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Archived questions from: 24 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What do you do when the girl you love, loves someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I am single,the old adage is I have really fancied this girl at work for so long, over a year in fact.We always have such a laugh, talk for ages we have so much in common it just feels right talking to her. I never did anything because she had a long term boyfriend.About 3 ... (263 words)

We're having some problems in the bedroom and I'm afraid it's my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now, I was a virgin before him so I'm kind of lost regarding sex issues. The problem is he has problems getting an erection or sometimes he loses it half way through sex. He says it never happened to him before and that ... (121 words)

I want to break up but how? Or am I overreacting?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years. Typical love story, we met while travelling to our home town at a friend's place, we met we hit it off instantly, we promised to keep in touch, we emailed, we sent text messages, spent hours on the phone, got ... (462 words)

Am I about to be used in revenge sex with a longtime friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a long and complex story of infidelity and revenge sex. So here's the short version. My friend had been cheating on his wife unknown to me. I've know them both since childhood. I kept our friendship at a respectful distance because I could not stand how badly he abused ... (296 words)

How can I boost my confidence?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am after some advice/help on how to be more confident and care free, and less self conscious in public. I've always been quiet and I do care what people think of me, up to a point, but I wish I had the confidence to be more my natural self without worrying. For... (323 words)

Is she telling me have a hope of saving our marriage or is she just not going to bother whatever I try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for 9 years (6 years married) with my wife. We have five children in which the eldest was from another relationship before ours. We used to live in a three bedroom house which got too small for us to live in, so managed to get ourselves a bigger ... (690 words)

Why do girls like jerks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do girls typically go for the douchebags, and typically grody asshoke frat boys that spend 5 days a week in the gym? To me it seems like the only difference between a jerk asking and any other guy is that the prick, because of his false sense of confidence that girls ... (267 words)

What do I do about this petty friend drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently moved to a new town, and soon after I met a woman (Helen), who asked if I wanted to meet for coffee. That was yhree months ago. Two weeks later she introduced me to her landlady, Emma. I started going round to their house for a cup of tea, chat, or pop out for a ... (224 words)

Am I wrong, or is she just being childish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4042 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ok me once again. There's this girl and me and her was pretty cool with each other, but we didn't really talk to each other, but we didn't have no problems either. Until one day I guess she got mad because I was talking to a dude she once liked, and I guess she still do... (124 words)

Ex doesn't want to take me to court, but still wants contact - after everything he's done!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. Posted about this on here before. Brief reminder: My ex had our son one day a week, left him in wet clothes, we had a row, then he turned round and said he didn't want to see our son anymore. Afew months ago his latest girlfriend threatened me too. He now wa... (294 words)

Would you ever ask an ex to be your plus 1 at a wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Would you ever asks an ex to be your plus 1 at a wedding? I ask because my ex asked me to go to a wedding with him. He was the dumpee. It was 5 months ago we broke up, but he didn't take it so great. We've spoken on and off since, but nothing much. If this was you, would you ... (72 words)

Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said she has changed, or should I stay with my new girlfriend of five months who I have a steady relationship with

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, Anthony here, I am looking for some advice please as I ‘ve go myself into something of a dilemma! Should I marry a girl I love and have had a five year on off relationship with but has cheated and lied to me in the past, but has now said she has changed, or shou... (1560 words)

He thinks of me as something that I'm not and I can't stand the thought of seeing disappointment on his face

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met a great guy and we have been dating for a while now. The next step on the cards for us is sex but im terrified of him seeing me naked. See I used to be extremely over weight and I lost it all naturally a few years ago but my body still shows the scars. I guess with ... (325 words)

His questions are making me uncomfortable -- am I just being paranoid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel this way about him? Am I being paranoid? I've been seeing this guy my friends husband set me up with. They say good things about him all the time and he seems nice so far. I starting a well paid job in a few months and he says he's proud of me and ... (205 words)

So what's going on? Has she lost interest?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this girl on a dating site. Well, a woman. She is 38. I am 39. We went out for drinks a week ago and ended up kissing. Before the date we'd been emailing every day, and after the date (Friday) I wasn't sure how long to wait, but I sent her a text on Tuesday asking her ... (127 words)

Do you think he might be a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hi folks, I go to this club to sing and I have a lot of friends there and enjoy spending time with them. There are a few guys and women I talk to, all different ages and one girl there is my friend and she is much younger and has a new boyfriend. He is a guitar player and h... (217 words)

I care about him, but not the way he wants. What are my options?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - Hi everyone, There is this guy I've been talking to and we have just been texting back and forth but we have never actually met. He has been coming on strong telling me that he is in love with me and that he wants me in his life. He wants to meet me but I told him that things ... (298 words)

Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned out just to be sex, now here ... (220 words)

I thought my Co-worker was just a good friend. So why has he been asking me explicit sexual questions?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I've thought this guy at my work and I were just friends. We talk a lot, about random stuff usually. Yesterday we were texting and he was asking me when I'm going to have kids and everything. I said I don't know. Anyway so we were texting more and he asked what all I've do... (156 words)

How can I get my parents to allow me to close the door to my room when my boyfriend comes visiting? We need our privacy!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I have been with my bf for a few months and recently I invited my bf to meet my parents. What irks me is that I am not allowed to close the door when I am alone with him in my room. We don't always on the airconditioner but sometimes we do. I told my parents if they ... (201 words)

Am I being unreasonable to want to keep this friendship? Or is my boyfriend right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I have an issue with my live-in boyfriend (of 5 years) that I need some advice on please. I have a female friend at work. We work in the same department and we have become quite close and have started seeing each other outside of work a bit too. However she told me yest... (394 words)

Girlfriend says she wants to sow her wild oats

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with the most wonderful girl for 3 years now. She is a good complement to me and I to her. We moved in together 2 years ago and we have talked of marriage and having a family. However, there is a problem and that is that our sex life is not good. It was at firs... (377 words)

Don't want to miss out on the opportunity but afraid I'll develop feelings for him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, just asking for your opinion. There is this 50's plus amazing guy at work. He is one of those rare types who attract young girls, more than guys their own age! At work, every and I mean literally every girl would do anything to go out with him(I have never seen a boy my age ... (279 words)

Don't want to lose her as a friend but she has inappropriate feelings for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4045 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I have a female friend at workplace (younger and single). These days I felt she has an interest to me thou she know I am married and have 2 kids. I have shown her my family photo too. As things proceeded I understood things are serious and she has it in her mi... (100 words)

My closest girl friend started ignoring me out of nowhere..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4046 days ago

24 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - For a while I've been friends with this girl, probably for 5 months. We started hanging out a lot more, right after she broke up with her boyfriend. I started getting feelings for this girl and she started getting really close to me, but the oblivious guy that I am didn't take ... (330 words)

Will he always be lazy and mess up the house and not want me to be around his friends/

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend and have been fighting non stop for the past week! I am at the point where I can not stand him and that I am starting to hate him! We will be together a year next month. He moved in a few months ago and things was great. Until now he don't want me around the friends ... (289 words)

Booty call or blow off ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for about a month now and I have met one of his friends, but the other night he went to dinner with a large group of friends after a football game { which is fine } but he didn't invite me. It kinda hurt my feelings but I am cool with it the thing ... (165 words)

Do you think is okay to sacrifice freedom in order to make your hurt partner happy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4044 days ago

24 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and I have to admit I was not the perfect girlfriend. Although he has done things that have hurt me deeply, I know I have been worse to him. This Thursday I made a mistake and he left the relationship, I apologized and cried to him to ... (411 words)