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Archived questions from: 6 November, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I try to clear up the misunderstanding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently took an adult-ed class in my town. I have the strong feeling that this woman in the class thinks I'm a freak or something but I'm really not. For one thing, she said to me that she had lost my e-mail address and when I said we could still get together for our mutual ... (250 words)

His reaction to his grandma giving me a gift a concern or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Wanted some help clarifying how to respond to something that hurt me slightly by my boyfriend of 2.5years. Boyfriends grandma is fairly old now, and I get on with her really well. Lovely lady. at her birthday dinner, i saw her using a table bag hook, and said wow t... (867 words)

Any kind words or bits of advice on surviving this breakup?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I'm an regular aunt on this page. I'm in need of some help and kind words myself at this moment. My gf broke up with me a couple of days ago and I'm hurting really badly. She has serious anxiety and has difficulty separating one issue from the next. Which usual... (529 words)

I'm worried about my job in this company!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and uncles. I really could do with some advice. It is a long one, but bear with me, I need to get it all out to get the best advice and I really am at my wits end. So, I work in a small advertising company, I have been here just over a year (about 14 peopl... (1015 words)

How to handle this feeling of helplessness as I don't want to date a separated man?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He has been separated for three years. His wife had an affair and now has a partner and two very young children. They have an 18 year old who lives with her. He assured me when we met that he has no feelings for her and that the... (224 words)

We have some obstacles in our sex life, what's the best way to deal with them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 45 year old male who has a disabled female partner. At the moment, our matress is very soft. We feel that I am far to heavy wwhen it comes to sex. Also, we are cuddling and kissing, but not having much genital sex. What is the best way to get around this?... (58 words)

How do I deal with insecurity in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, I've known my boyfriend for five months now, and in the beginning I was very cautious. He knew he wanted a relationship with me from the start, but I wanted to take some time to get to know each other. I had never had a relationship before. After three mont... (444 words)

Disastrous haircut! How do I deal with it?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this may seem the silliest of issues and I feel very stupid asking for help over such trivial matter. So, I've had my hair cut super super super short yesterday. I thought I'd look good but... I don't!!! I look awful!!! Even my colleagues and friends told me I shouldn't ... (132 words)

Why can't I 'finish' with my girlfriend or even by myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - kinda embarrassed about this but here goes: i bm having trouble finishing during sex with my gf. it's always been a problem for me since i was a teenager. whenever i masturbate, sometimes i cum/finish but sometimes i don't. it's been the same with every woman i've had sex with. ... (322 words)

My friend and my husband are flrting and texting. Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My friend and my husband have been flirting with each other for some time. Texting each other a lot. Her son is also a friend of my son so the situation is very delicate. I noticed my husband watching her if we were in company and following her movements. I noticed she bats ... (359 words)

I've been a little obsessive about looking at my ex's facebook and pictures, I know it hurts my girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

6 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, So I broke it off with my controlling ex girlfriend over three years ago, we were together for about a year and a half and she had a young son from a previous relationship. She didn't treat me well and while I sort of hate her, it's more that I'm angry at myself f... (401 words)

It's getting harder for me to deal with my boyfriends working patterns, does it ever get better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello aunts and uncles. I have been with my boyfriend for several years now and since I've known him he has worked extremely unsociable hours. He's in the entertainment business so his hours always involve evenings, weekends and almost every big holiday. This has always been ... (318 words)

Advise on friends with benefits, please. I have no one to talk to about this.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So if you read my previous post some months ago a guy I am very interested in gave me his number, I texted him went out a few times and within a week of going out we became physical. But now am totally heart broken because after our first time together he tells me that he ... (511 words)

Confused by this man dipping in and out of my life, saying he's not ready for a GF. I like him. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please I need help. I am mature going to school, and working at the same time living my life like any individual do but I can't figure out what is happening to me. I met a guy about a month a go and everything was perfect in the beginning, he was calling me texting me and we h... (423 words)

Unsure if he is "The One"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4060 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years, living with him for one. 95% of the time it is perfect and he is a great guy but I go through phases where I feel maybe he's not 'the one'. I feel like he takes me for granted, rarely wants to make love - often turns me down, do... (130 words)

I need help accepting separate nights out. Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help. I seriously dislike when my boyfriend goes to bars or clubs without me. It's not logical, per se. For example, tonight I went for two drinks with a friend I hadn't seen in 3 years. But that was 7pm and I'm home at 11pm. I also told him I was going. I get hom... (161 words)

I want him to respect me and want me again, but am I pushing him away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - So I've posted here twice the last week about my ex who I've been dating for 2 months. We broke up because I started pressuring him for more of a commitment. He wasn't ready. Weve been fighting for 2 weeks. He finally called me a drama queen and told me its completely over. Af... (253 words)

Why do so many people think I "need" a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My 30th b-day is around the corner and I'm getting more and more frustrated at friends I've had throughout my life. While my circle of friends/acquaintances has changed over the past 15 years, I have always had the same problem: I keep getting told that I need a boyfriend. ... (847 words)

I might be pregnant by my best friend.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I might be pregnant by my best friend. We had a drunken night at his Halloween party and he didn't pull out. I'm kinda excited but scared and so is he. He told me that he promises to be there with me through it all. I believe him. I'm just worried about what will happen to our ... (112 words)

He's great, but part of me feels like I'm missing out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

6 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for three and a half years now, we live together, and our he is close to my family. He is the perfect man for me to marry. He is kind, smart, responsible, and he loves me. The problem is that he is only the second boyfr... (319 words)