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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a student nurse with not a lot of money and he has a good job so why is it up to me to pay for the hotel room?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a student nurse so not on alot of money and my boyfriend works in IT up in the city, has a good job,we have been together a few months but we decided to spend some privacy time together in a hotel room,so he wants me to book it up,arrange the date then to meet up.My ... (109 words)

We are rarely intimate anymore but he keeps watching porn! I don't know what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been watching an excessive amount of porn, at least 5 times a week.. i have personally caught him with his hands in his pants online early in the morning, normally i sleep in but its been becoming a bigger and bigger problem. we are rarely intimate anymore, im ... (245 words)

I'm getting suspicious -- should I approach this collegue of his?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for years but it has been a rocky road for one reason and another. He has called me by his colleagues name a couple of times recently. The last time was this weekend, I felt very suspicious this time for some reasons, more than bef... (139 words)

Dealing with his pain

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to feel right now. My boyfriend and I broke up Friday night and it was a pretty bad fight for something really stupid. It always happens. We fight and make up. We were together for a little over a year and a half, and we were pretty close. He knows everything... (327 words)

I'm too scared to break up with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a bit of a sticky situation. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now in a relatively stable relationship. Because of my job I've had to move away for a while and my boyfriend is still back at home and now I rarely get to see him. Visiting has become so difficult, ... (491 words)

He has this friend who really has a thing for him and who would like me out of the picture

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy I met online since July (about 5 months), very casually, on and off. I like him a lot, I enjoy being with him, and the sex is phenomenal. He's a bit of a commitment phobe and so am I, so neither of us is rushing toward a relationship. We're both okay ... (605 words)

So far everything's been on her terms

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a girl a few months ago, she is really lovely and funny and when we meet up we have such a good time together. Problem is she is rubbish at getting in contact, so the oonly time we properly talk is when we arrange to meet. Anyway things were going really well and then ... (201 words)

After breaking up I realized I was overthinking

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend on friday because i thought i couldnt trust her and i was fed up of feeling confused etc. Throught the week about things between us. However after reflecting after a few days i spoke to her on saturday about it and she said shed like to sort her... (159 words)

Is this penis envy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure where to start. I guess I should be straightforward. I have been feeling real envious more so lately of the male anatomy, well, the penis. Yes penis envy probably. Anyway, whenever I masturbate I have to think of my partner getting off, his hard penis all ... (286 words)

Why can’t girls just say no when they don’t want to go out with you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I asked this girl out recently who I actually thought liked me back, given all the back and forth flirting, but as soon as I asked if she wanted to go out, she shrugged her shoulders and said, “I don’t know, I have to think about it, maybe later, can I get back to you?” When d... (159 words)

Caught him looking at porn after he said he would never do it again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Caught my husband months ago lurking into porn videos. Said would never do again. Swore promised. Said was stupidness curiosity and wrong but did it. Doesn't mean anything just says computer wass there one click lead into many videos. I believed never again checked his phone ... (203 words)

Boyfriend is out of town... messages me...then does not read my reply or answer back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hi all. I am a bit upset. Not sure if I should be or not. Hope you can give me your opinions. My boyfriend is in the U.S helping his dad get back on his feet following a surgery. He messaged me on Facebook the day after he arrived and he told me about his day and what... (227 words)

All I want is someone to love me! I need some advice!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Here we go, I am going to try and do this without breaking down into tears . I have only been divorced since May of 2012 however my husband left in 2008 I met this man and started seeing him and at the time i didnt know he was married because he said he was single . After ... (425 words)

My first date and he's 8 years older. How do I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm going on a date with a guy who is 8 years older than me. He's 26 and I'm 18. People keep telling me to be more careful and to watch out because he's a lot smoother at manipulation and it'll be easier for him to persuade me to do things. But I don't think he's that kind o... (122 words)

He has become so self-centered that I'm crying every night!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My current situation is that I live with my boyfriend and my son from my previous relationship. He is great with my son and we get along really well the only thing that is bothering me is that he seems to think time with my son and me is our time together. I keep telling him no ... (309 words)

Defining Friends With Benefits?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I always thought I knew what Friends With Benefits (FWB) meant. As I'm reading more of these questions/answers, I'm beginning to see how wrong I was and how it affected my relationships. I still have some ideas of what I think those things are but I would really like some ... (651 words)

I can't manage to have sex for 2 hours, should I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I do like having sex with my boyfriend bt i am facing the problem, he is sex rider n make me be on the mood with no doupts. My problem is he takes 2hours 2 make one round bt only if he use condom, when we sex without condom he takes 20-30 min then i dont like sex without condom ... (100 words)

Anyone else take this long to get pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Folks, Thank you for replies in advance. I am a 30 year old woman, I have been with my partner for 8 years and 7 or those 8 we have being trying for a baby. Every month is a disappointment, both of us have got tested and apparently healthy. 7 years without luck see... (134 words)

I really want to post our relationship on FB, but he's not so keen

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - (very long story) I was dating this guy a few months back, at the start of the year, we dated on and off throughout the year we kept breaking up for different reasons, girls being the main one.. We got back together about a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend to be ... (369 words)

It seems like she's moving fast, but she doesn't want us to be official?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - ok, so i posted a question before, and got a pretty good result with the answer, but this is a follow up, not really what to do next, but what should i think? me and a girl on my high school's debate team are kinda together, like we act like we are in a relationship, but we a... (421 words)

There was obvious attraction -- is she letting me down gently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Quick question How long would you generally leave it before talking to a girl before asking to meet up kind of thing? I was out with a couple of buddies friday night, and one of these guys had his gf out. They don't really speak much on a night out, just keep theirself t... (477 words)

Haven't been feeling the need to be in a relationship -- is it because of ageing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

11 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, It's been a while since I fell in love or had that feeling of desire to be with someone. I think it's probably I am in a new enviorement as I moved to a new country. but I miss that feeling of love, attraction, chemistry, and adventure. I think I felt that in Hig... (153 words)

Should I trust that gut feeling that tells me to move on, or should I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4058 days ago

11 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We started dating online while he was deployed and continued when he got back a few months ago. At the start I was really happy and felt like he could be the right guy for me. But then, couple of months ago, we had... (269 words)