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Archived questions from: 26 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's great but I just don't feel anything for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone, My boyfriend and I been going out for a month now, we are both 18, we don't argue, he treats me nice but he's not really the romantic type, he's really nice and sweet, but I feel like there's something missing I just don't have that connection with him yet. ... (155 words)

She's irrationally annoyed -- what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - my fiancee is annoyed because i didnt make a decision in a rushed moment when she wanted me to. the thing is she didnt make it clear that she wanted me to she just asked what are the plans, and i assumed that she wanted to talk about it and decide together, not that she wanted ... (124 words)

Should I stop flirting and let my friend have him since she's been dying for her first bf for ages? Should I tell my friend I like him too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 and I have a crush on a boy 3 months my younger (I don't usually opt for youngers I think its weird). He's in the RAF and he's a very funny, mature and caring guy who makes me smile. The only problem is that one of my friends likes him too. He has told others and myself ... (236 words)

No feelings for my new boyfriend and I think I'm in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i have been in a relationship for 10 weeks now my boyfriend says he adores me the problem is i have no feelings for him even though i have tried and tried i feel to guilty to split up with him though we were friends for 3 years before and we ended up dating another problem ... (120 words)

I'm dating a new guy, but I just can't seem to let my ex go.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating a guy who I fell head over heels with for 3 months. Things were really awesome in the beginning and then they started to fall apart because I kept pressuring him to put a title on the relarionship. Long story short we broke up a little over a month ago and it ... (233 words)

How can I get someone to return my things without making a scene?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I lent a friend (Nick) a DVD box set about 18 months ago. I then broke up with my boyfriend (it was awful) and I needed to go down the no contact route. This meant that I didn't see Nick nearly as much anymore because I was no longer going to the places where he hung out. I ... (523 words)

Problems with neighbour - how would you handle this?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

26 November 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Hello. I would like to know how you would handle this situation. I live above a young male who is intolerant of his neighbours making any sounds. Whenever we do make sounds, he bangs the walls. I get the most of it though, since I live right above him. He bangs when I am ... (280 words)

Can you advice how can a person help himself to stop loving the wrong person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Unfortunately, I started to have feelings for the wrong person and I am very tormented. I'm a very realistic person and I don't like to see things that don't exist. At times, I would feel that he likes me by the way he looks at me and talk to me. At other times, I feel that he ... (163 words)

Is there really ever a good time to break up with someone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been dating someone for 3 months who has started to get clingy and needy. He's a very nice man and has many wonderful qualities but he is way more into this relationship then me. I'll give some examples of his needy behavior: He texts and calls too often. If I don'... (542 words)

Do I fear women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question, and maybe you can give me a bit of insight. I am a 21 year old straight male, and I am going to step out on a limb here and say that I am very attractive. The only reason I say that is because I don't think I am, but many ladies and many men have told me... (474 words)

I can't remember all of the women I have slept with. Is this a problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I was sitting here, alone in my basement feeling bad for myself, and decided I would write a list of all of the women I have slept with. I can't remember all of them that I have been with. Should this be concerning in my eyes? What is you all's opinions?... (53 words)

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues we had (him acting like the ... (252 words)

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

26 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got to me moving her hands to... (720 words)

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room with you for a long time". I ... (621 words)

Relationship lacks intimcy, fiance wont let me get close.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi ladies and Gents, My fiance is 22 and i'm 26 in a couple of weeks. my relationship lacks intimacy, I am feeling frustrated and rejected by her. we have sex once a week, if that. the times between sex are becomming further and further appart. she wont let me touc... (598 words)

Can a woman orgasm too hard?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a woman orgasm too hard? I really want to push my girlfriend to the limit but I don't want to hurt her, if I kept stimulating her past her usual limit will it give her more pleasure (more orgasms) or is there only so far a woman can go? she has described feeling scar... (145 words)

Boyfiend Won't Spend Christmas with Me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now. We're very close, get along great, and he's met my family (extended family included) and seemed to like all of them. However, last week I asked him of he had plans for Christmas. He said no he didn't have any plans an... (189 words)

Am I right not trusting my partner after finding out his ex stayed when I wasn't there??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm seeking advice and I guess because I'm in a new country and feeling isolated, some strength and direction to help get my thoughts together and make some decisions would be really helpful. I've been in a relationship with my partner for over three years and will admit th... (1584 words)

Is my B/f looking for his ideal woman? Or does he just see women with long platinum blond hair as some sort of porn object?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - If my boyfriend sees a woman with platinum blond hair, he just goes into a sort of trance-like state and fixates on her. The woman often is just average-looking, but because her hair is long and platinum blond, he just gets stirred inside. Why is this? The other night when... (160 words)

My ex seemed to get too close. Does he still have a thing for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically, my friends and I went to this event called Midnight Rodeo. It's a country place/bar where you dance two-step and things like that. It was for my friend's birthday party; she went to drink for her 21st birthday so we separated once we got there. It ended up being m... (380 words)

Can phone sex keep our relationship strong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship with someone in a different country. Gasp! Yes, I said a long distance relationship. Our relationship is still new (5 months about) but I feel it is strengthening. We are continuously making plans to visit each other and have talked abou... (274 words)

Tips on how to flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) age 30-35 - I know this is a bit lame, but I need to know how to flirt with a guy. I have been out of a long term relationship for 6 months now so this is like back to basics/ new to me. I was at a bar tonight and was instantly attracted to the bartender. I am terrible with knowing if ... (222 words)

How do I move past this mistake?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a Christian lady I made a mistake and had sex with a guy that I had just met I knew it was wrong but I was totally attracted him and plus he made it seen like he really liked me now he doesn't call or text anymore I feel so ashamed and used,how do I recover from this... (59 words)