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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

1st date with this guy giving me mixed signals

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya! Recently went on a date with a guy last Saturday via online dating. We had a good flow of conversation on the site, not obssessive, then we exchanged numbers. The date was great, I could tell he was a bit nervous but once he saw me I could tell he was attracted to me.... (230 words)

How to show interest in a classy, lady-like way

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - A Friend of mine has introduced me to a chap very gently, then they kind of tried to set me up so he'd have time to chat me up. I was supposed to meet her at a cetain place and a certain hour, and he happened to be there while she was gone! she did NOT reply to my calls ... (212 words)

Help catching up with dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - My dad recently passed, and we were never close, never heard his take on gitls, dating in general. Where things like this easily could've been picked up in school(I didn't even go to a college where you live on campus, maybe I would've grown there), but anytime it seemed that I ... (270 words)

I want to watch my wife give oral...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

25 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me start by saying my relationship with my wife is AWESOME. Sure we have had some ups and downs, but overall it has been AWESOME. When we dated we were active like rabbits and it didn't really matter where we were, we would find a place to do it. Surely things slowed do... (405 words)

Is it sexual frustration or overwhelming chemistry? Should I go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone!!!! I have been single for a couple of months now. Me and my ex broke up mutually (i wanted to break up for a while before we actually did). Since we broke up though i made the decision to stay single for a while (i have had 3 long term relationships and neve... (427 words)

What started as FWB turned into LDR but he's blowing hot and cold

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am not sure what to do in this situation. Met a guy this summer in July. Since I was moving 8 hours away in August, I wanted to try to keep this a friends with benefits arrangement, but per usual, feelings took hold. We hung about 3-4 times a week before I left, mostly to ... (400 words)

Pregnant and my boyfriend messages his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of nearly two years has been texting his ex behind my back, I caught him at a glance by seeing her name on Facebook I said nothing but when he was sleeping I looked the messages are harmless when sober but some are when he was drunk and they are him saying he loves ... (148 words)

My boyfriend tells his best female friend that she is pretty and they talk about graphic sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for around six months now and we are very happy. He has a female best friend that he is very close to and says how much he loves her. He openly admits they talk about sex quite grafically and tell eachother when they are horny, what turns them on ... (79 words)

I'm pregnant with his child. Should I tell his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - just over 4 years ago I had an affair with a man who was married, it was very brief and it only lasted a few months. I then moved on and met a man who I eventually married and we had a son together bet we split up a year and a half ago. A few months ago this same man messaged... (205 words)

How do I show him I"m interested without making our friendship awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im starting to really fall for one of my close friends. Were together all the time, we share the same group of friends and I was never interested in him in this way but a few weeks ago at our friends halloween party he said goodbye to me and when he kissed me on the cheek it ... (230 words)

I would like more sex from my partner!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 45 year old male who is engaged to a disabled 57 year old lady. I am also a carer as a look after her a lot during the day. We also have professional carers that come in most of the week. We have been engaged since 10 October 2009. Unfortunately, my partner went ... (175 words)

We know the relationship will end, so why would he take some of what time we have left for travel?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is here as an exchange student. From the beginning, he made sure, that what he can certainly give is this one semester. After that, he has no idea what will happen. There was a chance he might stay here for internship, he might go to the US, etc, there were many ... (342 words)

How could his kissing someone else have helped with my trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. In this time I have suffered a bit of anxiety which has led to me being insecure and distrustful and spying on him and his internet history, accusing him and being quite needy and creating drama in general. God I sound like ... (430 words)

Am I being too insensitive to his feelings or is he too insensitve to mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Here is my issue, and maybe I'm being too sensitive and insecure. I am pregnant by my boyfriend of 2 years who has lived a few hours away. He moved in with me a week ago and ever since then its seemed so different. He got a job here in my state but its only part time so on ... (195 words)

Sex issue, possibly? Want some reassuring words I guess.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice as to whether I overreacted or if he was throwing hints because I'm feeling kind of stupid and inadequate. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We're both in our early 30's. Our sex life has been generally good except for me riding him. I've... (855 words)

Traits of the zodiac signs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - anyone good with zodiac signs! Can you tell me about Sagittarius men and women! What there traits are, what there sexual traits are, what sagittarius men like in a women, what are sag men and women lile in bed? Just please tell me anything you know of them ... (48 words)

Am I being taken for a mug? Should I be less intrusive? Am I too young to play the 'stepmother' figure? Can my feelings for this man actually get past all of these issues? Should I demand more from life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently (about six months ago) got with a new boyfriend who has a three year old child. I just want a bit of advise: He moved/ separated from his ex (mum of the child) about ten months ago and moved into his own place. 1. He still has pictures of them all toge... (936 words)

She treats her friends better than me. I'm tired of doing all the giving. Time to end things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Guy, I need some help. I'm a 24 year old young man who's about to finish up college in May. I'm at a point where I'm trying to make the decision to cut certain people out of my life because I don't need any unnecessary stress. This includes a girl I've been on and off ... (419 words)

I have a chance to be with someone nice and I don't seem to want it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm sitting here and i hope that i can get some advice as i don't know who to ask. I'm 26 and apart from a 3 year relationship, i'm just being honest, i have been with a lot of women. I look after myself and am good looking and i love going out to bars and meeting girls an... (368 words)

LDR--am I just being a lonely jealous girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been best friends for several years. We met online back in 2011 and were just good friends, later that year we finally met and knew we were both interested in each other. He lives in Iowa and i'm in minnesota. We were off and on for a while, but I always ... (293 words)

Tiny sand-like scabs in my bed after sleeping with a guy...what is it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sleeping with this guy for a while, and tonight he came over to visit me before he goes on a trip for 6 weeks. So we slept together. But after he left, I noticed my bed was full of what looked like sand at first. I picked up one of the larger pieces, and upon further ... (144 words)

He just broke up with me and I don't think he gave any thought to my feelings

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone. I hope you are alright. So I Had this situation where, my close cousins that grew up with me(almost like my brothers cause I call their mom "mom" too since mine died 13 y.a and she is my mother's sister). Obviously they have a cousin from their dad's side and I ... (256 words)

Really starting to fall for one of my friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

25 November 2013 (F)

How do I ask my professor out - we're the same age

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

25 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - So it’s the end of the semester and there are only a few classes left. I want to ask my professor on a date. She’s my age if not younger. I’m in my 30’s and going back to school full time. We’ve spoken outside class and she seems interested. She knew when I stopped by my ... (237 words)