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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does anyone else think it's silly that a lot of chicks still think they're virgins after giving bjs?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I just think it's really silly. I mean, I guess they'd be technical virgins, but to say you're pure after having a d--k in your mouth is just absolutely ridiculous to me. But I've heard A LOT of girls say they're still virgins after. Am I the only one who thinks this is strange ... (56 words)

Tips for making out and making a guy cum?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need tips for how to make a guy cum during a makeout session. Of course we can grind top and bottom, but I'm specifically looking for tips on how to make him cum just using my hands (through his pants), or grinding in different positions...I want to see how much I can ... (84 words)

Help with insecure GF who wants a break

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF has really low self esteem and she's really anxious and insecure. She does not love herself and she has had a hard life. She was almost raped and she had to have an abortion amongst other things. She didn't want to get into a relationship but then she met me and she felt ... (347 words)

Slept with a married work colleague

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have worked with this man for a year. We flirt all day everyday and for as long as I've known him iv been attracted to him, hes also attracted to me but hes married. On friday we had a work party and i stayed in his hotel room and we had sex. Ther was no awkwardness between ... (352 words)

Looking for help with emotionally unavailable guy.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know if this is a long shot but I'm looking for some advice and help with dealings I have with a guy. He is emotionally unavailable, he is my fwb ( when he fancies it!!) and I'm not sure if you'd call him a player. Anyway so I'm hoping to get in touch with a guy on de... (124 words)

He said he was single, but now I find out about his terminal girlfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just found out that this guy I have been getting to know has a girlfriend and that she is terminally ill. I confronted him and he says he just needs someone to support him through this time. I feel sick to my stomach because we have kissed a couple of times. He told me ... (116 words)

It feels like we've changed over the course of the relationship, and I'm not sure we should continue

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have had a mostly happy and strong relationship going over the past 3 years, however over the past few months I have become increasingly unsure that this is the right guy for me. The reason why is because I feel like we have both changed over the course of ... (492 words)

Am I being overly concerned -- he wanted to have sex without protection

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - After waiting a fair amount of time, the guy I'm dating and I decided to have sex. I had needed to take it slow, and he had respected that, then last night we took things further. It got to the point where he was about to go inside me, but he tried to without a condom. I had to ... (157 words)

Am I expecting too much from relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. The thing is I'm 25, nearly 26 and I'm so fed up of being alone. I feel guilty for feeling this way as I have a lovely family and friends, a decent job and I have been contented with my life in general. I was with an ex from the age of ... (264 words)

Is she trying to develop a sexual relationship or chemistry with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Insight needed into whether this chic is interested in dating me or just want to hook up for sex. So I'm lesbian, and I think but am not too sure the chic is bisexual. In any event we went out twice before and after that I kind lost touch with her. Now we're starting ... (187 words)

Should I trust my boyfriend that he didn't cheat?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so my boyfriend rarely goes out drinking but he was out on Saturday night with his (single) friend. I have trust issues and I can get a bit paranoid and jealous.i did the wrong thing and looked at his mobile phone call history.(we live together - 1 year). I found some out... (233 words)

Do men keep stuff from their ex girlfriends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Firstly I'm typing this on my phone so sorry for any mistakes. I'll try and make this short. I've known this guy for six years as friends. We just recently startde dating and so far its been amazing. He's sweet, nice, focused on school and work But makes time f... (286 words)

Why is wife hiding her past from me, and has lied about it

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (M)

age - why is my wife hiding her past from me? she tells me its my problem, and not hers. she has lied to me over the years about it. we have been married for several years now 31 , while dating she said she was in love with her first, but a year or so back she tells me... (383 words)

Should I uproot my child to be with this man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My dilemma is simple. I am a young single mother who has always lived in California. A year ago I met a man from Texas who was here on business but decided to let him have my number and things progressed. Because of business he was here quite a few times and even flew me me ... (198 words)

Why can't I stay away from trouble or settle down with a man who truly loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Have to ask myself why I am incapable of having a proper healthy relationship? Ever since I started dating about 3 years ago my whole relationship catalogue is a disaster (all my fault), so what is wrong with me? It started with a guy I dated for a year, at the start of the... (395 words)

Sister-in-law propositioned me, and I'm tempted ...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I have a dilemma, I don't get on with my sister in law, she is an obnoxious self centred person, a habitual liar, thief and cannot be trusted even slightly. I have tried in the past to give her the benefit of the doubt but have always had my suspicions confirmed. Strangely ... (179 words)

Lesbian confusion with a girl I'm really into

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a girl in May this year, we got close, however she had a girlfriend whom shes been with for 3 years (I'm 20 and shes 21). We kissed, nothing more. I went to USA in July till Oct, we fell out whilst I was in USA. I felt sly as she cheated on her current gf at the time, and ... (308 words)

I hate the idea of killing something potentially magical with too much information

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

18 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - A man really wanted me some time back - about 3 years - but he wasn't to know that the timing was all very wrong. We went out a few times but just as something was about to start up I really backed off, without any explanation - partly this was because there had been no ... (913 words)

Was she so much in love with her ex or she just didn't like me enough?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

18 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with this girl for a while (almost two months). She liked me but it was kind of flakey; sometimes she was more into me than others. After a while I found out that she was still obssesed with her ex bf after one and a half years (!) of not even talking to him. I know the ... (270 words)