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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

2 months later and I can't get over him. I feel alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all So I registered for a dating site and met this one guy after a really long time. Finally found someone I thought I liked. We met and hit it off immediately. We got along really well and he would be really eager to meet me and texted me all the time. After a month i ... (334 words)

Should I stay at the job I'm at or try to get a job at the place I really want to work at after I get my degree?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This isnt so much a relationship question, but more of a question thats definitely going to help my life out business wisr. Here is my dilemma. My man is a manager at WalMart, and I want to pursue the same thing. Please dont tell me hos my goals are low. I love retail, and work... (239 words)

I messed up and I'm too scared to text or call him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Well ok once again there was these two guys I was talking to at the same time one guys name is Kyle and the others name is phashaud well me and phashaud been talking on and off for a while now and I've started to love him very much, now Kyle on the other hand I only like him ... (270 words)

Is it acceptable for other girls to seek comfort from my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3997 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it appropriate for other girls to come to my boyfriend for comfort and advice? My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Early on in the relationship, he told me he didn't have many female friends and didn't have much contact with girls in general. However, during ... (434 words)

Unresolved issues with my father -- should I just forget about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents got divorced when I was around 12 years old. My parents sold their house, and I moved into a new one with my mom and grandma. My dad got his own place and I would spend time there every other weekend. A few years after my father moved to Florida when I was 16.It ... (397 words)

Now that we're married I find he has habits I can't tolerate

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've been feeling so unsettled since I married two years ago. Didn't live together b4 and now some things annoy me terribly. He drinks every day. I didn't realise how anxious I'd be about this. He's the kind of guy who can't have a few so I worry how many a ... (230 words)

I just want a girlfriend but all I get are mixed messages

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

23 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - This happens to me a lot and I'm getting sick of it. What can I do to stop this from happening? It doesn't seem to happen to any of my guy friends. My guy friends just give me s**t and tell me I'm never going to get laid. When I try to approach a girl, she'll either ignore me... (596 words)

My husband won't live by the same standards he sets for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is a jealous person and I havent seen my cousin in 2 years as she drinks, has guys at her flat and is on facebook. These are not the kind of things that interest me but I did pop in and see her before I met my husband as she was always there for me. I havent been ... (118 words)

He pushed me away but now he's behaving like the scorned lover

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi So I posted a few weeks ago about breaking up with my boyfriend. He was acting distant, not making much effort then decided to ignore me when i tried to talk to him about it so i ended it. Unfortunately we have to work together and he is making it incredibly difficult.... (422 words)

The guy who had a crush on me doesn't even want to be friends anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (?) age 26-29 - Okay so I'll tell my problem as a story just to make things easier. "Annie" was friends with "Wilbur" since freshman year of high school. Annie liked another guy named "Elias" who pretty much ruined her life Sophomore year by telling everyone she was crazy and a stalker ... (527 words)

Why is fiancee's mother so against us living together?

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

23 November 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Due to my circumstances to save money for a wedding. Her mother doesn't care if we make it or not. Is that fair? My fiancée is afraid to come out of her room to be around her mom. Because her mother caresses her face behind her back like a baby. My fiancée is 33. Why is she so ... (106 words)

I think my boyfriend is still using porn, and it's affecting our sex life. How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello 2 Everyone! Two days ago I discovered my fiancee still uses porn. It was so disgusting and frustrating for me, still he lies. The problem is that is impossible for him to ejaculate when we have sex, even though is always horny. He says he has stopped watching but I d... (104 words)

Is he not interested in me? How can I get him to step up his game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm interested in this guy but I don't think he is as interested in me. My gut instincts and his actions (to me) suggest that he doesn't reciprocate my enthusiasm. Back story: I'm in university and he used to go to my university two years ago but we never spoke to each ot... (427 words)

My boyfriend is smothering me, while I support him! How can we get back the relationship we used to have?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a relationship with my partner for little over a year. Prior to our relationship we were very close friends for 5 years. Due to us being friends for so long, we knew each other incredibly well. My partner had a big circle of friends and a great sense of humour. I ... (388 words)

Am I not good enough? Boyfriend didn't get turned having a shower with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I just showered together and through out that whole time he didn't get hard. He didn't even touch me (which is unusual). And then like 2 hours later I was fully dressed and he cracked a boner and when I asked what over he replied 'just thinking about you.' What ... (58 words)

How do I keep an older man interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy who is around 8 years older than me. Hes a great guy, has all the qualities I'm looking for but IDK how to keep his interest. I feel like he's losing interest even though he says hes not he's just been a little busy with work, and the holidays and a ... (128 words)

Advice With Long Distance Relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short, I met this girl, She's just about one of the hottest girls I've met, and we started talking about 4 weeks ago when she added me and we have been talking on the phone a lot lately. Yesterday was the day we got in a relationship. The state that she... (288 words)

Why can't I seem to he over my first gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with who I was convinced was "The One". We were together for 6 months and 8 days. It was the happiest I've ever been. I loved her more than life itself. She always called me on my break. And we always talked. I didn't smother her and I wasn't constantly ... (205 words)

Boyfriend keeping my children a secret from his family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a huge problem. I have been dating a guy long distance for 2 years. I met his family a while back and I could clearly tell that he had not told them I was divorced, with 2 kids. I didn't make a big deal about it but moving forward, I'm now pregnant and he has moved to my ... (271 words)

How to stop worrying about losing my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I've dated many guys before him but he's the first guy I actually want a future with and sometimes I fantasize about marrying him someday (but I'll never tell him that, that would probably freak him out haha). I just feel like we ... (415 words)