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Archived questions from: 29 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If you were me, what would you do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey Cupids, Not sure what I am asking for here but I wanted to share something with you. I have a friend who I was close with for the last 3 years, let’s call him Ed. We became close friends after issues happening in our lives made us need support and I was new to the are... (322 words)

I don't feel comfortable not being wanted around his friends and family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year ive only met his mom once and that was when we first started dating. I've only met 3 of his friends. He won't take me around his mom or his other friends. He always says something like his mom doesn't want me at her house or ... (130 words)

Is he exaggerating or could a 15 year old really mean it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How serious is a fifteen year old boy when he says he would marry you in a heartbeat and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with you? We are really close friends so he knows what I am truly like and all my flaws and I don't know whether he just loves me as a friend and ... (82 words)

I feel like there's something unspoken going on between us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for some advice on what's going on between my boyfriend and I at the moment. We have been together for 4 years and a couple of weeks ago we almost split up. We both ended up crying though and decided to start making more effort to make things right. So last night ... (621 words)

Sex life with fianceé is suffering. How important is sex to women in a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I just want to know how important sex is to women in a relationship, and also if it is important to them to maintain a healthy relationship. My fiance and I just got engaged a few weeks ago and we've been together for a year and a half. The first few months of the relations... (248 words)

Why did he act so interested and then suddenly back off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, There is a guy at work whom I have liked for a while. I am on a dating site online, and one evening, I saw a photo of a guy on this site and clicked on it, and it was this guy I work with ! Shocked at seeing his profile, I didnt initiate contact at all, but then he sent me ... (272 words)

He believes what people told him about me and wants a divorce

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So my husband was in Afghanistan for 9 months. He just recently got back. Some ppl I know told him I had been cheating on him, which I didn't. He is so cold now, and just wants a divorce. We don't talk, he has changed so much. Should I just get a divorce, or try n make him ... (64 words)

Can't attract guys at all! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay! This is going to sound so stupid but i'm facing 17 and I hate to admit it but I am clueless about how to attract boys and to flirt with them. I have had two un-sucessful relationships and the only way they came about was because we had b... (633 words)

Our marriage seems to work OK on the phone but not in person

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age - I need an advise about my marriage sittuation. Since 3 years ago my mother got very sick and I had to visit her every year for a long period of time.My husband is from a wealthy family and he kind of told me to stop everything and stay with my mom.I then,stopped working and ... (669 words)

My mom never lets my husband in the house, big deal or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been married for about 6 months now, and my husband has never been to my parents home...ever. We all live in the same city, I've been to his mum's a ton, same with his other family. He's been around my family plenty, but my mum always skirts around him comin... (307 words)

When we are together its good when we aren't I think of how it won't work out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here is the deal. I am a bit confused and obviously seeking advice. I have been dating my boyfriend close to a year now. He Is a bit older (like 14 yrs older) I don't know if that makes a difference. He has also been married twice before with girls of the same age dif... (402 words)

A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my gorgeous girlfriend with this ... (162 words)

Did the text mean that he was looking to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So this guy was flirting with me. We were texting and talking about the movie I just watched. Then he said "If you're free we can do something maybe... ;)" Did he mean sex? And how should I react to it? This msg just kinda popped out of nowhere. 'Cause if he did mean sex then I ... (60 words)

I feel like I am not part of my boyfriend's life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I've been dating a guy for around 6 months. During this time we have seen each other at weekends and once during the week. To begin with this was fine, but now I am starting to feel this relationship is stalling. We have a great sex life but for me once or twice... (258 words)

Why does my boyfriend look up his ex's at least once a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal that my boyfriend looks up all his exes and sometimes just girls that he has kissed/had flings with on facebook? It's once a week ish usually! I never do that!! He is a big thinker he thinks about everything - his mind is always going and he works mornings... (79 words)

My ex went off on me because I'm seeing his married friend. I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - where do i start its a long story , iv been trying to get a hold of my x for the longest time we did not part well, anyway we had been together for 4 yrs friends befor that so finly did reach him we stared talking again he said he would come and see me . so he did at the time ... (180 words)

Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a recently divorced white woman who has been dating black men for about a year and a half. Why am I meeting so many black men who freeload off women? Now mind you, not all of them are. But the ones that do.... Not only do they have no shame in asking to be given or to ... (213 words)

I'm in a huge mess...and I have no idea what to do now!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So there's a long story to this one. I like this girl that I volunteer with. She's three years younger than me and she's an EMT, I'm a firefighter and EMT driver. We both ride the same nights and have been friends for three or four years now. We dated back when we first met but ... (1179 words)

Am I right to not want to see my mother or her girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4040 days ago

29 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I visited my mother for Thanks Giving. She is 40 years old, still lives with her mother (my birth grandfather and step grandmother raised me). She lives the way she does, mainly because she has an addiction. She is dating a woman that is only 4.5 years to the day older than ... (580 words)

He flirts and it irritates me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

29 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years often flirts with his immediate boss or co-workers, someone or other. Its not that he flirts with everyone, he picks a person for a time, flirts with them until he loses interest or they lose interest and then move on other person. And tells me abo... (148 words)