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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Boys - Should I call him first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I was abroad for a year when I met a man who I fell for. He left before me - and we both live in the same city but didn't want to do long distance. I recently came back and wrote to him saying it would be nice to catch up. I got an email straight away saying it would be great ... (110 words)

I have a lady friend for 25 years. I don't know why she just disappears from my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (M)

age - Hello, one more question. This lady and I have been friends for over 25 years, great friends. WE were perfect for and with each other. I truly had the love of my life. She said we go together so good, that I was the best thing that ever happened in her life and that she would ... (221 words)

How do you deal with friends with a very different cultural and religious values?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, i am in a serious trouble with myself. how do you deal with friends with a very different cultural/religion values between them? i am having a difficult time with it.. i spend time with them (off course they are my friends, so we go for movies, dinner, shopping... (118 words)

Should I worry about my boyfriend being friends with this cheater?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is friends with a girl who cheats on her boyfriend with a lot of guys. (she even admits it) I'm not trying to judge her but I feel uncomfortable with her being friends with my boyfriend. I've met her and have been around her. She comes off as someone who just... (112 words)

I want to date my step sister but is this okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to date my step sister. I am 24 and she is 25 and she has 2 kids and so do i. I want to tell her but i dont know how. She is so sexy but that is not why i want to be with her. We see a loot in the same whey. we joke about us dating and having sex but i dont know what she ... (78 words)

Help me decode what he meant after the first date.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Just been on a first date, with a nice guy. He said things during the evening about 'if we do get to know each other' making me think he possibly wants to. Then the way it ended was he walked me to my car and said, 'I'll let you stew on it and decide if you want to meet me ... (91 words)

Boyfriend watching mother/son porn,should I be worried???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in relationship with this guy for 8 months( we are same age),and I always knew he likes older women witch i think its normal,but recently I find out he was watching porn mother son type ,where guy is seduce by his mother while dad is at work and all that kind of ... (141 words)

Missionary out, every other position works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so this isn't really an issue, more of a "what the heck is going on" type of situation. quite plainly, when i would have sex with my boyfriend in the missionary position, it would hurt. the odd thing is, it would hurt only around the bottom area of my vagina. lube did... (234 words)

My boyfriend is keeping track of our sex life online. What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I saw on my boyfriends computer history a site to [site url removed per site guidelines]. Curious, I checked further and he has gone to the site several times. [Name removed] is an online site that keeps track of your sex life, the dates you had sex, the time and how long you ... (227 words)

How do I deal with a toxic person who wants to be my friend? I'm reluctant about this situation

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I started hanging out with outside of work. At first I thought she was a cool person however after getting to know her, I realised she's a toxic person (being negative about everything) and has disappointed me a few times (like talking behind my back to make ... (183 words)

He gives me butterflies. He said he is "Falling for me hard" - what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost three months now and I'm the happiest I've been in years, I literally can't remember the last time I was this happy in life. We have a lot of banter but he's also so sweet and caring and is a gentleman deep down. We were seeing each ... (131 words)

I'd like to get back together with him -- could he be still thinking about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up mutually (but I initiated it) 2 months ago. We were having incompatibility issues but my time apart from him has made me miss him terribly. I got back in touch with him recently and he's been quite brief with his replies. I ended up texting him asking if he ... (193 words)

Is it expecting too much to want the occasional call or text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I expecting too much or is he not bothered ? Hi, I really can't work out if this guy is bothered or not. We met on a dating site a few months ago and spoke regularly on thephone . He text me regularly and we seemed to get on really well.We started seeing each other about... (201 words)

My boyfriend has been Facebook stalking his exes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is so loving and affectionate and happy, he always says he just wants me to be happy too and we have good physical attraction. We laugh a lot and have fun and spend most of our free time together as we live together (his choice). I'm wondering why he feels th... (216 words)

My girlfriend ignored me at her party and she's been in contact with an old guy friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have had a few problems lately but we spoke about them yesturday and sorted things out however i keep thinking that I might have made a bad desicion in not breaking up with her. she had a party on halloween and i got very drunk and everytime i went... (303 words)

He wants to meet in person but I'm afraid

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've recently met this guy online who is 8 years older then me. I like him soo much but we haven't met in person yet. On my profile I have pictures of my face not my body, he hasn't asked me for a picture of my body yet and the one that I do have...I was 30 lbs lighter. ... (119 words)

My husband expects me to work full time and perform all of the household chores

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband gets angry at me for stupid things. He wants me to be the traditional 50's wife, to cook, to clean, to do laundry and all that. I'm okay with most of that to a point; I would be more than willing to do it every day if I didn't work. My husband said the month before ... (323 words)

Why does society think that asexuals are either gay or have "broken" DNA?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Good evening everyone. As a young woman, I am intelligent enough to understand that there are different people in this world who do not feel the same as the majority. Some people have no desire for intimacy or romantic relationships. It seems that society categorize asexu... (728 words)

Husband had an affair and then tells me "I chose you". What does that mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, To the ladies out there, if a man had an "affair" and you only finds out about a couple of years later, and he says to you, "I chose you, didn't I?" How would you perceive that? To the men, what exactly do you mean by uttering those words? ... (53 words)

His ex wife now wants my husband to have supervised visits because his daughter seen us have an argument!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husbands ex wife want hem to start having supervice visitation with their 14year old daughter. All because her daughter told her that we had a argument in front of her and that she no longer wants to come over because of that.witch I could understand why she would be upset, ... (377 words)

His ex wife is so much more attractive than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - His ex wife is so much more attractive than me! I'm seeing a man whose been divorced about 4 years. His ex is remarried and they have a very amicable relationship (they share children). His ex wife is very pretty and it makes me feel very insecure. I don't think I'm an u... (160 words)

Controlling gag reflex during oral sex with a bigger man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I love giving oral sex, taste or smell are not a deterrent. My current boyfriend has a larger penis, and I would like to know how to stop from gagging. I know I can use my hand to control penetration, but I would like to know how to handle, desensitize , or train myself t ... (66 words)

Is it OK for a former addict to still smoke pot once in a while?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has a heavy past of drug use. He started at age 16 with pot and it quickly escalated into pretty much every type of drugs and a 4 year addiction to heroin in his 20s. He's 32 now and I've only known him clean. The only thing he still does on an occasional basis is ... (148 words)

Am I wrong about my BF ? Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

5 November 2013 (F)

age - I met my BF through a friend in a blind date. I though he was a whinner and he told me that all his female and ex girl friends were all the time mean with him. Also,his ex wife cheated on him after he took care of her kids and helped pay her house. After his divorce he had a ... (326 words)