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Archived questions from: 8 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does it sound like we are just friends or could he like me as more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really attracted to a man at work. He seems to like my company. He asks me things about myself, he bought me coffee once, he sits near me in the staff room and the other week, he asked where I was when I wasn't in. He is a nice man and a gentleman, but equally quite ... (137 words)

How can I help him feel comfortable with physical contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in love with a guy who is around 4 years older than me, which (considering my own age), is a difference blatantly big enough to make some people care about my 'safety', and just the general 'its wrong' that I get from some 'friends'. Okay, maybe it is a little wrong. This... (340 words)

Is he playing games or does he fancy me? Why did he delete my phone number? Yet still flirts with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Very brief- The guy is mid 40s. We work together and used to get on really really well, flirting, he use to be my bodyguard, defensive protective and at times jealous. We had a big argument, i told him i didn't fancy him (rumours were going around) since then went down... (224 words)

Straight Girl Secretly In Love With Bisexual Girl Bestfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a girl. I've always classed myself as straight, it wasn't until recently that this was challenged. I met this girl 2 years ago at a party, we got on straight away and continued to meet up as friends, just hanging out. 2 years on, me and this girl are the absolute best of ... (833 words)

Are there people who just don't like texting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Silly question but do some people just not like texting? I was/am seeing this boy. have been since end of july. When I see him hes lovely! We get on great, he shows me a lot of attention and clearly likes me and enjoys spending time with me. I'm quite a texty person, I'... (268 words)

FWB: why hasn't he contacted me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Do fwb's suddenly go silent? I've been friends with benefits with a guy on and off (mostly on) for nearly a year. He is sexy as hell, I approached him, but at the time was going through a rocky patch with my then-boyfriend. I was open with him an he didnt seem to mind, bu... (819 words)

I said a terrible thing, and now it's over. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I said a terrible thing but I think the reaction of my long time boyfriend is way too much. We live together for 7 years and have 1 child together, our daughter is 6.5. We are young professionals, love each other or so I thought, and we are overall a very well functioning... (835 words)

I can't get over my husband cheating with this awful woman!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I had marital problems last year, long story short my husband was cheating on me with an actual whore and when I mean who're I mean this nasty person cheated on her x-husband for the 17 years of Thier marriage she found my husband and found him to be very gullible hung on her ... (298 words)

Which man do I choose? Passion or security?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I have to make the biggest decision of my life and I need some advice! I love two very different guys that have different things to offer and I don’t know who to choose. With Guy # 1 I will be able to stay home with my future kids and be the wife and mother I’ve always ... (191 words)

How do I work this out? He shows no emotion at all. And in his own words is broken.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 9 months last night told me he doesn't love me anymore. I basically dragged it out of him. We have had loads of fights. Maybe everyday. But we are trying to work on this relationship. Both of his parents have cancer. (May contribute to stress). I still love h... (151 words)

Is my friend toxic?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know if a friend is toxic? whenever I spend time with a male friend of mine i come home feeling down and stripped of confidence. He lies a lot so I never really know what is real/not, and he always makes jokes at my expense - he says they're just jokes, but they ... (57 words)

My daughter is pregnant by a bum and refuses to let him go why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid ,my troubled child now a mom to be is very pregnant now she has a job but her boyfriend waits on her check every pay day he doesn't work she supplies him with money to keep him high but she walks around looking thrown away her feet are coming out of her work shoes ... (177 words)

Scarred by past...Is he the one for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

8 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have fallen very much in love but I suppose I am asking you amazing love experts for a spot of reassurance. I have endured many abusive relationships but I never gave up hope of finding the right one for me. He came along when I wasn't expecting it (I'd just left my emotiona... (525 words)

Why do abusive men see me as a target to be mistreated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

8 November 2013 (F) age 51-59 - Dear Cupid I was once in love with my Ex we went our own ways because he turned out to be very abusive mentally and physically I left him. As time went on I ran into another guy who treated me like a queen everyday of my life then he turned out to be the same way as the first... (126 words)