He said he wanted a threesome and then turned the tables on me
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost a year. We have had our ups and downs and he doesnt know how to communicate very well. I have an anxiety personality so when I don't hear from him after an argument it trips a trigger I have ...
A. 5 March 2014: it dosent seem to be a huge misunderstanding ... but if I am getting this right... it sounds as though he has trust issues and that looks like a test. however I can tell you that you are letting him rule you by catering to this "trigger " of yours. ... (read in full...)
My thirteen year old caught my husband and I having sex. How do I repair the relationship with her?
Q. so every friday, my susband has a day off. we thought to make it special on valentines day, and ended up having sex. we didn't hear the key turn in the door because the next thing i know, my thirteen yearold daughter's standing in the doorway ...
A. 23 February 2014: I would talk with her.. and apologize ... she's gonna get over it... but whats right is right.. and sometimes we make mistakes... assure her you wont make this one again.. ... (read in full...)
It feels like I am no longer good enough for him!
Q. Hello Dear cupid ladies and Gentlemen. I'm in a very confusing situation with my boyfriend of a year. For starters our relationship is going straight to the ground. Since January we've been fighting a lot every single day! And he's been acti...
A. 23 February 2014: sweetie... I hate to say this but he's cheating. he's showing all the signs.. and just isn't man enough to do the right thing. He's using new positions prolly cause he just learned them from someone else. the change in attitude and personality ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, but who's the daddy!
Q. heya, iv just found out im pregant and im not sure who the father is. i found out 4 days ago that i am pregrant and still am not sure if i should keep it or not. there are two possible fathers but there is only 3 days between them, so could n...
A. 23 February 2014: I believe your fist course of action is to decide what you want. there are other options like adoption... once you decide what you want to keep it or not... then you can decide to tell the father or not and have a DNA test.. Remember if you ... (read in full...)
His comment about the other girl really has me doubting myself
Q. Why do I feel this way? I'm I overreacting? So my boyfriend is on holiday and he's staying with his friend and he has a female roomate. We were talking and I asked how the girl is. He said they get on really well. They went shopping toget...
A. 13 January 2014: your ex gave you a confidence issue... not this guy... he changed the subject because he's with you... there will always be better looking better boobs... etc.... low confidence is way more unattractive than curves. ... this issue really lies with ... (read in full...)
He met his ex behind my back and now I don't feel like I can trust him!
Q. I've just found out my bf of a year has met his ex behind my back. He's been split from this girl for 3 years and has had 2 relationships inbetween, both of which he cheated on them with this girl. He told me about it when I was getting to k...
A. 2 January 2014: you don't feel you can trust him because you cant. My man man chat with ex's but meeting up?? NOOOOOO... he is clearly not over her. my advise is to run away... if you cant do that... give him the option.. me or her...
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I'm getting suspicious -- should I approach this collegue of his?
Q. hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for years but it has been a rocky road for one reason and another. He has called me by his colleagues name a couple of times recently. The last time was this weekend, I felt very suspicious this time for...
A. 12 November 2013: the only reason to approach her is if she is the one cheating on you.... she's not. He is. there is no way... they are just being silly... LOVE IS NOT A SILLY THING TO SAY its a serious thing to say. Don't be fooled.
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Does this man's mother feel I am competition?
Q. I am with a man 16 yrs my senior. His mother is in her 80s and is so jealous of our relationship. She gets mad at how much time we spend together. She tells him alot of negative things about me and says he ignores her. I have never heard of this ...
A. 30 October 2013: I guess for me to give a valid opinion I would need more information...like has he ever been married? things like that..
and it makes sense for him to ignore her... she's 80! Why argue with an 80 year old. My Bf has never married... although... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is planning a weekend away with a female friend
Q. Id like some honest advice from men and women to see if I am just being over jealous or if anyone else would feel the same as me. My boyfriend of a year has a 4 year old girl from a previous relationship. He has lots of female friends which I ...
A. 2 August 2013: a man who loves you would run this past you... and btw I would tell him "hey I overheard your conversation the other day... I wasn't snooping but I cant help but have hearing " so whats up with that? then when he tells you tell him.. hey im not ... (read in full...)
How can I believe that he isn't cheating when he's using porn and having phone sex?
Q. Me and my fiance are together now for almost 8 years we have 2 boys together as far as I know him he is watching porn and keep on denying it, I cought him 4 times already having phonesex with other woman, he keeps on saying he will never cheat on me ...
A. 1 August 2013: well I have discovered that cheating varies on different levels...what I may see as cheating you may not.. and vice versa.. you get my drift. But the real deal is.. what can YOU deal with? where is your line? My line is no contact (in depth ... (read in full...)
Is cybersex cheating and is it forgivable?
Q. My husband of 15 years was caught having an affair online with a colleague. He left "chat" open and I read all the sordid details. He claims everything happened online but I discovered they had plans to meet. I feel beyond betrayed and hurt and...
A. 31 May 2013: an emotional affair is to most worse than the real thing... I could tell you to leave him etc... but the truth is only you can make that call.. with that being said I only have these thoughts -is this behavior acceptable to you ? - are you wil... (read in full...)
Should my friend tell her fiancé that she slept with two of his friends, before they were officially a couple?
Q. i wanted to ask this question on behalf of one of my good friends. we were talking earlier today and i gave her some advice and wanted to know if people had differing perspectives. her and her boyfriend got together about a year ago. they were j...
A. 6 November 2012: as much as I'd like to say its okay because she didn't think it would go anywhere its not. " she claims that she just didn't know if she really cared about him enough or not yet to commit herself to him fully, but also didn't want to lose him. ... (read in full...)
What would you consider early warning signs of a controlling man?
Q. Hi, What would you consider early warning signs if a controlling man? My boyfriend of 10 months as shown a few signs but I'm not sure if I'm over thinking. He doesn't like me wearing make up, accused me of wearing clear tights so other people wou...
A. 5 November 2012: Run away!!!!!!! Can't say that loud enough...shoved you? Pushed you? Put you down? Honey if that's not on your dating list wants then get out!!... (read in full...)
Can I ask to spend a day with him WITHOUT his family?
Q. Question about boyfriends family and how to split the time. My boyfriend is in the military, and got a leave to come home this weekend. I had not seen him in 3 months. He arrived Friday evening and left again Sunday evening, so not much time. I...
A. 5 November 2012: Sounds to me like you have to learn to share...also I'm confused..you say "you need to get to know him" but you love with him? Might I ask how long before you two moved in? Also..its sounds to me he treats his family with love and respect ... (read in full...)
Would you find it offensive to be told you are his first black girl?
Q. I am a black single female who is born and bred in a multi-cultural city. I date/pursue men who I am initially attracted to and this can be of any race different to my own. I have noticed that on more than a few occasions if I become close with a ...
A. 2 November 2012: I'm not sure if i would find it offensive but men being men... i would think they mean it as in a compliment I amctually said to one individual "I've never dated red heads" which means just that... usually I'm not attracted to red heads but in one ... (read in full...)
Condoms in his wallet change? Is he cheating?
Q. My boyfriend is 19 and I am 18. We've been together for around 5 months now. Im his first girlfriend. He is so gentle, caring and affectionate, and is generally a very nice guy. We get along exceptionally well, and it has been this way since ...
A. 2 November 2012: The fact the condems keep changing is of concern...but, if you are taking them out to potentially use them....well ..are you guys opening them...or returning them to his wallet? If your returniwtyem and he comes back with different ones well in my ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend chose he's ex girlfriend's friendship over me. I'm so hurt and disappointed
Q. My partner of 18 mths (whom had discussed marriage with me ) and I broke up a few weeks ago due to his level of contact with his ex , by his own admittance, his best and only friend aside from me .They have been totally committed to each other for ...
A. 31 October 2012: Wow I hope things work out.....but I think walking away is the right thing to do. ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's ex called her out of the blue and it has left me feeling worried, am I being irrational?
Q. Okay, a few nights ago my fiance's ex boyfriend called her out of the blue crying that his dad left his mom and everything. She talked for about 30 minutes trying to comfort him. This really bothered me. I've been known to have trust issues ...
A. 14 September 2012: My theory is.... walking down memory lane tends to bring up old feelings... so I have decided in my own life NO exes... your with me. and if they are friends.... no constant communication.
i would sit and talk with her... tell her why your wor... (read in full...)
My husband waits until I've gone to bed to talk to a female co-worker, should I be worried?
Q. I know that my husband talks to a female co-worker. But he always waits till I go to bed to talk with her. She works mightnight shift. I don't think this is normal. Should I be worried?...
A. 14 September 2012: yes.... the fact that hes putting that kind of effort into "a coworker" says alot! i can understand oh this is so and so from the past etc.... but not all the time. and shes a coworker !!! WTH there are clear signs of interest here... .and if ... (read in full...)
Do I take a chance on love and move to be with my boyfriend in Australia? Or do I prioritise my education first?
Q. I spent 14months working in Australia and came back home about 3 weeks ago. Whilst down under I met and fell in love with my now boyfriend. Things have been great, the long distance is tough and I spend every waking minute thinking about him which ...
A. 14 September 2012: If he loves you he will want you to get an education! My very best friend and cousin had a full ride to JHU but met a man fell in love... he convinced her to move to guam and give up her education (full ride mind you).... with in a year he was ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or is it all in my head?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend of one year got caught talking and seeing his ex girlfriend about a month ago I talked to Both I them and their just friends nothing happen, I told him that's fine but no more spending time with her. I should come first! But sense ...
A. 8 September 2012: I have to agree with the other posts....the writing is on the wall.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 4 years won't stop going on dating sites. Is it worth trying to sort this out?
Q. Hi, I am new on here and would really like some advice on what to do. I have been with my boyfriend 4 years. He wont stop going on dating sites. I have caught him doing it and seen it with my own eyes 3 times, I have also got to the point where I ...
A. 8 September 2012: I have to agree with honey pie as well as the others. His behavior won't change an no amount of you watching, tracking spying nagging or else wise is going to change that. What concerns me most is not what he's doing but the fact that you have no ... (read in full...)
We've been together three years but things aren't moving forward
Q. We get on great but my boyfriend says he can't take time off this year (or last year) as he needs to work on his hobby car which he has completely stripped down and spent a few thousand on. All his spare time and money are dedicated to his hobby. ...
A. 31 August 2012: I would say if things haven't moved on... then things aren't bound to change. He is using the car as an excuse.... there are plenty of couples in relationships who have hobbies and yet still manage to commit. But in all fairness you have to be ... (read in full...)
After seeing his emails I feel like I can be replaced
Q. my Bf left his fb open on my pc... i didn't realize it was his at first clicked on the messages and saw that he was in serious contact with his ex... to the point of lending her 2500.00 to get a place... she is having issues with her man etc... same ...
A. 27 September 2011: also since having a conversation with him (beating around the bush and used another couple as example to him) earlier about.. how i felt about cheating.. and how that man (fake couple) was stupid for sending her cash and how the cheating girl always ... (read in full...)
After seeing his emails I feel like I can be replaced
Q. my Bf left his fb open on my pc... i didn't realize it was his at first clicked on the messages and saw that he was in serious contact with his ex... to the point of lending her 2500.00 to get a place... she is having issues with her man etc... same ...
A. 27 September 2011: i think he wants her to be grateful to him for the cash... he has mentioned to me.. when in the fight "how generous he is with his money and time towards me and my children"... which really hurt.. im a single mom..paying for school and doing ... (read in full...)
After seeing his emails I feel like I can be replaced
Q. my Bf left his fb open on my pc... i didn't realize it was his at first clicked on the messages and saw that he was in serious contact with his ex... to the point of lending her 2500.00 to get a place... she is having issues with her man etc... same ...
A. 27 September 2011: it started with a comment over a Baby bunny she was holding against her breasts on her fb page "wow lucky bunny"... which I found offensive.... told him so and he laughed and said its just fb.. no we do not fight.. infact this was the only one... i ... (read in full...)
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