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Archived questions from: 14 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I unintentionally kind of leading him on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I unintentionally kind of leading him on? I've been seeing a man for about 5 months. He's very sweet and has a lot of qualities I love...but I'm not positive I'm "in love" sometimes I feel like I am, and I feel like if he were to say it, I would say it back. He's allud... (156 words)

How do I get my friend to give him a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I have this friend who has never had a boyfriend before and she feels really bad about it. She's the nicest person in the world to where she's TOO TOO nice. She is pretty but she's self conscience about her teeth being grayed out even tho it's not her fault (she ran into a ... (405 words)

I think she might be the one, but she's with someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - have i found the one? i`ve met this girl 2 months ago n in 2 months we grown to be good friends and i am developing feelings for her trouble is she is already in a relationship but she seems to like me n spends more time with me than she does her bf and i feel like she is the ... (171 words)

I feel as though I am putting in way more time, love and energy into our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony aunts, This is very complicated but here goes. For a little over a year I have been in a long distance relationship. I go to college in one state, and he lives and works in another. When I met him, he was in the process of separation from his wife. Yes, he is... (660 words)

His track record of one-night-stands really showed when we finally got intimate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, Some advice would be great! Around 8 months ago I walked away from my 4 year relationship after not being happy for a long time. It was the right decision for myself and the relationship I feel. Around 5 months ago I met another guy, I wasn't looking for a gu... (480 words)

How do I follow up with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello all, I've got another question that needs answering. Last night I got the phone number of a girl I noticed recently. I noticed her because while I was preoccupied with something she asked to see my phone. I didn't really care as it was locked and I wasn't thinking about ... (220 words)

Does it make any sense to forgive him and try to move on together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have posted here before..I really need my awesome aunt and uncles help again. My boyfriend and I just got back together. We were split up for two months. We split up because one day he just wouldnt return my calls or texts. 4 days go by, I delete him off facebook and tell him ... (256 words)

He treats me like I'm a prisoner

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I've been with my fiancé for 3 years and he has two kids. His youngest just got into pre school so I got a job for the past 3 years he didn't want me to work just to take of the kids and the house and I was fine with that. But since she started school I got ... (245 words)

I'm tired of feeling not wanted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my boyfriend is 18 and I am 20. We've been together for over a year and I live at home with him and his family (might sound weird, but none of us feel that way, we all get along). For several months I feel like he isn't as attracted to me as he used to be as we don't have ... (515 words)

I don't understand why I have no sexual desire for him at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, me and my current boyfriend have been together 4 years, last year we lived apart for the year but still met up and saw each other when we could. (we lived apart for this time because he needed some space and time to see if he wanted to be with me properly and was... (196 words)

We've been tested but my boyfriend doesn't want to use condoms and it worries me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi,I'm a 23yr old female n my boyfriend is 26,we decided to go for an HIV test before we can ingage in sex n the results came back negative,we've been having unprotected sex ever since because even when I suggest we use a condom he tells me he struggles to get a size that fits ... (83 words)

Why is divorce a problem for a liar cheater wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age - My wife started cheating on me around the year 2000. I confronted her and she was extremely sorry, so she made me believe. A few years later she was cheating again and after all the wasted effort I put into salvaging our marriage I knew it was over. The only thing keeping us ... (338 words)

I tagged him on fb and he didn't respond and now I don't know how to act

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a huge crush on a guy who is not in my class in college but he used to show signs of liking me too.even though we dont speak to each other we're frens on fb where he answers only when i speak first.a few days ago i tagged him and some of my friends in a pic where only he ... (107 words)

Am I right to let go because of cultural and religious differences?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advise regarding a coming break-up that I am going to face. My bf and I have been together since 2010, starting off as friends. We both know we will not end together eventually as he is a Muslim and I am a Christian. At one point he asked me if I was willing to ... (330 words)

Husband seems to hate my family and culture

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all. I'm in a interracial marriage for 5 years. My husband is Chinese. Ever since our 2 sons were born, I felt that my husband hates my family even more. I can feel his negative energy when I talked to my family specially my mom. He will mock my family believes in god and ... (294 words)

How do I improve my chances of finding love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Dearcupid, I'm a guy at the age of 24, still single, still obviously a virgin and needed some help on how to improve my one chances of finding love. I should maybe tell a bit about my past so that you get a bit of better information about me as a person. Warning: Wal... (628 words)

How do I flirt via text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to date/ flirt. Believe it or not I have never dated or gone on dates before until now. I have always been in long term relationships that started out as a friendship. I am trying to change my pattern, so now on my 3rd date with this wonderful g... (126 words)

Married 4 years and she's unreliable. Over-spends. She lies to me. what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So my wife and I have been married for four years and during that time we have had out ups and downs. We both work fultime and make close to the same amount. But my wife is very lazy around the house. Despite the fact I work longer hours I also end up doing most of the hous... (484 words)

We are chatting online but I don't know if we are dating and I'm losing patience!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone....I started work about four months ago. And I met a guy there, I was instantly drawn to him. I have been single for more than two years and I have not been attracted to any guy since. Therefore my attraction to this guy is kind of a big deal.... The guy left work... (267 words)

Two potential guys, both with issues -- what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've never had a boyfriend before, nor has anyone ever asked me out or vice-versa. I don't really know how to deal with relationships at all. I'm caught in a terrible predicament at the moment. It started on Saturday when me and a couple of my friends went camping. One of ... (489 words)

She lies to me a lot. It's confusing me. Can I trust her? Is there a future for us together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am stuck and confused. Should I leave my long distance girlfriend of 7 months? So here my story goes.. I like and love this girl a lot, as we were classmates earlier for a year then she took admission somewhere and me somewhere else. We both are miles away from.each other b... (791 words)

Suspicious of how her behaviour has changed since she made a new male friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4025 days ago

14 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Long story short. my LD girlfriend has always been a very confident girl about herself, her looks etc. She is very smart and very sexy too. around 8 months ago, due to cultural differences we were close to break up. Im warm and charming. she was plain and simple a snow queen. N... (318 words)

How can I stop the awkwardness in my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) age 22-25 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a month now, and when I call her we end up being in the call for almost an hour, but most of the time it's really quiet. One time, we went 56 minutes without talking at all, besides saying "hey". Then we start texting each other during ... (89 words)

Divorced in law dating relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

14 November 2013 (F)

age - I'm falling in love with this guy. It is an odd situation, he is my x husbands sister's x husband. We maintained a respectful friendship for many years, I admit I was attracted to him for many years but I never flirted and he never did either. Our marriages ended about 2 years ... (371 words)