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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, so my ex broke up with me a couple of months ago and a lot of stuff had happened since then but recently he said it was best we didn't see each other for a while as we both need to move on etc. To cut a long story short, he has since text me randomly, and vice versa and the space hasn't really happened, but on two occasions he has called me and I've been out. I would reply to say this and he would get angry that I wouldn't take his call... Any advice as to what is going on here? He says he has no feelings towards me in that way but still cares for me, yet he can say hurtful things. Help!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 November 2013):
 Stop keeping contacts with him ! how is he really be an ex, and how are you going to move on, of you keep being in each other pocket's and having tiffs etc. as if you were still dating ?1
why do you even care why he does or says something ? You shouldn't. He is an ex. It's over. Stop wasting time analyzing the possible reasons of his behaviour. So maybe at times he is contraddicting himself - and ? Mpve on and let the next girl to worry about his contraddictions 1
Anyway, FWIW, yes, someone may not have any romantic feelings for you AND be pissed when he gets ignored or pissed. It's not about love, it's about ego and power. He may not like you anymore- but like the id that you still like HIM.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 November 2013):
 He's an EX for a reason... why in the world are you getting upset over an ex partners rantings and ravings.
you owe him NOTHING.
I'd go totally NO CONTACT and be done with him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 November 2013):
 Nutso !
Cut all contact with him. The RELATIONSHIP is over, so there is NO NEED for contact and honey, you do not OWE him a play by play of what you are doing in your life.
Why do you let him control you this way? He says hurtful things? Then you know what the "cure" for that is? DO NOT talk to him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 November 2013):
I agree with the poster below. You need to cut this guy out. He's controlling and potentially dangerous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2013): Your ex bf is crazy. Thank God your no longer with him. just imagine if your still with him and you accidentally forget to return his call, what would he do? hurt you physically?
His acting like he cares but all he really cares about is his ego. It hurts a man when he knows he can't control a woman.
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