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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Has any female been in a relationship and later found out that your boyfriend or husband was gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Has any female been in a relationship and later found out that your boyfriend or husband was gay? How can you tell if he is? I have a suspicion that my almost ex husband may be gay and I'm just curious if anyone else has been in this situation. ... (49 words)

My boyfriend lied and cheated for over a year and got another woman pregnant. Should I dump him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age - Should I dump my boyfriend he has fathered a child with another woman and lied and deceived me for nearly a year he was having sex with both ov us but I had no idea he was cheating neither did the other girl know about me. He told me cause I caught him out in a lie He said he ... (111 words)

Were you ugly as a teen then become a good looking adult?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

19 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - In high school were you ugly and then get good looking when you became an adult? I was a cute kid/preteen until I hit the age of 15. At 15 I got a weird facial structure, acne, dry frizzy hair, and am SO socially awkward. I'm 19 and still have all that stuff. I was so different ... (73 words)

My guy friend has put me in the friend zone, I need a slap back to reality!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I am incredibly, incredibly in love with a boy who has been my close friend for about 4 years now. He is a terrible person, he only thinks i like him but continues to spend the night (sadly he only cuddles me) and other stuff any normal person would affiliate with mutual ... (216 words)

Came home unexpectedly and found husband in strange situation. Is he gay?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

19 November 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Dear everyone, Hi I have been married to my husband since May 11th 2013. We havebeen together for almost 8 years. He has never shown any signs of being bi sexual or gay. Well the other morning he didn't expect me home for awhile but my daughter threw up on the way to school, ... (174 words)

New man that is too protective? Or ex who left me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help,I have a child by my first boyfriend. He cheated and left me when I got pregnant. After a year, he came back and we got back together. After six months together,I left him for because he did not call me for weeks. I have a new boyfriend who shows me he loves me; and ... (173 words)

Am I silly that I don't want to settle for a man I don't love/he doesn't love me but we get along well?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) age 36-40 - Hi agony aunts and uncles. hope can get your opinion or help with this problem. I am with my boyfriend for 8 years now, he is my first relationship, only man I've ever been with. I feel I stayed with him a few years too long. He is not from my country and from Pakista... (350 words)

How do I move on after a divorce which husband cheated and got married so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I had been married 17 years when my (now ex) husband notified me of his intention to file for divorce through a solicitors email while I was overseas for a week. We had been having a bad time and I had tolerated emotional and some physical abuse for years and had no children ... (482 words)

Went through boyfriends phone and found messages to other girls. Is this cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been going out for almost 7 months now. I've never gone through his stuff before but he left his phone behind today and I got curious. I honestly wasn't expecting anything, maybe just a couple messges from his girl-friends. What I found was that he had an a... (280 words)

Boyfriend comes before coworker but how do I not hurt my coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. He's my best friend and I would do anything for him. We've been together for 2 years and have known each other for 3. He's the only one that I want. I have a coworker who has recently been acting different around me. We've known each... (449 words)

I want to be open with my parents and not hide things but I don't know how to talk to them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, here goes nothing. I'm 18 years old and I've been dating this guy for a while now and hes wanting to have a baby, along with that I could possibly be pregnant. Right now I am living at home and my parents have no idea I even have a boyfriend. I am so tired of lying to ... (228 words)

My friends are all busy and have no time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there!! i live in an hostel away frm home... in college... i hav a lot of friends and they are very nice... bt the prblm is that they are all committed and so they tend to ignore me. im single btw. im not saying that i too want a bf but when all around you are busy with ... (82 words)

Boyfriend tells me I'd look better if I lost weight then regrets it and tells me I look fine! What's going on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months. We're in a really happy relationship except for one thing. On occasion he has told me that I'd look better if I lost half a stone. He also tells me frequently (in a jokey way but I see a serious undertone) that all his ex's have ... (223 words)

What do I do if I bump into a guy I used to date while at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm going for a job interview in a couple of days. Nothing fancy, just an office job at a university near to where I was a student. I still have friends there, so thought it would be fun to return. Thing is, there's a guy that goes to the uni that I knew for while onlin... (146 words)

Caught in the past and don't know how to break free

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help and I am not sure what more I can do. I have tried getting over an ex from my past but I cant seem to let go. It makes me depressed and I cut myself off from people. I have tried everything from counselling to dating other guys but its seems I am caught in the past. ... (68 words)

Will my friend feel like I am pressuring him if I tell him my feelings?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

19 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I have a guy friend who I hang out with. He has been so busy with work lately and the last time I saw him was in the beginning of October. We keep in touch by texting. He revealed to me that he is attracted to me and he kissed me the last time I saw him. Recently, I tried to ... (308 words)

We disagree about money and I'm not sure if I trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - hi.I want some advice.Am in a relationship that somehow isnt working out.we both love each other dearly. My bf has parents who dont at all care whether he lives or not. And he is struggling quite a lot.we have been together for almost two years now.I wanted some advice on each ... (192 words)

She says she's really in love with me, but I'm not quite there yet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, need some advice on the L WORD term My girlfriend and I have been together for just over a month and she told me she really likes me in the beginning which was great as I really liked her too. Now she has told me she is practically falling in love with me and hasn... (177 words)

My mom doesn't approve of the man that I love

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am marsha. I am 25 year old graduated last year. I love someone who is younger than me. WE were friends before. I know him past 3 year now. We got close like best friend the end of 3year. Then one fine day he asked me out .. not just dating but proposed me for marriage... (105 words)

Haven't seen him for years but I want him to see me now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, When I was 18 I met this guy on a social networking site we spoke for 6 months day in day out and he came to my city to meet,we just kissed nothing else happened..but I must add however superficial this might sound I wasn't a pretty teen very skinny,lean but now ... (214 words)

Not close to anyone in my family and hate feeling so alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone. I first want to say I appreciate everyone taking their time to read this and give their advice. This is truly a great site. I'm not trying to have a pity party here but this is something I want to get off my chest and maybe even someone can relate to this. ... (349 words)

Worried and confused -- why would he want to be in contact with this ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need some advice and honest opinions. How do you feel about ex's keeping in touch with each other? What's the reason they feel the need to stay in touch? My boyfriend of 6 months still keeps in touch with his ex who he was with for over 2 years. After tell... (231 words)

Pregnancy test negative so why 2 missed periods and terrible cramps?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't exactly a relationship question but maybe someone could help? I've been having cramps off and on for a month now- sometimes just a mild cramp and sometimes to the point where I'm doubled over in pain and have missed 2 periods- after the first one was missed I had a ... (65 words)

Do other people have frenenemies? Or just friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

19 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have friends but I am quite sure that they are mostly frenemies. Things have happened and they have behaved in certain ways and done things that have proven they are not a true friend. Does anybody else feel this way? Is this normal?... (44 words)