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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Everything is going wrong right now .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you handle it when everything seems to go wrong and you are under so much stress? I don't want to get into too much detail but over the past few months I have gone through a whole lot. My parents have never been there for me and don't want anything to do with m... (200 words)

I really, really want to kiss him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - It's nearly Christmas and I really want to kiss this guy I like (I think he likes me too) but I don't see him very often (I'll see him a few days before Xmas) and when I do our friends are always around, what do I do?... (47 words)

My boyfriend throws tantrums when he doesn't get his own way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend likes to make plans for us with or without me and it is driving me crazy (it's relevant that we live together). I say yes to much of what he suggests, but sometimes I just don't feel like going. He will suggest something in say, a week and I will decline. He will ... (408 words)

Can somebody tell me what is in his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, am sorry this may be a bit long but am confused and need help.it started one and half year ago I met this cool guy in my college we are classmates we donot have close friendship we just help each other with things related to college this guy used to sit in row ne... (254 words)

Husband's uncle is causing problems in our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husbands uncle is very jealous of our relationship in fact some people have told me that he never stops talking about us like hes obsessed. He tells my husband to do things behind my back and he can get him another woman etc.. he never likes us to have our own private time ... (100 words)

Why is he so angry when he wanted it to end?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi so this is definitely the last question about this particular man that I will ask! I'm just trying to get my head round this last development to be honest. So my ex and i were seeing each other for 5 months, it was mainly lovely, we went on holiday together which i paid... (688 words)

Should I forgive him? Can we work through this or do I write off the last five years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I really need some advice. So here goes ... I have been together with my boyfriend *dave ( not his real name) for about 5 and years and a half. We live together, we have a dog we have joint bank account I mean everything we are basically married minus the actual ... (962 words)

My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

30 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief kind... The fact is, he's ga... (482 words)

I need advice on how to stop obsessing over someone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice on how to stop obsessing over someone. I'm a medical student in my 2nd year and i've had a crush on one of my classmates for alomst a year and a half now. First time I saw him was in our anatomy class in my first year. I think I was first attracted to his brain, r... (485 words)

Its such a slap in my face that my ex would end up with this girl who had made my life miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me up, and yeah. Recently, him ... (131 words)

Is this man attracted to his daughter and possibly her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years, we got engaged but his daughter had become jealous and wanted me out of there, so we are no longer engaged. He engages in alot of pornography, and while snooping I came across lots of fantasies about daddy's little girl growing up ... (139 words)

Wife admitted she used to be a prostitute! Should I cut my losses and leave?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

30 November 2013 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married now for 23 years. When we began dating I realized she was probably more worldly than I was used to going out with. However , I was starting to fall for her, and at 27 I wasn't meeting anyone that came close to her . She told me about her married ... (413 words)

Diagnosed with bipolar disorder. How do I break the news to my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known I had some form of depression since high school, but it wasn't that bad, so I didn't seek treatment. I discussed it with my husband before we got married, although he comes from a background where mental illnesses are sort of brushed under the rug and he didn't seem ... (193 words)

Does he like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

30 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - In the past month, I've been developing an attraction for a classmate of mine who I'm pretty sure likes me back. I'd really appreciate someone's opinion so I'm not so confused about what is currently going on. For starters, when I walk into the classroom, anything... (660 words)

Her lack of support in this situation is making me re-think dating her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

30 November 2013 (M)

age - HELLO EVERY ONE,well ive been seeing some one for acouple weeks, was ask over to her daughters house for thanksgiven, she lives their. Well every thing was going great, then her daughter ex husband showed up, invited, but with in five minutes he started to argue to me, about ... (205 words)

If you were me, what would you do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Cupids, Not sure what I am asking for here but I wanted to share something with you. I have a friend who I was close with for the last 3 years, let’s call him Ed. We became close friends after issues happening in our lives made us need support and I was new to the are... (322 words)

I don't feel comfortable not being wanted around his friends and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year ive only met his mom once and that was when we first started dating. I've only met 3 of his friends. He won't take me around his mom or his other friends. He always says something like his mom doesn't want me at her house or ... (130 words)

Is he exaggerating or could a 15 year old really mean it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How serious is a fifteen year old boy when he says he would marry you in a heartbeat and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you? We are really close friends so he knows what I am truly like and all my flaws and I don't know whether he just loves me as a friend and ... (82 words)

I feel like there's something unspoken going on between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for some advice on what's going on between my boyfriend and I at the moment. We have been together for 4 years and a couple of weeks ago we almost split up. We both ended up crying though and decided to start making more effort to make things right. So last night ... (621 words)

Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first few months of the relations... (248 words)

Why did he act so interested and then suddenly back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, There is a guy at work whom I have liked for a while. I am on a dating site online, and one evening, I saw a photo of a guy on this site and clicked on it, and it was this guy I work with ! Shocked at seeing his profile, I didnt initiate contact at all, but then he sent me ... (272 words)

He believes what people told him about me and wants a divorce

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So my husband was in Afghanistan for 9 months. He just recently got back. Some ppl I know told him I had been cheating on him, which I didn't. He is so cold now, and just wants a divorce. We don't talk, he has changed so much. Should I just get a divorce, or try n make him ... (64 words)

Can't attract guys at all! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay! This is going to sound so stupid but i'm facing 17 and I hate to admit it but I am clueless about how to attract boys and to flirt with them. I have had two un-sucessful relationships and the only way they came about was because we had b... (633 words)

Our marriage seems to work OK on the phone but not in person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age - I need an advise about my marriage sittuation. Since 3 years ago my mother got very sick and I had to visit her every year for a long period of time.My husband is from a wealthy family and he kind of told me to stop everything and stay with my mom.I then,stopped working and ... (669 words)

My mom never lets my husband in the house, big deal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been married for about 6 months now, and my husband has never been to my parents home...ever. We all live in the same city, I've been to his mum's a ton, same with his other family. He's been around my family plenty, but my mum always skirts around him comin... (307 words)

When we are together its good when we aren't I think of how it won't work out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here is the deal. I am a bit confused and obviously seeking advice. I have been dating my boyfriend close to a year now. He Is a bit older (like 14 yrs older) I don't know if that makes a difference. He has also been married twice before with girls of the same age dif... (402 words)

A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my gorgeous girlfriend with this ... (162 words)

Did the text mean that he was looking to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy was flirting with me. We were texting and talking about the movie I just watched. Then he said "If you're free we can do something maybe... ;)" Did he mean sex? And how should I react to it? This msg just kinda popped out of nowhere. 'Cause if he did mean sex then I ... (60 words)

I feel like I am not part of my boyfriend's life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a guy for around 6 months. During this time we have seen each other at weekends and once during the week. To begin with this was fine, but now I am starting to feel this relationship is stalling. We have a great sex life but for me once or twice... (258 words)

Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!! He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always going and he works mornings... (79 words)

My ex went off on me because I'm seeing his married friend. I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - where do i start its a long story , iv been trying to get a hold of my x for the longest time we did not part well, anyway we had been together for 4 yrs friends befor that so finly did reach him we stared talking again he said he would come and see me . so he did at the time ... (180 words)

Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a recently divorced white woman who has been dating black men for about a year and a half. Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women? Now mind you, not all of them are. But the ones that do.... Not only do they have no shame in asking to be given or to ... (213 words)

I'm in a huge mess...and I have no idea what to do now!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's a long story to this one. I like this girl that I volunteer with. She's three years younger than me and she's an EMT, I'm a firefighter and EMT driver. We both ride the same nights and have been friends for three or four years now. We dated back when we first met but ... (1179 words)

Am I right to not want to see my mother or her girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I visited my mother for Thanks Giving. She is 40 years old, still lives with her mother (my birth grandfather and step grandmother raised me). She lives the way she does, mainly because she has an addiction. She is dating a woman that is only 4.5 years to the day older than ... (580 words)

He flirts and it irritates me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years often flirts with his immediate boss or co-workers, someone or other. Its not that he flirts with everyone, he picks a person for a time, flirts with them until he loses interest or they lose interest and then move on other person. And tells me abo... (148 words)

We're not married but he put me on his life insurance. Is this a big deal?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a simple question... my fiancee of 6 years has put me on his life insurance but we are not married. He keeps saying that no other man will do that to me and that im lucky to have him, he keep saying i wont find another man like him. But hes controll... (129 words)

Boyfriend didn't spend Thanksgiving with me and I'm feeling like an option

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice about my boyfriend of 3 years. We're the same age and don't live together. We'd been having problems for several months but over the last few weeks things had really started turning around. Anyway, we got into a stupid fight (caused by me) on Monday... (402 words)

My boyfriend is too close to his secretary!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a really lovely secretary who he thinks a lot of. There are eight guys working in the office. I have met her a few times and she is a lovely warm friendly woman happily married with children. She is 35 and my boyfriend is 38. He talks about her enthusiastic... (216 words)

Guy from the dating site hasn't talked to me in 5 days. Should I text him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I've been debating about texting this guy just to say Happy Thanksgiving. So I'd like to hear opinions if I should or shouldn't. Here is the story; we chatted a couple of times on an online dating site. He said that he would like to meet me soon, so we exchanged phone ... (300 words)

Finding First Term of University Difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, just feeling a little wobbly today so I thought I'd do a post! I'm almost finished with my first term of Uni, and I've found it really difficult to settle. I have fantastic friends at home, and I just feel a bit lonely here. I thought I was doing ok, as I have pe... (223 words)

Should I sleep with my ex casually?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My Ex, who I have not seen in about 7 years, recently invited me over to have a drink. He asked me if I wanted to have sex. I was shocked as he married since our breakup but apparently is splitting up. I told him I was looking for a relationship, but he said I'm not the right ... (85 words)

How could my ex move on so quickly after a 4 year relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) age 36-40 - My ex dumped me 6 months ago. It's pretty hard for me to move on and let go. We were together for 4 years. It was a nasty breakup. We talked a few times in the first few times, but it's mostly about me telling him how much he hurt me. Last month, I heard that he got his master ... (243 words)

I'm in limbo waiting for him. How long should I wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a really lovely guy of 48 who is has been separated for three years. He says he couldn't afford to buy his ex out as he has a business and house. When we met 8 months ago he reassured me it was at the final stages and amicable. I have waited for him to show me he is ... (209 words)

Can you have as many doubts as me but go on to be happy further down the line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for just over 4 years and things have been a bit rocky at times if I'm honest. However things are going much better at the moment, and he has recently asked me to move in with him. The problem is I don't think I want to and I'm not ... (441 words)

My ex says he has no feelings for me but gets upset when I don't return his calls

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, so my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago and a lot of stuff had happened since then but recently he said it was best we didn't see each other for a while as we both need to move on etc. To cut a long story short, he has since text me randomly, and vice ... (128 words)

She ignores me which makes me do stupid things, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (M)

age - please help,I have been seeing my girlfriend for only of months.we have wonderful weekends together,but when she is at her house,she likes to use Facebook.I don`t use it at all.so when i try to talk to her she either ignores me or takes a long time to reply,which in turn makes ... (125 words)

I'm not sure what the next move is....Do I just leave her alone and let her come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I saw this really attractive girl at my train station last friday she got on my train and she got off at the same station as me as well. As i was on the train i wrote her a note saying that i though she was very beautiful and i gave her my number so we coupd text and get to ... (252 words)

Chat room Addiction. Please help! :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid this is not about relationships. its about my chat addiction. i got into a chatroom several years back. now i seem not to be able to get off it. i have some friends and some people i hate there. i seem to be always focused on going to the chatroom and making sure tha... (269 words)

He likes me, he likes me not .... which one is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I’m just started my new just as bar maid in this pub where I live. Been there about a month now I half of the guys there have been hitting on me that work there but I’m not that interested in them then one day when I was working the Friday shift he showed, walking through ... (247 words)

I have an unhealthy relationship with both of my parents. How can I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I've been dealing with this problem for a very long time and I would like some advice. This is going to be really long but I'm in desperate need for advice asap. Thank you all. I am 18 years old and my parents have been divorced since I was 3. Throughout most ... (438 words)