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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I took him back but the butterflies are gone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. My ex and I just got back together, out of nowhere. He broke up with me in an awful way, he cut me off with no words, nothing, and went to another girl. We finally talked and he said some lame excuses for why he ended it. Well he begged for me back. Now my ... (131 words)

She let me come back but she's making me pay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - One and half years ago, I dumped my 4 years old girlfriend, was feeling bored in relationship. She was begging for next 8 months to come back in her life but I didn't. Between I tried different dates and they didn't work for me. So like 40 days ago, I stepped back into my Ex ... (204 words)

So my dilemma is should I tell him about the other guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We are in the same class(both 19) and in march we started dating! We used to be best friends before that, and I liked him for a couple months before we started dating, and I know that he did to. During the ... (649 words)

Is he or is he not interested in me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I have written on here before and I got really good advice from you all. Very good. I have met someone who I've seen around for more than a year now but have only spoken twice before he found me on Facebook and started chatting. He asked me out for supper and a mov... (158 words)

Sex is the best ever but boyfriend is treating me badly! Do I leave or stay for the sex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

15 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hello everyone. I am in a really hard situation and it is eating away at me emotionally. I am in a relationship with a guy who I care about very much. The relationship is 6 months old although I had known him for a year before that. He has said he cares about me, too... b... (1282 words)

My girlfriend is still contacting her ex! It really hurts me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, Once again I need your advice. We've been in a relationship for 3 years, and as of July 2013, we live together. When we started dating, my girlfriend told me that her ex was calling her stuff and making threats. I took no part in the conflict back th... (293 words)

How do I get the guy I'm dating to tone it down a little? He's too playful!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started seeing a new guy. We aren't "boyfriend/girlfriend" yet, but it is definitely heading that way. I'm 20 and he is 19. I really like him and I know he likes me too, but he is all over me! He will come over to watch a film and just can't keep his hands off me. ... (246 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to listen to me when I need to talk to him seriously?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so unhappy with my long distance boyfriend of 3 years but every time I try to initiate a talk he starts shouting or tells me I'm a nag or puts the phone down on me. I can't even tell him I want to break up with him because if I manage to say the words before he puts the ... (197 words)

Should I be more laid back no matter how immature his friends are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is the sweetest guy and puts me first in his life in so many ways. I know he is the one for me. The only problem is We are 29 years old. Most of my friends have moved on in significant ways--married, engaged, having kids or if ... (420 words)

I'd like to be friends with this girl but I'm unsure how

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hey i am 17 and i am from india. I had posted many question i think you must have seen it. So i will come to the point. There is a girl in my college and in classes and i have seen her many times looking at me. She is cute and once i talked to her and again the problem is i am ... (148 words)

I'm hesitant about moving in w/boyfriend because he teaches out of his home and there would be no privacy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I'm looking for some advice please either from people who have been in a similar situation before or just those who have an opinion on what I should do. So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have recently started discussing movin... (505 words)

I have a second chance with my ex but its on harsh terms- should I go for it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

15 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey all Its day 4 post breakup here, i havent started 'no contact' we are still talking every night all night (i know this is not the way to go) Our split was down to distance..5 years in an LDR with neither of us willing to give up our jobs Over the years ive had t... (486 words)

Does he like me? Very close contact left me shaken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy that I really like in my music class. He's really shy and he's never had a girlfriend but he is possibly the nicest person I have ever met. I asked him once if he wanted to go out somewhere a few months ago and he politely said that he doesn't have time right ... (392 words)

My partner is very good looking but I have no sexual attraction to him

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner is the male version of me. Before I met him, I was fully convinced there was no one else like me out there, and that I was doomed to spend my life alone. I'm "different", always have been. I'm extremely introverted, to the point where I don't have any friends beca... (651 words)

Rooming situation is destroying me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I am stuck in a roommate situation with a former best friend, but living with her has made literally everything she does annoying. We bonded at first about being high strung people back in high school. But she is diagnosed OCD and thus says if everything doesn't go accor... (288 words)

Me and my ex are going to be at the same event. how should I act?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend has broke up for almost 4 months, he was the one who broke up with me. I recently found out me and my ex are going to the same climbing event. There will be around 20-25 people going. It's a online meetup group event, and I've gone a few times but never ... (209 words)

It's not what she lied about, it's that she lied

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, i've been getting a lot of good responses lately, so hopefully we can keep em going! ok, so my current problem is that my girlfriend, who we just started going out. one of the first things i asl her, is if she smokes, she told me no. now i dont have a problem if she di... (137 words)

Fears that if I don't put the Spark back in our Relationship I'm Going to Lose Him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend almost 3 years. Things have been going really well, especially the past year and a half. I've accepted that he's a bit of a "commitment phobic" but we've seemed to work past that, and I've felt that we can work through any issues. That's part of ... (511 words)

Too soon to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm 20 and 2 1/2 months ago my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me. He said he loves me and is happy with me but I'm not "the one". We never had any big arguments but he said we "aren't right" for each other. At first I was really upset but the past month I've been doing ... (215 words)