet, no matter how hard they wish for us to, in the future you will probably meet someone that feels more for you than you ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my current partner about my past?
Q. im currently in a 'happy relationship' but recently my ex keeps coming in to my trail of thoughts.... but my main question is that do i tell my current about my past,since he doesnt know nothing about it, or do i not? iv had 2 miscarriages one t...
A. 6 January 2011: oh dear! so he knows nothing at all then? this has definitely got to be YOUR call (sorry, that's not helpful) but will try and give you a few thoughts, have you lied to him and told him you haven't had sex with anyone else? has he told you that he ... (read in full...)
Problems with my penis (foreskin).
Q. im nearing the age of 18, and i think i have a problem with my penis. my penis is attached to the foreskin but only along the frenulum(not sure if thats the name, along the urethral opening) which i believe restricts the movement of my foreskin, as ...
A. 6 January 2011: you don't have to mention it to your mum, you're 16 or over so you can make and attend the doctors appointment by yourself. if (and don't worry this is not the norm) you are asked by the doctors receptionist as to why you want the appointment you ... (read in full...)
Falling in Love with business partner
Q. I have been separate 4 years, haven't been with or kissed another man while separated. My husband and I are finally getting a divorce/ My situation is for the past 4 months I have been doing alot of talking on the phone with my business partner...
A. 5 January 2011: he's been rubbing your back?! you never told us that, you little minx! :) definitely definitely ask him to that ball, i cant think of a more perfect way to get more intimate than going somewhere like that coz its got romantic connotations but on the ... (read in full...)
I'm graduating, he's a teacher and I'm looking for something to happen between us.
Q. Hey, I could use a hand on this issue. There's a guy at school/6th form, he's a fairly new english teacher, and I'm very attracted to him. I think he likes me too, we're really very close and go around town together a lot. At the moment we're just ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
as you have only got six months left at the school DEFINITELY don't get more involved until then. what do you mean when you say you go round town together and are good friends? have you got each others phone numbers and stuff? if so, you can ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him that I have feelings for him?
Q. Okay so me and my best friend of 3 years messed around and i feel like my feelings for him have sky rocketed but he still acts the same like if nothing changed for him! He'll be like hey bestie and its just weird for me now, I don't regret messing ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
typically girls have sex because they love and guys have sex - because they want sex! and apparently us women can't separate the two but men can but you know what? i think that is a very sweeping generalisation and i think it varies on the two ... (read in full...)
Problems with my penis (foreskin).
Q. im nearing the age of 18, and i think i have a problem with my penis. my penis is attached to the foreskin but only along the frenulum(not sure if thats the name, along the urethral opening) which i believe restricts the movement of my foreskin, as ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
has it been like this all your life or is it something you have noticed more recently? at the risk of being boring, am gonna say it anyway.. go to the doctor! :) the doctor sees penises EVERYDAY and isn't bothered and nor should you be! i know... (read in full...)
Could he possibly like me?
Q. Ok, so my school Glee club has a performance a couple of weeks ago and I never really noticed one of the guys until that night. So as a half way point, we stopped and ate. Never thinking that I would sit beside him but we did and had small talk, ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
i really loved your story until you said he was a player! but did you know this before or has someone told you this since you got friendlier with him? (coz he might not be one) 'fore-warned is fore-armed' in that you have the idea he is a play... (read in full...)
I need advice on flirting!
Q. Um, soo I'm 13 and a total romantic. I love love! But being 13 and single? Doesn't feel that great.. -So I'm terrible at flirting with guys, like I start freaking out and "go all out" like raising my voice and stuff and wayy too embarrassed to e...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
yes definitely go and watch!!!! :) make sure you look your BEST and look at him plenty, don't look away straight away if he looks at you, but when you do, do even that flirtatiously. i find that guys like it if you 'whisper something about them... (read in full...)
Out of the dating scene for years. Scared & Confused
Q. I have dated quite a bit over the past few years. Online dating and it's usually 1 or 2 dates and then it doesn't go any where. Or, I find something wrong with them, or they are not my type. I haven't been in a relationship in over 15 years...just ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
can i ask, apart from when you are having sex with him, do you enjoy his company? is he funny, interesting, makes you feel like you want to know everything about him and makes you feel like you want to tell him everything about you? if the answ... (read in full...)
Falling in Love with business partner
Q. I have been separate 4 years, haven't been with or kissed another man while separated. My husband and I are finally getting a divorce/ My situation is for the past 4 months I have been doing alot of talking on the phone with my business partner...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
being a business partner makes it a bit more complicated if things don't work out. but as long as you are mature enough to get over any embarrassment that might arise if you make a move and he doesn't feel the same way that's fine. i thin... (read in full...)
Do I tell my current partner about my past?
Q. im currently in a 'happy relationship' but recently my ex keeps coming in to my trail of thoughts.... but my main question is that do i tell my current about my past,since he doesnt know nothing about it, or do i not? iv had 2 miscarriages one t...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
difficult situation this in any culture i think, so you've been with him six months, that does not give him the right to know everything about you, but if you do stay with him and get more involved, in the future if he finds out anything or you ... (read in full...)
I want to talk to him but he's always with his friends
Q. There is this guy at school that I've liked for awhile now, everytime we cross paths (no classes together right now) we smiles and says "Hi (my name!)" What should I think about this? What should I do now? I'm a senior, and I really don't want to ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
:) at the risk of being boring and telling you what you already know.. am gonna say "talk to him!" he must be interested if he is 1 smiling 2 saying hi 3 using your name! seriously i think using your name makes a difference. is this all he's... (read in full...)
The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it
Q. I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...
A. 5 January 2011: so: woman likes you - you like another woman - she likes another man. :) it can never just be simple can it?! does the woman that likes you know that you would rather be with someone else? does the woman that you are trying to get with know that ... (read in full...)
What does my ex want from me?
Q. What does it mean when your ex says she hates you and she tells you she haves a boyfriend but wont say his name. like this Saturday she call me 2 times and i didnt pick up the phone. she was mad because she said her son wanted to come over to my ...
A. 5 January 2011: sounds like she may be bitter at you coz of what you've done (flirting with women and then lying about it)if you don't answer your phone when she rings you her mind probably goes into overdrive imagining that you're with someone and that's why you ... (read in full...)
He's distant after I caught him sexting my friend!
Q. I need help figuring things out. My boyfriend of almost 4 years has always been faithfull and full of love twards me up until two weeks ago. I just returned from a trip to my home town and decided while he was sleeping to look at his phone just ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
did you notice any difference in him before you found the texts? or it could be that he feels very uncomfortable/foolish/guilty/worried that you will dump him now that he knows what you have found out. why did you look in his phone anyway? did ... (read in full...)
I told my FWB I love him and now he is ignoring me.
Q. I have been friends with benefits with the same guy for over a year with the exception of one month when I tried being in a relationship. I have had feeling with the guy for a long time now and he has known about them. Last night I brought up the ...
A. 5 January 2011: gosh, erm, he's a mystery isn't he? the only reason i can think of is that after his last relationship hurting him he is scared to get involved too much again (but he is already very involved with you!) six months is not a mega-long time after the ... (read in full...)
My live-in boyfriend refuses to do nice things for me asks me to pay him each favour he does for me!
Q. ok me and my boyfriend been together since 1998,we broke up for 2 years 2004 to 2007 he did he left. long story and i want answers for lots of things but my question today is why dont he want to do anything nice for me?? he got nothing for me this ...
A. 5 January 2011: good for you for still caring about the kitty :) hey if he cant/won't even provide for his cat i hope you never decide to have a baby with him, and as for his mother, look; she probably knows that your great and that just makes her hate you more. ... (read in full...)
We've been dating 10 months and she still doesn't know my number by heart?
Q. So, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 4+ months and I came to realize that she doesn't know my number by heart. No big deal is what I initially thought but then I found out that she still know's her ex's number by heart (they dated for 2 ...
A. 5 January 2011: hi
i don't know my own mobile number at all, i wouldn't even recognise it if someone wrote it on a piece of paper and passed it to me. i remember the mobile of a guy i dated quite briefly 7 years ago! he means absolutely nothing to me any more... (read in full...)
What did I do that caused this?
Q. I need some advice, on how I contributed to this problematic relationship. The first 2 years were fine, but the last year that we moved in together was complete hell. She was always very insecure and would accuse me of being interested in ot...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
obviously i don't know her side of the story but from what you say she seems like she has got some sort of personality disorder and if that is the case, you have done NOTHING to deserve her appalling treatment of you. look at personality diso... (read in full...)
After we broke up we were still talking and everything seemed good, but then he told me to leave him alone! What happened?
Q. ok so me and my ex dated for 5 months we aggreed to dump each other because i honestly have no clue,he..is a person that has problems with expressing his feelings,but when he sis they were always honest every time,anyways after we broke up we ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
i'm sorry to hear this, look, there is only one person really who can answer you about this. this is a hell of a switcheroo isn't it? if he won't talk to you could you ask his mates if they can can shed any light on it? i mean he finished with... (read in full...)
How do I convince him of my love?
Q. Basically, I think he is doubting my love for him, I think he is feeling insecure lately. I know that he has troubles with his parents fighting at home, he hasn't really told me much more. One of his good friends has recently gotten annoyed by him, ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
as things are tough for him at the moment, just make time for him and do stuff/go places that he likes, send him nice texts, ring him, just to hear his voice, cuddle and kiss him lots, speak your heart to him
xx... (read in full...)
Should I give it a try with him even though I've heard bad things from my friend?
Q. I have had an infrequent casual sexual relationship with a friend of a friend. He is the platonic friend of my girlfriend. Lately, I get the sense that he might want to deepen the relationship with me. I am not opposed to this and at times I f...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
are you sure your friend isn't romantically interested in him herself? after all if he has been such a nightmare of a friend to her why does she still keep him as a friend? you make up your own mind, depending on how he treats you, not what... (read in full...)
What does my ex want from me?
Q. What does it mean when your ex says she hates you and she tells you she haves a boyfriend but wont say his name. like this Saturday she call me 2 times and i didnt pick up the phone. she was mad because she said her son wanted to come over to my ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi don't know how long you have been split up or any details of the split so i can only go on my experience which is that at first, i really didn't want to have anything to do with my ex, the father of my son but i had to still have contact ... (read in full...)
I feel like all he wants to do is make out with me!
Q. So I've like this guy for almost 2 years in high school and we never dated or anything. But i just saw him again after a few years and now we've talked about our feelings back in high school. he said he was naive and he didn't know what he wanted ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
do you want to know if he really cares about you so that will help you decide whether to dump your boyfriend or not? be careful if yo go down this route coz a decent guy might have a problem with taking you seriously or trusting you as a girl... (read in full...)
What a one way street!
Q. There is this girl i have been dating for the past 3months. We dated 5yrs ago as well for almost a year. Anyways, its funny how early on we have both expressed we love each other (soon i know but hey) she loves spending time with me, we have an ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi correct me if i'm wrong coz maths isn't my good subject but are you telling me that she was only split up from the cheating ex for 2 months when you got together this time round? She's not really had time to get her head round it all has she? i ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to work, but I want a man who can be an equal partner and contribute to the relationship. Who is right here?
Q. I've been dating this guy and apart from a few dates at the beginning and the occasional petrol money we split all the bills for the outings about 50/50. He pays slightly more as I am looking for work and he is working. The thing is I don't feel ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
ha ha, OMG are you with my ex?? i am with you on this, as in for me its not how much money they are making it is the self respect of having a steady job and being able to pay their way that is the most important thing, but maybe i am biased coz ... (read in full...)
We got back together but I cant help but be annoyed by him all the time, even though he is a great guy!
Q. Okay, so this is a very long and complicated story, but here goes. I've been in a relationship with this guy for almost a year and a half now. We broke up for three months recently, I 'rebounded' with someone else (as did he) then realised the oth...
A. 4 January 2011: hi i have been through the same and i just think if you are not sure whether splitting up is the right thing to do, don't do it. carry on working at things, like you say you are better at communicating now. do you think you spend too much tim... (read in full...)
How long have you waited for a lover to come back?
Q. I was recently dumped after a 3 month relationship and I was wondering how long some of you guys have waited for a lover to come back? Months, years? ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi do you really want him back after dumping you? do you feel that the dumping was justified? if not but you are willing to forgive him anyway, just be careful you only take him back on your terms (these pages are full or FWBs) 3 months is not a lo... (read in full...)
Opinions from neutral parties needed...
Q. So I guess i'm just looking for opinions, hopefully reassurance...My girlfriend and I had been together for 3.5 years. We always fought and argued and were short with eachother and fought in front of our friends. I don't remember when it started, ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi leave her alone coz it sounds like a bad relationship you were having anyway. imagine IF she came back to you... honestly... how would you feel? would you have desire to kiss and make love with her? would you not end up in same old arguing ... (read in full...)
This is so confusing, what should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, So there's this guy, let's call him Joe. Joe and I met online, this summer, I found out he was in my school, so we chatted from time to time. We didn't become THAT close, but our relationship was OK one way or another. So wel...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
what's stopping you from talking at school? you don't have to be as flirty as you are on MSN but just be nice. YOU are the only one stopping you from doing it, so er.. stop stopping yourself! sounds like he likes you :)
xx... (read in full...)
My live-in boyfriend refuses to do nice things for me asks me to pay him each favour he does for me!
Q. ok me and my boyfriend been together since 1998,we broke up for 2 years 2004 to 2007 he did he left. long story and i want answers for lots of things but my question today is why dont he want to do anything nice for me?? he got nothing for me this ...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
he's what we call a 'mean sod'. what a shame this is coz its really nice to treat someone you love to nice things isn't it? but unfortunately i don't think he deserves stuff and i think you should stop. i love cats, but let it go hungry, its ... (read in full...)
The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it
Q. I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...
A. 4 January 2011: hi
what you seem to be after is more of an open relationship situation yes? yes they do still exist but most women i think would prefer all or nothing. would you agree there is more sex before marriage nowadays? maybe this is why we want comm... (read in full...)
I told my FWB I love him and now he is ignoring me.
Q. I have been friends with benefits with the same guy for over a year with the exception of one month when I tried being in a relationship. I have had feeling with the guy for a long time now and he has known about them. Last night I brought up the ...
A. 4 January 2011: hey sorry, hope i've not offended you with what i said, its just that in most cases it seems like its the mans idea to be FWB and the woman will just go along with it, and then realises she is emotionally hooked and wants more. i'm a bit confused ... (read in full...)
I told my FWB I love him and now he is ignoring me.
Q. I have been friends with benefits with the same guy for over a year with the exception of one month when I tried being in a relationship. I have had feeling with the guy for a long time now and he has known about them. Last night I brought up the ...
A. 29 December 2010: hi
yes i am with dirtball on this. did you go into this in the hope that he would change his mind and grow to want you as a real girlfriend? your just gonna have to accept that this is still not want he wants. are you his only FWB or does he h... (read in full...)
I love him but I don't know if he's trying to reconcile with his wife?
Q. Ok, I never thought I would be in love with a married man, and thats not what we both were looking for when we met again after 24 years. And it was just like magic looking in his eyes for the first time again. When we met he was actually separated ...
A. 29 December 2010: hi
its a shame that you have fallen in love with him so much coz he is too entangled in marriage / ex(?)marriage. both of them i think are confused about what they want and he has involved you in this mess too. he has been seeing you for a year... (read in full...)
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