B/f wants to have sex without a condom
Q. im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...
A. 7 April 2011: well, he doesn't sound like a great boyfriend but what you need to do is learn to say NO to things that you don't want to do or that are bad ideas, and that same rule applies to whether you stay with him or get with someone else
xx... (read in full...)
How Can I Make Something Positive Again
Q. In the past year or so I have come out of a period of severe depression and health issues. I moved to a city where I know few people, and due to the nature of my work (odd hours, and working alone) I get few opportunities to meet anyone at all. I'm ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi
well done for coming out of the worst period of your life and getting back into dating. you are similar to me, although nobody knows it! i used to have very little confidence, still have my moments even now! i just 'act' more confident than... (read in full...)
Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...
Q. so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i...
A. 5 April 2011: hi
ALL babies are miracles :) i know you are scared and this feels really daunting for you but it is NOT impossible to bring up a child without a father. lots of women do it, i have done it and i myself was brought up without a dad and i turn... (read in full...)
I can't erase the imagine of me being in her mouth
Q. I formerly formulated a question concerning how I and my girlfriend had some bad experiences with oral sex. I got answered quite well but one thing still rests in my mind. It's as though, when I look at her mouth, I can't help but thinking ''My cock ...
A. 5 April 2011: like all 'mental' images, time will help to erase them. in the mean time try not to look at her mouth, when you find yourself doing this, look at something else, looking at her eyes is a good habit to get into xx... (read in full...)
Is there any way our fooling around could have caused pregnancy?
Q. I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much. But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt ...
A. 5 April 2011: HARDLY LIKELY but get a pregnancy test from your local pharmacy if you are still concerned xx... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sleeps at his ex's house when he goes to visit his son!
Q. my boyfriend still stays the night at his ex wifes house when he goes to visit his son. i have been told by a nother girl that he still has sex with his ex wife when he goes to visit, and that they dont sleep separately. of course i asked him and he ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi you are right to be concerned. there is no real need for him to stay at her house, you say that he still loves her, you have been told by someone (are they a reliable source?) that he is still sleeping with her. how many more clues do you need... (read in full...)
I have injuries from the war and now no one wants to date me
Q. Here's the deal i got back from Iraq almost 1 year ago from a explosion in which took my leg off, and left me with bullet holes in my back. I had my leg put back on, but now there is a 10 inch scar going down the right side by my knee and wraps ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi any woman that would treat you like this are the ones who should be called 'damaged' not you! you will meet someone one day who is not shallow and will love you no matter what scars you have best wishes xx... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex without a condom
Q. im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi only do it without a condom if you want to get accidentally pregnant. your boyfriend sounds like an idiot, i'm sorry to say. this is a very dangerous game he wants to play and there is no way a 15 year old boy is experienced enough to do this ... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to be ok with husband working with co-worker he cheated with?
Q. Me and my husband have been together for 5 years and married for one. He recently told me that he has felt his love for me was gone for a while and that he cheated on me once with a coworker of his.he wants to try and regain what we once had but ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi he is telling you that he wants to try again at your marriage so as long as you accept this fact then you will just have to have faith in him. he is no more likely to cheat with that same co-worker again than he is to cheat with any random n... (read in full...)
Co-worker's suspicious bathroom behavior makes me wonder if she has an eating disorder?
Q. This really skinny girl I work with was in the stall next to me today in the ladies room. She spoke to some coworkers and then they all left. I was being very quiet so no one knew I was in there. Her feet were facing the toilet and she was standing ...
A. 5 April 2011: hi yes it does seem suspicious but it may have been a one off. some people are slim, especially if she used to be a dancer, does not mean they have an eating disorder. i would keep an eye on her before you jump to conclusions, be a friend to her, ... (read in full...)
FWB no longer interested?
Q. So im in a nsa friends with benefits situation (for about 2 months). Things are going well and im happy with the arrangement. We normally text every day about random things/how are days are going etc and usually meet up once or twice a week. For the ...
A. 5 April 2011: he may be losing interest, the sex has lost its novelty and he does not need you for love or the other things a real relationship brings coz he is already getting that from his partner. maybe his partner is getting suspicious and so he is hanging to ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him in a while and I am very worried. He's in the Army.
Q. Hi. On November 1st, 2010 I met a man who is currently in Iraq in the Army. We met because I am a volunteer through a website (send care packages, cards, etc to soldiers who don't normally get anything). He was requesting books so I wrote to find ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi
so he is still at home on leave? maybe you are reading more into the relationship than he is. maybe he just sees you as someone who can keep him company and keep his spirits up when he is in Iraq, but now he is at home he does not need this to c... (read in full...)
I don't want to stay with her, but I'm afraid what will happen if I divorce her. Please help!
Q. I am 32 years old and I've been married for almost 6 years now. While my wife is a wonderful person, a great friend and I do love her dearly in a "family" type of way, I feel absolutely no passion or physical chemistry in our relationship. She is an ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi
tell her how you feel. you say that divorcing her would crush her but how is being married to a man who feel this way about her any better than divorce, really?? maybe you should go your separate ways and she may then be free to find some... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve my trust or faith but is love worth the gamble?
Q. This is a bit long because I feel like I should explain everything. I met this guy randomly on a night out. I was feeling a bit down cos my little sister had recently moved in with her boyfriend leaving me the only one in the family single (e...
A. 29 March 2011: this is the thing, you are very very insightful as to what is going on here but this guy is trying to fool you, his wife probably has the same problem too where he glosses over any doubt that she expresses to him, makes her think it is all in her ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to suck up to your teachers?
Q. Is it wrong to "suck-up" to your teachers? I have complemented teachers about many things, their hair, jewllery and cloths. I usually only do it to teacher that know me and I get on well with. It is custom in primary to give presents to your...
A. 29 March 2011: hi never forget 'its nice to be nice!' there is nothing wrong with giving someone a genuine compliment about things that are not too personal, i don't think that admiring someone's clothes or hair is too much really. you won't do yourself any favo... (read in full...)
Has anyone ended a marriage to pursue what was an affair? Results?
Q. Ok so I have a question for anyone who has ever ended a marriage or serious relationship to solely be with the person of your affair instead of your spouse. I know statistics are really low in the favor of it actually working out and I always hear a ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi
i would imagine that everyone's situation is different and yes, some affairs end up in happy marriages. it really depends on the personalities involved. for instance if i was the mistress of a married man - i would have these worries:
-i ... (read in full...)
I was too pushy, what do I do now?
Q. I met a guy who really liked me and made it obvious. He chased me for ages. He started to text me regulalry and then suddenlyy stopped. Then I started to text him and went a bit over board. I told him I really liked him and he backed off comepole...
A. 29 March 2011: hi when he was chasing you did you seem disinterested in him? maybe he has got someone else now. it doesn't matter who you are or how gorgeous you are - most people (with any self respect) will only chase you so far and then lose interest if they ... (read in full...)
Married 4 years and we have never had sex
Q. i have been married for four years but have not had intercourse with my husband. he is little shy n in the beginning never took an initiative but he masturbates on regular basis. he even refuses to see a doctor. with much pressure from my end we ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi four years is an awfully long time for him to never want to have sex with you. as he is masturbating, the problem is not a physical one. he obviously has issues about sex. was your marriage an arranged one? maybe he just does not find you... (read in full...)
Why cant I just get a straight answer.
Q. Okay to me this makes no sense. Like im sure there is a good reason but im not getting it and it bothers me. Theres this guy that I worked with and we kind of hit it off had been working together for 3 months or so only talked at work then he got...
A. 29 March 2011: hi the only person who can really tell you this is him. as he thinks that 'dating is dumb' then yes, you're right he probably doesn't have a girlfriend but maybe has managed to find a friend with benefits and so he doesn't need to pursue this lin... (read in full...)
Is it true that only time is a healer?
Q. I was just wondering how you get over a break up? I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in January and it is still hurting. I know the break up was right for me as I am at Uni and the relationship was getting difficult to keep healthy and happ...
A. 29 March 2011: hi yes i agree that time is definitely a healer. are you sure that your relationship was really so bad though? do you know beyond the shadow of any doubt that you SHOULD be apart? if you are sure of this; the way (i think) to get over someo... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve my trust or faith but is love worth the gamble?
Q. This is a bit long because I feel like I should explain everything. I met this guy randomly on a night out. I was feeling a bit down cos my little sister had recently moved in with her boyfriend leaving me the only one in the family single (e...
A. 29 March 2011: hi i really feel for you! what a horrible situation to be in. you KNOW what you SHOULD don't you? this guy has lied to you, firstly about his age (not a big deal really) but about his being married! if i were you i wouldn't believe a word he ... (read in full...)
What are you supposed to do if your BF is losing interest but won't talk about it?
Q. With the bad breakup I had last year, I was completely blindsided. My ex left things completely unresolved between us. Everyone says that you have to get better at seeing the signs when your bf/gf is losing interest. It seems like you can only gain ...
A. 28 March 2011: hi this situation never gets any easier for people i think coz every experience will be different coz its a relationship with a different person. if you are sure that your partner is losing interest but they won't talk, there is nothing you can ... (read in full...)
How do I come clean to him about the fake pictures, without losing him?
Q. One day i was bored at home and decided to create a Smeet.I decided to use fake pics because I wanted the attention from guys. I searched on google pretty girls and I found this one girl that looked somewhat like one of my classmates in school. I ...
A. 24 March 2011: hi admit it to him. you cannot keep someone this way, it is like lying to them. when you tell him he may be very hurt and feel like he has fallen for someone who doesn't exist OR he might forgive you, understand your reason for using a fake pic... (read in full...)
My lies are destroying my relationships, help!
Q. I always lie in a UNnormal way , And I'm losing my best friend because my boyfriend , and because my lies and my boyfriend my mom started to not trust me anymore , and my dad will hate me =(( ... My life Is Complicated , I don't know what to do !! , ...
A. 24 March 2011: hi try to now draw a line under your past lying behaviour, now that you can see how wrong and damaging it is. do yo have issues that make you lie? you should get this problem dealt with and then move on, but in a better more honest way. i suppose ... (read in full...)
Maybe you are the right one and his wife is the wrong one?
Q. Hi everyone. This is my question. Is it possible a married man could be falling for you instead of wanting an affair? Or are all these guys the same, wanting their cake and eating it, too? How do you know he is not truly happy in his marriage ...
A. 24 March 2011: hi if he doesn't want to be with his wife he would have left her already, looks like he either wants an affair or is looking to leave her but not until he has got someone (you) lined up like a stepping stone. either way, is THIS the sort of... (read in full...)
Had a strange dream after we got back together
Q. I had a boyfriend two years ago 2009. We had a good relatioship and we were happily inlove with each other. But after 5 months of our relationship I left and we decided to have a long distance relationship. We were in long distance relationship for ...
A. 24 March 2011: i see. it seems like the girl/lady/nanny/helper character in your dream is another part of your mind/personality/consciousness and it is the part of you that gives you doubts about him, even though you say (and you want to be) happy with him. you ... (read in full...)
How do I become more approachable in dating?
Q. hello! I am quite in a predicament in terms of dating. I've been in relationships before, but after getting out of a long term relationship I seem to be having this confidence issue. Basically, I know I can woo a girl through words and actions, ...
A. 23 March 2011: hi
not sure what you mean by your natural look giving off a keep away vibe. what do your friends say about this? listen to their opinion. is it how you dress? your body language? your attitude (tone of voice)? whatever it is, read up on how you ... (read in full...)
She never says anything complimentary about me
Q. I've been dating a girl for 6 weeks. We live 80 miles apart so I only see her once mid-week and stay at her place over the weekends. She is so physically affectionate, in every area, staring into my eyes, even loves grabbing my hand over the table ...
A. 23 March 2011: hi
some people are not very good at putting what they feel into words, especially in texts. how is she in phone calls? she sounds like she is more physically demonstrative than verbally. if you had a choice between someone who is physically cool... (read in full...)
Had a strange dream after we got back together
Q. I had a boyfriend two years ago 2009. We had a good relatioship and we were happily inlove with each other. But after 5 months of our relationship I left and we decided to have a long distance relationship. We were in long distance relationship for ...
A. 23 March 2011: hi
how do you feel in your waking life about being back with him? whose idea was it to get back with him? yours or his? do you have doubts that he is happy about being back together and do you yourself feel like it is a mistake?
so are you stil... (read in full...)
With someone new, but comparing every aspect of our relationship with my ex
Q. ive recently started seeing someone for about four months now, we have only had sexual intercourse the once. I don't really see him often sometimes not even once a week. but before i started seeing ben* i was seeing someone else for about 8 month ...
A. 23 March 2011: hi
your feeling for Daniel will fade with time, i would not go stirring things up again with him by telling him how you feel. he betrayed you. supposing you did get back together with him - would you happily be able to leave what he did in the ... (read in full...)
Why do I still have strong feelings for my ex? Should I break it off with my current bf?
Q. Ok, so please bare with me it's kind of long. I am a gamer chick who loves to play role playing games and live action role play "Larp" and when I first started back in July 20, 2010 I met up with a guy who was older than me by about 12 years. Well, ...
A. 23 March 2011: hi
to get over your ex i think you should make a list of all the nasty low down things he did and his bad points.
your current boyfriend seems like a re-bound relationship which you entered into hoping it would cure the hurt the felt about y... (read in full...)
Sick of being left out!
Q. Okay, so the title says it all. In my group of friends, I am the only one without a partner. Many of them are together within the group! My best friend has been seeing a guy for over a year, and my other friends are well past the six month mark...
A. 17 March 2011: hi
can you make new friends? ones that will take time to try to understand how you feel and not just disregard you by being too busy talking about their boyfriends.
are you doing anything to resolve your acne? see your GP - it CAN be cured and... (read in full...)
I fell out with my ex and now I'm losing our mutual friends!
Q. hi sory this can be a bit long but i need ur help !! i was in relationship with a guy for 3 yrs later i broke up with him because things werent working out for me, rather i was not ready to commit.i had casual relations every time but this turned ...
A. 17 March 2011: hi
when couples break up the mutual friends very often 'take sides'. your friends probably feel that you are the one who has done something wrong and they want to show loyalty to your ex-boyfriend because (by your own admission) he was hurt by y... (read in full...)
Why does a guy act like this?
Q. The end of November I met a guy online from a neighboring state. He was 2 months away from his divorce being final and I was 1 month divorced. We were going to take it slow since all of this was new for us. But, we really hit it off. He wore his ...
A. 17 March 2011: hi
a few reasons spring to mind.. he may be married or at least in a relationship with someone and after all the chat and planning to meet you he finds he cannot take the time do do this or has an attack of a guilty conscience. it may be that he j... (read in full...)
How do I build a wall around my heart?
Q. I am in love with a complete shit who takes and takes and never thinks of anyone but himself even his family are scared of him how do I build a wall around my heart that he cannot get through?...
A. 16 March 2011: hi
you need to keep physically away from him if this is possible? you will not (i think) be able to be fully and effectively detached emotionally from him while you are still within his life, be that as a partner or even relegated to friend stat... (read in full...)
How do I build a wall around my heart?
Q. I am in love with a complete shit who takes and takes and never thinks of anyone but himself even his family are scared of him how do I build a wall around my heart that he cannot get through?...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
you need to keep physically away from him if this is possible? you will not (i think) be able to be fully and effectively detached emotionally from him while you are still within his life, be that as a partner or even relegated to friend stat... (read in full...)
My married lover says he's living in the same house but different rooms
Q. I have been dating a married man since 2008. He is upside down in the house by $200,000 and cannot qualify for a shortsale. He tells me he is getting a divorce and they live in the same house but different rooms. They have no kids. Th...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
does his wife/ex-wife whatever he calls her know about you and has she met you? are you allowed in the house? is he able to stay out with you all night? go away for weekends etc? be careful with him, maybe she is not aware the marriage is over... (read in full...)
Is it me that makes my man hit me???? Please help!
Q. I don't no what 2 do, my man think's all I'm good for is clean cook and if he not like what I say 2 him I get hit. But he blames me and said if I do what I am told he will not get cross with me and he will not do it 2 me. So is it me that makes him ...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
no it is not your fault that he hits you - it is HIS fault but he is, with the beatings and abuse CONDITIONING you into thinking it is your fault. i hope you get away from him as soon as you can. life does not have to be like this!
xx... (read in full...)
Is this a break or break up?
Q. Hello, I met this guy online who pursued me for 3 months. He'd call every day, sent me flowers, sent me text messages to read in the morning explalining how beautiful he found me, etc. He asked me to become exclusive 3 times and each time I didn...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
sounds like something has happened to change his mind that weekend that you stayed. did you sleep with him? some guys will pursue you like mad until they get what they want then there is no need to chase any more, or maybe he had been hook... (read in full...)
I like my ex, but I am in love with my guy friend! What should I do?
Q. I'm currently in love with my guy friend. We text every now and then. Sometimes every day. But sometimes, he just doesn't text me at all. We never did confessed to each other that we like one another. But i heard from his best friend that he said he ...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
it doesn't seem very fair to your ex if you get back with him even though you are in love with someone else. why did you split up in the first place? if those reasons are still there, then the relationship will likely fail again won't it? don'... (read in full...)
Please help me, should I stay with my lazy fiancé?
Q. I need help. I have been with my partner for just over two years now and he proposed to me last october. I really love him but I've been having alot of doubts if he is really the one for me and if our relationship will ever last. I have been hav...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
when i first read your question i thought it was gonna be a case of your parents just being overprotective and thinking no one was good enough for their 'little girl' but on reading further into it i can understand exactly where they are comi... (read in full...)
When do you end an otherwise wonderful relationship? I am sick of waiting in limbo for us to take our relationship to the next level
Q. Hi everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for nine years now, since I was a teenager. Sure, we've had our rocky patches, but we've worked things out each time and we've seen each other through everything. We spend quality, one on one time togethe...
A. 15 March 2011: hi
presumably since you get on so well you can at least talk about this with him instead of just waiting for him to surprise you with a proposal? PLEASE don't break up with him coz your relationship sounds really as close to perfect as it gets... (read in full...)
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