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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it wrong of me to feel like he shouldn't expect me to chip in for the cost of his vasectomy reversal? Things have been getting serious with my boyfriend, we've talked about marriage/kids/etc. He had a vasectomy about 8 years ago. I've read that after 10 years, your chan... (146 words)

He's gone off sex and I don't know why

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner has suddenly gone off sex and I don't know why. We've been together for a couple of years and up until a few months ago we would have sex 3-4 times a week. Now all of a difference its once a week maximum. He says hes tired every night. Goes to bed early and appears ... (182 words)

Is this just cold feet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Do I just have cold feet? I'm finishing a divorce-just waiting for the final decree. It wasn't a good marriage, and I have no feelings left for ex. I've met a wonderful man, at least I think he's wonderful. We've been dating about 6 months and he's alluded to being in lov... (136 words)

How do I break it to her? I want to end this nearly 10 year relationship.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'd like to know how to end a long term (nearly 10 year) relationship? I'm 27 and have been in the same relationship since 18. Initially it was long distance and we saw each other every weekend or other weekend but I inherited a house close to 3 years ago now and she move... (718 words)

Breaking up and what am I entitled to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anybody tell me if you have been living with your partner for 9 years and you decide to break up, would you be entitled to half or any of the property? I'm in this situation and I don't know much about legal stuff. The house is in his name because at the time I wasnt ear... (278 words)

Could someone give me a little pep talk or something about how I am not a bad person for cutting her out of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I a bad person for cutting off an ex who wants to remain friends? My ex of 7 years (we mutually broke up 3 years ago) won't stop contacting me out of the eventhough I am now married and she is engaged. What is really confusing is that she was emotionally abusive towards me d... (200 words)

What's going on? From texting and calling everyday to nothing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey,this is a question that gets asked often. I've been getting friendly with a man. We went on three dates, he called me after all three to tell me how much he enjoyed my company. The last time we went on a date, he called the next day and told me how much he cares about me ... (125 words)

Drug dealer boyfriend. Advice needed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4006 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends together. We've had a serious relationship where we've talked about getting married in the future and having kids. When I met him he tried to hide the fact he smok... (663 words)

I feel like he'll never love me as much as he loved her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I've been having some issues lately and don't really know what to do anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months, he had a very serious girlfriend before me. They had been broken up about 8 months or so when him and I started dating. She was his first love, his ... (247 words)

Can she never trust me again?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I was caught a few times on dating sites by my beautiful girl. I did deny it at first, but now I have owned up to all of them, what she knew about. I have not been on them for a while, but she wont believe that. She is constantly interrogating and cross examining me about it... (179 words)

How much does the family need to know about my relationship with a second cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was younger, my second cousin and I were involved in a physical relationship. When I was 11 and she was 10, we would play doctor and we also started making at that age. When we were older (I was 14 and she was 13), we started having sex. This lasted until she went away ... (201 words)

Should I tell a new boyfriend about my fake teeth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Ok here goes, when I was younger I got best by my bf at the time and he messed my teeth up really bad. It was to the point where they couldn't be fixed so I had to get dentures. Don't get me wrong I love my dentures and ppl that doesn't know me can't tell they are fake. So ... (94 words)

Help me to help my teens

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - This question is directed to teenagers 13-17. It has to do with romantic relationships and with relationships with your parents. Any help is appreciated. My son aged 15 met a wonderful girl this past summer. I really like her and hope that things work out for them, even tho... (318 words)

The ex came back and he has changed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I need some help in my relationship! We have been together for 3 years and were engaged but things are going down heal. He has two kids with another women, his ex just got out of prison for drug charges and since she got out she has been coming around to see the kids, ... (156 words)

I'm hurt he ignored me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi OK so i just don't know what to do in this situation and who's right and wrong really. :/ I was seeing my boyfriend for 5 months. We started off lovely, then after about a month he backed off and said he wanted to take it slow. I respected his space and backed o... (836 words)

I ended it so it should be easy, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all I have been with my ex for a very long time (5 years 1 month 2 days) We split 2 days ago. Its been LDR the whole time, spending weekends and holidays together. We probably average 2-3 days/week together We have both been in our jobs 20 years, and didnt want to... (577 words)

She freaked out a little when I said she was my everything!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm in a real pickle with the girl I love. We have been together for about 6months now and slowly but surely she has become the centre of my happiness. When ever I'm with her I feel electric and alive. I have had a couple of long term partners in the past but the love ... (636 words)

I like her and she likes me, but what about him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like my best friends ex and I know she likes me. They broke up 2 months ago but he is nowhere near being over her and to make things worse I live with him. I don't know what I should do... (43 words)

Nutjob? A-hole? Relationship-phobe? He's just not that into me? A relationship he hasn't told me about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently met up with someone I had been involved with abroad. We hadn't done the long distance thing and just said we'd see what happened when I got back to town (after him). We spent a day together on the weekend, having lunch (he shouted), catching up - it was lovely - he ... (336 words)

Hypocrites who justify cheating.....what's going through their minds?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

12 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - Help me out here. How can a woman accuse her husband of cheating and then justify her own affair as a form of retaliation, or as a means to quench her insatiable thirst for attention? She gets all bent out of shape when she suspects that her husband is cheating, but won't bat ... (172 words)