Do most people view threesomes like this?
Q. dear cupid, in the past, my guy has hinted around about wanting to have a threesome (with him being the only male involved). coincidentally, this has actually happened three times...hahaa. he did it once last year and twice last month. each time...
A. 4 August 2012: My partner had a threesome with then wife and their neighbour. It's came between us, big time, in many different ways. I agree with the reply from doublejack. I would have respected my partner if he had declined the invitation to that threesome. ... (read in full...)
How do I let go of a sex only relationship of 4 years?
Q. hi I have been involved with this man for four years with no committment and he sees other women.There is no respet and the relationship is not going anywhere, just sex. How do I let go of the relationship without constantly going back....
A. 24 June 2012: Being aware that there's no respect in the relationship, that it's built on sex will eventually allow you to stop going back. A relationship that's built on sex is a waste of your time but can be very hard to let go of because it makes us feel sexy. ... (read in full...)
My girl slept with my brother before we met,should I be angry?
Q. I just found out that my brother had sex with my gf of 1 1/2 yrs, it happened before we were together but I'm really pissed at them for not telling me. I knew that they were friends (thats how I met her) but I think he should have told me before we ...
A. 25 June 2011: I guess that before you are asking this question here that you really don't want the relationship to finish. You are not over reacting. How did you find out about this after this length of time? That has to be a factor in your decision making ... (read in full...)
Why wont my wife talk about her sexual past?
Q. what could the reason be for my wife not want to talk about her sexual past before we got married ? she shuts the subject down cold, the thing that bothers me is the one thing she said- i don,t remember how many there was, there was not that many. ...
A. 19 June 2011: I agree with the anoymous male who said "People who aren't ashamed of things usually don't mind talking about them". That's true. I am ashamed of my sexual past and will not talk about it because I am so ashamed of it. Maybe that's how it is with ... (read in full...)
How do I change a habit that has become ingrained? my daughter in law has complained about it.
Q. My son has asked me to stop repeating myself when I speak to his wife. He says she doesn't want to speak to me any more because I repeat myself so often. My son says he is used to me doing this and thinks nothing of it, he says I have so many good ...
A. 30 April 2011: All your replies have helped me, thanks. Dorothy Dix asked if we live together. No we do not live together. Most of the time that we speak is on the phone and to do with my grandson, who I look after 2 afternoons a week. Every reply had ... (read in full...)
He says I'm being unreasonable because I want to see him
Q. It's New Years Day. My mother is in hospital after suffering a massive stroke three weeks ago. I have had little/no support from my partner since this happened to my mother. I phone him, I talk, repeating the details of my day, he listens ...
A. 5 January 2011: Thanks, once again, for all your help.
He has phoned me and we have arranged for him to return what's in house to me (My bike, hairdryer, clothes etc)on Friday of this week.
On the phone call he appeared to see that his behaviour was ba... (read in full...)
He says I'm being unreasonable because I want to see him
Q. It's New Years Day. My mother is in hospital after suffering a massive stroke three weeks ago. I have had little/no support from my partner since this happened to my mother. I phone him, I talk, repeating the details of my day, he listens ...
A. 3 January 2011: Thanks, again for your replies to me.
I really feel better after reading them. At the moment I am being positive about my future, even with mum being very ill in hospital and no idea really if she is going to pull through.
If my mum doe... (read in full...)
He says I'm being unreasonable because I want to see him
Q. It's New Years Day. My mother is in hospital after suffering a massive stroke three weeks ago. I have had little/no support from my partner since this happened to my mother. I phone him, I talk, repeating the details of my day, he listens ...
A. 2 January 2011: Thanks for talking to me frankly.
I am afraid of being alone, of never finding someone else. I am very afraid of the whole process of finding someone new.
To be fair to myself I can't actually say I love this man. I did love him once bu... (read in full...)
He says I'm being unreasonable because I want to see him
Q. It's New Years Day. My mother is in hospital after suffering a massive stroke three weeks ago. I have had little/no support from my partner since this happened to my mother. I phone him, I talk, repeating the details of my day, he listens ...
A. 1 January 2011: Been dating on and off for two years. We do not live together, we live a one hour drive away from each other. Yes, he is angry with me and I'm not sure why. His 25 year old daughter (who lives 500 miles away) was the cause of his previous r... (read in full...)
Why could I not cope with my partner's sexual past?
Q. I could not cope with the threesome my partner had with his ex wife and her female friend and have ended my relationship with him because of this. I could not get it out of my head and kept thinking of the three of them together. Now that I am ...
A. 23 June 2010: Thanks to all who replied.
His ex wife and her friend (the two women in the threesome) are a pair of snobs who look down on everybody. Perhaps, it's the snobbery I can't stand more than the threesome. These two women allowed him to watch th... (read in full...)
Why could I not cope with my partner's sexual past?
Q. I could not cope with the threesome my partner had with his ex wife and her female friend and have ended my relationship with him because of this. I could not get it out of my head and kept thinking of the three of them together. Now that I am ...
A. 10 June 2010: Thanks to everyone for answering. There was something in each answer that helped. He has been on the phone trying hard to get back with me. Had the threesome been two men and one woman, I could have coped easily, but two women, no.
The t... (read in full...)
Is there a way to get past her sexual past?
Q. i met the women i love about a year and a half ago we are both 26. the problem is that she told me her past i did not want to know ever but she talked about it and anyway she slept with 13 guys thats including me that was with in 3 years.i have b...
A. 26 February 2010: The past the past the past, why can't we leave it there? At 50 I know no more than you do at 26. If you can't come to terms with it you risk loosing her, that's for sure. Ask yourself if you want that. As I write this it's a Friday night and I ... (read in full...)
I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!
Q. Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...
A. 15 February 2010: Thank you Jimmers. During our first date I decided I was not going to meet him again but I never voiced this. The day after our first date he phoned and we had a good conversation and I changed my mind about seeing him again during this phone ... (read in full...)
I'm running out of ideas for sexy surprises for my long distance boyfriend, can anyone help?
Q. Hi Im 21 and im currently involved in long distance relationship we dated for 2 years and he had to go away for school. Since we talk online we do lots of little sexy surprizes for each other and i run out of ideas! Help please!thank u!...
A. 25 January 2010: Years ago, before email and online chat, I was in a long distance relationship and to be honest there is no easy answer to your question. I got so used to talking for hours at a time on the phone to him that I had no life in my home town and then ... (read in full...)
I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!
Q. Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...
A. 22 January 2010: Yes you are right, thanks. I do not want to destroy our relationship because that would destroy me. I will learn to let go of this. Thank you all, very much. ... (read in full...)
I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!
Q. Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...
A. 21 January 2010: Thanks. I will try to get my visual image of the three of them together out of my head but it is going to be difficult. I coaxed details out of him and from the details he gave me I created this visual image in my head which now will not go away. ... (read in full...)
I am not coping with his past and the 3some he had!
Q. Years ago my partner had a threesome with his then wife and her female friend in their house, in their bed whilst their child was at her granny's. It was his wife who initiated the threesome, she took her friend back, etc. His wife has always been ...
A. 19 January 2010: Thanks for the replies to my question, all the replies have helped me and the more I read them the better I feel. I do wonder how can sex with one woman be better than sex with two women? I want to be the best he has ever had. He said to me that ... (read in full...)
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