I don't know if we can fix this relationship, she's very stubborn!
Q. hi. Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ev...
A. 26 May 2011: it does sound like she has no respect for you and is keeping you on a piece of string, nasty to you when you call, arguments, then always sorry and reels you back in. it you carry on tolerating this behaviour she will never respect you, coz she ... (read in full...)
Have some space or be togther when the relationship is breaking down?
Q. Hi me and my bf have been really struggling for a while - i dont have time to go into detail. We have the opportunity to spend the whole weekend together this weekend but I want to know, is that a good idea? The idea is that we get to chill out and ...
A. 25 May 2011: use the time to sort out your differences. make it your make or break time- you cannot carry on like this. do something nice with your time together, go walking somewhere and TALK. no alcohol (it doesn't help)
plan together what steps you are ... (read in full...)
Should I try to get things going again or just try to get over this girl I like so much?
Q. i was talking to this girl and we had a thing going on. We met up one day and shared a day and we kissed. After a couple days things started to change and did not feel the same. I was going to ask her out the day after that, but then she couldn't...
A. 25 May 2011: go round on your own for your jacket, talk to her, just casually and see how she reacts to you. if you find you are getting on ok, mention that you had a really nice day with her, again see how she reacts, if she says she liked it too, tell her you ... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend and I got into heated argument on the phone. Should I apologize?
Q. I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I really care for this person. He only lives about 4-5 hours away and I have yet to physically meet him. He's put me through so much emotional stresses so I never felt ...
A. 25 May 2011: obviously we only have your side of this story but going on this info alone i would suggest you don't bother.
the names he calls you, all the arguing, the 'on and off' relationship (is this coz of arguing and splitting up?, the emotiona... (read in full...)
Is there any way to reject someone nicely?
Q. Hi, This is just a short question but is there any way to reject a guy nicely? this guy keeps asking me out and I haven't ever given him a straight answer because I just dont want to offend him, any ideas? We are quite good friends, but he is ...
A. 25 May 2011: aw your gonna have to tell him like it is, some people are quite thick skinned and he probably thinks that you would like something to happen but you are just worried in case it ruins the friendship (coz that's exactly what you keep telling him!)
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I made a big mistake while drunk. How do I move on?
Q. About 4 year ago, I went to a bar. I was 21 at the time, and pretty inexperienced when it came to any sort of physical interaction. I felt as though I needed to get out and see what I was 'missing'. I was sitting outside of a local bar on a patio,...
A. 25 May 2011: hey don't worry about this, honestly (in my opinion) this is nothing. we've all been young and drank too much sometimes, i've met loads of blokes who have been really too frisky with their hands but i don't hold a grudge! some of us women pretty ... (read in full...)
Married woman's marriage in trouble. Can I be there to pick up the pieces?
Q. Hey guys. First time here. Hoping you can help. I have feelings for a woman who is married. She is going through some hard times in her marriage right now and seems to be struggling about whether to stay with her husband. We have been having ...
A. 25 May 2011: I don't want to come across as some sleaze ball who is trying to take advantage of her at a weak time, trying to move in for the kill, so to speak.
i'm sorry to say this but that is exactly how you will come across if you try to be there fo... (read in full...)
Can a narcissist and a co-dependent person have a relationship that works?
Q. Hi. I am a co-dependent person. For those who do not know what this is, it is a person who feels the need to please other people in order to get his own validation. I have had treatment for this but still ahve strong codependent tendencies. Last...
A. 25 May 2011: if i had to put money on this i would say that - no you won't destroy each other but she'll destroy you. a true narcissist will not complete anyone else, that is not what they are there for. you will be perfect fodder for her games, you will not ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?
Q. Okay, so this weekend is a bank holiday, my guy is off work Saturday and Sunday (he works a lot of weekends) and basically he has been invited to go camping with his two best mates. I’m pi***d off. I don’t have a problem with either of these gu...
A. 25 May 2011: yes its healthy to have a balance of spending time together and being close AND time apart to do different things and miss each other. well as his job is dictating that he can only see you one weekend in six, just make sure that the time you get ... (read in full...)
Tell me if she is interested in sex with me, and then how do do that?
Q. I'm 18 year old. I'm very intrested in sex. But i yet didn't do that. I have an aunty with a child.she is a village girl with less education. She is so sexy. White looking and have amazing boobs. I want to do sex with her. I want to know if she is ...
A. 25 May 2011: no. i STILL think you should not do this. if you find it hard to resist her, just don't go to her place. get yourself a woman who is NOT a family member... (read in full...)
An ex-lover sent me a friend request on facebook...I am married-is it appropriate to accept?
Q. Is it okay to accept the friend request of an ex lover on facebook even if im married already?...
A. 24 May 2011: this depends on how you feel about that ex, are you still attracted in any way? what is the nature of his interest in you? will you tell your husband and how will he feel about this? would you be happy if your husband accepted an ex-lovers request? ... (read in full...)
Does it make men mad when they can't finish
Q. How do I last longer in bed I'm 18 and when me an my boyfriend get intimate I always have to stop an he don't get to finish sometimes because it hurts. I want him to be able to finish an be happy. And one more question does it make men mad when they ...
A. 24 May 2011: importantly, why does it hurt? do you mean hurt YOU or HIM? this needs to be resolved, maybe you/he has an infection that is causing the pain (see your doctor) or is it caused by being too rough? if so - make a change. make sure you are both getting ... (read in full...)
B/f blowing hot and cold with me and its not the first time he's done this!
Q. I'm so confused.. please help! I've been seeing this guy for four months now. I met him online. we are both 36. I have a little girl who is 4 and I'm divorced. I have some trust issues from my past relationship but other wise I'm in a good place (i...
A. 24 May 2011: sorry but he sounds like a liability. he was declared bankrupt for GAMBLING? is he getting help to overcome this addiction? and now his dad controls his finances? - i presume this is coz your boyfriend cannot be trusted with money? so the gambling ... (read in full...)
I feel I had an unnecessary abortion, how do I stop crying over this??
Q. Im an emotional wreck after having a termination 3 months ago. My boyfriend and i planned the pregnancy and he promised me he would step upto the mark, move into my place and that we would get married as soon as i got pregnant. I had no reason to...
A. 24 May 2011: *hugs* i'm so sorry to hear that. i know its no comfort but at least you have found out and you can now move on, knowing what he is really like
best wishes
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I'm confused about where we stand
Q. i posted this question a week ago and havent got any replies, so i am trying again dear helpful people :) this is a long story, im confused where i stand. i met this guy at a club, and we got on really well. we agreed to go to the next one a ...
A. 24 May 2011: yes, definitely move on i can tell he is not into you at all. fill your time with other things and soon enough you will stop thinking about him i promise! he wanted to use you to get a handjob that's all. kissing does not mean he loves you or ... (read in full...)
I feel like a crazy person. It's as if I won't allow anyone to love me, but I WANT somebody to love me.
Q. Why am I so picky when it comes to men? I'll like a guy and the minute he starts to get interested in me it's like I completely go off him, infact I can't stand him to be around me or touch me. And even liking a guy is a rare occurance, I never ...
A. 24 May 2011: there's worse things than being picky you know.maybe you just haven't met the right one or you are afraid of letting your guard down after being hurt in the past. you are not being fair to these guys though because they are not the one who has hurt ... (read in full...)
Can I stop myself from being so wet?
Q. Hey, I'd love some advice from guys and girls about whether I am getting too wet to pleasure my guy during sexual intercourse. We've been together 7 months and everything is great :) He's the most well-endowed guy I've ever been with, and when we ...
A. 24 May 2011: apparently men love it the wetter the better, to create more friction make sure you do your pelvic floor exercises everyday (google 'kegal exercise' for advice on this) make sure you initiate sex sometimes, he may feel insecure about how truly you ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend want to go off with his friends on a bank holiday?
Q. Okay, so this weekend is a bank holiday, my guy is off work Saturday and Sunday (he works a lot of weekends) and basically he has been invited to go camping with his two best mates. I’m pi***d off. I don’t have a problem with either of these gu...
A. 24 May 2011: let him go. its what he wants to do anyway so what is the point in keeping him at home with you? there are 52 weekends in a year so i suggest you give him your blessing to have this one with his mates while he has the opportunity to go camping. ... (read in full...)
My best friend is stealing my ideas...including the one about the tattoo that I've always wanted!!
Q. Basically the question is, am I making a bigger deal of this than I should. Here's the situation: So, I've always wanted at least one or two small tattoos. That's it. But I'm not going to get them until I'm older. So what I did was I took ...
A. 24 May 2011: she is refusing to hear you isn't she? tell her straight that as a friend you would like her to respect your feelings in this matter and tell her that you will look like dicks if you both have the same and as you are the one that came up with the ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend losing interest?
Q. I haven't seen my boyfriend since Mother's Day, and then the weekend after that I had gotten sick. He hasn't asked me to come over, but I'm unsure if he's waiting to see if I'll ask him. He's a workaholic though and has a graphic design and printing ...
A. 24 May 2011: how long have you been with him? maybe he feels able to relax a bit and not be so attentive coz the relationship is not so new now? but if he is as insecure as you say and he puts a lot of importance on getting replies to texts, then he should be ... (read in full...)
I want to be friends with my guy friends like we were before they got girlfriends!
Q. This situation is really upsetting to me. I'm a woman who has always gravitated to male friends. Having friends that I can share things and confide in is really important to me, and I need to have friends, but I feel that guys understand me and I ...
A. 23 May 2011: get a boyfriend! :)
how would you feel if you were in a relationship and your man put his female platonic friend first ahead of you? i am guessing you would not like it! and why are you writing off females to have friendships with? we're not THAT... (read in full...)
What does it say about a relationship when a guy says this?
Q. I was talking to my ex the other day n we were gonna make plans to go hiking just the two of us, n he said he'd have to check w/his new gf to make sure she was cool w/it. n I said ok np, do u think she'd be ok w/it or that its weird since im your ...
A. 23 May 2011: i see this is a messy situation you are about to get into, so i think you should tell him how you feel (that you like him more than a friend) and then see how he feels. think its a bad idea to keep your feelings to yourself coz 5 years is a long ... (read in full...)
A harmless peck on the cheek has caused my girlfriend to break up with me
Q. Im a bisexual in a relationship with a female.. I have been with her for 6 months now. Im an outgoing person, when I go out Im friendly, I talk to anyone... I have silly fun with my friends like hug, kiss (no tongue, just pecks on the lips, cheeks) ...
A. 23 May 2011: sorry to hear that, maybe she's just too angry with you at the moment. on the other hand if she has lost trust for you a relationship is VERY hard to get back on track, she may have always thrown what (she thought) you had done back in your face.
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I don't know what's happened to me...
Q. I need serious help. feel free to stop reading here as its gonna be a long one but if you carry on it would be very appreciated :) so, rewind my life back about a year and i was popular, was doing well at my gcse's and (not meaning to boast) but i ...
A. 23 May 2011: your ex sounds nice! (sarcasm!) were you the one that left him then? coz he sounds BITTER! my friends say often no to me too when i want to do things, but that's coz they're busy with their relationships, that's just the way it is with some people ... (read in full...)
A harmless peck on the cheek has caused my girlfriend to break up with me
Q. Im a bisexual in a relationship with a female.. I have been with her for 6 months now. Im an outgoing person, when I go out Im friendly, I talk to anyone... I have silly fun with my friends like hug, kiss (no tongue, just pecks on the lips, cheeks) ...
A. 23 May 2011: that's a good explanation, its exactly the way you need to say it to her coz its honest and tell her that you have learned a lesson from this coz it really seems like you have
x... (read in full...)
I don't trust girls because I hook up with girls who are cheating on their boyfriends!
Q. hey everyone, i have a small issue..actually its a biiig issue, i dont trust girls anymore, its like i really cant see myself trustin a girl in my life, im a goodlooking guy and i consider myself to be a player, im in a long distance relation...
A. 22 May 2011: 'what goes around comes around'
i can see why you don't trust your girl after seeing the way that some girls lie to their boyfriends while they are sneaking around with you. the best thing you can do is to stop this pattern of behaviou... (read in full...)
Badly hurt by a married co-worker
Q. Last year I had a thing with a co-worker, whom neglected to tell me he was married. We were close friends for 6 months before it got physical for 4 more months until i realized things were sketchy and that he was married. I was in love and stupid. ...
A. 22 May 2011: what he did was bad and of course it hurts, its VERY insulting to be used that way. you will never forget this, and nor should you coz this is something you will take into the rest of your life as a lesson - a lesson in just how LOW some people can ... (read in full...)
What is it about musicians?
Q. What is it about musicians that makes them so bloody attractive!? Such as singers, drummers, guitarists those sort of people who I used to hear on television shows people saying about how musicians are irresistible and that you shouldn't date a ...
A. 22 May 2011: maybe its the air of confidence they have and the fact that they are up on stage performing sets them apart from the regular guys in the world who are just happy to be part of the audience. people will advise you to not get involved with someone in ... (read in full...)
He stands up when his 10 year old sister enters the room, is this too much?
Q. What would you think of a guy (27) who is handsome, has a good job and basically has everything going right for him who actually physically stands up as a gesture of respect for his 10 years younger sister (17) when she enters the room and makes her ...
A. 22 May 2011: well that is taking etiquette to a whole new level! does he do the same for you when you walk into a room? yes this seems a bit over the top and i have never ever heard of this happening before. however, there are worse things a person can do than ... (read in full...)
I feel I had an unnecessary abortion, how do I stop crying over this??
Q. Im an emotional wreck after having a termination 3 months ago. My boyfriend and i planned the pregnancy and he promised me he would step upto the mark, move into my place and that we would get married as soon as i got pregnant. I had no reason to...
A. 22 May 2011: get rid of him. he is not worthy of you. he wants you again now that you are not pregnant - and after all he said to you before you got pregnant. he has treated all this like its been some kind of game. every time you see your boyfriends smug face ... (read in full...)
How do I make him feel very bad??
Q. So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has ...
A. 22 May 2011: don't waste your time or energy in trying to get revenge. to cut contact with him and more importantly - stop having sex with him will be the only thing that bothers him. and even that is until he finds someone else to have it with.
this ... (read in full...)
Can he stop me from moving?
Q. Hi, some advice please. I have an 11 month old son, I split from his dad, my husband due to him having an affair. Now I decided I wanted to leave the area to make a fresh start for myself and my son as they only live around the corner from me and I ...
A. 22 May 2011: you need to see a solicitor too. get access sorted properly and stick to it. as long as you live somewhere that allows your ex the allocated access to his son you can live wherever you want
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What does it say about a relationship when a guy says this?
Q. I was talking to my ex the other day n we were gonna make plans to go hiking just the two of us, n he said he'd have to check w/his new gf to make sure she was cool w/it. n I said ok np, do u think she'd be ok w/it or that its weird since im your ...
A. 22 May 2011: impossible to say, depends on a lot of things : one an a half months is not very long to be broken up from someone, he HAS got a new GF though. how long where you together? what where the circumstances of the break up? how was the relationship when ... (read in full...)
I don't know what's happened to me...
Q. I need serious help. feel free to stop reading here as its gonna be a long one but if you carry on it would be very appreciated :) so, rewind my life back about a year and i was popular, was doing well at my gcse's and (not meaning to boast) but i ...
A. 22 May 2011: i can tell from reading your post how much your confidence has been knocked. do you feel it all started to go wrong when you split from your ex? which of you chose to break up? and now you find that the guys you are meeting are never the right ones ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty that I told this guy I liked him. I have a boyfriend!
Q. hello, i'm 20 and i have been with my boyfriend for 2 an a half years. A few weeks ago i went clubbing with 3 friends, one of which is my friend that i used to fancy when i was about 12 an i liked him for 4 years which he always new about. ...
A. 22 May 2011: just avoid him for the time being if you can. don't mention liking him again. if he tries to bring it up, change the subject. if he presses the issue further just be honest and and tell him that yes you did used to like him but you have now moved ... (read in full...)
A harmless peck on the cheek has caused my girlfriend to break up with me
Q. Im a bisexual in a relationship with a female.. I have been with her for 6 months now. Im an outgoing person, when I go out Im friendly, I talk to anyone... I have silly fun with my friends like hug, kiss (no tongue, just pecks on the lips, cheeks) ...
A. 22 May 2011: ok first of all why does your GF think its ok to dirty dance with other people? and you tolerate it? people in relationships should expect to be dumped or at least reprimanded for that! and now to you.. he wanted to taste your lip gloss?? next time ... (read in full...)
Ever since he seen me with a guy friend he won't talk to me, he's even changed his phone number!
Q. Okay, Im a bit confused, Theres this guy " Joshua" that Ive been talking too and things seem really great. The first time I've met him, he was really quiet around people but i always noticed that he ALWAYS stared at me. For a whole year, he ...
A. 22 May 2011: he may have felt really hurt that he saw you with the other guy but if he cared about keeping your relationship he should have at least given you the chance to explain. sounds like he is very jealous and insecure and is enjoying making you suffer ... (read in full...)
Her told her to go hide in the basement! Does he have a girlfriend?
Q. I am asking this question for a friend of mind and she was at this guy house whom she sorta likes and he was about to take her home when a car pulled up. He then quickly told her to go wait in his room and then he was like no, go in the basement. ...
A. 22 May 2011: yes, definitely wanted to keep her hidden from SOMEONE, either another woman or he is ashamed of your friend, as all he wants to do is make out with her and buy her things to keep her interested in him, but he doesn't want to take her out? yes, red ... (read in full...)
Friend planning on having unprotected sex!
Q. My friend is planning on having unprotected sex with her boyfriend and I'm seriously worried she'll end up preagant at 17 but she won't listen to me when I tell her to get on the pill of use a condom and I don't know what do to get her to listen? ...
A. 22 May 2011: tell her that if she is hoping to trap him and keep hold of him by getting pregnant it WILL backfired on her. the only one who ends up trapped in situations like these is the woman (usually) when she is left with a baby and the guy goes off and ... (read in full...)
We run out of things to talk about!
Q. ok so my boyfriend is in New Mexico at the moment and i hate being away from him and we talk every night but he always wants me to come up with the topics. I HAVE RAN OUT OF THINGS. but he gets mad at me when i dont have anything and we just ended ...
A. 22 May 2011: does he have topics or is he just waiting for you to lead the convo everytime? you can only really have things to talk about if you are both leading quite full lives so make sure you still get out and do things with your friends, talk about school, ... (read in full...)
In a long distance relationship but there's someone flirting with him - should I be worried?
Q. I've recently entered into a long-distance relationship with a chap from Britain. We're both very attracted to each other, and talk almost every day (we've known each other for a year, and have recently gotten quite close). I'm saving up to go out ...
A. 22 May 2011: i have been in a string of bad relationships too and the more it happens the more you NEED the next one to be different and good. is this the way you feel at the moment? even if she doesn't 'get to him first' you may come over to Britain, see him ... (read in full...)
Tell me if she is interested in sex with me, and then how do do that?
Q. I'm 18 year old. I'm very intrested in sex. But i yet didn't do that. I have an aunty with a child.she is a village girl with less education. She is so sexy. White looking and have amazing boobs. I want to do sex with her. I want to know if she is ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
is she your real aunty or is she married to your uncle? if she is married leave her alone. if she is your mothers/father's sister DEFINITELY leave her alone. forget about your lust for her and meet someone else outside of your family. what... (read in full...)
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