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Since my wife's breast implants she has changed

Q.   I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...

A.   28 February 2011: oh Mr Baz :( without meaning to sound awful - you are better off out of this situation, i hope you will realise this soon. people change, and not always for the better. you must have met when you were very young, kids even? and this now is the ... (read in full...)

Since my wife's breast implants she has changed

Q.   I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...

A.   23 February 2011: hi again i am sorry to hear this, it has come as no surprise to you though has it? this marriage could never have continued to work because she is so different from the girl you met, fell in love with and married. if she had been like this back... (read in full...)

Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality

Q.   I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...

A.   8 February 2011: i am sorry that you don't like the opinion i expressed but you surely know how provocative you are being and indeed you will be waiting for the next bashing. my advice would be to tell the Australian what you have done instead of keeping it from ... (read in full...)

Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality

Q.   I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...

A.   25 January 2011: you are really priceless. you dumped the Aussie and never even had the courage to tell her the real reason. is this because you did not want to COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY burn your bridges with her? you wanted her to still love you, even though she ... (read in full...)

Does this silence mean it's over?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was ...

A.   17 January 2011: @ OP: regarding my previous answer... when i say 'of course it does' i mean in answer to your statement 'it really hurts' (not in answer to the title of your question) sorry hun! x ... (read in full...)

Does this silence mean it's over?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was ...

A.   17 January 2011: of course it does, i know coz i had similar a few years ago. was a bit of an LDR, it wasn't my longest relationship, but it was probably the most intense one and it was the one that hurt me most when he left and the one that took me the longest to ... (read in full...)

Does this silence mean it's over?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was ...

A.   16 January 2011: ok, now i'm as confused as you are! that letter was a bit inconclusive wasn't it? the fact is is that you have tried to contact him, and he isn't getting back to you. maybe he is trying to collect his thoughts, or maybe he has decided already. he ... (read in full...)

Does this silence mean it's over?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was ...

A.   16 January 2011: what made you ask if you are still together? there must have been some problems leading up to this conversation then? some people find it hard or even impossible to be up-front and honest when asked a question like that, they find it easier to just ... (read in full...)

Should we keep it as step bro and sis or do we explore what could be?

Q.   ive recently become reacquainted w my "stepbrother" we havent seen each other in over 20 yrs. my mom married his dad and his dad adopted me and my sister. he has since past away. i didn't know my step brother growing up we only lived together about ...

A.   15 January 2011: hi well as you are not blood related it is not a problem biologically BUT the fact that his dad legally adopted you and your sister may cause a problem legally. do you think a relationship would be accepted by your family? bear in mind that if y... (read in full...)

I feel trapped in my marriage

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for advice. Im 28 and hes 46 been together for 6yrs... married 1yr. Not sure i wanted to get married. But he was pushing me. asking me everyday when we getting married. Then one day he says will you please just pick a day. So I ...

A.   15 January 2011: of course he is gutted that you have left. anyone would be especially in the early days of the split. but after the way he has treated you, he does not deserve to be the one who calls the shots on this. he still obviously wants to be in control, ... (read in full...)

Does this silence mean it's over?

Q.   I have a boyfriend who I haven't heard from for almost 2 weeks now. We're in different countries right now. I've tried calling him and left voicemails I don't know how many times but he hasn't returned any of my calls. I sent him a letter which was ...

A.   15 January 2011: hi how long have you known him? you say your last conversation was not pleasant, but ended on a good note. sounds like he has realised he does not want to be with you now but wants to avoid confrontation and discussing his reasons, and maybe this... (read in full...)

Why do I want to have sex 24/7?

Q.   i am 46 years old not a baby by any means. but all i think about is sex nothing else matters to me but having sex. i was molested as a child several times. when i was married i cheated on my ex and now i just had sex with a married woman who is very ...

A.   15 January 2011: hi depending on the extent, this could be sex addiction or just simply looking for affection and attention to fill a void in your life/personality. i am so sorry to hear you were molested :( have you received counselling for this? if not you REAL... (read in full...)

I feel I don't deserve this award! Why?

Q.   hey guys just need advice to put this in perspective. ive been told on tuesday i have to go to my work head office for an outstanding performance recognition award. apparently this is big as i was selected out of nearly 800 people. i work my ass...

A.   15 January 2011: hi well done! :) you must deserve it, coz as you say you are unpopular at work, therefore the award hasn't been given to you because of your popularity. why do you say are you unpopular? are you sure you are not liked?? you sound a bit low on self... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is immature and I always cave in and contact him after a fight

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a little less than 2 years so here is the quickest timeline I can possibly do..... beginning: everything was cute, we would go on dates, things were good. about a month in, he starts becoming super insecure about m...

A.   15 January 2011: hi you need to make a list of his good and bad points. but judging by what you have wrote here the only good points are that: he thinks you look nice with no make up! AND? why the hell shouldn't he? other guys can think that too u know? or is your... (read in full...)

I'm always worried about "the next step"

Q.   I have been going through a lot. I have been fighting with myself. My mind never stops thinking. I am always worried about the next step. What is going to happen next.How will I get there. Can I get there. Am i smart enough. im too stupid. Why am i ...

A.   15 January 2011: hi you seem like the sort of person who wants to get everything done and ends up getting nothing done. take more time to think, about one thing at a time. learn to relax, just in your own company or if you find this just makes you restless, take... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a cheating drunk, and I don't know if I can trust him

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We have 2 children together. When we first met things went really fast we were living together in 3 months and pregnant.When we met I knew that he drank pretty heavily, but during my pregnancy I found out ...

A.   15 January 2011: hi has he actually started his alcohol programme or is it still in the 'planning stage' at the moment. also WHY has he decided after all this time to get help? is it what he really wants to do or is he just going through with it so that you will... (read in full...)

Is he subtly trying to tell me he's not interested?

Q.   A friend of mine often brings up "why are people gossiping, there's nothing going on between us". We do spend a lot of time together chatting, several hours at a time. We've cut back on that cos it has engendered a lot of gossip and it's detrime...

A.   15 January 2011: the 18 year gap makes no difference, most men prefer a younger woman, and anyway, you are thirty something yourself so as we get older age gaps are less of an issue. sounds like he is really interested, but now (from reading your latest post) yo... (read in full...)

His personality did a 360, I'm not sure what to think!.

Q.   My husband separated 6 months, in the beginning he avoided like the plague, we had been in war for the last 4 years due to his infidelity, then he was caught again on the computer sending some cutsey things to some woman...he swears up and down the ...

A.   15 January 2011: he probably wants to be friends because he still cares for you as a person, you have shared the past 24 years, maybe he still wants your company some of the time, he may feel a bit lonely to have left a marriage after all this time. only he can ... (read in full...)

I listen to my friend but when its my turn to talk she changes the subject!

Q.   im just wondering if anyone else thinks that someone acting like this, makes them a bad friend or is it just their personality? so my "friend" hasnt been very supportive to me and i have been doing all i can to be supportive to her because we both ...

A.   14 January 2011: hi she's selfish, i have a friend exactly the same. its all 'me me me' and makes it difficult to get a word in side-ways! i have known her for about 14 years and she is now 36(?) so i'm guessing she is never gonna change. i don't let it bother me, ... (read in full...)

Is this a mental condition? Or from the hardships of a relationship?

Q.   A bit of a mental/relationship question:: My boyfriend and i have been going out for almost two years and before i was with him i suffered from bouts of depression. this fall, because of college, we were forced to live 4 hours apart. I now suffer ...

A.   14 January 2011: hi this is called negative thinking and being anxious about being away from your boyfriend. identify the 'thoughts you are having' keep a journal. write down the triggers of these thoughts as well, ie where you are, what you are doing, who you ... (read in full...)

No christmas or birthday card from my boyfriend, is it OK for me to be upset?

Q.   I wrote on here a few weeks ago about how my boyfriend of 5 months didn't get me even a card for Christmas after I got him a $200 gift. My birthday was a week later and I did not get even a card for that either. Am I being a baby or do I have a r...

A.   14 January 2011: hi he's taking the p**s. no one is that short of money that they cannot get you even a card, if they can't afford a gift (although he has KNOWN that Christmas is approaching - its on the same date every year!!!) he could have at least done some... (read in full...)

His personality did a 360, I'm not sure what to think!.

Q.   My husband separated 6 months, in the beginning he avoided like the plague, we had been in war for the last 4 years due to his infidelity, then he was caught again on the computer sending some cutsey things to some woman...he swears up and down the ...

A.   14 January 2011: hi sounds like mid-life crisis and trying to recapture his youth after marrying so young. do you want to be with him? you need to have an honest talk to him and let him know your feelings. he may want to just do his own thing for a while and then... (read in full...)

Should I have a one-night stand to get pregnant as I really want a baby!

Q.   Hi cupids. Im 18 now and id prefer if i werent prejudged but when i was 14 i fell pregnant to an older man who was abusing me for 2 years 12-14. When i fell pregnant i spoke to a lovely lady nurse about what had been happening and she helped me ...

A.   14 January 2011: hi i am so sorry to hear whats happened to you :( you say you're ok, but i can't help on reading your post that you are not ok at all. you are very young and you have years yet to have a baby, why do you feel it has to be now?? i mean REALLY a... (read in full...)

I need to relax but I'm not sure how to!

Q.   Hey guys. Im a virgin, my boyfriend isnt though. I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 months and we have tried to have sex a few times now. But I always get him to stop because... It hurts ^^; He tells me it's because im too tense. I don't f...

A.   14 January 2011: hi sounds like you have gotten into a cycle of behaviour where you tried to have sex, it hurt, so you tensed up next time you tried, so it hurt again, and so on. not advocating the use of alcohol BUT i can tell you that it worked for me! i was ... (read in full...)

He changes the subject when I text to tell him I love him. Why would he do this? Feels like I love him more than he loves me.

Q.   I recently started dating a guy that I've known for about 5 months. We started dating Dec 23rd. Well, I'm starting to question this relationship. When I text him to say things like: "I like you, I miss you, I miss being with you", things like ...

A.   14 January 2011: hi its too early days to be saying things like this. he knows it but you don't. don't condemn him for being more sensible and wanting to take things slower than you do. or would you rather he says it back, even if he doesn't mean it? you have... (read in full...)

I'm in love relationship with my mother 3rd cousin and if we get marry will she get a chance to have birth defect.?

Q.   Ok, here the things is, this women is my mom 3rd cousin (her father side) and her mother is my 3rd or 4th cousin (i don't really sure but something like that). So in blood relatives we can call each other "uncle" and "aunt". I should call her 'aun...

A.   14 January 2011: you could speak to your doctor about this. they can give you good advice or refer you on to a gene counsellor. may be able to tell you about the cost of this service in your country too xx... (read in full...)

Am I a bit weird for not particularly liking kids?

Q.   This isn't a relationship question but i would be interested to hear what people think. Ever since i was about 13 (i'm now 23) i realised i wasn't the maternal type. People would show off their kids and these women would go all ga ga over them and...

A.   14 January 2011: hi no you're not weird and this is more common than you think, some kids are a nuiscance anyway! :) for the record, a friend of mine was exactly like you, always said she would rather have a puppy than a baby. that was until she had a baby! she ... (read in full...)

I'm in love relationship with my mother 3rd cousin and if we get marry will she get a chance to have birth defect.?

Q.   Ok, here the things is, this women is my mom 3rd cousin (her father side) and her mother is my 3rd or 4th cousin (i don't really sure but something like that). So in blood relatives we can call each other "uncle" and "aunt". I should call her 'aun...

A.   14 January 2011: hi to avoid birth defects, both get gene tested. but i think you are only distant related. maybe people who are related as you two are (sorry, too confusing!) have gotten married and had kids before now and not even known they were related :) ... (read in full...)

Since my wife's breast implants she has changed

Q.   I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...

A.   14 January 2011: hi quick question: would you have chosen to marry a surgically enhanced woman who wants to hit the clubs every weekend, barely dressed and being 'in' with the bouncers? so rather than think of it in terms of 'is there a place in her life anym... (read in full...)

Why my wife feel pain when fingered inside?

Q.   My wife loves when I finger her clitoris. But when I try to finger inside she feel pain even when it was a gentle touch. Is this a common problem? Is there a way to avoid the pain? Thanks in advance....

A.   13 January 2011: hi has this always been a problem or is it something recent? do you keep your fingernails well trimmed? it is not normal to feel pain inside and i think she should DEFINITELY see her doctor as soon as possible. this could have a variety of medi... (read in full...)

Am I asking too much to be texted at least once a day by a guy who's supposed to be my boyfriend?

Q.   My problem is with my boyfriend (at least I think he's my boyfriend). We met on an online dating site and hit it off very well. We texted every day and he even called me just to say hi. We went on a few dates and he asked to be exclusive, I said yes ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi so you haven't been with him very long? i could say that he is cool coz he just wants to take things slow...BUT; the facts as i see them are this... he asked for exclusivity, he used to text more than he does now and see you more regularly and ... (read in full...)

I feel trapped in my marriage

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for advice. Im 28 and hes 46 been together for 6yrs... married 1yr. Not sure i wanted to get married. But he was pushing me. asking me everyday when we getting married. Then one day he says will you please just pick a day. So I ...

A.   13 January 2011: only you can say why you find it hard to leave him. what are you afraid of? (what could be possibly worse than this?) he KNOWS he is to blame, but obviously he'll never admit it to you, but deep down this must make him feel worse! he knows he's ... (read in full...)

Our sex life has collapsed! Help!

Q.   Hi, im 21 and my boyfriend of 3 years is 42 and i need help. We've been having trouble with intamace for over a year. We go months without touch. We were so wild and crazy 3years ago, we'd go on websites and play we had a threesum and other things i ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi he is twice your age, so does that make him unattractive to you? when we are young we 'grow up' and realise that or idea of what we want has changed. maybe you resent him for the threesome that he persuaded you to have? maybe you are bored with... (read in full...)

We've been dating for 2 weeks and now I feel we're growing apart!

Q.   OK so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and i feel we are moving apart and also when i asks him how doo i look he says fine ? i always compliment him but he never does to me he gives me hugs and kissed me on the check for a dare ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi you have only been with him 2 weeks? and you say you 'love him' ??? you don't love him if you are having doubts about him already and complaining that he is not complimentary enough for you, is distant sometimes but other times treats you like... (read in full...)

If my friend doesn't want to meet me, why doesn't she just say so?

Q.   hi i have a problem i was ment to meet up with a old friend i knew as a teenager she was going to ask her mum to baby sit on thursday (today) but she told me this on tuesday now she has asked her mum and she said she can't because of work in the ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi do you mean meet for a date or just as mates? as its always you who asks to meet, i think she probably doesn't wanna meet but she feels awkward just saying 'no' or doesn't want to offend or upset you. stop asking her, wait to see if she asks... (read in full...)

Why would he masturbate when he has his wife?

Q.   I periodically find used condoms in my husbands things. Like in the bathroom under a towel, or this week in his bathrobe. I know he is masturbating in them, but what should I do?? When I was first married I called him screaming and crying thinking ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi this is nothing to worry about and definitely not grounds for divorce! he just likes to give himself a quickie rather than put in the time and the effort for a sex session with you. as long as he is giving you as much sex as you want as well... (read in full...)

I feel trapped in my marriage

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for advice. Im 28 and hes 46 been together for 6yrs... married 1yr. Not sure i wanted to get married. But he was pushing me. asking me everyday when we getting married. Then one day he says will you please just pick a day. So I ...

A.   13 January 2011: i understand how you feel. i have been there. he makes you feel guilty and makes you feel that rather than it being a case of splitting up coz it just isn't working, its just you, 'abandoning' him. do you think this issue could be something that ... (read in full...)

She's my second cousin, we are not dating, but she means so much to me. What do I have in this relationship?

Q.   I have been close to this girl,(17, me 22), for a while now and we talk everyday. she is my second cousin, but there has always been something special between us. we are pretty close to each other and share almost everything and say we love each ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi do your families know you two have feeling for each other? when you say she texts that she loves you, what does she mean by this? does she feel the same as you or does she mean loves you like a friend? is she aware that you love her in a more... (read in full...)

He's dragging his feet about commitment.Am I too clingy? And should I allow this relationship to continue?

Q.   I have been dating this guy on and off for a while now. We started off being friends. I do not know what I can do to show him I will be a good girlfriend. He definitely cares for me but is dragging his feet when it comes to commiting to me. He ...

A.   13 January 2011: hi ;) dying to know who it is! you already know exactly what to do, you said yourself you wanted to get a life; so get one! see your friends as much as you can, make more if you feel like you haven't got enough of them, find a hobby that you like... (read in full...)

She thinks I hate her... but I love her. What do I do?

Q.   I used to be in a band with this girl. She and i were very good friends. We're not on speaking terms because we disagreed enormously on her ex boyfriends (my best friends) methods of dealling with their break up. She hates me coz i dnt think her ...

A.   12 January 2011: hi love? as a friend or 'in love'? is the break up recent? if so she is probably feeling hurt at the moment and it cuts her that she feels you are maybe taking his side? as she gets over the break up she will get over the bitterness she feel... (read in full...)

I feel trapped in my marriage

Q.   Hi, I'm just looking for advice. Im 28 and hes 46 been together for 6yrs... married 1yr. Not sure i wanted to get married. But he was pushing me. asking me everyday when we getting married. Then one day he says will you please just pick a day. So I ...

A.   12 January 2011: hi jeez he sounds like a nightmare and i'm not surprised your unhappy. he is overly jealous, overly insecure ( this is probably why he insists on sex every day) he is overly controlling and clingy and he is trying desperately to try to keep you ... (read in full...)

Why am I so worried about moving?

Q.   hello everyone, im having a problem with a difficult decision and was just wanting some input on it. So my boyfriend of almost 4 years and i are wanting to move in together. we have the whole house situation and all that stuff worked out, but my p...

A.   12 January 2011: hi does your dad like his own company though? maybe he would benefit from making more friends and getting hobbies too? just because you may have moved out,(unless you are planning to move far away) there is no reason you cannot still spend plen... (read in full...)

Feelings for my cousin are getting stronger, what do I do?

Q.   I understand that we are cousins but that means nothing to me. I only played with her when we were little, and i don't remember a lot from back then. A decade and a half later I found a job that required me to move, and she lives in the area so I ...

A.   12 January 2011: hi does she even feel the same way? i think it is best to not get involved. save yourself a lot of problems in the future. imagine you too get really involved and then it will be harder to split up, which you would have to if you ever want... (read in full...)

Girlfriend talking to my friend late ngt. Wondering was I cheated?

Q.   I m in a relationship since last 4 yrs. We surely knew we are in love wit each other before saying it to each other. Tats 4 sure coz even my gf confirmed this. Before we committed, my gf used to talk late night from 12 am to 3.30am with a friend of ...

A.   12 January 2011: hi alarm bells! as you know. find someone who doesn't make you jealous by talking to your friend for 3 and half hours at night (unless the guy was a good friend of hers already, there is no cause for her to speak to him for this long at nigh... (read in full...)

Have I just been fooled?

Q.   So, here is the situation: I feel like a fool right now. I started to get closer to this girl more than one and a half years ago. She had a boyfriend back then, but I knew that she is unhappy and the guy just does not let her go, even after a few...

A.   12 January 2011: hi sorry to hear you have been treated like this by someone who just basically sounds like she has no respect for your or your feelings. hate the part about her sleeping with 2 men abroad but then kicks off at you just coz you kissed someone (WTF... (read in full...)

My friends say I have to ignore his texts or calls to make him realise what he has lost!

Q.   Ok, i'll try keep this as short as possible. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. We were together happily for eight months solid but 15months on and off. Two months ago, he called up to my house and seen that my ex-boyfriend was here ...

A.   12 January 2011: there is no set rule for certain things and i think this 'to ring or not to ring' is one of them. it depends so much on the individual, as in: some people will respond well to absence, others won't. i don't know about you but if a bloke dropped ... (read in full...)

Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality

Q.   I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...

A.   12 January 2011: you may think that all your problems will be over as soon as Latvian gets an abortion, but a word of caution: just a thought: i don't think this situation will actually just simply die down with the death of the baby and you will be able to settle ... (read in full...)

He is verbally abusive, how do I get him to change his behaviour?

Q.   Hi Whenever my bf gets angry i.e. like when i try to call him when he is at work or when he is busy, he verbally abuses me. He calls me names, if i have known that he is busy i would have never called him in the first place. We discussed a ...

A.   11 January 2011: hi first of all, do you NEED to call him at work? maybe he feels a bit smothered if you call him a lot? but that is NO excuse for him speaking to you like that, calling you bad names and then not even apologising afterwards when he has cooled down... (read in full...)

We were supposed to be celibate, but I found a used condom in the dirty laundry!

Q.   What am I to think or do? This is Long but detailed so that I can get the best response. I thank you in advance for reading my post/question. :-) I have been seeing a man since May 2010. Since I have met his family and our children get alon...

A.   11 January 2011: hi you seem to have a good insight as to what is going on. if he is celibate, condoms should not be 'appearing' in the house or car. for instance, you cleaned that car yourself and now he is telling you that the condom was there all along?! he i... (read in full...)

My friends say I have to ignore his texts or calls to make him realise what he has lost!

Q.   Ok, i'll try keep this as short as possible. Me and my boyfriend broke up about 5 days ago. We were together happily for eight months solid but 15months on and off. Two months ago, he called up to my house and seen that my ex-boyfriend was here ...

A.   11 January 2011: do what feels right to you. not what your friends tell you to do. when he turned up at your house and saw your ex there, his trust in you was badly damaged, maybe he will learn to trust you or maybe he won't but i am sure that breaking all contact ... (read in full...)

Two long-term girlfriends, both in love, one pregnant - looks vs. personality

Q.   I am in a bit of pickle situation and it's pretty deep and I don't know what to do now. I thought I could handle it and that the answer would present itself by way of circumstance, but this hasn't happened and now I'm in desperate need of help. ...

A.   11 January 2011: hi you need to grow up, for your own sake. when Australian and you have probs you admit that she apologises 'even when it is not her fault' why is that? you have asked all your friends for their opinions, but it seems they are not giving you the ... (read in full...)

Is he subtly trying to tell me he's not interested?

Q.   A friend of mine often brings up "why are people gossiping, there's nothing going on between us". We do spend a lot of time together chatting, several hours at a time. We've cut back on that cos it has engendered a lot of gossip and it's detrime...

A.   4 January 2011: hi it depends on how he says it, but maybe he is saying it coz he wants to bring up the subject that nothing is going on because he would like there to be?? just a thought. if he is spending a lot of time with you and you are getting on well and ... (read in full...)

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