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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I cut my really long hair because my boyfriend likes short hair?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really long hair. Myboyfriend an i really love each other. but he likes hair short so he is asking me to cut them. should i do what he says. i cant make up my mind but i do want to make him happy... (45 words)

How do I deal with childlessness issues?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I deal with childlessness issues? Especially the qustion "why haven't I had any"? I'm single and don't have any fertility issues - I've just never met a guy who wanted to get that serious with me. My chances of conceiving a child have pretty much run out unless ... (85 words)

How do I handle things with a married friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This page has been great at helping me so asking another question if that's ok, The thing I'm asking foradvice on how to handle a situation with a man from church I kinda like him and he has gave me loads of hints that it is mutal. Like watching me all the time, making excuses ... (240 words)

Any advice on how to end this quickly and with no mess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I started seeing this guy back in September. We're both in the same major in my university and had a class together last year. I always got the feeling he had a crush on me and I thought he was a nice guy, so we started going on dates. The thing is, I am really really busy and ... (404 words)

How can I be sure our relationship won't just turn into a FWB?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote earlier in the week and got some great responses. So thank u.My original post was about a guy ive been seeing for 2 months. We got into a huge fight (started by me) about being more committed. I flipped out on him and he told me it was done. He doesn't like drama.Well ... (223 words)

Thin or curvy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in my late 20 s and have a 5 year old son. I was very thin when I got married 112 lb with 5.4 height. I was always getting attention from guys, though was called skinny sometimes. Now after divorce and my pregnancy I gained 25 lb. I am not overweight by any means, e... (366 words)

Both of my friends with benefits don't want to see me anymore. What now?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

1 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I guess that this doesn't fall under the traditional, or conventional, relationship topics, but I lost two friends with benefits and I'm going to have a tough time getting back into the dating world. The dynamics of our relationship basically consisted of two women who were a... (423 words)

Boyfriend told me that another girl is flirting with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Some background info: I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I have had a bad past with boyfriends and have been abused and cheated on so it was very hard for me to trust my current boyfriend at first but he understands and he has earned my trust; he's never really given me ... (301 words)

I don't need to be flattered all the time, but the occasional compliment would be nice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Why does he almost never compliment me? The guy I'm dating rarely ever compliments me. He'll say things like "Hey beautiful" or occasionally say something like I have a nice smile, etc..but it's very rare. It came up one time that I tried to figure out why he was like that..a... (156 words)

Why did this gal ask me for sex on our first date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

1 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a woman on a dating site for serious relationships, which I am seeking. After some brief emails and a phone chat we made a dinner date. We met at a nice resturant and spent a nice hour talking about ourselves, nothing sexual. When we left, I asked her for another date, ... (323 words)

It's only since we've been apart that I've realized I love her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

1 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone!!!! I really need help. I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. Throughout these 3 years I don't think I was ever in love with her. Although I always told her I was. Although I had never been in love before so I thought maybe... (620 words)

He cannot take any criticism but dishes it out very well.. How do I make him see this without fighting about it? I am tired!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my husband for seven years I work(taxes) four months outside the home and the rest of the year I am a stay at home mom. I like this schedule because my kids are young teens and I am here for them when they are home and I also take care of everythi... (264 words)

Should I make a move? If I do, where do I start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, so I've been out of action from a dating scene for awhile (about a year and a half) and I've developed a fancy for one of my workmates. We get along really well, conversation flows easily, hes funny witty- everything I like in a guy. We went out for some work drinks ... (301 words)

Why are these girls at college being so mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm looking for some advice regarding girls I am at college with we are all between 24-26. But I have came on crying the last few weeks. I am a single mum my daughters father was abusive to me and I found support through the church as I don't have much family either,I ... (358 words)

My friends girlfriend is cheating on him... Do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

1 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a bit of a strange one. And to some it might sound bad on my part. I want to try to set the scene so everyone has a better understanding. A few years ago my next door neighbour moved in with his girlfriend. We both stay in semi detached homes. Quite a respectab... (377 words)

My friend expects me to do sexual things that I am not ready to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Okay so my guy friend talks about having oral sex with me and he wants me to squirt on him and I am nervous because I don't want to have sex with him if we are not married. We went out only one time and with my ex- boyfriends they never put that kind of pressure on me. They w... (175 words)

Sacrificed friends to the relationship and now have no one to confide in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello aunts and uncles. I have found myself in a situation that I'm sure is common but I feel a little trapped and sad at the moment so some advice would be good. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, and during that time most of my girlfriends have found partners t... (408 words)

Is there a link between impulsiveness and cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick, general question. Do you guys think there is a link between impulsive behavior and cheating? My bf has never struck me as a cheater and I've been with him for quite some time now. He has never seemed in the least bit shady. however, he is extremely impulsive in ... (66 words)

Now that I've really fallen I'm scared because so much is at stake

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all. So I've been battling with my head a bit lately and need some opinions and advice. I've always received wonderful and helpful responses in the past, so thanks for that. Okay, so, to get to the point, I'm a 29 year old lesbian. I have dated and cared for a dece... (458 words)

All I want is a cuddle but if I ask it'll start another fight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just feel confused at the moment, distant and not sure what it is i'm thinking. I haven't seen my girlfriend for about three weeks now and everyday it just feels like she hates me at times. She has a lot of Uni work on at the moment so i can understand but even before that... (317 words)

I really want him to make the next move ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I met a guy about a month ago on a dating site and I have been a little unsure about him because he has some insecurity issues and trust issues. But then again I do too, but I am in therapy for it. I think about him every day. We went out on one date already and I have been ... (615 words)

How can I find true happiness within myself. Without needing another human to help provide that happiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

1 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - How can you find true happiness within yourself without needing a man or anyone else to make you happy? I'm finding happiness through men that eventually hurt me because they see my lack of confidence and unhappiness. I want to be in a relationship but I am not happy with m... (270 words)

My gf has a friend, and apparently they like each other. How should I react?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

1 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - my gf and I are in a long distance relationship for a year and a half now. We love each other and so far we have been very happy together. she met a guy in university who has been talking to her and messaging her on fb. he has been asking her to have dance and a italian ... (238 words)