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i am gentle, loving, caring and a very soft spoken person. I like to hang out with friend, i feel that problem shared are problems half solve. Am very sorry if i reply meaningless suggestion to other users. people from all over the world are free to send me personal mail.

Is it possible to love someone you have never seen?

Q.   Hi every one, i want to really ask how possible it is to love a person you have not seen... I recently met this girl online and i have fallen deeply in love with her though i have not seen personaly, we are thousands of miles apart, i have tried ...

A.   3 April 2012: Yes we are very far from each other, but i know we would be together in no distant time... (read in full...)

Should I send them my number?

Q.   Okay. Let me start by saying i got this two friends ive made on the internet social network. We have been sharing texts for a year and 3 months now. One of them is male and the other one is a female. We are both from different countries. Today they ...

A.   3 April 2012: It should not realy borther you, i think you should give them your number if they are diffrent people from different locations, there may not be who ur mistaking them for..... (read in full...)

Will he ever be in love with me?

Q.   Joseph and I dated a while ago, from January to March. That was his first real relationship and his longest. Since then, we haven't been seeing each other and are still involved on a more than friendly level. The last time I asked him when we were ...

A.   23 August 2011: this guy is over protective for some reasons best known to him, i think from what you have said this guy is realy in love with you but he is still taking out time to study you since he just dont whant to fall into the wrong hands. My advice is ... (read in full...)

Is he stringing me along?

Q.   ok so i met this guy online in the beginning of the year he lives ina complete different state i started dating somebody else but as time went on i realized the more me and this lnog distance guy talked the more i liked him and developed feelings i ...

A.   1 August 2011: life can be funny, you find love in places you never think of, the future with this guy is very bright. Condone his lapses because he is a first timer, if you want to ejoy this guy bring him up the way you want, dont let distance be a problem, and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is angry thinking that I told a friend he was insecure!

Q.   hi everyone i am in such a dilemma , guys i have been seeing this guy for 17 months and he really loves me , a week back he disrespected me and i kept ignoring him , meanwhile i went for coffee with a very close friends at mid night because i really ...

A.   1 August 2011: this show imaturity between you and you boyfriend, do you have to suspect yourselves? Where have you guy kept your trust? You guys should appologize to your selves and end the war.... (read in full...)

Help me make my senior year a good one and one to remember!

Q.   Im 17 and entering my senior year of high school. I'm a real quiet person and I stay to myself a lot. I don't play sports go to parties or school functions and even talk on the phone with other teenagers because I kinda shy. I'm scared to do ...

A.   1 August 2011: change your mindset and everything will be okay, this is a free world nobody will hit you for interacting with friends, in a few month you will be 18 and you still behave like a kid, be proud of who you are, think big, let everybody become small in ... (read in full...)

What are the true signs that would show he's interested in me?

Q.   Dear cupid,there is this guy am strongly attracted to,when we are having a chat,i find my self asking lots of qst about him,fanny enough he doesnt ask me at all,but there is this kind of look that he gives me,it makes me think that he is also ...

A.   1 August 2011: from the way you sound this guy is very interested in you, but he is taking his time to study you so he does not fall into the wrong hands, be patient time will settle things.... (read in full...)

I am so lost it's unreal. IDK what my current bf will think. Should I just tell him?

Q.   OK guys i have a problem. So I am currently in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful soldier man. I love him dearly and feel safe with him. He caught me and held me after my ex dumped me and was with me through all the crap my ex pulled after ...

A.   1 August 2011: let your ex keep saying all be wants, why did he dump you if he did realy love you?, so he thinks he can just come from the forest and snatch you from the one who picked you from shambles, i hope you are not considering reunion with him... (read in full...)

I don't know how to deal with these feelings I've developed for my boyfriend's friend!

Q.   I don't know what to do . I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I really love him but the romance has disappeared between us in addition to any sexual chemistry ( on my part) .Recently I've begun to develop feelings for his friend and I don't ...

A.   1 August 2011: try to improve on the relationship with you guy, i believe there is no flame that cannot be rekindled, if your man discovers what going on he will not only feel betrayed but may end up hating you all his life, what you are doing now is cheating, ... (read in full...)

Am I just insecure? Will it make a difference if I lose weight? I want to attract a G/f.

Q.   I'm really not crazy about the way I look and I'm trying to find a girlfriend. I've never had one before nor even kissed a girl. I feel that something is stopping me. I'm a nice guy, and outgoing, the problem is that I am very insecure when it come...

A.   1 August 2011: you lack confidence in yourself and that's what's killing you, be proud of you weight, treat yourself with pride, most people are out there dying to be like you, have you asked a girl out and she turned you down because of you weight? Be mature my ... (read in full...)

Is he taking advantage of me? What should I do?

Q.   A man that I was seeing for 3 months has gone overseas. He has been gone for 4 months and I knew as soon as I started dating him that he would be leaving very soon to take this trip. We were crazy for each other so we went ahead and kept dating ...

A.   31 July 2011: from what i have read, this guy of your is going to flirt, big time, and he is not even hidding it from you because he has told you he hates jealouscy, he may be realy in love with you but you see he has to keep body and soul together, but why is he ... (read in full...)

I don't feel like I turn him on the way I used to

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together almost two years. The relationship is amazing and the sex is just as great. I know its normal for the amount of sex a couple has to decrease over time. I still want it more often and have always wanted it more ...

A.   31 July 2011: i think the following steps will do the magic. 1, DRESS TO KILL, every man is attracted to what he sees despite who is behinde it, 2, GIVE HIM A BREAK, no matter how blissful a relationship is your constant being together will diminish his likeness ... (read in full...)

Is he to young?

Q.   I'm a 22 year old female and I like a guy who's 19 he likes me too. Is 19 too young?...

A.   30 July 2011: age is no problem, as far as he is mature enough... (read in full...)

How do you tell someone that you like them?

Q.   We're friends for sure, good friends. But I sense that maybe she may like me, we've only known each other well for maybe 6 months, before that she had a boyfriend and we hardly ever talked at work. Then when she broke up I turned it on and now we're ...

A.   30 July 2011: you should be able to look into her eyes and read her mind, if this girl has been moving around with you and honours you invitations for dinner then i think is time to hit the nail on the head, pick courage and tell her your mind, nothing bad in ... (read in full...)

All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....

Q.   Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him ...

A.   30 July 2011: as long as you keep trying to fault this guy the more confused and worried you will become, this dude is proving to you that he is a great lover but you let your past haunt you so much, this is the opportunity destiny has given you to heal all the ... (read in full...)

Love at first sight

Q.   You can't have a committed love at first sight. If you say lust at first sight,i can understand that. There is a possibility also that what begins as lust can become love. It is a fanciful illusion to love somebody at first sight. You have to know ...

A.   30 July 2011: love at first sight is real, i strongly believe in it, love never hides. As soon as you see the person you love you feel it deep inside you. Let's be frank with ourself. If you are out there and you come across the one you love be free to express ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my mom that I'm ready to start having sex? And are condoms good enough or do I need some other form of birth control too?

Q.   Hi!! I'm new here and i'm not sure how to ask, but well, i've been with my 1st boyfriend for almost 6 months and we want to start having sex, but we are both very worried about unwanted pregnancies and we don't feel save using just condoms during s...

A.   30 July 2011: at 18 and mom still checks you as though you were 13 is a little embarassing, make you mom understand that a 18 you should take some decisions on you own without her consent. But as it concern sex, your mom is a better person to confide in, sex is ... (read in full...)

Why has she gone so quiet? What is wrong with her? What shall I do?

Q.   This is about the girl whom i love.. She is now abroad for study and for now she is having her exams.. The way of us being in contact is internet chatting or calls.. Regular calls is not possible. So just facebook mails and chat is the way. But now ...

A.   29 July 2011: every thing is possible, let me ask you have you shared any intimate moment with this ur cenderella?... (read in full...)

Why has she gone so quiet? What is wrong with her? What shall I do?

Q.   This is about the girl whom i love.. She is now abroad for study and for now she is having her exams.. The way of us being in contact is internet chatting or calls.. Regular calls is not possible. So just facebook mails and chat is the way. But now ...

A.   29 July 2011: Guy let's take the bull by the horn, and put some thing into consideration, (1), she might have met some other guy who she loves more than you. (2) her exams may really be the problem. (3) her sim card may be the probkem, (4) she might be out of ... (read in full...)

I want to be with him so bad but I don't know if I should go back on the roller coaster ride...

Q.   My boyfriend and i has been broken up for 2 weeks now. I've been through a hell of a lot of bs with him. From him cheating on me multiples of times, hiding our relationship from 2 dozen of females on facebook, lying to me a lot, disrespecting me, ...

A.   26 July 2011: the hand writing on the wall is very clear, he is fed up with you but he dosent know how to tell you, since any time he breaks your heart he goes home to have a rethink, i am a very emotional person who hates to see another being maltreated ... (read in full...)

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