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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can girls be good enough to have sex with but not good enough to date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy and I really really like him and he talks to me all the time and is really sweet to me and also he's so good looking. I have known him for a very long time but we hadnt talked for over a year then he finally started talking to me again out of no where. He ... (221 words)

He has made me so angry! How can I make myself calm down?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am so angry and don't know were to begin with this....I will explain as best I can so please be patient... my boyfriend has an ex wife and two kids of 15 and 17. I am finding it hard to trust him lately as he keeps going out for hours and I get no phone call from him fo... (613 words)

He acts like he wants me to be jealous, but does he?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (M)

age - My co-worker was a friend before starting working for same company, we don't work in the same program most of the time but on the occasions we have met up he always hugs me hello and goodbye. we had one sexual encounter. he tells me that he likes someone and wants me to be ... (112 words)

Should you reveal what you did in the past?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - What does everyone think about revealing a shameful episode of cheating on a previous partner to a future partner? If cheating took place in a long , supposedly committed relationship, and went on for a few months then is this something that needs, or should be told to a fut... (128 words)

He won't help clean our apartment!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay everyone. I need some help! My boyfriend and I fight a lot because he will not help me our apartment clean. Right now it is so gross. Dishes everywhere, clothes and trash in the floor. Food all over the counters in the kitchen. I stopped cleaning to see if he got tired ... (166 words)

Does this mean she wants a threesome?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys and gals I am new here and just have a question about my sex life with my girlfriend I was wondering I can get your thoughts on. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now. Shes the mother of my two kids 4 and 7 months. Been through our fair share of ups and down... (304 words)

Does he like me a bit? How should I flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - There's a guy at my drama group and he was flirting with me last Thursday, and I caught him looking at me the week before. He kept touching me (not in the weird way) and I felt really quite special and important. This is because I've never been in a relationship before and ... (213 words)

Is dripping in sweat normal when you both have sex together??

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I are dripping in sweat when we have sex together. I mean, it is as if somebody sprayed a hose on both of us. Dripping wet in tons and tons of sweat!! Lol Is this NORMAL at all? And... we usually fog up all the windows in my bedroom!!!! The sex is ... (80 words)

Do I have feelings for him or is it just sexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (?) age 30-35 - hi I met this guy twice and I have never felt this way about anyone. we met at a convention last year and not the best of first impressions I was extremely attracted to him and slightly drunk. my first words your stunning and that's how it started ! we hit it off pretty quickly ... (400 words)

We've been having NSA sex and I'm confused

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Female, 17. Soooo...there's this guy and we've been having sex on and off (no strings attached) for about a year and some change. I know he's having sex with other people...and I'm not. It kind of makes me jealous that he can just go around having sex with other girls and I can ... (86 words)

Why did my friend behave this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does this girl behave this way? So I have this friend she's been calling me her best friend for years and a few months ago she has been hanging out with this girl and she sees her more than me. She never let me see her niece but she's let this girl see her. She ... (282 words)

I don't want to be a fool and develop feelings if she's just being flirty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 November 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! I could use some advice. I'm 22 male. I met this girl(25f) in one of my courses. I had noticed her checking me out and I also flirted with her a little bit. We ended up a group partner for the assignments. When I met her for the assignment first time, she was very flirty ... (309 words)

I'm attracted to a guy who isn't my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So, this is my first post and I could really do with some advice. I'm twenty years old and have been working in a busy office for about six months. I'm a very quiet and shy person and barely talked at first, I'm only just starting to feel comfortable enough to join in the gene... (617 words)

I have a great fear of betrayal. Do you feel the same way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (M)

- My wife and I were discussing the past and the issue of trust came up. Specifically, when we met, the circle of people that I trusted could be counted on one hand and within that circle was one person I felt would never betray me. To this day, over twenty years later, this ... (226 words)

We met for cofee and seemd to get on as friends, but I've not heard frm her since, is she really busy or just not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Met this woman (online site) a month ago, we met and had coffee, seemed to get along and talk and have things in common, she is just looking to meet new friends, as am I. we are still both on the site, but dont talk on it.. A few days after meeting she sent me a te... (464 words)

Do guys care if a woman looks crappy after having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

2 November 2013 (F) age 51-59 - Question. Do guys get turned off when a girl looks like a great, big mess after having sex? She starts out looking killer but then her hair looks like this big frizzy mop from hell, mascara smudged all over her face... Etc. How do guys feel about this? Do they like it? ... (85 words)

I hate having sex with my bf any hellppp???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together on and off for the past 4 and a half years and i hate having sex with him. we are soooo different i like agressivness sexually and he likes gentleness. he only lasts about 2 minutes which is so frustrating for me because i already cant ... (186 words)

Any ideas on how to create the perfect fantasy for my boyfriend while we are away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (?) age 51-59 - I could use your ideas everyone. Me and my guy are going out of town soon. We are going to be spending a weekend away. I want to plan something brilliant for him while we are away... something to do to really blow him away while we are in the hotel room... What scenar... (145 words)

Nineteen. Never had a boyfriend. How will that affect my future relationships, when I do start dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So basically I'm concerned that not having boyfriend experience will cause me to have a horrible first relationship. I'm not saying I wanted to have a boyfriend in high school simply for the sake of having one, but I just wish I had had that experience to learn how relation... (582 words)

I still hold some resentment for what she did, one day after we broke up. How do I deal with these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 November 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - let me start out that i have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. i love her so incredibly much. However, something happened not long ago that is really getting in my head and i don't know how to deal with it. my girlfried always had this "friend" who sh... (449 words)