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writes:Me and my ex boyfriend broke up last December but we're still friends. However, during and before our relationship started this girl who liked him tried everything in her power to break us up, she threatened me and tried to get some girl to beat me up, and yeah. Recently, him and the girl started talking again and she still likes him and he's thinking about starting a relationship with her and I really don't think that's a good idea but I don't want to say anything to him because he seems happy . Also, it feels like a slap in the face because I went through all that just for him to end up with her? I might be jealous, I don't know but I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses, they were all much appreciated.
I've allowed him space to make his own mistakes, so I'm not telling him my thoughts on their relationship but I don't think I'm ready to cut him off entirely
Again, thanks everyone xx
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reader, shna  +, writes (30 November 2013):
 You never know sweetie he could be doing all this for attention !! He obviously knows she use to intentionally hurt your feeling ( whilst giving him attention) and he is bound to know that upset you !!
Its definalty a kick in the face
Dont make a big drama out of it i mean nothing has happened yet if something does happen and get serious then i think you should cut contact with this guy ! Its only going to create drama (which this girl is obviously dieing for) and he will love the fact that he has you two fighting over him again even if on your side its not in a romantic way !!
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reader, M Proops +, writes (30 November 2013):
You're far to young to be dating seriously.You're better off without him,he'll only do the same to his "new" girl.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 November 2013):
 I have to agree with Janniepg, if he WANTS her in his life, I would exit. He obviously have pisspoor judgement when it comes to that woman.
Because IF they start dating you know she will try to make your life miserable again. Why put yourself through that? He is an ex, you don't HAVE to be his "friend".
I wouldn't tell him it's a bad idea either, that is HIS MISTAKE to make. But I would back off and stop talking to him, hang out, text and whatnot..
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (30 November 2013):
 I am sure you had told him before that you were threatened and still he goes ahead and date her. He has poor judgment and cares more about being liked than who he is with. I couldn't be friends with him anymore. Why do you need a reminder everyday of his betrayal? I would just cut contact and stop anyone from giving updates about them. There is nothing you have to do. You still have a whole life to look forward to.
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