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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex and I are back together but he was dating another girl during our break and I wonder things like if he "loved" her and how serious they were

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - so my ex and i have started to rekindle things a bit. we have been broken up for about 4 months and i know through friends that he had a brief girlfriend sometime during the time we were broken up. i cant help but think about that other relationship he had. i know we both have ... (113 words)

Should I just wait until he's in a space where he wants to contact me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I met this cool guy through a friend. Im 21, he's 23. She sort of hooked us up, we hadn't seen each other in person but we saw pictures of one another (she showed me), and she got us two talking as I thought he was good looking (in pics) and vice versa, so obviou... (1269 words)

My husband won't have sex with me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband won't have sex with me. Been together 8 years, married for almost 1, he's 9 years older than me (I'm in my 20s, he's in his 30s). Our lives and relationship is pretty good EXCEPT this damn problem. About a year before the marriage our sex life started waning. ... (676 words)

How can I be friends with an ex lover ????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age - I am unhappily married, live under the same roof as husband but we each have our own bedrooms. I have been having an affair with a man in his mid 40's for 3.5 years. He also is married but separated, he lives very close to me ( within 5 minutes) so it is easy to see each othe... (991 words)

Questions on sex and HIV...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just read the stats about HIV and I'm shocked as too how many people were diagnosed in 2012. I have a few questions.. 1. How does a man get HIV off a woman? It seems there wouldn't be enough fluid exchanging. 2. How common is it to get it from giving a man oral se... (111 words)

How do I find out if my crush is interested without jeopardizing our work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this question. I've been dating somebody that is completely 'my type' from the way he looks, to his hobbies and dress sense for around the last 5 months, everything has been great. However, I have recently change... (575 words)

If he's happy then why is he still on dating sites?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am hoping someone (preferably with experience of this) could shed some light on my problem. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a bit more than three years. He says he is happy. If he is happy, then why does he keep going to dating sites, saying he`s single and ... (163 words)

He tells me he loves me but he's not here for me when I need him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 year old girl and at the minute I'm just lost, hurt, upset and don't know what to do. 10 months ago I got with my boyfriend. He's quite abit older than me, he's 27. Everything has been great really happy then a few weeks ago argument a started over silly things but ... (263 words)

My boyfriend wouldn't be sending flowers to his ex girlfriend every year on that date, would he?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw that my boyfriend has been forwarding himself an email about a reminder notice to send flowers the last couple of days . I had seen it quickly over his shoulder and then took a peek yesterday which I don't normally do! The flowers were originally sent 3 years ago today. ... (178 words)

I'm starting to believe all lesbians are of the lower class and are unmotivated without ambition. Where are all the stable single lesbians?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is my dating pool so tragic? It's like all the women I've tried to take serious were going nowhere in life. I don't judge never did but today I realized they all have the no drive in common to be and do something greater in life. My first chic was a lottery clerk. She ... (239 words)

Never been in a relationship and don't know how to start

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

20 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and am in med school. And till now i have never been in a serious a relationshir its not like am afraid or anything its just that am afraid of commitment. And since i was 17 my the longest relationship is string of one night stands. But this year i met this girl she is ... (162 words)

Girlfriend cheated but then chose me but I'm wondering if she should have

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

20 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my gf of 3 years have been have a rocky couple of months. 1st of I suspected she was cheating on me and after checking her whatsapp message logs I found out she was seeing this guy and even having sex with him. The guy knows about us and she did admit to loving me to him ... (804 words)

How can I fix this big mess I caused?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

20 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Please read this before you jump into conclusions that anyone is over reacting thank you http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-like-her-but-i-messed-up.html So I messed up again. I saw someone come down my street with what looked like her car. I didn't think anything of... (640 words)

The guy I'm dating is mentoring a girl and I don't feel comfortable with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

20 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to (and now dating) this guy since school started, and things are definitely moving forward. We hang out regularly but still engage in our own friends and interests. He shares a lot with me but there's one thing that has been bothering me. He is a "big" in a ... (241 words)

How do I deal with my mother's illness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

20 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - My mother recently fell ill un-expectedly 3months ago and it has all just hit me all at once in the last few days and I feel really low at the moment and don't know how to deal with it. Any ideas? Thanks for reading. ... (50 words)

I recently found a bunch on naked pictures of my wife's privates on her phone!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4049 days ago

20 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, i need your help...i recently found a bunch on naked pictures of my wifes privates on her phone. we have been married for 9 years and she has never done anything like this. i checked the dates on the pics and they have been taken over a period of 2 months ... (239 words)