Tell me if she is interested in sex with me, and then how do do that?
Q. I'm 18 year old. I'm very intrested in sex. But i yet didn't do that. I have an aunty with a child.she is a village girl with less education. She is so sexy. White looking and have amazing boobs. I want to do sex with her. I want to know if she is ...
A. 25 May 2011: no. i STILL think you should not do this. if you find it hard to resist her, just don't go to her place. get yourself a woman who is NOT a family member... (read in full...)
My wife contributes very little to our relationship
Q. My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...
A. 24 January 2011: do you think then in that case it might be a good idea to draw up a list of house hold chores and a cooking rota, with her agreement and stick to it? if there is something down on paper it might help you both stay a bit more organised, it sounds at ... (read in full...)
How do I successfully ride my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend loves it when I ride him but after a month I still don't really know what to do. I have trouble keeping a rhythm up. He tells me to lead and he'll follow along, but I always end up losing it and having to pull myself out of the moment ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
hard to explain the mechanics of this! watch some porn, it can help if he holds your hips and helps to move you up and down, if you are getting tired is this because you might be a bit overweight or unfit? it is a strenuous thing to do so you ... (read in full...)
Are my girlfriend's sexual issues common in women? Is there something I can do to make the experience more enjoyable for her?
Q. My girlfriend and I are sexually active. After having sex for a bit, she will ask me if I am about done. After she asks me this question, I just stop, or other times she will say it's hurting her. We use a lot of lube. Is this normal for women? Is ...
A. 23 January 2011: :) so she is saying to you the same thing as you used to say to her?
when she has had her orgasm she may feel too sensitive to carry on, and further stimulation just feels irritating for her. will she finish you off with a hand or blow job when... (read in full...)
Health tips for early pregnancy?
Q. Hi all! This is actually a question about pregnancy, i was hoping some mums could give me some advice :) I just found out im pregnant, i think between 1-3 weeks.. Last time i feel pregnant i miscarried. My hubby and i got married not too long after ...
A. 23 January 2011: anything with ginger in it. anything dry, like biscuits if you can manage them. i had morning sickness really bad, it lasted ALL DAY. all i could manage to eat was dry bread and nutrition drinks (complan) that you mix with milk, and i even used to ... (read in full...)
Why my girlfriend just doing sexual things at first to make me happy?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm in a very serious long-distance relationship with my girlfriend of two years. We met senior year in high school, after we both were committed to different colleges, and so we made the choice to attempt a four-year long-dis...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
i think that the long distance is having an impact on her sexual feelings for you. you are not as close, because you are not seeing each other as regularly, you are not sharing(non-sexual) experiences together that keep you close, she may be f... (read in full...)
Do I get over him, do I wait for him, or do I fight for him?
Q. Hi, so I got dumped last Sunday, in a text, without a reason why. Oddly enough I wasn't mad at the guy, because I just knew Friday and Saturday that it was coming, I wasn't angry, I was just hurt. He still refuses to talk to me, but a mutual friend ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
you need to draw up a list of his good and bad points and then see if he is the kind of person that you WANT to wait for. from what you have said, he didn't know you that well, he doesn't know what you are into, he doesn't know about some of y... (read in full...)
Help! Need Advice About the Guy I Rejected
Q. Help! I think I made a mistake; a big one. So, I liked this guy a couple of years ago, but I wouldn't go out with him because he was 16 and I was 13. We remained friends for a while but we eventually quit talking altogether. Now, I am in High School ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
do you still see him at all now? you don't need to feel bad about saying no to him back then. at that age a 3 year age gap is A LOT. he probably doesn't think about you now after all this time, you were just a girl that he asked, you said no, ... (read in full...)
How can I be more outgoing and not shy?
Q. OK. Well, lets just say I'm not very good at getting guys. Like, if I like a guy SO much I would be to shy to even look at him. I would prefer the guy come up to me. I'm a little on the shy side. Okay, I'm super shy. I have a few guy friends, but I ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
i think you can just take a little tiny step out of your comfort zone to start with and just start firstly by looking at the guy you fancy and then when you are feeling braver, after you have done this with good looking guys for a bit you shou... (read in full...)
I'd just like to have sex with my wife once in awhile but she has no interest
Q. i have been with wife for 6 years ,but for the last three the sex has gone my wife has no sex drive ,she doesnt no why,if i bring it up im in the wrong or i get ok i do it,i dont want it like that at all so then im allways feeling rejected,i av said ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
depression can totally kill someone's sex drive, certain antidepressants can also totally kill someone's sex drive, being young and finding yourself suddenly married with kids, house, husband and responsibilities can have a terrible effect on s... (read in full...)
My 2 boyfriends know about each other, but what do I do with both of them?
Q. im asking all you pple to plse not judge im not here for that. ok i have 2 bf one is in the uk and one is in sa. i travel between these 2 places alot. they both know about each other and they r cool with it. they have both told me they love me. ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
ok this isn't a conventional relationship, BUT if they are both cool with it, what's the problem really? are they seeing other girls too?
if you feel guilty that you are seeing them both, then i guess you will have to stop seeing one of them,... (read in full...)
It bothers me that she cares more about the baby daddy than she does me
Q. ok, so i'm in love with my gf, but theres a few things i'm having a hard time getting over. #1: it doesnt bother me that she has kids, it bothers me that it seems she cares more about baby daddy than me.. should it? #2: the number of her sex...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
1) what makes you think she cares more about baby daddy than you? are you sure you are not just being over-sensitive and suspicious about this or do you have genuine reason to say this?
2)to have been with so many guys at this young age ma... (read in full...)
Need help...what would stop her from wanting to be with me?
Q. Hi DearCupid, I am asking this question with regards to someone I really like but I'm not sure what her point of view is of everything... If she is single, attracted to me, cares about me, and knows that I really care about her, what would stop ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
you ask us what would HER reasons be for not making a move, have you asked yourself what YOUR reasons are for not making a move??
whatever your reasons are, hers are probably very similar! are you only seeing her in work? ask her out some... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to tell me what he really feels about me?
Q. Hi! I'm Amamiya and I have something to share to you. I've liked this guy for 3 years. I've been loving him secretly and the only thing that hurts me is that he never notices me. Yet, even though he only looks at me in a not-so-special way, I', ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
it sounds as though he is still ok talking to you but ignores other girls when he finds out that they fancy him, because he is still very comfortable with you as a friend.
so he knows you like him. does he seem too shy to talk about going ... (read in full...)
Wedding bells or I'm outta here...
Q. After 7 years of living together my boyfriend and I split up and he moved out. We had been fighting all the time, I was very unhappy mostly due to his underemployment and lack of motivation. Three weeks after he found a good job we had another big ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
no, the worse thing you can do to jog him along into marriage is to see other guys or give him the ultimatum. that sort of behaviour makes it look like you want the wedding more than you actually want him.
why are you putting an importance o... (read in full...)
I just want my fiance back!
Q. I have cheated on my fiance several times,he had an idea, but as nothing was admitted or had been confirmed was thinking he just may have got it wrong. Well thats how it seemed. Last week he walked in and showed me a text he`d been sent with the ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
you say your fiancé wouldn't stop loving you like that; don't be so sure! what you have done is really sickening, i hope you can realise that, it sickens your fiancé and hurts him beyond your comprehension and it is likely that your beha... (read in full...)
Are my girlfriend's sexual issues common in women? Is there something I can do to make the experience more enjoyable for her?
Q. My girlfriend and I are sexually active. After having sex for a bit, she will ask me if I am about done. After she asks me this question, I just stop, or other times she will say it's hurting her. We use a lot of lube. Is this normal for women? Is ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
you don't say how long you carry on for, but obviously to her it is TOO long. some women are not able to orgasm from intercourse, or they can sometimes but not other times so it is of no benefit to her that you can go for ages. plus the same... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, his ex just had his baby and I don't want him going back and forth between us!
Q. im in love with this guy i been with for about a year, a few months into our relationship, i found out his ex was pregnant from by him.He didnt bothered to tell me he said he was scared he lose me. once the ex call me and told me , i was very upset ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
i don't think he sounds like a bad man, i think he sounds weak though. the fact that he has a baby already is just one of those things, probably not planned, if you want to be with him you will just have to learn to live happily with the fact... (read in full...)
I've been asked to participate in a threesome but have conflicting feelings about it
Q. Been asked to partisipate in a three some but have very pro/con views on it plus I like the guy and dont know who the other person is. Am worried that I'll chicken out, it wont be as good as expected and am very nervus about this. Should I do it...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
in a word: no.
it is never a good idea, unless it involves people who are not interested in a good committed relationship with each other. you don't even know the other person (i'm guessing its a girl??) so why on earth would you want to 'sig... (read in full...)
I think my in laws are stalking me online
Q. I think my inlaws are stalking me online. A few years ago I posted a story about how awful a certain in-law had behaved towards me and how upset I was and asked what I could do about it got a few replies but the in-law it was regarding found out and ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
yes, delete the previous details and start again with another site and user name etc. you should be able to post things confidentially. make sure any password you use is a very obscure one that they will never guess if you think they may be h... (read in full...)
My wife contributes very little to our relationship
Q. My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
has she always been lazy? she sounds depressed. take her somewhere different and try to talk to her and get her to open up about her feelings. college might be getting her down/stressing her out, she may feel miserable because she is not earn... (read in full...)
Is it my fault there's a distance?
Q. im 15 and my gfs 14 were in the same year and we were going town with some friends yesterday and she was wearing a belly top shorts and converse i didnt want her to wear it but i didnt say nout wen we got to town mmy bestmate was just staring at her ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
its a mixture of her fault because she doesn't realise that wearing next to nothing will make lads stare at her and it will make you feel jealous, (or maybe she does know!) its a bit your fault for getting jealous and demanding that she cove... (read in full...)
Is she not certain or was her friend pulling my leg?
Q. Hi there, To get straight to the point, there is a girl i met on a site(not dating one) with which we go in the same school. I started hitting on her, but she told me she wants someone else so i respected her descision and quitted trying to get us...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
well either the friend was pulling your leg or the girl is messing you about a bit because she may be a bit shy or not had a boyfriend before so is nervous. the girl knows that you like her because you have asked her a few times, just rema... (read in full...)
I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy I have liked for months from my phone and started texting him
Q. I found out the other day my friend took the number of a guy i have liked for months from my phone and started texting him Anyway ive liked him for a few months but have never said anything as i do actually think hes to good for me, we have tho ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
so your mate has secretly been trying to do a bit of match making, but when he asked if the person that likes him was you she said 'no'?
maybe he now thinks someone different likes him and that's why he is not as interested in you now? al... (read in full...)
Should I stay and hope she changes her mind?
Q. I've been with a girl for 5 months now and I'm crazy about her. The problem is that she is graduating and is leaning towards not being in a long distance relationship for a year until I graduate while I am certain that I would like to give it a ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
talk to her about the way you feel. if she is happy to split up while you get on with your studies separately then it seems that she is not as into the relationship as you are.
i think you should make her aware of your feelings abo... (read in full...)
I am bothered by the thought of my ex moving on. What does this mean?
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for about a year and a half. I broke up with him because we were both in college and we were in different places in life. I was just starting college and he was graduating, and he resented me wanting to party because he ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
i think nobody likes to be replaced, no matter what, i know i don't even if i have zero feelings for that ex! it is probably because you are still single and you imagine that he is all happy with someone else.
forget the gross factor, ther... (read in full...)
I find myself falling for a man who already has a girlfriend.
Q. Hi I am 45, recently divorced and redundant. Due to all these reasons I have been fairly depressed. I recently met a 37 year old guy at a party socially who befriended me and showed me a lot of sympathy. He also seems attracted to me. As a result I ...
A. 23 January 2011: hi
oh please don't do this. you have got good principles, please don't compromise them! you think you feel lonely now but imagine how lonely and USED you will feel if you give in to this.
he is clearly just after sex, he is using the promise ... (read in full...)
I think my house might be haunted and it's making me nervous.
Q. This is a serious question. i know this is for relationships, but please help. I really believe in spirits and have done all my life. Every house I have lived in I felt like there has been something there but it's never been proven. I've bee...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
get in touch with your nearest spiritualist church, lots of towns have them. interestingly though, you say that you have felt that every house you have lived in is haunted. maybe you (and your son!) have psychic power to sense things that othe... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm about to lose my mind trying to help my beloved father!
Q. I am writing to agony aunts to try to keep from jumping out the window! My aged father has a colonoscopy exam coming up in four days, and we are trying to follow the special diet that he has to eat beforehand, but he interprets every instruction ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
why is he having the colonoscopy? it is not something that a doctor would authorise for no reason. he needs to understand the consequences of delaying a test like this. does dad live with you? or can you stay with him for the next few days... (read in full...)
Why is my ex so insistent on becoming my friend on facebook?
Q. i broke up with my ex 3 months ago. he started becoming a distant asshole. we hadnt spoke since the breakup until 1 day the week b4 last he sent me a friend request on facebook. He wanted me to see that he got married around Christmas time-that ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
being your friend on face book is so important to him because he is a cheat. he cheated on you (with his now wife) and now he wants to cheat on her with you. maybe he gets bored easily in his relationships. if you are not interested in bein... (read in full...)
Do I leave my relationship?
Q. I'd be really grateful for some advice on this one, as i'm going round in circles. 10 years ago,when I was a young and foolish teenager (just!) I met a lovely guy,(let's call him Dave) we dated for about 6 months, then I was moving away, so ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
i think you should let Len go and have a chance to meet someone who feels he is the right man for them, you seem to be just using him, because Dave wasn't free. but now he is. i would be wary of Dave, he is not out of his marriage very long... (read in full...)
Tell me if she is interested in sex with me, and then how do do that?
Q. I'm 18 year old. I'm very intrested in sex. But i yet didn't do that. I have an aunty with a child.she is a village girl with less education. She is so sexy. White looking and have amazing boobs. I want to do sex with her. I want to know if she is ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
is she your real aunty or is she married to your uncle? if she is married leave her alone. if she is your mothers/father's sister DEFINITELY leave her alone. forget about your lust for her and meet someone else outside of your family. what... (read in full...)
Will she fall for me if I do things to make her jealous?
Q. Please girls, help me! Can making a girl you love jealous make her fall in love with you? Like hanging out with a lot of girls and even those she knows? Will it make her fall for you?...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
it is more likely to make her think you are a player. she may get jealous and decide to go with you so that the other girls can't have you but it could make for a very jealous, insecure relationship. you cannot 'make' a person fall in love... (read in full...)
His ex wife.. She is manic depressed who is manipulative and selfish
Q. I have a man in my life whom I adore that I have been given a second chance with. We split up years ago with the same issue again. His ex wife.. She is manic depressed who is manipulative and selfish and unable to work or function because of "Her ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
if this lady is genuinely ill, you should not expect your man to wash his hands of her and in particular his daughter who still lives with her. if he does what he can to make his ex wife content, that in turn will make his daughters life easi... (read in full...)
He says he needs time, does he actually want to break it off?
Q. I started talking to a guy I met online. It is long distance. After three months I went to visit him. We both totally fell in love. We have so much in common. Recently his behaviors have changed a lil and Ive become needy out of insecurity cuase of ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
do you feel as if you CAN walk away and just get on with your life? if so, then i would agree that you should. you live far away from him and it makes you needy and insecure and he has cooled towards you for some reason and then broke up with... (read in full...)
We broke up, I thought at least he would come back on the pretext of giving back my stuff...neither's happening!!
Q. Please help.. my boyfriend and I of 9 months broke up 3days ago.. I was miserable.. I miss him so much. I asked him if I could have my stuf back that i had left in his house but his answer was "I dotn want to got hrough that yet.. theres nothing in ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
i don't know why you have split but but; don't play games like this! if you are missing him, just call him and tell him that. by telling him you want closure and you want your stuff back you are making it look to him like you definitely want... (read in full...)
Is this even a legitimate relationship?
Q. i am 17 and met a guy B through family. He is 17 going on 18 next week. We've been dating for almost a month. B wants to join the marines, he asked me to wait for him. I said yes. Then for a week and a half, he was depressed so we barely talked b...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
this lad sounds as if he just doesn't know what he wants, you have been dating less than a month, he should not have told you that he loves you because he doesn't seem to, he seems very confused doesn't he? remain on friendly terms and see what... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend, me and now a new guy in her life! I don't want to be taken for granted.....
Q. ok so i have been attached to this girl for a while and we have been talking regularly since a month. though i know that she acts bitchy sometimes but she has portrayed her image as a very caring and concerned person about our relationship in a ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
if she has a boyfriend already but is texting you all day and speaking and kissing on the phone she is not being fair to him or you. and now a new guy as got her attention to and she seems to be choosing him over you, why are you surp... (read in full...)
DId he hear a rumor about me?
Q. There was this guy I really liked and who seemed to really like me (all the signs were present). Suddenly, out of the blue, he is avoiding me and I do mean obviously avoiding me. I wanna know...what in the world happened?! One day we were flirting...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
maybe he got shy? maybe you have (not realising) done something or not done something and it has made him think you don't like him or are not interested? or maybe he has noticed another girl that he prefers? nobody knows how he feels but him.... (read in full...)
Should I keep looking at her when I talk?
Q. i go to college in england and i really like this girl there. one of my best friends likes her too i'm not sure how much and my other best friend really likes her as well but none of them know i like her and i am the only one who knows that my ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
just be natural around her, be like you have always been coz she seems to like the way you have been. i think the reply you were thinking of is fine, its nice but not too full on. look at her just naturally, not a good idea to stare at her ... (read in full...)
My LDR has something going on but won't tell me
Q. Hi there, hope some of you can help settle my mind on a certain situation. I'm involved with a guy who lives long distance, of whom is coming to spend the weekend with me within the next 2-3 weeks. We're really close and share almost everythi...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
sounds like you text more than you speak on the phone is that right? just ring him and have a chat, bring it up, he might open up to you about it if you are talking, rather than text you about it, if its a bit of a long story.
you may o... (read in full...)
Married for five months and still no sex
Q. Dear, I get marrieged 5 months ago, but i can have sex with my wife, cause she felt hurt when i want to penetrate her. actually, i just put my gun front of her hole and she push out me immediate. i have to try with my best. oral sex or do anythi...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
it sounds like she is really scared to have sex, she probably thinks it will be really painful. i won't lie; the first time does hurt a bit but only initially. be very gentle and very patient, use your hands first, to get her used to bein... (read in full...)
Together for two years but lately no affection?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We live together and everything. I love him dearly, but in the past three months I have noticed it is very rare for him to ever hug or kiss me. We rarely have sex either and when we do it's ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
you are both the same age? maybe he feels like he has outgrown this relationship or maybe there is something else on his mind. you really need to talk to him about this and ask him is there a problem. can i ask, has he always been the one to i... (read in full...)
Health tips for early pregnancy?
Q. Hi all! This is actually a question about pregnancy, i was hoping some mums could give me some advice :) I just found out im pregnant, i think between 1-3 weeks.. Last time i feel pregnant i miscarried. My hubby and i got married not too long after ...
A. 22 January 2011: hi
no, whatever you do, don't delay going to the doctor! get there as soon as you can. i don't know what happens in your country, but in mine any lady who has had a previous miscarriage is treated as more 'high risk' in subsequent preg... (read in full...)
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