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writes:I saw this really attractive girl at my train station last friday she got on my train and she got off at the same station as me as well. As i was on the train i wrote her a note saying that i though she was very beautiful and i gave her my number so we coupd text and get to know one anotherShe texted back and we spoke most of the day then she stopped in the evening/night i sent her another the.next morning asking if she was okay and she said her phone was broken and she couodnt get messages we spoke once more on that day the she didnt reply again i sent her one lqter that day and the day after asking if she was okay but i got no response since i havent texted her for a few days but tomorrow ill probably see her again and idk if her phone is broken or if shes ignoring me however she said it was the nicest thing anyone has ever done for her she also told me in about the 4th text that shes got severe depression and it made her week bareable so i dont think she would not want to talk to me after i made her week Im not sure what the next move is do i just leave her alone and let her come to me? Also what should i do if i see her tomorrow?
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (28 November 2013):
 That was a really sweet thing you did:) If she is severely depressed, then most likely she is talking herself out of starting anything with you. There is a sense of unworthiness that you feel when you're depressed, and a sense that you don't want to burden anyone else with your emotional suffering. If you see her tomorrow, do something to make her smile.
A friend of mine who was really depressed had isolated herself from everyone. One of her friends used to send her a text every week telling her to smile or look outside, it's a beautiful day...texts to keep up her spirits and let her know that no matter how isolated she was, he cared. She never responded to those texts, but they really helped to keep her head above water. Today she thanks God everyday for his friendship. She said those texts kept up her spirits and helped her through that rough period in her life.
I say do what feels right to you. You felt it when you left her that note on the train, and you made her happy:)
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