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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my relationship over? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 years and I don't know what to do. I love him and couldn't imagine not having him in my life but I know things aren't right. I think he seems fine and happy and I know he loves me but we don't really have sex very often and it doesn't bother ... (231 words)

Please tell me it's possible -- genuine love and good sex together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So the kinkiest, hottest and most bullshit free sex I have ever had, is not in a a serious relationship. I am having it right now, but as I get past 10 years of monogamy (including 2 of marriage) in which sexstarted with co-ersion (as a teen) included infedelity, from year one ... (243 words)

Married 41 years. Any tips to spice up our sex lives please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age - My wife and I have been married for 41 years, i'm 65 and she's 64. We used to have a great sex life but we haven't had sex for a couple of years now and it can get frustrating. Has anyone got any tips to spice up our sex lives? Thanks... (53 words)

He deceived and cheated. I have regrets. Do you have any tips on how I can forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - About 6 months ago, I discovered a man I was seeing was not all he said he was. He was cheating on me with multiple women and deceived me on a level I never imagined possible. He broke my spirit and my heart. I had never felt so low. With lots of time and support from fri... (315 words)

I always feel I'm annoying my FWB when I text him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, it started back in 2010 when I met this boy and we were just friends with benefits.. I started to really like him and he said he didn't want anything more and then he just randomly got a girlfriend with this girl I disliked at the time. So, recently they split up and he got ... (215 words)

Will we be able to maintain our relationship if I move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Recently I got in touch with a man that I met at university years ago. We’ve not been in touch for 8 years. At university, we dated for a short term. I have always had feelings for him. Anyway we are now together. When I got in touch with him recently, I never expected... (275 words)

Uncertain why I'm want to date but I don't feel attracted to any girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupid I am in a dilemma and I'm not sure how to explain. I'm 21 year old straight male studying medicine at local university. It seems like I want to date now but I'm not sure what's stopping me doing so. I tried thinking of reasons yet not any had been a big a con... (651 words)

What can a single guy with a high sex drive do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I really don't like masturbating that much, but because I've got such a high sex drive i have to do it for relief. I can masturbate up to 3/4 times a day, and i get horny very quickly - for example i was sitting at the back of the bus behind a girl earlier today, and she was ... (123 words)

Friends think my platonic guy is my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male platonic friend, he's just like a brother in many ways and we've been like this for a long time. Some of my friends maintain that a male-female platonic friendship isn't even possible and that he actually fancies me. They will point out that he cooks for me, bu... (151 words)

My ex found out about my new guy and the new guy ended things!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyf for 8 years. We broke up in June. I started seeing someone new in August. Things with this new guy were going great. I've totally fell for him and see a long term future for us. I have met up with my ex on a few occasions, as we were together a long time and ... (470 words)

I ended the relationship because my boyfriend called me another woman's name

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years now but i now have a problem that has really upset me. While we were having sex and my boyfriend was about to cum he said "Michelle"...but that isn't my name...i got really upset but he said he didn't remember saying that..he ... (88 words)

What advice would you give to your 20 year old self

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - What advice would you give to your 20 year old self? Financial, relationship and just general life information you wish you had known. My biggest fear is wasting my life, I think about this daily. I constantly feel like I should be doing/seeing more. I don't know what ... (87 words)

Girlfriend loves me but isnt physically attracted to me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend just told me she doesn't find me physically attractive? Said she loves me and is emotionally connected to me, therefore she is into me physically. Said she sees her life with me. But just that it's not a sexual thing. I'm really confused and rather hurt. We have a ... (87 words)

Fiance has a hard time reaching orgasm. How can I help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

17 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, My fiance and I have a great relationship, but there is something troubling me in the sex department. We have sex fairly often and it is very good, passionate, etc. The strange thing is that he has a hard time reaching orgasm a lot of the time. Not every ti... (215 words)

Should I dump my wife? She keeps calling me by her ex's names!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age - my wife intentionally called me by her ex-husbands name and her ex-fiances name(i caught her texting him later after we were married, she claimed she thought it was his mom)I am having a hard time getting over this. should I dump her?... (42 words)

I really like her, but I messed up. I just want to say sorry, but is it too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So I sort of messed up with this girl. See, I'm a firefighter who volunteers. And there's this female EMT, I've known her for 3 years outside of squad. A bit of back story, we dated for almost a month but on both our ends, it wasn't working out mainly because of the age gap.... (838 words)

Can I have some tips please on how to talk to women and how I can better relate to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i struggle with women!!!!!!!! i `am the shy type of guy i`m 24 years old and i never have much confidence when it comes to women i never know what to say or do when i`m with women. There are a few who like me, i think, but i don't know what to do or say when i`m around them... (70 words)

How do I realize that marriage isn't as important as I'm making it out to be?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

17 November 2013 (?) age 36-40 - Hello, all. I regularly give advice here, and now I need help myself... In short, how do I let go of the fact that my life partner and myself may never get married? I am in an extremely happy, close (when I let it be, more to come on that), fantastic-fit relationshi... (690 words)

We had a stupid argument and my ex broke up with me. I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

17 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there hope you all are doing good! I'll probably say random info but hopefully it helps you help me. Well I need a bit of help here. I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now well ex girlfriend cause she broke up with me today. We've gotten into arguments before ... (520 words)