What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 1 March 2011: never say never! you have only been seeing each other since November so its early days yet. he sounds like a nice guy :)
xx... (read in full...)
Since my wife's breast implants she has changed
Q. I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...
A. 28 February 2011: oh Mr Baz :( without meaning to sound awful - you are better off out of this situation, i hope you will realise this soon. people change, and not always for the better. you must have met when you were very young, kids even? and this now is the ... (read in full...)
I'm in a horrible sleeping pattern and don't want to take pills to help me sleep!
Q. hey im hoping someone can help me. im in a really bad sleeping routine and its effecting my day to day life and relationship. It started when we had two cats, they ended up getting fleas which we didnt know about, it infested the house. I kept get...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
i went through a period a bit like this myself so i do sympathise! mine just corrected itself as quick as it came to be honest.
the worst thing you can do is take naps in the day, you will never get a routine if you do that. its ok for y... (read in full...)
Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time
Q. I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
this sounds like it could be hormonal. have you ever suffered from premenstrual syndrome and felt totally irritated by him and other things? does this feel similar?
how do you actually feel about the pregnancy? if you feel like this was a t... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to be more sexual?
Q. Hi, I'm 13 years old. My boyfriend is 16 last week. The problem is, im a virgin...he isn't. He wants me to be more sexual, and i don't know what to say! He is really nice but he said it will never work unless i try to become a little bit more...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
i am sorry, you are not gonna like this comment - he's a paedophile - and that is exactly what the police and courts will say if his activities ever become uncovered.
he is over 16 - you are under - and its as simple as that. PLEASE do no... (read in full...)
My friend told me all men are really gay!
Q. Are all men GAY??? A guy who once had sex with another guy said to me that all men are gay, and that they just wont admit it, that they don't actually want women they just want to get off or have babies? He said stuff like they think the vagina...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
O M G don't listen to your gay friend! this sounds like a bit of 'wishful thinking' on his part. its a load of nonsense that!
xx... (read in full...)
I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?
Q. I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are ...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
your friends are probably jealous of your over the top confidence! i'm kinda jealous of you myself for that ;)
seriously though they are right in what they say - certain guys will all flock to a girl (even an ugly one)who is free and easy wit... (read in full...)
If I told girls I was a virgin would it help or hinder me with girls?
Q. Im 22 years old without a girlfriend atm and I'm wondering if girls would see me differently if I told them I was a virgin....
A. 28 February 2011: hi
only tell them when you get serious about them because otherwise girls could think you are telling them this so you can win points to get laid! you don't have to tell every girlfriend do you? fine if they ask, be truthful but no need to tell... (read in full...)
Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??
Q. how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?...
A. 28 February 2011: @ ivan and mishmash - love your answers! have given me a giggle on this miserable looking monday morning! - mishmash, your mum sounds like mine!
be careful if letting a store measure you - it all depends on how competent the member of staff is... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!
Q. I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
i understand how you feel coz i would be VERY uncomfortable with this too. the fact is - you are the sort of person who is not happy to be in a relationship where the ex is still very much part of your girlfriends life so this is not gonna work... (read in full...)
Does body size matter to a guy?
Q. Do men find a curvy body attractive??? I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom a...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
while i agree with the other answers, yes, anyone can find someone to love them, regardless of size - i have found myself that i get much more attention when i am slim, as opposed to the times in my life that i have been a little over... (read in full...)
Have I blown my chances with her by not making my feelings obvious enough and maybe appearing disinterested??
Q. Hi everyone, Yesterday I went on a second date with a really nice girl (beautiful, intelligent, etc etc) which I thought went quite well but when I sent her a message afterwards to say thanks I got no response (normally she responds within ...
A. 28 February 2011: hi
try not to beat yourself up about this. it takes two to make a success of a date or relationship so why are you worrying that YOU are the one that didn't do enough? did you kiss on or at the end of your first date? was the first date a meet up o... (read in full...)
HOW do I find the right guy???
Q. I need some advice ! :) you see i tend to get used a lot, either that or guys just want no strings attached sex with me. i cant seem to attract guys in the way they want to go out with me or go on a date with me . They just want sex or a thing wi...
A. 24 February 2011: hi
i am not trying to blame you because i have had this same situation LOTS in my life, but can i just ask you, is there any change you could make to your appearance (clothes etc) or to the places you meet men (night clubs tend to be the worst beca... (read in full...)
Are Love Stories Real???
Q. What I want to know is simple really. Are love stories real? Unlike popular belief, Im a teenage boy who doesn't want to get into some girls pants and I don't think about sex all the time like many my age. What I want is someone who can truly make ...
A. 24 February 2011: a great personality, nice and beautiful? are you sure her personality is so nice if she does not even bother to talk to you or reply to your texts? just as you have your favourite girl and do not fancy the others, this girl cannot be expected to ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?
Q. I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see h...
A. 24 February 2011: hi
it is sweet that he wants you to have a little place in his home to keep your things. don't read any more into it than that though, just go with the flow. it could also mean that he likes his house kept tidy and would rather you confine all ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't care about me either way. why?
Q. I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex two years ago and she took it hard. It was a bad move because once I started going out with my ex again I realized that it was my girlfriend that I loved and not her. So i went bck to my girlfriend but she ...
A. 24 February 2011: hi
you have probably killed the trust, and although she would really love to have it back it is not so easy, maybe even impossible in some cases. in turn, you do not trust her any more either because she is acting distant and maybe you are wait... (read in full...)
Is a cheater always a cheater?
Q. do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance....
A. 23 February 2011: thanks for that, Mr Clark. i have read the article and it makes for interesting and worrying reading, in equal measures! some one on the thread (on the other site) denied that cheating was anything like the effect that drugs and alcohol can have on ... (read in full...)
Since my wife's breast implants she has changed
Q. I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...
A. 23 February 2011: hi again
i am sorry to hear this, it has come as no surprise to you though has it? this marriage could never have continued to work because she is so different from the girl you met, fell in love with and married. if she had been like this back... (read in full...)
When I hear his name it brings back the hurt all over again
Q. Me and my ex has been broken up for 3weeks now but I still cant help but think of him, my friends think i'm over him but I Dont know what to do, as i get upset when I Hear his name or see something that we did together or anthing that reminds me of ...
A. 23 February 2011: doesn't matter how young you are, i know it doesn't make you feel any less hurt. regarding deleting the messages, if you can't delete them, don't. but i really think you should because whatever sweet things he said, it is not the way he feels now. ... (read in full...)
In what time frame does a guy know if he wants a relationship or to keep it casual?
Q. Ok. I am wondering about my situation. I have been casually dating this guy for about a two months. We talk on the phone..not everyday, but 3 to 4 times a week. I mentioned about a month ago, my birthday was coming up and on my birthday he called ...
A. 23 February 2011: hi
this is a tough question i was in a similar situation myself not so long ago (not with him anymore, it never got off the casual blocks)
it is different for every person. depends how many times you see each other per week, depends how ... (read in full...)
I'd like to approach my wife about using a big dong on her. Need advice. Also, does anyone have experience with this?
Q. I would like to approach my wife about using a dong in our sexual relationship, but would like some help on how to approach her. Since having 3 children, things aren't as tight as they used to be...and that's just fine. However, because of this ...
A. 23 February 2011: hi
i am confused! :) you are married to her and have been having a sexual relationship for X amount of years but you feel awkward about talking about this additional intimate thing??
anyway, how about you just suggesting or asking how she woul... (read in full...)
Facebook Ruined My Life
Q. Is it just me or is Facebook a total head-wreck? Personally, I see it as one big popularity contest. I mean it is so pointless. Why not go out and meet your friends for real, instead of giving yourself a headache trying to think of the 'coolest' ...
A. 23 February 2011: hi
facebook is great for some people, they may not WANT to be out in social situations so if it therefore enables them to still have some sort of social life, then i'm all in favour of that.
in recent years people (some people) have become ... (read in full...)
How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 22 February 2011: IMO it is sometimes better if someone of the opposite sex answers a question because they can give advice from a more similar perspective to the OPs partner (in the absence of the OP being able to communicate and resolve the matter with their ... (read in full...)
Is a cheater always a cheater?
Q. do u think once a cheater is always a cheater? thanks for ur comments in advance....
A. 22 February 2011: no i don't believe so. i have cheated in the past, not in big ways, that doesn't mean i will do it now though. i notice your age, are you asking this question because your girlfriend has cheated previously and you want to be sure she won't do it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex because of the taste. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend has only "gone down" on me once, and it was for about ten seconds. He had talked for a while about how the idea turns him on a lot. After those ten seconds, he never really said anything or did it again. He randomly told me while we ...
A. 21 February 2011: hi
you can actually be too clean and this will cause more problems because you are destroying the vagina's natural ph level that keeps it healthy. try using only a ph neutral soap for this purpose or one especially for the vagina. it is obvi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like oral sex because of the taste. What can I do?
Q. My boyfriend has only "gone down" on me once, and it was for about ten seconds. He had talked for a while about how the idea turns him on a lot. After those ten seconds, he never really said anything or did it again. He randomly told me while we ...
A. 21 February 2011: hi
you can actually be too clean and this will cause more problems because you are destroying the vagina's natural ph level that keeps it healthy. try using only a ph neutral soap for this purpose or one especially for the vagina. it is obvi... (read in full...)
Would you be upset if your fiance didn't give you a Valentine and a birthday gift in the same week?
Q. If your fiancée doesn’t give you a Valentine or a birthday present (Feb. 17th) after 6 years would you be upset? I have spent months taking care of him after his cancer treatment. I would have loved a card, but he just calls me names....
A. 21 February 2011: hi
yes i would be seriously p!ssed off BUT how do things stand now with his cancer treatment? could be that he is depressed now and not able to focus on what he sees as small stuff like valentine and birthday cards? if it is nasty name calling then... (read in full...)
I caught my boyfriend cheating on me by the fake profile that I created. Where do I go from here?
Q. I have recently found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me having cyber sex on skype with random girls on the internet. I did this by creating a fake facebook and pretending to be another girl. I know that this is wrong, but I was already ...
A. 21 February 2011: hi
well done for finding out the truth. it is maybe a bit futile to tell him what you have done, like you say we will TRY to manipulate his way back in but this time he really has no chance does he? its tempting to leave him dangling, not know... (read in full...)
What will I say? He wants to know more. But I lied about me on the dating site profile
Q. Hey all. I have been chatting to this guy I met on an internet dating website. my profile was set up as a joke so i had no problem checking it out as it had nothing properly on it about me so being nice i tried to tell some quiet shy boys that they ...
A. 21 February 2011: hi
maybe your intentions were good in that you wanted to give these guys a bit of a confidence boost? can you not just tell this guy that you like that you did not want to show your real identity because you were worried about internet pred... (read in full...)
Is a 4-year age gap too big?
Q. I like a guy who is about 4 years older (I'm about 13 and a half and he is 18). We get on well and have a laugh (I've known him for 5 years) but i want it to go further. I see him every week at his football club (he plays in the same team as my ...
A. 21 February 2011: hi
please do not pursue this. in the eyes of the law he is an adult and you are a child (even though you may not feel as if you are a child) if he took things further with you he would be classed as a paedophile so please do not encourage him to g... (read in full...)
When I hear his name it brings back the hurt all over again
Q. Me and my ex has been broken up for 3weeks now but I still cant help but think of him, my friends think i'm over him but I Dont know what to do, as i get upset when I Hear his name or see something that we did together or anthing that reminds me of ...
A. 20 February 2011: hi
3 weeks is early days to be over someone, so don't be inpatient with yourself, don't worry, you WILL get over this in time. little by little, so subtle you won't even notice it, until one day you will say to yourself 'hey, i've not thought abou... (read in full...)
I am physically unsatisfied in our relationship!!
Q. Let me start this off by saying I'm in a committed, strong, emotion-based relationship with a guy I really like. That being said, my boyfriend and I have differing tastes in the bedroom. I like a little biting a roughness (nothing crazy, by any me...
A. 20 February 2011: hi
he is not compromising with you is he? he sounds like he is too lazy to meet you half way. you may have to take a step back and hopefully he will come to you and bring you more of what you need. the fact is though is that he just might not do t... (read in full...)
How Personal Bias and Gender Stereotypes can Influence Advice
Q. I write this article knowing full well it will not be received very well by some. I can only hope that this article will still be allowed due to the merits of the argument I am presenting. I have noticed on multiple occasions a prevalent double...
A. 20 February 2011: good one dirtball :)
yes its a case of men being seen as the sexual predator who makes 'unfair demands' so therefore he is not 'entitled' to oral, but the woman should have her 'feelings and emotions' catered for and if the man is too 'sel... (read in full...)
There must be something I can do...???
Q. dear cupid the guy i liked has ruined his life. hes missing to much school he never got into collage he leaving to do nothing he drinks to much smokes to much does drugs why i have the crush on his because the boy behind all of that is the ...
A. 20 February 2011: hi
we do understand your feelings but realistically there is nothing you can do to make him change his behaviour. he KNOWS that what he is doing is wrong. what do you think you can possibly say to him that he doesn't already know? he knows the righ... (read in full...)
We talk a lot. He makes suggestive remarks. Is this guy's behavior weird? Or does he like ne?
Q. I have bit of a dilemma and not totally sure how to move forward with it. I have become very close to a male friend, who I have known for years and currently lives at the opposite end of the country to me. We talk every day on the phone for ove...
A. 20 February 2011: hi
don't make the mistake of thinking that just because you talk for over an hour on the phone that he is in love with you. it is something for him to occupy his time with and he knows you are always at the other end of the phone for him. this is g... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 20 February 2011: i'm not sure about this coz i don't have facebook but could a blank text box mean he has deleted what has been said? i will say to you the same thing that i have just posted to someone else: the issue is not facebook and who he has removed, the ... (read in full...)
What can I do to help my boyfriend get over his emotional affair?
Q. I've been in love with my boyfriend (ex-fiance) for the past four years. I recently discovered that he has been having an emotional affair with a girl he went to junior high with years ago. I have not read all of the emails, but the glimpses I catch ...
A. 20 February 2011: the issue now is not the woman, facebook, passwords etc. the issue will be broken trust and the fact that you may have to be ultra vigilant and you will not know if he has merely become more secretive.
trust me i get no enjoyment out of tell... (read in full...)
What can I do to help my boyfriend get over his emotional affair?
Q. I've been in love with my boyfriend (ex-fiance) for the past four years. I recently discovered that he has been having an emotional affair with a girl he went to junior high with years ago. I have not read all of the emails, but the glimpses I catch ...
A. 19 February 2011: @ gamine: that is a brilliant comparison you have made (the horse racing comment, i mean) if every person came with their own 'odds' displayed this would make life a lot easier! there is something about some of us though, call it a 'gambler's ... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 19 February 2011: he is too much of a flirt. i don't know how long you have been together and/or how serious he is about you. the fact that it bothers you so much is enough. not all men are like this so don't let anyone tell you otherwise. yes its fine to have ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 17 February 2011: hi
regardless of the size specifications you have listed and regardless of what us aunts think, i think your mates problem is less about size and more about the heartless individual who calls her self his girlfriend! why is she not dumped alre... (read in full...)
Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?
Q. I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm ...
A. 17 February 2011: hi
his mum divorced his dad just for snooping on her facebook?? i find that very hard to believe. if this is the truth then i think his mum is mentally deranged, i am betting though that your boyfriend is just saying it to scare you and make you ... (read in full...)
So for Valentine's Day my boyfriend got me lube and a dildo, where's the rest of my present?
Q. My Boyfriend got me a dildo and lube for valentine's day and I'm really upset because that is not at all what I wanted. What should I do?...
A. 16 February 2011: hi
i had a boyfriend once that got me a hideous looking vibrator with weird and wonderful prongs hanging off it. i thanked him at the time but then later asked him if he would mind if i tried to exchange it for something else (the sex shop agre... (read in full...)
Do I go along with things or put my foot down?
Q. what do i do for the best? My partner recently split after 7 yrs and 2 kids. The relationship completly broke down and he moved out. He went home to his mum. He looks after our kids whilst i work 3 hrs in the evening. His mum has lung cancer o...
A. 16 February 2011: hi
cancer patients can have good days and bad days, she would probably be happy to have a bit of normality in her life BUT from one day to the next, depending on the chemo, she will never be able to predict how she will feel and i think that it i... (read in full...)
What can I do to help my boyfriend get over his emotional affair?
Q. I've been in love with my boyfriend (ex-fiance) for the past four years. I recently discovered that he has been having an emotional affair with a girl he went to junior high with years ago. I have not read all of the emails, but the glimpses I catch ...
A. 16 February 2011: hi
i don't like the way he admits he has done this to HURT you and gain more attention from you. a grown adult who is supposedly in love and mature enough to be planning to marry you would not do this. i think that if the emails were just frie... (read in full...)
Since my wife's breast implants she has changed
Q. I have been married for 4 years, she is 25 and i'm 29. My wife had always wanted to have breast implants, even though she was a nice B cup and had a great body which was toned and firm from going the gym. Anyway, she went ahead with the op in F...
A. 14 January 2011: hi
quick question: would you have chosen to marry a surgically enhanced woman who wants to hit the clubs every weekend, barely dressed and being 'in' with the bouncers? so rather than think of it in terms of 'is there a place in her life anym... (read in full...)
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